₦airaland Forum

m1500:
My friend who is very gainfully employed also married a young woman; had a child with her but she left him for another man after few years into the marriage. Reasons for her flight best known to her because she was very well treated and there was no quarrel between the two.

SAMBARRY:
If a man did this it won't be news so why is this news?




aren't there a lot of cases where a man is married and he still takes another woman to his mother for approval and wedding goes ahead.

I think I saw something like that on nl recently. So why all the rants



I guess the teachers are impacting knowledge which they are seeing the results

Rilwayne001:
A former militant leader in the Niger Delta, Ebikabowei Victor Ben, a.k.a General Boyloaf, speaks to PREMIUM TIMES’ Aderonke Ogunleye about the outgoing administration of President Goodluck Jonathan, and the incoming Muhammadu Buhari government. Boyloaf says the oil rich Niger Delta did not benefit from the Jonathan Presidency. He pledges to work with Mr. Buhari, and explains why former militants in the region did not carry out their threats to go to war if Mr.Jonathan lost the March 28 presidential election.

Premium Times : How will the Niger Delta receive Jonathan now that he is coming back home?

Boyloaf: To me, as a matter of fact Jonathan disappointed us. That is my own opinion. He disappointed us. To me, he disappointed us. He might be good to some people. There is nothing to tell if you get to my own state. We didn’t benefit. People like us did not benefit from his government. His government focused on one side. The Bayelsans did not benefit. It is only the Arugbos - that is Ondo State and Delta State - that benefited from his government. So, someone like me will not welcome him. I will not welcome him at all. The struggle continues.

: www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/182496-interview-jonathan-is-a-disappointment-ex-militant-leader-boyloaf.html

gabbytabby:
If this is an example of decent dressing by a journalist to Aso Rock then it is totally unprofessional and they need to be told so. This is what you wear when you go to club to buggy down with your friends and you want them to feel you.

While I was even in the UK a Wes-tindian colleague of mine wore something that was even better than this to work and she was sent home to change and had to go to a local market to buy what was termed appropriate dressing. If you don't know it they will show it to you.

creepsyme:
any man who is not ashame to bring a lady into this kind of house for a first date has a problem with his modula oblongata.

MrPresident1:
Help meet for a pig? Is it a sin for a man to learn basic house cleaning skills?

Help meet ko, House girl ni.

Thugnificient:
Mariam is my childhood girlfriend but we are different in all aspect. I'm cool, she's party monger. She's a flirt, i'm a jealous fellow. I'm temperamental, she's sturborn. She overlook petty things, i don't. I don't like partying, she loves it. I don't dance, she can die for it. I don't drink, she do. I'm a man of few words, she's a talkative. I don't dress to kill but she dress like a harlot just be the hottest chick in town. She really love me and i know it but due to our irreconcilable differencert, we've had misunderstanding up to 100 times in our 9yrs relationship. I know we're going to have a tough time together in future but i don't know how to get myself to stop loving her.

MrPresident1:
She has to run for her dear life mehn, or she will get married to a pig who will turn her to his housegirl.

How can a man leave his kitchen like this. The guy is irresponsible.

TrishaP:
That ends the dating my dear. I"ll rather stay outside so we'll talk and then never visit. I mean There is no way I will be excited to see such dirty house and still want to continue. Jeez what kind of impression is that?!!

ikp4succes come and see this

WILSON:
TOLERANCE, SUBMISSIVENESS, RESPECT, FORBEARANCE AND CHASTISE WHEN NEED BE

jpphilips:
Is that really an area where a husband should interfere? You are the head of the home but by default, training or experience there are areas where the women know best you just have to leave it for them.
Surprised you know the name of whatever the baby is taking, you must really be less busy, no offence!!, sorry nothing to advise in this example because i don't interfere in this area, I may ask her to look for an alternative if I feel whatever she is giving is expensive or difficult to source.
There is separation of powers in the home.

netsurf:
Okay, for instance, when the baby came, she breast feeded him exclusively for six months and then the stage to introduce some food came..the baby wouldn't accept those frisogold, cerelac etc but accepts Ogi well but she continually force him to take those friso/cerel and each time, the baby cries endlesslly and later vomits everything. Then at about 10 months old, the baby would accept amala, and indomie on his own without been forced...then she brought in golden morn which the baby spits out the moment it touches his mouth...despite this, she started forcing him again...so the husband said don't give it to him any more...give what he is okay with. Rather than explain why she want to continue forcing him, she went and bought a bigger bag of the golden morn...then the husband threw it away...this happenned last Thursday and since then she has stopped greeting her husband and even prepare food when she like since then.

abdulizom:
I saw this car in Yenagoa, Bayelsa State at noon of today. Everyone taking glance of a car with Ankara fabrics as a body paint, he wrote on the plate number "symbol of PEACE, Ankara"
Take a look!

onoerime:
My fiance walked back home this evening and told me she met her ex boyfrnd that took her out to a restaurant where they drank and ate some foods but nothing happened between them. What is your say on this?

NaijaOptimist:
Why can't we have these scenario?

Why is it that only women have to support the male to be successful?

jewelgold:
The question is

'Have u eaten'?

Av noticed it quite a number of times,

Guys, abi I lie?

humilitypays:
Welcome ma

@lefulefu, remember that each of the tribes come with their own limitation(s).

Let me highlight some for you:

Merits of dating/marrying igbo girl:
1. She will inspire u to hustle and become successful because she won't love u if u remain broke...and she is ready to follow Emeka that has more money and big car, so u got to hustle to keep her loving u.

2. If u marry her, and provide her needs, be assured that she won't cheat on u even if she used to be a runz girl b4 u married her. So fidelity is kind of guaranteed, not all o!!

3. They are hardworking and will join force with u to build a rich, enviable family if u marry her o not dating!

Demerits:
1. Igbo girls too like money, and most aren't ready to wait for u to make it...so if u dnt have money for now, forget any fair, pretty, educated Igbo girl!

2. She can push u to crime to make money!

3. The more money u have, the more of her love u will get!

4. She isn't ready to be your babymama...so if u aren't ready to marry her, forget babymama unless u are super-super-rich and handsome!

5. Marrying her requires you close your major bank account!


Merits of Dating/Marrying Yoruba Girl:
1. She is ready to endure with u and shower u with love even if u don't have money; but that's if u are a Yoruba guy o.

2. If u want baby out of wedlock, she can give u more freely than an Igbo girl.

3. Marrying her isn't expensive, and her family is ready to assist u in marrying her...so don't worry abt the owambe sponsorship

4. Whether u are rich, poor or average, a Yoruba girl will marry u if u are ready to marry her!

Demerits:
1. She is more likely going to cheat on you with another guy (more handsome than u or a Yoruba guy if u aren't Yoruba) if u marry her.

2. Be ready for divorce if u mess up! Her family have little or no role to play in resolving marital crises becos Yoruba culture believe that every family is OYO!

3. Be ready to party...buy asoebi at least every 2 months!

4. Be ready to spend if any of her relation dies...you must contribute for party o!



Merits of Dating/marrying Hausa/Fulani Girl:
1. If you love keeping extramarital affairs or u want to marry more than one wife, then go for a Fulani/Hausa girl...especially the Muslim ones because she won't complain.

2. She is humble....she can hardly challenge your words like ladies from other tribes.

3. If her family is rich, then u will sure benefit from their wealth and connection, so rejoice!!

Demerits:
1. If you aren't from a popular family or you aren't rich, you can't get a fulani/hausa girl from a well to do family.

2. Most of them are Muslims, so if u aren't a strong Muslim from the north, it may be difficult for u to marry or date one

3. Be ready to make more money and go into politics if u want to enjoy her loyalty and love more.


Merits of Dating/marrying Calabar girl:
1. You will eat good food!

2. You will be taken good care of emotionally!

3. Money isn't a top priority but be okay.


Demerits:
1. Breakup with her and die!

2. You need enough strength

3. You must not eat outside, so be ready to eat!

4. Going to the village is forbidden; this also applies to Yoruba girls!

Mhizkel:
Those of you bashing the Op, remember he created this thread from his own perspective.. You also can create a thread and write otherwise..I respect the list tho! #Making sense
Thank God i'm yoruba

iceberylin:
Kissing on the first date is a Big sin to A Nigerian gurl...
Being a broke niggs is unacceptable..
U gotta be cute also.
And possess Pink lips.
Be tall like a Giant.
Be a Gentleman and still be brave to scare bad guys ( is that even possible )

They just want a Perfect man...

Cherlene:
Good evening each and everyone,

Why do YOU think most Nigerian men esteem in FOREIGN ladies, and why do Nigerian men find them exotic?

JUST TO CLARIFY: Foreign as in explicit a non-native/non nigerian female.

NOTE: Only SENSIBLE responses, THANK YOU!

Regards,
Cherlene.

Lumidee007:
This post is created due to the previous post made on the front page which is asking for the number of men that is normal for a girl to have slept with.
we men also want know the numbers of ladies that are ideal for a man to sleep with before he actually gets to the finish line if there is any
for me I'm a virgin

Adaeze003:
Heheheheheheheheheh... confused lot

They scream on NL that they want "experienced" Women on bed and still come to ask how many is too much... or where do you want her to get the experience from??

And they say we don't know what we want.. Hehehehehehehehehehe

Oh... and how do you plan to find out how many she slept with is there a vago-meter I don't know about?

PlutoLA:
This just goes to show that Igbo ppl were the most gullible tribe and were most easily tricked into working as slaves in the US