₦airaland Forum

Dogasas:
That guy na clown abeg.. as I see am I just laugh.. balling with 66 thousand lol .. so you have 66k for hand for your mind now you self be baller abi

How could NYSC do such a thing? That's unfair from their end. They ain't considerate to some extent. They ought to have mobilised you guys earlier enough to avoid all these.

I can't imagine what some corp members will go through this period, with just a month allowance. Especially those from poor homes

This is not fair seriously

If you know you gonna apply for this gather here now

nans24:
Bros simp, no lady deserve anything.

Look the girl well, this wan dey open nyash for mechanic o, or u think say to repair keke dey easy?

which kind person you be guy?

You better change this your mentality towards girls. Don't let your past or environment define your sense of reasoning

effort1:
People should stop hyping this "graduate" nonsense.

Because you graduate from a university doesn't mean you are employable.

The quality of education in Nigeria has fallen drastically.

Many so-called graduates bribed lecturers and paid their way through before they could graduate.

Many even slept with lecturers to pass.

So, being a graduate doesn't mean shiit anymore these days.

Imagine a university graduate that doesn't know the meaning of NYSC, JAMB, PPA, or even POP. Yet he/she would call him/herself a graduate.

Many of the graduates out there can't defend their certificates and that's an uncomfortable fact.

Aptly said

You are absolutely right

Though that doesn't cut accross board. We still had graduates who knows her onion, yet no job in sight

I'm a graduate who came out top of his class. I can defend my result anywhere in the world. Possibly, any part of the planets. I'm in my mids 20s, unemployed and broke (3 punishment only me )

There are many other unemployed and underemployed graduates littered all over the space (Nigeria)

No doubt, majority bagged her degree through back door. Nonetheless, there are graduates who definitely followed due process but weren't opportuned to land a descent job after school.


God help us.

djseanjohn77:
Until you get out, you may never know what you are into. I earn about 1.5m or more depending on the exchange rate, by the time you pay bills, over 200k rent, etc (you can guess how depleted that is already), and then send money to families, friends etc ( something you must do once you are outside), you will pray if you had 400k job Nigeria is better. Home is always a better place, especially if you are from Lagos like me, I don't know of any other place, as long as you have a good pay job. I am an Environmentalist on a govt. project.

Aptly said

I'm also an environmentalist who came out top of the class. A fresh graduate, who's based in Lagos. Please sir can you help me with a job, be it partime or fulltime?

Thanks

Slinkspec:
Please who knows if neco has increased the amount/stipend for marking

how much were they paying before?

Pouvoir3air:
What a shame. We wey go school sef no work, no money. Please check my profile and signature

As in eh!

We wey don graduate, we no see work to take make ends meet.

EmekaA125:
Even UNN and UNIZIK. I think it's due to many applicants they're always having.

UNN had reduced her cut off mark to 180

UI, OAU and UNILAG. these 3 schools will never succumb to anything less than 200

Kobicove:
Why do people still engage in illicit drug trade knowing that it carries severe punishment?!

greediness and the mentality of i must not be poor do make most of them risk it without considering the outcome

MufasaLion:
Women!

Never marry a woman that is too attached to her family. Your marriage will suffer for it.

I'm sure this dude noticed it while courting but he waived it off because they weren't living together yet.

Just sit her down and talk to her. Don't be harsh but be calm and be reasonable with her.

Most importantly, don't let her manipulate you emotionally.

The family she had before she met you? The family who made her what she was? You rather prefer a woman who'd keep her family at arms length because she wants to marry?

A family she's related to by blood and not marriage o ;

Why do men prefer a woman whose family ain't in close contact with her? They are very much active in contact with their own family o, but want a woman to partially discard her own family

Are such men directly/indirectly running away from their responsibility or what?

Or they just want a woman they can easily manipulate or something

No family should be far from their daughters. I repeat no family poor or rich should be far from their daughters

Especially this our naija wey some men dey treat their wife like a piece of shit

Provided she's not cheating on you. She's not abusive verbally and otherwise

She's most likely to reduce her act of benevolence to her family when kids comes in. That doesn't mean she will cut off with them

It's her family by blood. You are her family by marriage

MikaelDare:
Yes
Though small.

Meaning the percentage interest rate is not applicable?

register505:
Hello Nairalanders

I have an issue which has been bothering me lately and I need advice from mature minds. I got married to my beloved wife recently and everything has been going fine. She's such a wonderful woman and a great supporter too

I noticed my wife is too attached to her family. Dad calls everyday, mom calls everyday, brother and sister call almost everyday but that isn't the issue. After all, we are newly married so it's normal for her to still be so attached to them for some while

The issue is that she's too attached to her family financially at the expense of our own pressing needs in the house. I also have my family too but none, down to my younger ones will call to ask me for financial assistance at least for now because they know I need some time to recover as a newly married couple after wedding expenses and all that

My wife keeps sending to her family every now and then for one complain or the other. It's either her brother calls today asking for favour or her sister calls tomorrow asking for favour and she's ever ready too meet these needs. To crown it all, I noticed this behaviour is very common with her mom

I know it's normal to take care of one's family but the way I see the whole thing, she puts her family's responsibility at the forefront and sometimes indirectly utter statements that I should send money to them

I'm a man who knows how to take care of my home and I handle all responsibility of the family- rent, feeding, utility bills and everything which is the normal duty of a man but the issue is that my wife doesn't always feel pressed to assist me in a little way. Things like "dear, let me add N1,000 to the N20,000" but when her family calls and complains about something, she sends money immediately or later. When her siblings or parents call, the call will most probably end with her saying "I'm going to send it". In a span of three weeks now, she has sent money to them more than 8 times

The summary of everything I'm saying is that her money stays in her pocket or either goes to her family while all my own money is used to finance us

PS: she wasn't like this before we got married. She used to be supportive but everything changes after marriage, and if my guess is right, she was given a wrong orientation into the marriage by her family

Please how do I handle this maturely? Should I complain to her my displeasure about it or continue to see it as a normal thing at this early stage of us?

And please, mods, I don't want this on the front page

since you have the financial muscles to take care of your new family then you shouldn't be bothered about how she gives her family money

This is her family. She definitely knows almost if not virtually everything about them. Though the siblings might be taking advantage of her. But nonetheless, this is her first family, her siblings, mother. Blood bond them together not marriage

She will definitely change as soon as you guys start having kids. She will most definitely reduced her incessant giving to her family. It's just a matter of time

Just encourage her to have some savings regardless her benevolence to her family

Like i said earlier, provided you ain't incapacitated as a man to look after your family. Provided you are up and doing as a man. Then, there's no cause for alarm.

excellence44:
Please reverse the whole scenario and let's assume the woman is the one complaining about husband's benevolence to his ext. family. What would your advice be?

Please how is that possible?

It's a man's duty to look after his family (financially and otherwise) why reversing nature?

MikaelDare:
Have you contacted their customer support?
Please do so of you haven't.

is there interest if someone save for just 2 months?

lovemaths:
There is none. They have a centre at Iyana isolo

Ok. Please do you know the school/centre name for iyano isolo?

Thanks

Drmkast:
BABA PEOPLE DEY DIE OF HUNGER OOO NO SAY THAT OO..NO B NAIJA WE DEY SOME CANT EVEN AFFORD 1 DOLLAR MEAL PER DAY

I myself i can't afford a dollar food per day

Though hunger doesn't necessarily kill directly per say. But not eating healthily kills

Malnutrition had been a leading factor of death in Nigeria, especially children under age 5

lovemaths:
No. I live at Ojo. There are no NECO centres there. We have a WAEC centre at Ojo aeea

Alright

Please do you know any closest centre to Ojo?

I reside along Badagry environ

Thanks

Chuky7:
I did once. My uncle rubbished it that it wasn't feasible. he said I should go back to school that I have learnt nothing.
But now that same idea (through it took a while) was my first major cash out and placed me where I am.

Congratulations for your breakthrough

lovemaths:
NECO centres are different from that of WAEC
Some subjects have different centres in Lagos. I usually mark data processing at Command Day Secondary school, Maryland. Last year they started marking data processing at Iyana Isolo.

interesting


Please do you have any idea about Ojo, Badagry and Amuwo-odofin marking centres?

Thanks

Dahunsipaul:
Lol I did Nysc in one south south state and I smash 10+ girls there and net total of all I spent no reach 20k
It’s not about the money actually
You fit de try spend sef make you no see pata
Na just Sense
Well added advantage
I be doctor
Haha

Baddest doctor

Cutehotnerd001:
So which party do you suggest to us?

Anything outside APC and PDP

paris10:
Hey guys, looking for a brilliant academician who'll be able to attend online degree in Psychology. Course is 3 yrs. You'll be paid handsomely.

Side note: Contractor is an excellent student but doing their Masters, hence, not available for this. They'll also know if you're not up to task or not. You must maintain at least 85-90% grade for each modules.

Interested?

Inbox or email me. Courses start September.

Thanks

is this offer still available?

Miller232:
Everything scatter scatter

Poor man dey suffer suffer

Ngige had stopped picking your calls kwa

This is the height of it all. Me calling you repeatedly, non stop without response nor returning my calls for days

That's uncalled for, barbaric, rude and unpatriotic of his duty and the nation as a whole

What do the FG takes these professors for sef? Turning them left, right and centre

Anyway, they all worked hand in hand to put the president in office

Adakintroy:
Akwa ibom but base In Lagos.

Wooooow! I love your patriotic spirit

Which part of Lagos do you base?

Adakintroy:
I only respond to a subject where you highlight the banking sectors as doing better than the health. It was a reply to your own take so to speak and it was coming from a place of encouragment not disrespect.

But it's clear now that's not what we are talking about. Just condescension.

For a start you not up there you down there below. I never disrespected anyone. I only responded to post of those who have gone out and start throwing shades at their country for no reason. They started the rubbish.

Again i say it people like you are weak. I mean it and this time am not sorry. The America was fought through by men. Like Luther. Some of which payed the ultimate price. Your kind are free loafers. You Waite for real men to do the hard work and you profit. You like women in thinking. That's why I called you out as weak.

If you want to travell do so but shut your mouth about disrespecting the country. Because na only bastards de stand afar off point him papa compound with left.

Are you a Yoruba guy?

Edusouls:
Typical Nigerian mentality everyone wants to be rich, who forced you into studying medicine at the first place? And who even told you doctor is a profession that makes you rich? It’s a profession that calls for human services and not riches, blacks are one kind human beings, always thinking of money, that’s why we are chronically poor..

So Aptly

We worship money so much

I had a conversation with some guys in my neighbourhood about this money money money issues of a thing in this country.

We got to a point in the middle of our conversation about marriage. I was surprised they had this same mentality about money money money. They blatantly said they'll advised their sisters to go for rich guys irrespective of the source of their income. Whether he's mentally stable or not, whether he's impotent or not, whether he's a ritualist or not, whether he loves her or not. Provided he has cool cash they don't care

I just weak

lafiagi007:
I don't understand, you mean one Congo/measure/mudu of beans is being sold for 3k?

I guess so. A paint

Peppysco:
I swear, na only mumu or foolish people go believe this your lie

Adakintroy:
Everyone is caught up by the greedy bugg. Banking sector don't pay better than health. You just not figured your sectors out intelligently. Every institution is viable. As long as there are sick people and dieing people and birth.. doctors will always be relevant and they are far relevant than bankers. But you should look inwards within your structures. I feel those stealing from you are mainly amongst your Institutes. Not the government politicians per say.


If you read for many decades and you can't figure how to outwit and get what you want from semi agbero politicians, but choose to turn and run then the stupidity is on you and no one else. Am sorry but am not. We taking like men now. Or maybe they are getting help from withing your ranks fellow highly rank doctors. Either ways. It's not the politicians it you.


You need doctors with warrior hearts to fight for you even in your profession. Weaklings will always act out their first instinct at the sight of trouble. Which is turn and run to safety.

This same thing was attempted October 20th 2021 by Nigerians harmless youths. What was the outcome?

Our major problem in this country are religious, multi-ethnicity and poverty

UDUJ:
And you are having suicidal thoughts because of this? What are they feeding these young guns of nowadays sef

Dude get up and go make it right with your family. They gave you life, they can't kill you. Desist from whatever made you to falter. Bad friends - cut them all off. Take your life back and stop wallowing in this shameful self pity. Grow some balls.

They aren't to be blame at times. Their parents/guidians probably got it wrong at a point of nurturing them. The parents/guidians are not to be blamed also. Afterall, there are parents who provided everything for their child/ren/wards and they all turn out well

Nevertheless, parents should educate their wards on finances. Teach them prudency, learn a skill, volunteer et al

Raise kids that would resist peer pressure at sight, that won't succumb to social media affluence, whose environment will not be a determinant factor and many more

lovemaths:
You will only be allowed to mark geography.

Thanks

Please do you know the marking centres for Lagos?

Do NECO uses same location as that of WARC?

Thanks in anticipation