Heads:

@vvvjustice
your words are really encouraging.The blisters come like every 6 months.They r not very severe. Infact he doesn't even know they are there sometimes. They appear around the pubis,on the scrotal sac and the buttocks;none on the penile shaft itself.

Everything seems fair enough except that he doesn't sometimes realise that the blisters are present, and this unfortunately put you at risk. But you have nothing to worry about, all you have to do is to check and avoid contact with the blisters so you won't be conterminated with the contagious fluid: It's also an added advantage that the blisters do not appear on his pen'is.
Note: Herpes does not kill, it does not even make a person ill neither does it pose any threat to one's body function nor does it affect one's physical or anatomical system, just the itching (and only during outbreaks)

uwayemen2k:

please i need your help brethren!!!!!!!!!!!
i was refused entry clearance to uk for student visa!!
the ECO's erred that he carefully examined my dip certifikate and sure is not geniune
"as set out in a separate verificatn report." ,
brethren that is my qualifikatn, please what do i need to do!!!!!?
somebody help fast!!!!

thanks,
uwayemen2k

    Me too, i know some Greek, but this King James Version one is beyond my comprehension .

Heads:

@vvvjustice.
Thanks for the further enlightenment. But you didnt offer any definite advice. To be more candid, my boyfriend has herpes. He only recently told me. We've not been sexually active. I really care about him but I'm afraid of the implications of herpes,especially with respect to pregnancy. Put yourself in my shoes.

   My advice is, you don't stand at risk of infection as long as you guys do not make genital contacts during herpes-blisters outbreaks, and yet, the outbreaks do not frequently occur.
   He will definitely know when there's outbreak because the itching from the blisters is severe, and scratching is inevitable; and besides, if you're too afraid of it, it will be ok for you to check his genital before allowing contacts, by these practices, you're risk free. More still, (like i said before) you can't get herpes from semen (sperm) or genital fluid. So, it's possible to be with many herpes-carrier men all your life and yet, you won't get infected as long as the fluid from the blisters does not contact your skin.
   How often does he experience the herpes blisters and how severe or slight do they appear in your eyes?

Heads:

@vvvjustice
Thanks for your candid contribution. What do you have to say about marrying someone who has herpes.

   How would you know a herpes carrier when you see one, and how do you know that you're not one yourself?
   You see, herpes is not really a factor many people considered when it comes to marriages: remember that about 25% of people have the virus even though some seldom have its blisters outbreak. While some carriers occasionally experience its outbreaks, there are some that experienced this outbreak just in the initial stages, and then-after, they never experienced it again nor do they realise that what they had was herpes symptoms. So, such people would also carry the herpes virus in their system without any symptoms to show its presence.
   Herpes can appear in various parts of the body and as symptoms of various body disorders: for example, some people experience it on their lips during or after flu condition.
   Genital herpes can not be transmitted from sperm-semen, pen'is or vig'ina fluids, it can only be transfered during outbreaks on the genital skin (when the blisters are present, and when the fluid from these blisters burst out and contact another person's skin).
   So, your question is as good as asking if it is good to marry someone with pruritic papular skin eruption (commonly known as Craw-Craw).

walexy:

Hi good people of nairaland,

I need your support on this little challenge.
I applied for a 6 months renewal of my tourist visa but got 2 years extension from the BHC.
I was not informed to pay d variance between the application fees of 6 months and 2 years.
Hope this action won't generate any issue for me in the future if another renewal is sought.

Secondly, i intend travelling with my wife and kid of a year old now. Here my questions;

*What documents do i need to present on their behalf for the application?
*Do i still need to include my own documents as well?
*Do i need to fill a seperate form for my child?

Kindly guide me through the technicalities involved in the filling of the forms and the documents involved.

thanking you in anticipation of your usual unflinching support and cooperation.

http://www.visa4uk.fco.gov.uk/FAQ.aspx

Get some infos here:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94557.0.html

shawamma:

@vvvjustice

thx

but how can i make use of that ref no to access my info just lie londoncool did
then, what of other places it was quoted can't something be done

send the details to my email henry24all@yahoocom if u sabi

thx 4 all

   Track it here:
https://www.vfsglobal.org/ApplicantStatus.aspx

shawamma:

@vvvjustice

I need you to assist me to delete my application ref no; it was mistakenly quoted
please do me the favour as you said

DONE

deariekay:

@london cool
@akolawole
@vvv justice(u guys should speak on this topic)

u are guys are great when it comes to advise on travelling.i applied for UK.Visa in june but was refused based on insufficient balance.u see this people,u can never tell with them,i work in a multinational company and met all the required documents requested,-letter of invitation from my friend in uk,he has indefinite stay and the wife is a british citizen,letter of introduction from my company,original marriage cert,tax id,cscs documents,my wedding pics and and my new family pics with my baby,bills from my guy in uk,the wife british passport page,original higher institution cert, with a supprting GTB bank statement showing a credit balance of N294,000. i stated in my application that i will be staying two weeks with 500pounds as my bt. but i was so shocked that this people refused me outwrightly,saying that i had an insufficient balance,that its not advisable going to london spending over 258k(air fair inclusive) on two weeks journey,i guess its none of their problem,but i need your advise on this because i will packaging by novemeber again.
i will be much obliged to receive a professional advise from u guys.i am not desperate about travelling,but i wouldnt like to be refused second time.u can mail me on waheedey@yahoo.canada or send me text on 07030094999

warm regards

kay

igbogolo:

A collegue of mine was denied visa on such flimsy grounds. he had like 280k in his current account. He then ''inflated'' his account to 500k and reapplied. He was told that the money in his account was too much!!
The visa officers take rather irrational decisions on visa applications from Nigeria. They just take time to poke us in the face.
If I were you, I will APPEAL. That shows seriousness and also seals your genuinity.
If u reapply soon, u may appear desperate to travel hence their decision might be justified in denying you the visa in the first instance!
And if you must appeal, please request for a hearing. Your friend may represent you in the tribunal. Since you are not ''desperate'' to travel, I'm sure u might survive the time it takes for the appeal to sail through.
this is my bit sha,

Goodluck!

   It helps to learn to prepare defence before venturing to lunch attack. The refusal decision is not "flimsy" as you put it, but rather logical. You don't expect the ECO to issue a visa with such bank statement of which the balance amount is barely enough for the entire expenses. Or, would you travel abroad and return back financially broke?
   Now, see it from the ECO point of view; What is N294.000 for a real holiday maker? Think about this.

mekaboy:

A Young mans Destiny is astake, please advice!


A young Nigerian guy, finished secondary school years back, could not afford the university, was sent to serve an uncle in business for 6 years, after the six years the uncle decides to settle him with cash as usual, the young boy says he wants to travel to london to school, instead of accepting the sum of 2million naira, which is (8,000pounds) . Now his secondary school friend who is studying in london from a wealthy family is telling him to come that he will make through school.

Now he finds a college in uk that offers a university degree, in the 3rd year, the fee is 3000pounds a year, now if he pays that and ticket, by the time he gets to london, he will have about 4000pounds left on him, this could take care of his accomodation for a while, some people advice him to go outside london, that london is quite expensive, some say he can get more employment opportunities in london.

some tell him to invest that money in business that he can never make it through school while working as a student, that students are allowed to work 20hrs a week and there is no way he can pay his fees and take care of his living from that.


Please your advice is highly needed. is the risking of traveling to uk with 4000 pounds as a student worth it?

Whether in the UK, Nigeria or even in Rwanda, there's nothing compared to sound education, not even a multi-million Naira investment.
But you haven't started worrying about obtaining the visa, you're talking about survival in the UK?

Sure, i can, but your email address is withheld. . .

Ayomifull resides in Ireland, even if she applies for a UK visa from Nigeria, she can obtain it with relative ease as though someone is purchasing a concert ticket.
   I know people who obtained the UK visa with partial (incomplete) documents since they legally reside and work in Ireland. Besides, many people don't just use visas since there are often no boarder control between the (northern Ireland-Belfast) UK territory and the Republic Of Ireland.
  So, don't assess your application based on her account, there are stringent regulations when it comes to applying for visa as a Nigerian residence.

shawamma:

@london cool
. . .i am freaking out on how you knew my name & about the school i applied for
pl what could be my chances

   Are you so naive, weren't you the one who posted your private information on this quote below?

shawamma:

@8ball

Thank you for your calming words and encouragement i appreciate

i sent to the embassy email yesterday an this is their reply to me just like what i thought

see below:

13 August 2008

LAG/*******
Dear Sir,

Thank you for your email dated 13 August 2008.

Please be informed that we are currently conducting checks/enquiries on this application.

Once all checks are completed and a decision is made, the docket would be returned to the courier point for collection.


Yours faithfully,

TA
Correspondence unit
Visa section

i am a little bit relieved but still scared

  I can do you a favour, i will delete the reference number by request, but you might need to also modify your posts and take off any private information, it's up to you, though.
   You'll find it here:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-159239.0.html
                            Post #5

If anyone wishes to ask questions, let him/her ask the questions that are meaningful, don't just ask questions because it is free to do so. Someone will soon ask how many pages are there in his own passport

femigirl:

Vikiviko,

other nairalanders have told us not to trust
Sienna is this guy trust worth

   Who told us not to trust whom on what ground?

Siena:

Lol! So, when are you moving from Ireland to Afghanistan?

When i'd be ready to say badbye to planet Earth

Siena:

It's really hot out there, gunshots make sweet music!

Oh, you're so kind to have excluded bomb-blasts.

Siena:

^{You won't need a house warming.}

Unfortunately, the cave houses aren't that warm, the streets are warmer with fire-balls from explossions.

Afghanistan

Good. But i'm not going to congratulate you because, i can judge that you properly deserve a study visa.

O.Y:

[size=8pt]vvvjustice its like u are a visa guru ,

i need to ask a question. my uncle is sponsoring me for my studies in uk . what convising reson can u tell me for him sponsoring me . please help me because i need this as soon as possible . thats[/size]

O.Y:

i have posted his several times but no reply please try to share your views with me niaralanders.please.

my question is :my uncle is my sponsor .what document can i bring to really show that he is my uncle .and what would the reson for him sponsoring me be.
i don't have any pictures of my uncle and i . please treat as urgent i really need your ideas, just send me a reply please

   You have only 2 posts, and you said you've posted your quarries several times? Yeah, i understand
   Well, your quarries aren't ignored, it's just that the questions have been repeatedly answered over and over, and over again;
   Take a look at posts #916, #922 and #925 to mention but a few.

IncaGold:

@vikiviko and vvvjustice,
out of curiousity what if the poster's uncle bears a different last name (like in my immediate family we bear our dad's first name) or maybe my paternal uncle bears a different name because he changed his name (e.g got born again and changed name from Falana to Jesulana, or Fayose to Jesuyose). My point is, a paternal uncle can be using a different last name, so what can be done in such a situation.

cheers,

   Very good question. . .
   Remember, we're in the 21th century: Gone are the days when many things are being ignored or pardoned for lack of documentation; Now, everything (especially in developed world) needs not just paper-work, but computer works.
   So, if there is any change of name(s), then, there should be documention to indicate so. Any authentic document that declares Change-Of-Name(s) should also show the previous or original name(s), anything order than this is not acceptable.

Busy_body:

What do you mean she is a woman and is not compatible Am I seeing what I am seeing Anyway, I still love you though for repping your sexuality . No wonder you love those European countries so much, their vast range of finger-licking bratwurst and weistwurst are second to none. Stand tall and stand proud bro.

   Dear, what do you expect, what should i say ? Honestly, it's not about me, that i said "i wonder how compatible things would be", but rather for her convenience. How many women, (married ones) would feel safe or comfortable staying with a man, (a strange one) in a new country ?
   Some time before, i offered to assist someone in similar quest, but what did i get? Reviling accusations.
Check the Post #39 at the address below and see the generated reactions of the quote below:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=134494.msg2273613#msg2273613
                                  Post #39

Vicjustice:

   Do you really want to travel to Nigeria, do you have a host or a guide there?
   If not, i can host you: though i live in Dublin, but i'm frequently in Nigeria, and if however i'm scheduled to be in Europe or Canada at the time of your visit, i can alternatively make adequate arrangement for you by my younger brother.
   If you have a better plan, then it's well. But if you buy my idea, then let me know and i'll contact you via email.
   Ultimately, if you don't feel it's safe or if you don't think it's an ideal, then FORGET IT.

Thank you, Ayomifull, you're a true brother/sister's keeper. Honestly, i thought of being of help too, but she's a woman, and i wonder how compatible things would be.

femigirl:

Visa Gurus, i have two  questions,  one of  my  family friend  members i am sponsoring  was  decline a  visting visa. But  it  really strange  because  she only went into  the office  to  enquire why she  had  not  heard anything after  20 days. She  was  given the passport  back and  said  declined. I have never  received a call fromm any ECO and  no paper work.There  was  no  interview, is this correct?

if  this  is  correct, can  she  appeal

   YES, this is correct. Interview is only necessary when the Visa Officer is not able to assess a visa application and reach a decision; in such instance, the Officer might call for an interview. But in a situation whereby the Officer is able to assess a visa application, a decision could be taken (even instantly) without interview.
   If she's given the rights of appeal, then she can, but in other instances, i'm afraid she can't appeal

rurffy:

[size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt]hello room i am using by uncle as my sponsor for student visa .

my question is :what document can i bring to really show that he is my uncle .and what would the reson for him sponsoring me be.
i don't have any pictures my uncle and i . please treat as urgent i really need your ideas, just send me a reply please [/size][/size][/size][/size]

   If indeed he's your uncle, then he must have the same sur-name with you, and if he's from your mother side, he should have same family/nee name as your mother; so, a corresponding document showing his surname is enough evidence that he's your uncle since you're also required to fill in your mother's (maiden) surname which will correspond with that of your uncle.
   As for the reason for his sponsorship, that's up to you and your uncle; it's the same thing as asking someone to advice you on the reason YOU have a mobile phone or the reason YOU eat food

Brownbonno seems to be more accurate with these informations provided about Ireland.
Perhaps you can get some more infos here:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-94557.0.html

lopelope:

vvvjustice,you are somebody i respect through your post.I was never dishonest in anyway,just that i should have clear myself b y appealling and now i want to join my spouse.

   Pardon me for that remark, and thanks for your polite respond. But you didn't open up or give comprehensive details of the case, so, it would be difficult to advice or suggest solutions.
   However, like Brownbonno stated, your case is somehow similar to that of tolapo's. Read though pages 26 (from post #815) to 28, i suppose the contents will concern you, and if anything else, feel free to state it here. Cheers

Modo, but why don't you try any of these free international dating websites? If you're lucky enough you can meet a girl of your desire in any of these:
www.plentyoffish.com
www.smooch.com
www.super.lv
www.frype.com
etc?

brownbonno:

@lopelope,
All EC cases are handle on its individual merit.Since you are economical with your information,i will advice you to go through Tolapo case which is similar to your situation.
Wish you the best.

Is it just economical, i smell some dishonesty, though