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TMTR:
You are almost correct but I don't really see myself as a religious person like I haven't been to church for years now, I just believe that there is a God somewhere and say my prayers every morning.

I rarely go to church but when I do it's definitely Jehovah's witness because my spirit aligns with their teachings like this is how Christianity is to be and practiced but let's not go into all that now.

I am not going to force any religion on my daughter, my parents didn't force one on me. They allowed me to choose my path same way I am going to allow my daughter choose her path.

In a nutshell, I don't really fancy religion

Your ideology about life in general was exact as mine. Do you reply to PM?

Sent you a PM on your mail box

That boy needs beating to reset his head. Your hubby is not helping matter. If he knows his presence can't be felt in the house, especially for that 17years old boy stealing, then he should return him back to where he brought him from

That boy needs a manly figure that he'd always be scared of. Give him a marathon beating with punishment. I swear it does help. He'd always think twice before stealing, knowing fully well what the outcome would be.

Do everything within your reach to make the boy stealing get your hubby attention

Probably those he stole from should come arrest him when your hubby is around, or better still they should come to give him a resounding public disgrace when he's around. This will definitely get his attention and by then you can chip in one or two possible means to curb this act of his for your kids sanity

That boy needs real beating seriously. He'd change if i handle him.

Who born monkey

WoundedLamb:
Getting married is a choice and if you don't want to, it's perfectly okay. However, whatever you do, don't be a wayward father. The child's self esteem will stem from how you treat women. Let her know that there's more to life that being a good wife. Tell her that regardless of her gender, she can be anything she wants to be in life. Tell her that it's not cool to refer to women as "bitches", "vagina people" or "that gender" cause they are human as we are. Tell her to always voice her opinion even in a society where it doesn't seem to count. Tell her to look beyond the stigmatization of Nigerian girls and pursue her dreams head-on. Tell her to be careful with the boy child but know that he's not an enemy.

Brilliant input.

TMTR:

Hello, good day ,

https://www.nairaland.com/4538476/want-adopt-child

y'all remember the thread I created back in 2018 ,well I did succeed adopting a child, I adopted her from a orphanage and I will say my experience during the process of adopting her was really difficult than I Imagined, first I was a single young guy not even in my mid twenties yet and I had tattoos and lil tjay and lil baby kind of hair styles (those familiar with them will know the kind of hair style I am talking about ) oh mhen the stereotyping was off the roof, what did they not say, is it been called a ritualist , mhen I was suffered by the abusive words that was unleashed on me by all those women but I didn't relent and finally after everything I succeeded,

At one point , I wanted to go with my mum at least to show that I had no ulterior motive but then again I thought to myself, you can do this on your own and I am glad I overcame.

I began the process in mid 2018 and it was not until it late 2018 that my application was granted, I then proceeded with the rest formalities and I took my daughter home, she was 3 when I adopted her .

The first thing I did when we got home was to change her wardrobe, I took her shopping and bought two big boxes filled with clothes and shoes, also bought some female toys and other stuffs.

She was shy at first around me but with time ,she got used to me and became more free with me.

Mehn I must say so far adopting her was one of the best decision I have ever made in my life , I even tattooed her name on my arm, made me more responble in a way

And also in addition, chicks dig babies, like babies are like ladies' magnet. I never believe those statements to be true till I got my baby, like mehn you need to see the attention I get because of her, I mean we get because of her.

Don't get me wrong, ladies trip and drool over me before she came into my life but the amount of attention I get before her more than doubled . Before y'all start thinking this is the major reason I am happy I adopted her , let it be known that this is the least reason why I am happy..

All-in all she is God's blessings to me and I bless the day that I made the decision in adopting her.

She is such an Angel and a darling

I love her so much

Fatherhood is sweet

Are you a JW?

AmuRubber:
Kindly direct your request to the owner of Nairaland, his father owns the said school.

Thank you for your input

Kadejo:
You dey whin me?
You wan make den kidnap you join dos den don carry abi. Make family and friends go dey look for money wey dey just dey use ear hear the figure but never count am.
Becos, FG done dey sing "OYO is your case ooo, Le le le, Oyo is your case ooo ,ooo"
O je fidi mo Ibadan Nile oluyole, nibi won gbe nfi tan ewure joka ! Make you dey enjoy your life jejeje .

Baba ibadan kini so

DrDax:
You better don't listen to textbook advice.

Stay right where you are.

The difference in salary is not worth the trouble.

ipobarethieves:
She's the owner of the school,no wonder.That's how they behave.Even Ur friend that supposed introduced u proper to the mama nah Dunc* aka Sule ..The mama prefer dumb teacher she go control/press like remote.If u dey Lagos pm me make I take u go chrisland college, Lekki/ the Ambassadors,OTA.

Do you mind linking me up with the Ambassador Ota sir?

I'd be grateful if you can sir. Thanks

simplepee:
Preach brother!

And to think it will even get worse. We all should be planning our exit because there's no hope for this country, bitter truth. I'm not a fan of "leaving the country" but the way the country is going...........

Yeah, I'm not a fan of leaving the country either. But this country is heading no where

A friend was telling me yesterday that we can't get a job. Not even the unemployment that got me.

Like the way he sounded, he had given up all hope on this country and sees it as nothing for graduates to be unemployed

He literally laughed at me, coming top of the class with all my suffer head. Nothing to show for it.

Funny enough most of them are into cyber crime, that's what pay their bills.

Na God go help us.

tipsy242:
I am currently on leave from my office for at least 2 weeks. Someone should kindly recommend a vacation place for me outside of Lagos but within South west just to cool my brain off. My budget is no more than 100k though.

Why not consider Osun State. Olumirin Waterfalls erin-Ijesa, Nike art and culture centre, osun osogbo sacred grove and many more tourist places

I'd have recommend Ogun or oyo state, but you seems stressed out and need a cool place to chill.

Osun State is a good place with fresh air and serene atmosphere

Ladycewhy:
Asking a woman who you don't know her struggles when she is going to have children deserves a punch in the face.

I swear

Very annoying set of people

sagitariusbaby:
I and my wife has been believing God for the fruit of the womb since 2017 and I hate it when people ask me this "what's delaying your wife" or "when are you guys making babies".

I'm like, wetin concern you? Mind your fukking business and leave us alone.

God almighty will remember your home this year and bless your wife with a fruit of the womb

Bandura:
Gmail

What are the documents you uploaded?

Thanks

Mossadd:
Rubbish! So you think igbo will vote for apc if apc presents a Yoruba candidate expecially tinubu?

Then go and vote for PDP a fulani man. Case close

NairaMaster1:
You're still dreaming of I S L A M A B A D taliban style in Nigeria?
If APC rule us for another four years you will even denounce Islam.

I'm not in support of any party though

But it will take magic for PDP to come back to power. Those APC are master riggers

Elliot2:
No joy. I was a very shy guy then na. What gave them they effrontery was because they were the extroverts and I was the introvert but I really wanted to feel among so that they could help me to toast girls for me since I couldn't.

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Elliot2:
You better drag your sister's ears now! Nigeria is the worst country to have a good heart. I learnt it the hard way. When I was in school, I was very naive to the point guys and babes used my head. Right from when I was on campus, even to when I started staying off campus, I suffered. Then I was receiving enough money cos my elder brother was sending me enough, added with the one pops man gave me. But my wicked roommates and neighbors took advantage of my shyness then. Then I could never say "no" to any request by someone from me, be it financial or food. Chai! I suffered o. In fact, apart from school fees, I was the one practically taking care of my roommate; from feeding to clothes and shoes. All the stuffs in the room was mine. I was bearing it until the day we fought over plates he always used and left for me to wash, despite the fact that I was the that cooked the food with my own money. After I heard the rubbish he said to me that day, I packed out and rented my own space and stayed alone.
So abeg, tell your sister to use her head. Personally for me, university friends are one of the fakest friends, and the worst friends you will help in life. Because to most of them, they are the sharp ones using you. They don't see it as help and as social interaction and networking. Since I left school, I have been the one checking up on most of them. Though I know a lot of them are stalking me, especially on facebook in order to know my progress in life, just to see if I have blown so that they can come and bobo me and finesse me. Ndiara!

Those your roomies no get joy o

stabilizer:
Happy Sunday jare. Abi make the OP no kill person

Same to you bro

stabilizer:
And she wont ever go back.home with her complete money most of time. She would probably have regular customers fighting over her for being a cheerful giver. Her own runs girl fit dey do monthly promo. So don't try to starve her pleae

You no go kill person

Kajaard:
Why always you?

Sit down and honestly ask yourself that question. Your mates are in their homes happy but you ( almost approaching 40 ) still unsettled and allowing fvckboys enter you anyhow.

LMAO

Her mates are in their home happy. Who told you she's sad? Those her mates perhaps, don't have the money and fame she had.

At times, one don't have everything in life.

Stop the comparism. Some of her mates are long dead too. Some are held hostage in the prison, some are in the hospital

Odewaleadesoye:
Why most celebrities have money and fame but bad marriages?

Why?

Please tell me the answer.

Why do some people go poor and still bent on keeping marriage with half a dozen kids?

Marriage! Marriage!! Marriage!!!

Is that all they had to their name?

YOU

Ammishaddai:
Oga, you've been brainwashed into thinking your mother's love is unconditional. In fact, I was once like you until I became a man with responsibilities. It was then I knew that our fathers were trying .

They might not have been perfect o, but baba, dem try no be small.

While our mothers were busy painting them black before our tender minds, they were out in the rain slaving and toiling like madmen just to make sure there was food on the table and a roof over our heads . And to me that is the ultimate sacrifice any person can do for another.


So guy, I can never be able to reject my father's love . And as much as I don't like my father in terms of somethings he did , he is still the number lover of my life irrespective of whatever

Your definition of love is in Monetary terms. There's no point educating you futher

Good day!

Ammishaddai:
I understand , but in christianity it's the father's blessings that are regarded ; a mother's blessing is rarely considered and is often believed not to have any effect .

Secondly, you also need to drop that notion that your father is irrelevant. Because he is ,and he probably loves you more. Have you ever thought of the pains he goes through just to provide for your and your mother ? Just because your mother is always there doesn't mean she loves you unconditionally. A father's love is strange, but it can be just as fierce as a mother's

I still don't know which Christianity regards fathers blessings and disregards that of the mothers

I never said fathers doesn't love their children. But you can't compare that to the love of the mothers. It's uncomparable.

The only true love ever in existence is that of the christ who gave his life for mankind

The only person who will ever truly love you unconditionally is your mother. Have you ever wondered why most children bent on loving their mother more than their father?

Take religious aside, hope you know that alot of women went through and are still going through hell in some men's hand all in the name of marriage? Do you know the nonsense our mothers went through from the hand of our fathers? Our customary law isn't solid enough. Marriage doesn't favour women in Africa. Particularly, in Nigeria. Why? because of the calibre of men they breeds. Men claimed they are polygamous in nature and have the right to sleep around.

Some mothers are even contributing financially to the upkeep of the family. Gone are the days that it was solely the men. Even though biblically, the women are not supposed to work but to look after the home. The irresponsibility of some men had made alot of women took it upon themselves to look out for ends meet. Some women are even the breadwinner of their family

No where in the Bible nor Quoran disregard the mothers blessing in favour of the fathers. Go and meet a Muslim scholar and pastors they will affirmed it to you. Women are the pillar of the home, salt of the nation, mothers to all men out there.

Respect every woman. Young or old, big or small.

Nevertheless, that doesn't give a child the liberty to disrespect or hit his father. That's totally wrong.

I'm only addressing your supposed claim about fathers. A father that can elope with another woman, a father that can abandoned his wife and kids for another woman. A father that can claimed to be polygamous in nature and automatically began sleeping around.

The same Men who travelled to the developed countries upon arrival dropped their naija mentality.

Guy forget am o. Na this naija we follow dey o. We know how men behaves.

Take it to the bank, Mothers are uncomparable to fathers.

Ammishaddai:
Bro, you need to take it easy . And secondly, you need Godly counsel right now , so I'll give you the little that I know of .

Number 1. Polygamy has always been a part and parcel of the African culture and the best way of dealing with it is through prayers and patience with God .

Number 2. Fighting your father is not the right way to handle the issue and it can invoke curses on you . If you don't know this , let me tell you now: in this life , it is only your father that is capable of blessing or cursing you. This means an utterance (positive or negative) from his lips can alter your life now and in the future, and trust me , it won't do you any good if he speaks a curse against you (...just believe what I'm saying because I'm speaking from experience) .

Number 3 . It is best to settle with him now because biblically , it is the right thing to do and it is written " do not let the sun set upon your anger "(Ephesians 4:6)
.

Do this and remain blessed
Peace

I heard it's the mother who can prophecy (positive or negative) into one's life and it will definitely come to pass and not the father

The mother carried you for good nine months and beyond, risk her life to birth you, breast feed you for years, nurtured you, sleepless night, cared for you and many more. Some mothers forfeited their career, their purpose in life, their goals et al just because of their kids. Please tell me which man or father on earth can do that?

A father doesn't play all these roles. Even islam confirmed it that your mother is the channel in making heaven.

A man can abandoned, forsake or even denied you and your mother. A man can denied impregnating a woman. But a woman can never denied her foetus. She can never denied the child she risk her life for

Our mothers pay the ultimate price not fathers

Btw, I'm not justifying what the guy did. But your claim that his father is the ultimate source to his eternal life is what i found wrong

donbachi:
She done shift the blame on her husband..."my husband is a businessman,so he is hardly at home.he is always travelling here and there"

Too much pursuing of money by parents,is the major problem of raising miscreants and bad kids.poverty and the society follows.
As a mother,its ur duty to monitor ur kids,cos a mother spends more time with children than a father....ur eye no reach ground.

is that all you have to say? Was that the solution to her predicament?

Kingbrighto:
Please I was suppose to go to be mobilised with this current PCMs but I missed it because I got the information late ... please who knows when the next streams will be doing their online registration and going to camp ? ..
I heard there's still one more batch left this year.

Hopefully October

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Curious345:
not that they rush me. But its a norm these days.

Yeah, you are right though

Arsenate:
Men are a million times more empathetic and considerate than women. Notice how they never condemn paternity fraud on threads like this, in fact they come up with spins and mental gymnastics to blame the man.

If women were the gender with the more power and men the majority victims of rape, they won't deem it necessary to constitutionally out law rape like men do now. I mean, as far as I'm concerned, paternity fraud is just as bad as rape; basically taking what is precious to another, forcefully or by deceit. If women don't see anything wrong with paternity fraud, they wouldn't see anything wrong with rape if they weren't at the receiving end.

Do you know out of ignorance, some don't even know that they got pregnant by someone's else outside their husband

They cheated without protection and still sleep with their husband. Some got shocked having discovered by DNA.

Curious345:
If I want to fork 3 different married women everyday in this lagos, I easily can.

NA just to give them the hotel address'. And boom they are at the gate.. Even with wedding ring...

This life no balance..

Abeg where is the "magun"

Hmmm Naso dem dey rush you reach ni

Starz825:
Sometimes I feel like I'm not my dad's child...
No offense to my mum...
Sometimes that thought dey come my mind
What fuels that thought further is that people normally tell me I look Igbo and I'm Yoruba...some say it's like my mum played away match....
Guy..the above doesn't even bother me one bit...na money I dey find... whether na my papa born me or not..he no concern me...

Bluntemperor:
Atiku has nothing to offer Nigeria and is using the money accumulated in different areas, including Customs to brandish the nation and fight dirty.
Here is a man that is always jetting out of Nigeria,from Dubai to London!
What role did he played in other areas of govt that OBJ couldn't trust him,even devoted pages of books on corruption to him.He is another mallam, lurking around the corner and if you look critically,where Dollars were spent in a PDP Convention at Port Harcourt last time,the Naira has gone to the wind,it can only happened in Nigeria,as no Whiteman will debased their National Currency like that!
We should pity Wike and those who are blind, thinking that a Party of 16 years in power, that we couldn't see anything tangible on the ground, should still say' they want power'.
Its just that Buhari is no,no,in comparison under APC!
Both APC and PDP are birds of the same flocks, nothing to offer the happless Nigerians in this dispensation! We need a Divine Intervention!

Aptly said

Both parties are out of it. We've really gone through hell in this buhari regime. I'm glad this buhari regime did opened some people's eyes and sense of reasoning.

Honestly speaking, i still can't imagine APC coming to campaign in the public. Like what will they gonna sell to the masses?

I sincerely wish a new party and fresh blood can sprang up and become president seriously

APC and PDP got absolutely nothing to offer Nigerians