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ideology:
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IMO, there are not the same, firstly, no 2words can be the same.
Dating is a gradual process of involvement; getting to know one another, eg having someone you relate with often, in that case you are getting to know more about the person each time you meet (conciously or unconsciously)

Relationship -on the other hand would involve some agreement eg, lets be friends, the parties agree on their terms. The relationship there is friendship

Be my wife, she agrees, you map out your compromise :pay her dowry. Here the relationship is Husband and Wife [/color]

From your definition, can someone sleep with the person he is dating ?

Rapsodee:
In my opinion,I think Dating comes before Relationship,during dating you get to be spending time with each other and you know each other more b4 entering a Relationship.... what do u think?

Define dating and define relationship.... una like semantics too much.

Is having sex with a lady different from sleeping with a lady Or may be I should use the f word.

Twaci:
There was this story I heard one time, a guy saw a girl in a shopping mall and approached her. They talked...gisted was more like it and even exchanged numbers.

The guy didn't call back and refused to pick her calls later on. Why?

"She paid my bills -" he had replied.

And I asked myself, so what? But then he finished his sentence. "- it was worth N52, 500"

More to that, another thing that had got to him was the fact that the girl drove off in a sweet ride while he had hailed a taxi.

Thanks for the info Rapmoney, hope guys read and understand this.

. O boy (or O girl), you get that girl number ? Chai, see babe oooo. A beg make I pm you so I fit hook up with that babe. If she fine, na bonus

cyprus000:
[size=15pt]this is the main reason guyz aviod them lyk ebola.
I have dated foreign rich and matured chics and they are very very respectful and submissiv..just know hw to handle handle them.
Same can not be said for naija galz of same class.
They are very uncut,mannarless and arrogant..i have seen many of them in action,they automatically turn the man to the woman of the house.
One in my neigbourhood even brought a suger boy to their home and wen the man complianed,she threw him out, bcs she was the one paying rent,wen he lost his job.
While those in their husband house will make life a living hell for her hobby.
As for me,I can't take shit from any woman.

And I will never feel intimidated by her wealth,cos I control my lyf and will take full responsiblilty of my home,without any help. [/size]

That's the point. There's a similar example to thenone you just gave.
There's this certain man dating a lady and they planned to get married.

They've been living together like husband and wife and one day, the man lowt his job.
The woman now became the bread winner. It wasn't long when the man started washing the plates and cooking. Sometimes he even goes to the market.

One day, the wife cooked a meal and the man complained that salt was too much. She just retorted and said, "whidh money did you bring dor th3 food"

Rapmoney:
So why do men in other climes not having same thinking if it is not a false trashy societal belief held by Nigerian men?

It's good to marry a successful woman. But the unfortunate part is that a lot of women can't handl e success. How many women can still be submissive to their husbands they qre richer than? It's not that easy.

Secondly, not all women are comfortable marrying someone they are more successful than.

I waa told of a very rich woman, who said, "I have a car, I have a house, what do I want a man for?"

machinegundammy:
Hey babe, I play football together with Messi at barca...

Abi I never win her heart ni, I go win her mama heart join self

Poster forgot to mention Barcelona fc or Man U

Pictures...

sweetguy26:
GEJ making things easy for Buhari. Buhari is such a lucky man.

Or rather, BH is chilling down because their ex negotiator is coming.

kowema:
Luck may just smile @p him..I remember once on Oprah Winfreys show wen she invited Billgates to talk...after he did, they called for questiions and peeps wia busy asking how he came about micro-soft, his source of inspiration and all those conventional questions...then a guy asked him ' how did u feel wen u made ur first $10,000,000(ten million dollars)'. Bill gate just looked at d guy, brought out his cheque and signed $10,000,000
For this guy.
I swear d guy fainted ryt there!

. Why wasn't I there?

olaxy2:
This man keep opening his soak away mouth just to remain relevant. When people like this get education just to do the unreasonable with it, u begin to consider those that aren't privilege to get it.

Is abuse all that you people have ? It's pathetic.

ilugunboy:
Really, until AIT can disclose those that sponsored those hate campaign documentaries........that TV station is undeserving of any form of recognition by GMB.

They don't need Booharis recognition to do business

Hmm.

We saw it coming. After all, Buhari said he stabilise the oil price. Sai.

olayitoyiwonuola:
A group of women from the Rido community in Kaduna State, took to the streets on Wednesday, February 19, 2015 to publicly complain about their husband’s s*xual weakness, asking that they start performing their matrimonial duties or face mass divorce.
The women, who were assembled at the NDA Juncti on in the state capital, blamed the Kaduna Refining and Petrochemical Company (KRPC) for their husband’s inability to perform as a result of the chemical waste and fumes from the company into their environment.
Speaking to newsmen during the protest, some of the married women complained bitterly that some of the men in the Mararaba Rido community were impotent due to the toxic waste from the KRPC.
They revealed that their husbands suffer weak erection and infertility, while the women suffer miscarriage and other health complications.
A[b] married woman, Jummai Isaac, 27, said she has not taken in since she got married in the year 2000.[/b]
“I haven’t conceived since I got married in the last fourteen years, and doctors have, on several occasions, confirmed to me absence of any known cause of inability to get pregnant.
Initially, doctors thought I had fibroid in my womb, but after several scans and some medical tests, they dispelled that notion.”
However, a community leader, Mohammed Bashar, explained that, “Most of the complaints could be associated with secondary infertility, because victims have, in the past, given birth to children before they suddenly stopped.
There was widespread belief that smoke and poisonous gases emitted from the refinery have reproductive health effect on people living in the area, but no medical report has confirmed the allegation due to inability of villagers to seek comprehensive medical tests, perhaps owing to lack of awareness and poverty.”
http://www.informationng.com/2015/02/satisfy-us-in-bed-or-face-mass-divorce-kaduna-women-protest-against-their-husbands.html

Did you read what I read ? I wonder how a 12 or 13 year ole more would be

Hmmm... True to a large extent. But there are different levels of secrets

vinxce:
Hiii guyz plzz I need ur help on this I skul at osun state uni nd I stay at sadiat osogbo I rented a roon self contain nd my landlord his one of d most humble man I have eva seen even his wife they treat me like their child buh! I'm in LOVE with their daughter nd I'm also sure she loves me but I don't want to spoil d relationship btwn me nd thE parents nd I don't want to destroy me nd d girl friendship plllzzz wat do u guyz tink ......

You want to marry her? If so, her parents will more than agree. In fact, you may even stay rent free

celine234:
OK here we go, I have become so tired of hearing endless topics condemning Nigeria girls. how we dont make a good wife, how we cheat and Bla Bla bla.

I dont know about others, but EXCUSE me, Nigeria women rocks. lemme tell you why and I dont give a fuvk what you say.

1) we are committed:.. all you nigger crying about us cheating, you followed the wrong crowd. this is what I hate, just because you follow a runx girl doesn't mean the rest are cheats. EXCUSE us! we can commit to a man through big and thin.

2) we struggle: I dont know about you, we make ends meet without money from guys. yea, some of us are not lazy and gold diggers. we hustle , we struggle too. and I dont wanna hear anything like we're gold diggers again. keep that to yourself.

3) we are mild: we are gentle and mild, we take shit from you without retaliation. the Western girls you so much preach and praise cannot do that. the moment you say crap, they shoot a bullet through your red anus. cos they dont take shit. I think its time we practice it here, it would do lot of good. you turn us to fufu and yam anyhow you like . we endure it, but not all. I dont take shit on this one.

4) we have manners : yea, we do OK? not all are mad women

5) we are pretty: our pussies and nipples may not be pink, but they function . we're pretty, we got likes like omo sexy, geny, tonto dike. they are proudly from NIGERIA. westerners worship them. we're proud.

6) we love: yea. we love and can keep to a guy. we can do anything for the one we love.

7)we are sexy: stop insulting us, we are sexy. big belle o, k leg o, *whispers and look left and right* we are sexy.

we are not greedy: not every Lady takes her friends to her date and beg for recharge cards, we dont ask for more than we can chew. we have conscience and heart. maybe its your fault some girls rob you but hey! no be my palava. I'm not greedy, we are not.

9) we are not cheap: seriously? just because she open leg for you mean say we cheap? she's just a slut, we have values. our mothers taught us and brought us well mannered. some of us are not, if you think otherwise, hug transformer.

we are the best....
warning: dont abuse me o, cos wahala go dey. state your opinions, I'll respect it.
Nigerian girls, we rock. we're tough, so proud of you.

Nigerian babes rock, but we also crave exotic babes.....

chinnelle:
@ op, where do I drop your kiss for you? no homo!
you nailed it!
Gbam! Gbamer! Gbamest!

Hmmm..... . So those ladies who beef you or you beef are in NL

DuchessLily:
Ur points do not apply to every girl OP

Just noticed you follow more guys than ladies Are you sure you don't beef ladies

Rotimi47:
Jonathan has stolen more than all of them combined.

Where is your proof?

Mmayor:
Sense of reasoning you said? your sense dey only work when it comes to the Jonathans abi? Tinubu's I'll gotten wealth could have provided the whole nation with 24/7 power supply. Atiku own go employ over...

they are all thieves! call them by their name without being sentimentally tribalistic about it!

This seems to bug me. If you criticize Tinubu, people will jump to his defence. But this same people will call Gej name as if he's the only one.
I wonder what the hope for the Nigerian youth is. Smh.

ozoigbondu:
l have seen grander hotels like tinubu oriential hotels


How do we even know it is her hotel

You dey mind them? Tinubu Oriental hotel and Mainland hotel nko ?

jimi4us:
[size=15pt]fashola and his thieves are also looting lagos state money to buy exotic cars for some drunk touts.[/size]

People won't see anything wrong with this cos no be GEJ or PDP

Oceemo:
please wats d name of this movie would like 2 see it. Pls reply ASap.

Pompeii

adeekiti:
Dis picture is not real, check it and see it was merged together.. See the joining at the back of buhari

I searched the image and it led me to daily post...

Elxandre:
And he kept giving out different stories as the source of his massive income during investigation?
Abi you can explain to us where he got the money from?

Well, in Nigeria, as long as you aren't caught, you are holy!

If Tinubu is not corrupt, then Deziani is not also.
I hear people say that Tinubu's mother was very rich and hence he ia also rich.
What I'll say is that Deziani is from a rich background and she even worked in Shelll for many years.

toluine56:
Rubbish. Why digging up his past nw? A senseless post that doesnt hold water..
Instead of praying for d opposition to make naija a better place for us all, you're busy unearthing stuffs dt wont add value to ur life....Kip hating on. Pigs.

You say digging up his past? Politics is about your past nah That's what happens everywhere in the world.