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Zonefree:
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She never loved you.

You caught her with her real boyfriend. As long as she's concerned, you're just a "means to an end".

The money you gave her to go see her father, she used it to take her real boyfriend out for enjoyment while you're busy taking photos.

You lose. Move on.

PlutoChief:
That aircraft wey be like fighter jet.

Please find it and sell to us 🙏 n Nigeria. At least e go better pass the rented and painted one.

Kalatium:
Unpopular Truth: No Woman Has the Power to Friendzone You — You Friendzoned Yourself

Let’s be real for a second, guys. The whole "friendzone" talk? It’s tired.

How many of you have said:

"She friendzoned me after all I did for her."
"She just wants to be friends, but I thought we had something."

Bro. She didn’t friendzone you. You friendzoned yourself.

Here’s how 👇


She Told You She’s Not Interested… But You Stayed

She told you:

"You’re like a brother to me"

"I’m not ready for a relationship"

"You’re so sweet, I don’t want to lose you as a friend"

And instead of saying “Cool, all the best” and moving on, what did you do?

You stayed.

You started texting her more.
You listened to her talk about other guys.
You were there every time she cried, ranted, or got bored.

All while hoping she would "see your worth someday."

That’s not loyalty. That’s self-inflicted pain. That’s emotional simp work.

You Have the Power to Say “No” Too

Here’s the cheat code:
You don’t have to accept her friendship.
You can reject the offer. Politely. Calmly. Respectfully.

Being her friend isn’t your punishment—it’s your choice.

And if you know you want more than friendship and she doesn’t, respect yourself enough to walk away.

Friendzone = Lost Time + Emotional Damage

Let’s break down what staying in the friendzone really costs you:

Your self-respect

Your time (months or even years wasted)

Your peace of mind

Your opportunities with women who actually like you

While you're giving her your attention, someone else is getting hers—and he didn’t have to send "good morning" texts for six months straight.

Hard Truth: She’s Not the Problem — You Are

A woman who says “I’m not interested” is being honest.
You staying around and secretly hoping she’ll change her mind is delusion.

And truth is, if she saw you as a man she wanted, there’d be no confusion. No mixed signals. No waiting game.

So stop blaming her for "friendzoning" you.
Start blaming yourself for volunteering for a role you don’t want.

Men Who Know Their Value Don’t Get Friendzoned

✅ A high-value man doesn’t settle for being an emotional support character.
✅ He doesn’t play therapist hoping for sex in return.
✅ He doesn’t hang around hoping she’ll "see the light."

He walks away the moment the terms don’t align with his vision.

Because peace of mind > potential that never materializes.

What Do You Think?

Have you ever put yourself in the friendzone and regretted it later?

Is it possible for a guy and girl to be just friends when one likes the other?

What’s the cleanest way to walk away from a friendship that’s not serving you?


Let’s talk 👇

Mariangeles:
If you gave him a valid reason for cancelling, then good riddance, otherwise, play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Babanlagenius:
Good news for citizens in a failed country.

VisibleDreamz:
Spontaneous Ejaculation/Orgasm During Stress

Spontaneous ejaculation or orgasm can occur without sexual stimulation, triggered by emotional stress or nervous system overactivity.

Common examples include nocturnal emissions (wet dreams) in stressed men, and rare spontaneous orgasms in women linked to anxiety or nerve hypersensitivity.

Medical Conditions Causing Spontaneous Ejaculation/Orgasm

Normal phenomenon: Sleep-related orgasms (nocturnal emissions).

Disorders:

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder (PGAD) — unwanted genital arousal and spontaneous orgasms.

Seizure disorders (orgasmic seizures) — orgasms triggered by certain types of epilepsy.

Spinal cord injuries could cause reflex orgasms from loss of normal nerve control.

Stress-induced nerve overactivity could cause spontaneous ejaculation or orgasm during extreme stress

Pelvic nerve hypersensitivity, medication effects, or nerve compression by tumors can also trigger spontaneous orgasms.

ggood:
Pain went straight to kuvuki land

Adeshi:
At first i thought it was stress, but yesterday, i was home throughout and it happened again. This is like the 4th time this year. I'm really concerned and i do not mind any advice as to what could cure the problem. I called a friend of mine this morning to request to see a urologist, he said i might have to wait 2-3 months to see one.

I do not want to wait another 2 months, my marriage is just 2years and my wife is starting to worry too.

A 34 years old married man still betwets. I need help please.

BRIGHT180:
Let Bako current age = x
five years ago Bako is x-5

Let Mother current age = y= 35yrs
Five years ago mom's age was 6times son's age
y-5 =6(x-5)
35-5= 6x-30
6x= 60
x=10
I) x = Bako current age= 10
From their current ages mom will ALWAYS be 25 years older than Bako, therefore b = a +25, a and b now variables a for bako age , b for mom's age.

ii) Mom's age for Bako at 5 ,a =5, b=?
b= 5+25 =30

iii) Bako age for mom at 50, b=50, a=?
50 =a +25
a= 50-25 = 25

iv) Mom's age for Bako at birth, a=0 b=?
b = 0+25 = 25

v) age difference= b-a = 25

Just in case your younger one ask for explanation

Wizzyonyxphoenix:
Happy sunday guys. Please I seriously need your help. I produce way too much urine, especially at night. I practically wake up every 30 minutes to use the restroom. It's too much.

The worst part is that I'm merely EIGHTEEN!!! Please how do I curb this anomaly guys? I dread to think what would happen if i enter UNI and live in the hostel with my fellow guys. They might tag me a criminal, or worse, I might be attacked by one during one of my endless trips to the bathroom.

You guys should help me abeg.

KingTom:
21st Oct 2022 indeed

ethicallyright:
Do not let anyone blackmail you for being a promiscuous young woman. That is the trend and is celebrated by thousands of Erica's fans across Nigeria. At least, you have your hymen intact and your vagina sealed for Commissioning . Many , if not 85% lost theirs to men without purpose and ambition. 1% were deflowered by rapists and 13.999% by healthy cucumbers ,after a thorough self-service exercise got out of control. It is a rare feat to be in the almost non-existent 0.1% class these days.

If you have ever seen a female dog or goat sex starved then you'll understand that nature created women to be inordinate sex cravers. A research conducted by my humble self revealed that 96% of women aged 16 -35 are not satisfied with their sexual relationships.


The only solution to your problem is difficult. I wouldn't even admonish my sister to take such advice. It is what makes the 21st century lady's body itch at the sight of a tall bearded man , Italian Fashion, Swiss watch or German Car. The antidote to your misery and indecision is circumcision , otherwise called , Female Genital Mutilation in the Feminists parlance.

In life you will always find someone aesthetically superior to your current partner . The choice to prove your discipline or indiscipline rests on your shoulders.

Ustec:
20,000 plus side hustle

God bless Nigeria.

Rosay15:
...
I can say the song really make sense, what I don’t understand is why people criticize him?.
He is just being real but Nigerians are fu*king hypocrite.
Sinners judging sinner cuz they sin differently.

tabithababy:
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Haaaaa. Fake online community health officer

Bromatan that contains bromazepam is an antihistamine for cough and catarrah Or don't you know bromatan, lexotan a nd talen contains bromazepam from different pharmaceutical company


Please be sure of what you write online and here you are prescribing diazepam just like that


Op, just try and go on vacation , also visit the hospital so the doctor can see to your high BP

MedicH:
You're very likely having panic attacks though I don't know why. You should try diazepam for sleeping. Very effective. Bromatan is an antihistamine for runny nose and cataarh and has an unlabeled effect as a sleeping pill. It is not a first choice therapy for sleeping. Try Valium (diazepam) one tab at night for 7 days then come back here.

kkboy:
Instead of waiting for UTME, why not look for a good school that offers A Level.
Study for A levels and try both UTME and direct entry next year.
You will look for me to thank me.
But why Medicine?

TerryMcGinis:
will they not charge me?

TerryMcGinis:
Am 26+, male and have been suffering from constipation for a long time now, since 2007/08 if I remember correctly, it started as mild constipation, but then it started getting worse.

I'd go for days, 4/5 before I would be able to go to the loo...and even when I finally go, I don't get to empty my bowel completely, its just little that comes out, my stomach is always bloated, even when I haven't eaten, p.s I used to have a flat tummy. But nowadays my tummy is always swollen. After managing to go to toilet, I still feel the need to go, because I just pass out very small quantity of faeces no matter how much I eat, and how much I strain to push them out, it doesn't change.
I've tried incorporating fruits and I drink lots of water, I drink two satchet of water or more sometimes, I've reduced fried meals still no change.

I believe I'm suffering this ailment because as a teen I was always fond of indulging in late night meals, heavy meals like especially beans and bread, and my theory is that I've over worked my stomach, and upset the balance, I'm really suffering, as I type I'm not at ease at all...I'm always hearing noise in my stomach, lest I forget, I have been experiencing symptoms of ulcer for four to five years now.

Practitioners in the house I need your help on how to clean my colon of old faeces stuck inside my intestines, so I can be free, and feel light again, its impossible for me to lose weight because of it, when I don't eat well, I would get constipated for long term. And when I visit the loo, I would pass out very tiny stuff.

Please help a brother if you know anybody that has experienced this before and found a solution to it. God bless you all.


Front page pls: mods. I beg you in the name of God.

Lilimax:
For eight years, no Microbiology student of University of Nigeria Nsukka(UNN) could emerge with First Class Honours, until 2012, when Ojobor Chidozie came, saw the situation and conquered it, emerging the best graduating is his department with first class. He went head in his Master’s Degree to clinch 5.0 CGP. But Chidozie, now a lecturer at the UNN, was not a typical book worm. He socialized, participated in campus politics and was an executive in his fellowship. How did he achieve this feat? In this interview* with JOSEPH DINWOKE of BROJID.COM, he shares his secrets.

Read on…

Tell us a bit about your sojourn on campus. How was the sojourn?

It was not an easy ride; but it was memorable and quite experiential.

There are times when students in a bid to study hard, dissociate themselves from other people so much that their lives are all about reading and they know nothing about other things. What do you think about this?

I think stereotype is not a good thing. Not even in this get age; this age of civility. But you understand that what is obtainable now is that when it’s time to socialize, students do it effectively. When it comes to football matches, they do it effectively. They do every other thing right but academics.

Stereotype is not a good thing but when you learn how to things at the right time, you won’t be steroyped.

This is the problem. Some students attend fellowship when they are supposed to be reading; that’s wrong! I’m a Christian but that’s wrong. You should your allot time well and that basically settles every other thing. When you allot your time well, you don’t have to be a triangular student. I was not a triangular student. I am even among those that organized my departmental picnic in final year.

When I was an undergraduate, I was a departmental union president, an executive in my fellowship; yet by God’s grace, I still came out the best graduating student in my department after about eight years of no one getting a first class.

So, these things are very obtainable but they have to do with your ability to allot your

bonnyhope:
I want you to educate some of us here
Please tell me ...
I want to know and i believe others would also benefit