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jpphilips:
Is that really an area where a husband should interfere? You are the head of the home but by default, training or experience there are areas where the women know best you just have to leave it for them.
Surprised you know the name of whatever the baby is taking, you must really be less busy, no offence!!, sorry nothing to advise in this example because i don't interfere in this area, I may ask her to look for an alternative if I feel whatever she is giving is expensive or difficult to source.
There is separation of powers in the home.

I don't really agree with your first paragraph. As a father and a husband, you can't be ignorant about what happens to your child. If what the op said is accurate, then the husband has to be involved to some aspect.

netsurf:
Okay, for instance, when the baby came, she breast feeded him exclusively for six months and then the stage to introduce some food came..the baby wouldn't accept those frisogold, cerelac etc but accepts Ogi well but she continually force him to take those friso/cerel and each time, the baby cries endlesslly and later vomits everything. Then at about 10 months old, the baby would accept amala, and indomie on his own without been forced...then she brought in golden morn which the baby spits out the moment it touches his mouth...despite this, she started forcing him again...so the husband said don't give it to him any more...give what he is okay with. Rather than explain why she want to continue forcing him, she went and bought a bigger bag of the golden morn...then the husband threw it away...this happenned last Thursday and since then she has stopped greeting her husband and even prepare food when she like since then.

She wants to force her child to be oyibo not knowing that he is aje kpako.
I believe she has a complex. Is ogi and amala not food ?
Tell your friend to take his wife for counselling. Probably to their pastor, that's if they have a mutual one.

The guy is a joker..

Car looks so much like Toyota. It's looking cool, though but the price a bit high.
Want to kniw the price of the cheapest .

abdulizom:
I saw this car in Yenagoa, Bayelsa State at noon of today. Everyone taking glance of a car with Ankara fabrics as a body paint, he wrote on the plate number "symbol of PEACE, Ankara"
Take a look!

Nice concept. Unfortunately, it's a jalopy

onoerime:
My fiance walked back home this evening and told me she met her ex boyfrnd that took her out to a restaurant where they drank and ate some foods but nothing happened between them. What is your say on this?

She's crazy.
Some people just don't think ....

The op said apart from ashi but some guys are still mentioning it. A lot of people don't read. .

I want to believe that if the lady is not an ashi or in desperate situation, she won't sleep with a guy she doesn't have feelings for. (Don't want to use the word love ).

NaijaOptimist:
Why can't we have these scenario?

Why is it that only women have to support the male to be successful?

Well, the feminist made it so.

jewelgold:
The question is

'Have u eaten'?

Av noticed it quite a number of times,

Guys, abi I lie?

My own dey ask me , have you fasted today

humilitypays:
Welcome ma

@lefulefu, remember that each of the tribes come with their own limitation(s).

Let me highlight some for you:

Merits of dating/marrying igbo girl:
1. She will inspire u to hustle and become successful because she won't love u if u remain broke...and she is ready to follow Emeka that has more money and big car, so u got to hustle to keep her loving u.

2. If u marry her, and provide her needs, be assured that she won't cheat on u even if she used to be a runz girl b4 u married her. So fidelity is kind of guaranteed, not all o!!

3. They are hardworking and will join force with u to build a rich, enviable family if u marry her o not dating!

Demerits:
1. Igbo girls too like money, and most aren't ready to wait for u to make it...so if u dnt have money for now, forget any fair, pretty, educated Igbo girl!

2. She can push u to crime to make money!

3. The more money u have, the more of her love u will get!

4. She isn't ready to be your babymama...so if u aren't ready to marry her, forget babymama unless u are super-super-rich and handsome!

5. Marrying her requires you close your major bank account!


Merits of Dating/Marrying Yoruba Girl:
1. She is ready to endure with u and shower u with love even if u don't have money; but that's if u are a Yoruba guy o.

2. If u want baby out of wedlock, she can give u more freely than an Igbo girl.

3. Marrying her isn't expensive, and her family is ready to assist u in marrying her...so don't worry abt the owambe sponsorship

4. Whether u are rich, poor or average, a Yoruba girl will marry u if u are ready to marry her!

Demerits:
1. She is more likely going to cheat on you with another guy (more handsome than u or a Yoruba guy if u aren't Yoruba) if u marry her.

2. Be ready for divorce if u mess up! Her family have little or no role to play in resolving marital crises becos Yoruba culture believe that every family is OYO!

3. Be ready to party...buy asoebi at least every 2 months!

4. Be ready to spend if any of her relation dies...you must contribute for party o!



Merits of Dating/marrying Hausa/Fulani Girl:
1. If you love keeping extramarital affairs or u want to marry more than one wife, then go for a Fulani/Hausa girl...especially the Muslim ones because she won't complain.

2. She is humble....she can hardly challenge your words like ladies from other tribes.

3. If her family is rich, then u will sure benefit from their wealth and connection, so rejoice!!

Demerits:
1. If you aren't from a popular family or you aren't rich, you can't get a fulani/hausa girl from a well to do family.

2. Most of them are Muslims, so if u aren't a strong Muslim from the north, it may be difficult for u to marry or date one

3. Be ready to make more money and go into politics if u want to enjoy her loyalty and love more.


Merits of Dating/marrying Calabar girl:
1. You will eat good food!

2. You will be taken good care of emotionally!

3. Money isn't a top priority but be okay.


Demerits:
1. Breakup with her and die!

2. You need enough strength

3. You must not eat outside, so be ready to eat!

4. Going to the village is forbidden; this also applies to Yoruba girls!

Hmm.... Shey you don do enogh research ? Lol.

Mhizkel:
Those of you bashing the Op, remember he created this thread from his own perspective.. You also can create a thread and write otherwise..I respect the list tho! #Making sense
Thank God i'm yoruba

I bet you won't mind marrying a guy you take care of as long as he loves you and services you regularly.

iceberylin:
Kissing on the first date is a Big sin to A Nigerian gurl...
Being a broke niggs is unacceptable..
U gotta be cute also.
And possess Pink lips.
Be tall like a Giant.
Be a Gentleman and still be brave to scare bad guys ( is that even possible )

They just want a Perfect man...

Some Naija babes get useless type of formation. Rubbish !!!

Cherlene:
Good evening each and everyone,

Why do YOU think most Nigerian men esteem in FOREIGN ladies, and why do Nigerian men find them exotic?

JUST TO CLARIFY: Foreign as in explicit a non-native/non nigerian female.

NOTE: Only SENSIBLE responses, THANK YOU!

Regards,
Cherlene.

Anything that is foreign is exotic. I think it's quite normal for men to desire something or someone different. Everyone likes to try something new. Same as women too.

Lumidee007:
This post is created due to the previous post made on the front page which is asking for the number of men that is normal for a girl to have slept with.
we men also want know the numbers of ladies that are ideal for a man to sleep with before he actually gets to the finish line if there is any
for me I'm a virgin

I sense a counter thread.

As for men, the more the better. I don't know of any woman who would want to marry a virgin man. If you doubt it, just ask them.

Adaeze003:
Heheheheheheheheheh... confused lot

They scream on NL that they want "experienced" Women on bed and still come to ask how many is too much... or where do you want her to get the experience from??

And they say we don't know what we want.. Hehehehehehehehehehe

Oh... and how do you plan to find out how many she slept with is there a vago-meter I don't know about?

That experience too much oh. I want the one wey no gey experience at all.

I don't support the move....

Advice is right on point, but let's not take anything from Pacman.

Btw, Op I would prefer to be a professor at 32 than to be one at 67.

Mark Zuckerberg was a billionaire at 24 and we have some billionaires at 70. Op which will you prefer ?

PlutoLA:
This just goes to show that Igbo ppl were the most gullible tribe and were most easily tricked into working as slaves in the US

Every tribe have slaves in the diaspora. Don't forget we have Badagry slave port. You will also notice that Yoruba is spoken in Brazil.
This is as a result of slave trade.

datedoboi:
Jesus… I don enter
Hope it has cure?

Take powerful antibiotics.

Muazu should remain. He can't be blamed solely for the failure of PDP. Several factors led to the defeat of the ruling party which wasn't addressed long before now.

But expelling him is not the solution except for willful sabotage.

Calebosko:
picture evidence,

Show us picture of their bank account. Lol.

5,6,7 and 9 are the most vital. But this doesn't always apply to rich babes.

Op what about runs babe ?

oluwasegun007:
Ppl luv PACQUO because he's ny as arrogant as Mayweather


Bt as 4 jazzy...I always feel u man....of all celeb aftaa papilo na u, because u'r a down 2 earth person

When Mayweather started saying he's the best fighter in the history of boxing, people star5ed becoming pissed. Tyson didn't like that either.

chucky234:
Floyd has always been a cheat, Pacman will floor him pound for pound.
Great boxers face their opponents like a man and eat punches whole hearted and that's what Manny stands for.

So you expect him to stay and receive those punches ? Yeah right.
My head was going for Floyd but my heart Pacman. I just don't know why.

Well, what's the major characteristics of the Bantu people ?
I used to have the impression that they are stocky with low centre of gravity.

dhammyg:
SO ACCORDING TO U ALL WOMEN DONT ENJOY SPORTS
U BETTER COMOT FOR MY SIGHT WITH UR MYOPIC REASONING.AM NOT IN A GOOD MOOD THIS MORNING

. Pele.

O boy, Pac man is a beast. May weathwr is an escape artiste..

wachakuta:
Nna at 1st na boby I 1st see ooo

Me sef.

efilefun:
This chick no dey grow old The only difference with when she won the contest is just "freshness and more beauty"

See those long sexy legs

She's truly beautiful. Let's see other miss Nigeria after her. Some of 2them are out of shape.

The only thing is that she needs to add some flesh.