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 Music/Radio › Re: How Do Radio And T.V Stations Make Money? by waleadex(m): 7:17pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Basically,it's through advert. |
| Properties › Re: Amazing Architectural Drawings And Building Plans by waleadex(m): 6:16pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
money121: Batlan quality step tiles roofing sheet .we are sure of our product and quality you want to confirm? No problem.This is cool and very helpful. 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: Yvonne Nelson Arrives London For Her 28th Birthday Celebration Tommorrow by waleadex(m): 11:59pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
Good for her! |
| Events › Re: Pictures From Deji Falae's Funeral Service by waleadex(m): 6:54pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
It's really sad...RIP |
| Events › Re: Pictures From Deji Falae's Funeral Service by waleadex(m): 6:48pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
Willgates: I made a similar thread! What's d criterion for making a front page sef?Technicalities and mods interest... |
| Nairaland General › Re: Useful Tips That Can Help Conquer Shyness. by waleadex(op): 5:20pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
Emmyk: You remind me of that movie.To be honest, I did know there's a movie with that title. |
| Celebrities › Re: I'm Disappointed Tiwa Savage Is Desperate & Getting Married To A Married Man by waleadex(m): 9:28am On Nov 14, 2013 |
@ OP you need to do some more researches to know how this dude has been so helpful in her career. Sometime ago,she was describing how nice the dude is to her and suddenly she burst into tears. Besides,they have been together for a long time now,hence her decision to marry her. We all know how celebrity marriages crash even in months,so Tiwa might have concluded in her mind no better man could have come than this man. Also,age is not on her side. As for the dude being married,separated,divorced or whatever,this is Nigeria and it may surprise you that the woman the dude was married to is now another man's wife. So? 4 Likes |
| Family › Re: Need A Fueless, Noiseless And Smokeless Power Gen? by waleadex(m): 4:41am On Nov 14, 2013 |
Ok kingviny: Yes, both the inverter and a 200 ah fairly new battery (good condition). Call and let's schedule how you can pick it if your demand is effective. The only other monies to spend is transport and installation (which might be free if it a simple installation) |
| Nairaland General › Re: Etisalat Mast Power Generator Causing A Nuisance by waleadex(m): 2:40pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
Pls OP,it's may sound funny but cat you get us the picture showing the terrain? With this I can be able to advise you pretty well on what to do. Besides,legal battle may not be helpful to you as I don't know who you are in terms of hiring legal instruments to substantiate your case. Meanwhile,get the CDA people well informed.I am sure their support will go a long way. Someone in my area is not compaining because he enjoys 24hrs power supply. |
| Family › Re: How Will You React If Your Wife Slaps You? by waleadex(m): 2:30pm On Nov 13, 2013 |
kensto: I was having an argument with my wife over an issue which she was at fault. I angryly left the house to cool temper. I later came back and asked for my food ,she ignored me. I went to the kitchen to take my food, opened the pot to take the food. She came from where she was staying walked to the kitchen and closed the pot and then slapped me saying "how dare you touch my pot". I just stood there for some minutes wondering what i would do to her. Please tell me what to do.Well,if truly you didn't retaliate,you had displayed a strong maturity. I don't care who at this time fends for the family,the man still remains the head of the family and as such he deserves some respects from his wife.There are so many ways to advise in this kind of situation as the following factors come into consideration : - age - how friendly you guy are - personal reasoning - who is more supportive in the family - tolerance level of both - environment etc. Honestly,because I am married,I have a long list but won't want to bore you @ all. My wife of 15yrs,with 4kids,never slapped me before.In fact,I am just 6months older than her and we started early. It's because we share true love. We also realise that we can err at anytime and we discuss solutions ahead of any crisis. When she gets expressively crossed,I go as far as begging her in front of kids and she smiles,it's then settled. If on my part,she does same and sometimes,I call her myseld on the phone to demand her to say 'sorry',then the smiles come up again. @ OP and question,I advise you call her at night and let her realise you're so displeased with what she did,I am sure she will apologise. And if there are ways you go wrong in making her mad at you pls amend your ways.And pls don't ever raise your hands on her because I won't do same to my wife. 3 Likes |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Black Man Wrongly Convicted Released After 34 Years In Prison by waleadex(m): 5:35am On Nov 12, 2013 |
So sad... |
| Nairaland General › Re: Useful Tips That Can Help Conquer Shyness. by waleadex(op): 5:27am On Nov 12, 2013 |
spicy244: Nice one. I'm actually a shy type. hope it will help М̣̣̥̇ε̲̣̣̣̥Just try some of the tips and see the result... |
| Nairaland General › Re: Useful Tips That Can Help Conquer Shyness. by waleadex(op): 5:26am On Nov 12, 2013 |
meetmonde: I think most persons who are shy are afraid of point 12. So they tend to keep to themselves.. Another reason could be how they grew up.. Mayb a wicked aunty or step-mum made dem to alwayx want to keep to themselves... The list goes on but whatever life style suits u, enjoy the kind of life. Besides some trip for u being like datJust like you pointed,up-bringing really matters. |
| Nairaland General › Useful Tips That Can Help Conquer Shyness. by waleadex(op): 4:39am On Nov 12, 2013*. Modified: 5:25pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
A whole lots of people have really suffered immensely in various aspects of life all because they are too shy. Their actions and ways especially in public places are often misinterpreted for being too proud or not having interest in what is glaring to be involved in. For instance,you are in a gathering of young people about your age and you hardly speak at all, you may be seen as "forming";and that's trouble. If your friend runs to your defense and says that you are "just shy", then that is the only time some sets of people will understand. However,the question is; what if there's no friend or sibling to defend you? What do you do? How do you handle your shyness and not be seen otherwise? Here are some helpful tips : 1. Understand Your Shyness Seek to understand your unique brand of shyness and how that manifests in your life. Understand what situation triggers this feeling? And what are you concerned with at that point? 2. Turning Self Consciousness into Self Awareness Recognise that the world is not looking at you. Besides, most people are too busy looking at themselves. Instead of watching yourself as if you are other people, bring your awareness inwards. 3. Find Your Strengths We all have unique qualities and different ways of expressing ourselves. It’s important to know and fully accept the things we do well, even if they differ from the norm. If everyone was the same, the world would be a pretty boring place. 4. Learn to Like Yourself Practice appreciating yourself and liking the unique expression that is you. Write a love letter to yourself, do things you enjoy, give gratitude for your body and its effortless functions, spend quality time getting to know yourself, go on a self-date. 5. Not Conforming Trying to fit in like everyone else is exhausting and not very much fun. Understand that it is okay to be different. Accepting your unique qualities can set you free. 6. Focus on Other People Rather than focusing on your awkwardness in social situations, focus on other people and what they have to say. Become interested in learning about others, and probe them to talk about themselves. You can try pondering the question while interacting: What is it about this person that I like? 7. Releasing Anxiety through Breath Anxiety and fear can feel overwhelming if you are practising to become more assertive in order to overcome this fear. One simple technique to calm this anxiety into manageable bites is taking deep breaths with your eyes closed, while concentrating on just your breaths. Inhale and exhale slowly while clearing out all thoughts. 8. Releasing Anxiety through Movement With this,you ease of the tension or pressure of gathered thoughts in you. 9. Visualisation Visualising yourself in the situation as a confident and happy person helps to shape your perception of yourself when you are actually in the situation. 10. Affirmation Words can carry incredible energy. What we repeatedly tell ourselves, gets heard by our unconscious mind, and it acts accordingly. 11. Do Not Leave an Uncomfortable Situation When we leave shy situations, what we are really doing is reinforcing our shyness. Instead, face the situation square in the face. Turn the fearful situation into a place of introspection and personal growth. 12. Accept Rejection Accept the possibility that we can be rejected and learning to not take it personally. Remember, you are not alone and we all experience rejections. 13. Relinquish The Act Of Being Perfect When we compare ourselves, we tend to compare ourselves with the most popular person in the room or we compare ourselves with celebrities we see on TV. We set excessive expectations by comparing ourselves unreasonably to people unlike ourselves and wonder “why can’t I be that?” 14. Stop Labelling Yourself Stop labelling yourself as a shy person. You are you, you are unique, and you are beautiful. Can’t we just leave it at that? 15. Practice Social Skills Like any other skill, social skills can be cultivated through practice and experience. The more you put yourself out there, the easier it becomes next time. If you have a hard time knowing what to say, you can practice what to say ahead of time. 16. Practice Being in Uncomfortable Situations Sometimes, it is not the social skills we lack, but rather the lack of self confidence that we may succeed, and a heightened fear that we will fail. 17. The Three Questions During social settings where you may experience nervousness, periodically ask yourself the following three questions. Doing so will distract yourself from more self-destructive thoughts. Make it your mantra: Am I breathing? Am I relaxed? Am I moving with grace? 18. What is Comfortable for You? Going to bars and clubs isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. Understand what feels comfortable for you, and find people, communities and activities which bring out the best in you. 19. Focus on the Moment When you are having a conversation, forget about how you look, focus on the words, fall into the words, become absorbed in the words. The tones. The expression. Appreciate it and give gratitude for it. 20. Seek and Record Your Successes As you overcome this condition we label as shyness, you will have many wins and realisations about yourself. You will gain insights into the truth behind social scenarios. 1 Like |
| Crime › Re: 100 Kidnappers Face Death-Penalty In Edo by waleadex(m): 10:05am On Nov 11, 2013 |
We really do need coordinated efforts to deal with the problem of crime in Nigeria. Let them all be be properly tried/prosecuted and let the law takes its place. |
| Family › Re: Need A Fueless, Noiseless And Smokeless Power Gen? by waleadex(m): 9:17am On Nov 11, 2013 |
Hi,with the 70k do you mean all is set? Or is there any more money to spend? Pls do let me know. Thanks! |
| Politics › Re: Amaechi To Buhari, Tinubu: I Won’t Defect From PDP Without Consulting Jonathan by waleadex(m): 12:21am On Nov 11, 2013 |
iykofias: 4rm a neutral point of view,I see amaechi joining APC. Ds a man dat has accumulated more influence n pulic sympathy than Jonathan & co. Wot r d odds of two captains in a ship? Zero!Well,only time will tell as political events unfold. All I pray for is a better Nigeria. |
| Politics › Re: New PDP Constitutes A 6-man Committee To Receive 5 New Governors by waleadex(m): 11:41pm On Nov 10, 2013 |
The question is - "how far will this nPDP go?" |
| Politics › Re: New PDP Constitutes A 6-man Committee To Receive 5 New Governors by waleadex(m): 11:40pm On Nov 10, 2013 |
The question is; how far will this nPDP go? |
| Politics › Re: Amaechi To Buhari, Tinubu: I Won’t Defect From PDP Without Consulting Jonathan by waleadex(m): 11:34pm On Nov 10, 2013 |
With or without all things in place,I still don't think,in reality,Amaechi will join APC. 1 Like |
| Music/Radio › Re: What Are Your Favorite Songs Of 2013 By Nigerian Artistes? by waleadex(m): 8:29am On Nov 10, 2013 |
Wiz-Prince:
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| Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan's PHD Thesis Deposited Online And Accessible Worldwide by waleadex(m): 11:08pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Don't forget this is Nigeria where Archiving or Database Usage is below 5%. A country where an ex-convict you are sure of can arguably tell you he was never in court  . In other words,you can't have his thesis online,not even this time. 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: Fans Blast Tiwa Savage On Wedding Restriction by waleadex(m): 10:56pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
They sure have their reasons for wanting a 'low-key' event,but making it public that those not invited shouldn't come is like passing insults across which may not even be intentional. Ofc,no reasonable and occupied fans will go there uninvited. Plus,what's with this 'celebs and twitter' these days?  |
| Entertainment › Re: World’s Thinnest And Bravest Person? Meet Girl, 24, Who Weighs 27 Kg, Has To Eat by waleadex(m): 10:17pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Allah alone is the All-knowing,the Most-merciful...I am indeed touched! 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: Annie Idibia Shares A Cute Photo As She Travels Abroad To Have Her Baby by waleadex(m): 8:02am On Nov 09, 2013 |
All the best Annie! |
| Autos › Re: Affordable Original Honda Car Parts. by waleadex(m): 11:31pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Plus,how much is the gear box for the 2000model Odyssey? |
| Autos › Re: Affordable Original Honda Car Parts. by waleadex(m): 11:28pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Hi sir,a friend of mine has 2000model of Odyssey. The transmission jacks from gear1 to gear2 and selects well from 2 to 3 to 4. What's likey to be done? We will like to buy stuffs from you. Thanks! |
| Celebrities › Re: Mavin Boss Don Jazzy Shows Off His N70M Porsche Carrera GTS [PHOTO] by waleadex(m): 9:42pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
fckyourman: Haba Bros the car na 13million brand new from USA.I tire o |
| Islam › Re: Pig Fat In Shoprite Bread? by waleadex(m): 6:31pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Alameen@3:Thanks brother! |
| Islam › Re: Pig Fat In Shoprite Bread? by waleadex(m): 6:29pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
DaPilgrim:Don't get him wrong,those slaughtered to death(are allowed) not natural death. 1 Like |
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