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VicYo:
DEAR EX
i always stylishly cheat on you which you never know about... i never have sex with some, i just hold them to enjoy pleasure with them by keeping their companies, romance with them which i always enjoyed.

and i always lie to you sometimes to protect our relationship from cracking, just to see me as the best man..


hope you forgive me now?
i feel relief now

hey, sure you have a past? you can confess yours and be safe

I hope she is on Nairaland to read your post or better still go tell her face to face.

Niageriaunite:
we were just casual friends, getting to about six years now, she had a break up with her man, me too break with my girl almost same period we came together to console our selves along the line we started dating, she is a very nice person she a very sincere person who fidelity with her husband is guaranteed, her cooking skills is excellent A1, OMG she cooks very and excellently (pls don't mind my grammar) well, and she has loved me so much and I have locked the gate of my heart not love her cos she lacks most features which I desires in a woman, to cut long story short, is that, I can't marry her but how do make it known to her so there will be no problem, I'm afraid she is hot tempered and quick to anger, it's either she hurts me with an object like knives or she use snipper for her self, I know her too well, she can do it, she is a very emotional
so please how do I do this, peacefully
like I said she is a very nice person

Op you shouldn't have had anything to do with her since you know what she is after is to settle down.
Well for my advice just be sincere with her.

Please explain the body count of 1

You have to think of your future when proposing to someone nowadays. This guy don think am well.

martineverest:
see dem.....they aren't hard to find.
size matters o

In my family we are all blessed with big things. Size isn't our problem.

Performance of the joystick is what matters not the inches.

Her commitment to the ex couldn't stand the test of money.

I'm just here to read comments and probably separate fight.

Martinez39:


I have always told myself right from age 13 that I cannot get married. I still will not get married. Surrogate mums and ashawos are better by a million mile. How can a man, who is working 9-5 from Monday to Friday, leave his house by 6:00am in the morning to hustle for the family and return home by 6:00pm to meet a house in disarray; a house that stinks; a house not clearly organised and plates left unwashed despite his wife staying at home 24/7? What's worse is the wife not having the decency and IQ to acknowledge that, as a right thinking person, good hygiene and keeping your house in order are necessary things and doing these things doesn't mean that you are your man's slave.

Trust the goats called "feminist stay-home wives," they would never sweep and mop the floors; never clear the stinking dishes and they allow food to keep on decaying ; never dust the furnitures and clean the windows etc. because "they will never be a man's slave." How stupid and inconsiderate can a human being be? Male or female, single or married, if you are at home the whole day and your spouse is away for a long time, why can't you do some chores and put the house in order? Besides, for the low hanging fruits of humanity called "feminists," how is ensuring the order, organisation and hygiene of yourself and environment making you a slave to your husband? Men on this forum that have these kind of wives, why are you still in the marriage? How can you be taking this from Monday to Friday?

Is it right to tell your husband "it's not my duty to do the chores. Do it yourself or get a maid" given that he is away from 6:00am to 6:00pm providing for you and the children while you have being home all day doing nothing? How senseless and inconsiderate! Is this how you treat a hard working man? Some of these women even use the useless excuse "taking care of the kid(s) is really difficult" to justify being lazy. How difficult when you still have time to watch Zee World for six hours per day at least and still focus on social media for an additional two hours? Some are even inconsiderate to say "we need to share the house chores equally because taking care of the children is equally difficult(as the man's work)." May I never met such stupid, proud and inconsiderate women. I pity men trapped in such marriages.

Another annoying that these women, especially many western women, do is to start getting fat, ignoring their hygiene and appearance after they get married . They think they have arrived and I blame men for making these women think they have arrived. Personally, if I am in a relationship, my girl must know that, at all times, she is not irreplaceable — start misbehaving and I fling you through the window. How can a woman starts getting dirty, fat and tying smelly wrappers around house and be surprised that her husband is cheating with a hot b1tch? Many stupid "feminists" on this thread would say "I am not created to please a man." Well, you can't eat your cake and have it. A man can love you but you can't be look like Eniola Badmus in a smelly wrapper and unkept hair and expect his pεnis to stand for you? For how long will he able to resist his sexual urges all because he is trying to stay faithful to a stupid slob? Why should he put up with a slob when he can, in secret, enjoy a hot b1tch?

Most of these women can't even cook and will never cook so as not to pique their "feminist pride." Lazy, heartless and stupid women. How can you let such a hardworking man come back hungry and go to bed hungry? Some are so daft and inconsiderate that they would say "it's not my duty to cook for you. Do it yourself or get a maid." What nonsense?! How wicked? Can't you appreciate his effort and hard work towards providing for the all by himself? Can't you at least get him a cup of cold water or fruit juice on his return after an exhausting day at work? Why be totally useless and make him regret marrying you?

To make the whole situation hopeless, these women have the guts to withhold sex and negotiate with sex. Men with this type of women, I feel sorry for you.

You stvpid "feminist" stay-at-home wives are simply playing Russian roulette with your marriages. I hope when your marriages crash, your fellow feminists will be there for you to fix things up. Stop playing with your marriages. As for men, stop growing pot bellies and hit the gym, you can't look like Amaechi Muonagor and be surprised that your wife is smashing your barber who has a sexy and muscular body. If you know you know. So women, be reasonable and stop listening to "Feminists." Taking care of the house, the children and appreciating your hard working husbands are not a crime and they don't make you a slave to him in any way. Being a good and caring wife is not a bad thing and we good men love and appreciate good wives. "Feminists" have taught women that a mother who devotes her time to her family is an underachieving woman. This is not true and it is hypocrisy given that "feminists" always scream that women should be allowed to define themselves.


NB: I am angry today, be reasonable in your comment.

Op I feel your pain. Some women just lack the little things that makes a good wife.

IamPlato:
For Nairaland girls Just Touch Their Bank Account and Watch How Their Pussy goes Wet For You

You Sabi joor

Nigerians Sha
At least wait for the lady to announce she is pregnant. Mayb na cloth she put or something.

There must have been something he could have lived for even it's hope.

RIP

Some people would call this man plight a fat lie. At least I have an experience of a close relation who couldn't get a job because he refused to have sex.
This country is in shambles where people just for power or positions think no one can get to them.

I ain't married but I don't despite learning.. So me here to read and learn

nicepoker101:
Na bobrisky de behind that moniker

Seriously bro, na for nairaland you go see men in women clothing.

ubunja:
women marry for money
Ask again and I'll kill you.

Then why shouldn't some men marry because of sex?

I had to ignore that threat.

This is good

The man had enough either in his pocket or enough sadness.

Congratulations Ndidi. Every man and woman deserves something good.

jayextra:
Biko whats ur Gender?

You can guess from the comment

Madness everywhere..

Good. They rob for fun

Crazy.

Theglobalman:
However, if you are among those that think there are good women here a busy person like me can marry and have peace, mention monikers of such women.

If your lucky there are good ladies here.

lathrowinger:
I need a guy, who is ready to settle down with me

Be hopeful.. They will come running to you soon

Wow

Thank God no life lost.

It not wise to die for one enjoyment one would eventually leave.

Animal knows what good

ubunja:
Men marry for sex.

Don't ask again

Why do ladies accept the marriage?

I go nowhere.

Wetin we no go see. Fire dey oninown person find trouble.