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Lexusgs430: I knew I was in a relationship with the right person, I had educationally achieved a reasonable level, I could 100% bear the expense of my wedding celebration, I could maintain and sustain a marital home.
I had attained a level of maturity, sense of compromise and loads of African love to give (no flowers).
14 years and 3 kids later and still waxing strong !!!

First mature comment,
Thank you!

As for me, its still work in progress, although iv been able to sieve the possible ladies in my life i might get married to, its becoming hard relegating one of them, I'm sure when I do, I'll get married.

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Munalove: ok lets just pretend its true but its a lie rite?

Phew!
I give up!

Want her number so you can have your share?

safarigirl: Being born into a society such as the Nigerian one connites certain things for a female.

From the day you can tell your right from your left, you're basically taught to be subservient to men. You're told that your place is in the kitchen and your brothers' place is in front of the television. Most of all, you're told that your only purpose in this world, is to fulfill the desires of some dude, serve him and bear his children. You are not to aspire for anything more and failure to live up to these expectations means failure as a person.

Well, this thread was inspired by a certain thread that was on FP today:

https://www.nairaland.com/1911041/why-nigerian-girls-should-not

Now, the stupidity of this thread is baffling. Basically, it's some lady telling females to settle for less. Telling us that we do not deserve the best and we shouldn't make any efforts to aspire for such because that would be foolhardy.

I honestly sympathise with her that she was unable to get the man of her desires, and eventually chose to settle for Plan B, who in fact was not what she desired, but as they say, when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable.

Time and again on Nairaland you find numerous chauvinists telling women basically that they have no opinion, telling us that we ought to dance skelewu because one of these rare species called 'men' looked upon us with pity and decided to marry us. And for those poor souls like Rita Dominic, Linda Ikeji and Genevieve Nnaji who are yet to be honored witha wedding ring? They should keep praying the rosary and hope they don't die 'marriageless'

Marriage is the be all and end all of a woman, therefore, she must settle for a raggamuffin if she hasn't found a gentleman at the ripe 'OLD' age of 27. Once you're through with University, your next bus stop should be a man's house.

Many women have ended up in loveless, frustrating marriages after settling for less, because all your friends got married after University doesn't mean you must marry at that time. Don't be the one whose story ends with 'Had I Known'

Feel free to live a little, keep your head on your shoulders, walk with your chin up, if you want your man to be as tall as Lebron James, don't settle for Tom Cruise, if you want him to be as charming as Antonio Banderas, don't settle for Al Pacino, if you want him to be as fit as CR7, don't settle for Mr. Ibu. If you must settle for less, let it be reasonable, don't go from a Lebron to a Kevin Hart because you're 'getting old and all your mates are married" no be who marry first dey happy pass.

Even the bible says "ask and it shall be given unto you" so if you tell God "I will manage..." He will bless you with a 'manageable' man.

God bless you as you settle with the best

My pics says it all

Munalove: u gat tym o. U jst put ur thumb 4 ur button they type big lie eh nwoke there is God

Just liked your post!
I know it sounds like a lie, but its fu*king true!

Met ds gurl on mon, asked her out on wed nd she communicated to me she was a virgin which I was ready to keep her virginity, on sat we were at my place kissing and she was pulling her trousers down, I reminded her she was a virgin and she gave a 'if only you knew smile', I got d msg and on sun we started banging, every day after for 2 weeks we were banging minimum 1ce a day, I had to tell her, 'my mum went to see one baba and he said I should not marry a lady from osun' that was how I escaped.
Before I forget, she did not want to see any friend with me, never cared of food, academics or religion.

Ds ws 4yrs ago, now she has a second child and no father.

Dreamer

Eyop: Mr. Wale so you quote the whole topic just to say this

Modified!

Decryptor: I have been an ardent customer of GTB for the past 8yrs and enjoyed their mode of services until recently. I use to read comments (even here on Nairaland) about how they are over-rated and refused to agree to it until recently esp in the area of their online banking services.


GTB...Guarantee Trust Trouble Bank

Common Dude!
How much were you paid to do this negative publicity?
Personally i agree GT is over hyped but will never speak about them this way!

Went to a Isolo Gt branch to update my mandate ,the staff needed to make copy of my ID card and she was like 'Sir, go over there to make 2 copies of this form and your ID' and I was like 'is it my job?' She just went mute and continued with what she was doing, out of frustration I had to make the copies.

GT is a very good bank, but i personally will take a UBA or FBN over them.

UBA ibanking failed me just once which got rectified after 24hrs.

AbuuUthaymeen: Exactly bro Ad-Da'wah skul

Funny thing is, I still dropped Gala wrapper there today!

FlirtyKaren:

http://www.lailasblog.com/2014/09/photo-of-morning-lmao.html

Reping Jakande Estate, Isolo

rahymat: If a guy doesnt propose to u in four years tym u beta leave him because its difficult to bear a child if ure more than 30years old.

What if you start dating the girl from the age of 18 and you just got a job( no accomodation, no job security, no car etc) fairly ok to pay the bills, should they just get engaged because its 4years?

I dint use to have a side chick, but after an experience I had I adopted 2.

Pdizzle: Personally i think if you have a backup chick because of a breakup, you're not a man. For me; one girl at a time, and if all you want is sex get a call girl not a girlfriend, it is emotionally cheaper

Word from the gods

shikshark: sir f.i.r.s recruits directly from abuja and their office is at 13 sokode crescent wuse zone 5 abuja.but if you are going for this particular interview, pls go with mobile police

Thanks

I got this around 8pm, what do you think guys?


INVITATION FOR AN INTERVIEW.
Sequel to our Job Advert you have been shortlisted and invited for a JOB ASSESSMENT @ FIRS ON MONDAY.
VENUE OGUDU GRA(ALAPERE ESTATE) behind Ascon filling station OTUNBA KOLAWOLE STREET plot5,blk3.
job code: xxxxxx
Come along with your credentials.

How authentic?

Personally, I'm of the opinion that a guy should have a lady friend as backup in-case his woman fumbles.
So is the opposite sex permitted to do same?

Your opinions pls

I'm a bit new on the banking job
I guess I'll follow this thread keenly!

Africa's Global Bank......

Batman all da way!

Wealth, Intelligence &Strength

deenee: For thoese who don't know, your bank is charged 65naira anytime a transaction is carried out on another bank's ATM. The CBN has simply transfered the burden to the end user.

Put this way, if you don't want to be charged simply stick to using your own bank ATM. The only people who will bear the brunt of this policy somesault are those who bank with GTB

Pls tell dem o

ITbomb: Live in preferred but must be above 40 years and ugly

She'll steal your household items and take care of her family

Who's toke makinwa?

khadijat88: please guy I received a mail from Gtbank to write aptitude test for 24-07-2014 which is Thursday of this week. so my questions are did anyone also received this mail too for that same day n for u guys that have taken the test before help me with materials to prepare my self or give me tips on how what d
questions will based on please I beg u can send me mail or materials on my gmail account : lakay363@gmail.com

thanks I God bless yeah

Pls how did you apply?

[quote author=]Op I'm an Ikwerre girl, I've not hear of the bolded before. The taboos I've heard of are "Female dogs are not allowed in my community (dont know if its applicable to other parts of Ikwerre) and its forbidden for a guy to use walking stick when he's dad is still alive".[/quote]She's done it on the floor

kennygee: Not yet my dear.

I'm single too!
Wanna hook up?

kennygee: Not yet my dear.

I hope you not 31 yet?

kennygee: 32 maximum o. I am even hoping and praying that God gives me triplets. Two boys and a girl so I will do it once and for all. They even have names already.

Nice one,
Hope you married already?
I pray God grants you your heart desire!

kennygee: It depends on the woman o. Halle berry had a child in her late 40s, my grand ma had her last child when she was 52, believe it or not. My aunt had her last child at the age of 42 and it was a normal delivery.

And you will have your last child at the age of?

Kanwulia: Yes. Please, how shall we proceed?
Just give me the venue and I will show up!

Yipee *dancing skelewu*
I'll see my pastor ASAP and get back to you!
*still dancing skelewu*

jenny2007: Hi house,
I've been a silent follower of this section on
nairaland for a long time, however I have something
that is eating me up in my mind. So here goes:-
My bf and I have been dating on and off for 2years
now. The first time we broke up (last year) he had
cheated on me, I forgave him. We broke up a second
time becos he was upset that I travelled out of the
country on a short break "without him knowing"
according to him (I told him o but he just didn't
want me to go). In the middle of all the fights and
begging him about the trip he uploaded a strange
girl's pix on his dp. My bf is so inlove with himself
that he only uses his personal pix as dp on his
phone so I went into a mad rage and tears when I
saw the lady's picture on his dp. To cut the long
story short, i was so hurt that after a few weeks I
went online, copied a picture of a nigerian male
model (Ngo Okafor) and sent it to my guy and I told
him that the guy in the pix just finished sleeping-
with me now and that he's better that my bf in bed.
We broke up of course. Mind you I have always been
faithfull to him but did this to spite him becos he
had cheated on me before and also flaunting a girl
on his dp. Now, we are reconciled and have been
back together for a year now, however, he keeps
refering to the pix that I sent him when we talk. I'm
dying of guilt and don't know if I should tell him the
truth. Would I look foolish to him? I worry if he would
that I'm lying if I say the truth. Would he think that
I'm desprate to keep him? Pls your thought woulkd
help .

Story that touches

Kanwulia: Please, stop making them to feel 'all important'!
I DO IT MYSELF!
A husband's role is for PROCREATION only.
The rest, I can do FOR/BY MYSELF!

I nor sen am o! Hiahnn!

Will you marry me?