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Talking about "impressional formation".We tend to assume or imaginate in our 'mental realm' the awesomenes and satisfaction we might get when associating or relating with someone due to some external features available or depending on what impress the person.While,in the course of the interaction/association you found out that the latency outcome of the interaction is awful,unproductive and unsatisfactory below whats projected in the mental realm.Hence,man develop a switch personality,in which in the long run will change the impression that was formed in the initial stage.This will later alter his cognitive and behavioural tendency.I think he just want you to give him a space and dont nag or force it.Let him be, he can still'evaluate your worth' then decide his next line of action afterwards.

Jupxter:
By the way congrats to us for a victory well deserved, since the battle over the feminism issue, the issue has died not just on the forum, many ladies are softening their stance over the subject, and it has lost popularity here even win people that seemd to have been in strong support for it...So, congrats to us all.

thats the essence of the enlightment,it has reshape their mentality towards the reality.My man

Jupxter:
Really ! Not bad !

I'll pm you !

ok now.No bad.Thanks

Jupxter:
Yes boss, in between Ajah and Ikeja axis

ehn,thats nice,maybe we hook up next week then.

Jupxter:
Compliments of the season to you and your family boss.

Once in a while remember to check, the world needs sound wisdom form folks like yours. Your contribution makes the world saner ....Have a blessed week Sir....

thanks for the compliment my man.Between,are you in lagos?

Jupxter:
Walepackage, what's up bro. Longest time Sir..

my man,i was carried away with some stuffs.Though,i seldomly check your comments.Thanks to stop by.I hope you are having a swell time and compliment of the season.

The word'true love' is a subjective word',which its existance and definition can only be determine by our social millieu,life experience and perception towards it.Having said that,what is attainable here, may be unattainable there.

Marriage is not only important/achievement but also 'functional' cos its the social unit that serves as the bedrock to the 'societal continual'.Thou,this social institution is gradually loosing its values and roles in our contemporary societies,due to new emerging social facts.These 'facts' makes some to ask the question about/doubt its efficiency and importancy.

It aint work this way man.This world is an individual race.Thou,you can still get help,but edit your topic.Were are you?

Chai.This one just show that she wunt starved her husband to be with sex.Enough kpanshy.Inbetween,i wonder why this sex style, is the best style so far for female folks in the other room.

ogbonti:
Yes lack of sex can make a woman mildly mad with severe mood swings if she is already sexually active.... I mean no sex for like 3 years.. those females criticising her, why not try it n prove her wrong. No be everything be "dem say".. just try it and please be honest enough to tell us what you experienced.

to be candid.There is some element of truth in what she says.Thou in a wrong way,in as much you are 'active' sex plays alot of role in stabilizing and maintaining the behaviour and reasoning of a man.

@op,For you to have friend her from your uni days to service now,means that its not your doing or your habit.Atimes, ladies can push a man to the wall,but never HIT her.Next time,you can just walk out on her for some time or hours in order for you to cool off.Just sit her down and talk to her,let her understand that you aint doing it again,and be remorsefull in your words and deeds.

Jochabed:
O yes they are. You find a girl/boy who is not a virgin advicing his/her virgin friend to loose it,so that the both can be on the same level when it comes to immorality. Pls don't loose your virginity because of peer preasure,your non-v friends know the can never be virgins again,so they will feel better if you join them..DON'T!!

true, many immoral acts are learn through 'friends'.But,in another news some see virgin guys/girls as lack of 'opportunity' or 'chance'.Thou,no big deal about it.Reverse is the case in our contemporary era.

CrescentMoon:
Brained girls you meet online are usually not suited for dating. If they are, I would have landed a dream woman long ago. Benita27's case is not an exception. Just read their inputs and swerve. I'm a man who is always on the lookout for women with vast perspectives about life. After meeting two of these women from nairaland in Lagos, I gave up. Hope to meet a moderate pepper seller in the future.

its true, most of them are 'dogmatic and highly principle' as such they are 'rigid and unromantic' in a relationship.But,if you have an exeptional quality in you,she can also switch or adjust some of her dogma's in order to have a smooth relationship.MAN is a 'social being' we aint static as such personality can be alter or change due to some variant factos irrespective of the 'lady' be it the 'brain lady or pepper seller' as u mentioned aboved.They can be groom,influence and reshape in their view towards a certain phenomena, in as much as you got what it takes.

Michhy123:
I'm in abuja....I don't no palaces to visit....if u are there say hi

where are you in abuja

Ginaz:
That was actually words from a movie scene.

yeah i know.It really depicts wat is going on in the mind of the guy in the pix.

Ginaz:
He is saying. "kiaa! I go put am 4 front, I go put am for back".

chai.You have spoilt finish...

Fidelmalek:
I Preach against negative vibes...i won't be a stimulant to it...
The sooner you learn that nobody has a life here, the sooner your Grey matter thickens...
I'm done replying you...
And oh! It's failed, not fail... Do make sure to take your English classes seriously...
I've given you the attention you need...
Now go play.shalom

you are still a boy.You think i care about attention here just like what you are exhibiting here.Well,keep lamenting and enjoy your juvenile exuberance here.Its allow.Thanks to seun

@Fidelmalek.You are still a boy who needs validation from people on a forum to boost ur ego and lost self.If you talk than on nigeria and blacks because of what you get here.Then you must be a weakling and a shame to were you come from.You think the world revolve around your pathetic and dimwitt soul, to do your bindings.Well,you are stil a boy, keep lamenting and enjoy your attention here,the reality will soon be down on you.A fail scammer.

Fidelmalek:
And just what I've been saying has started in full swing...

you are just an attention seeker boy.I saw your thread yesternight and decided to be mute,but you opening another thread and complaining about the post, shows how much you are enjoining this e-brawl and boosting your deflated ego.Why would a matured guy post his pix for rate.Thou, you are a boy.Thats is the bitter truth swallow it.

I will always go for 2 anyday,anytime

Social media has make it easier for ladies to cheat.They just go on and say "send me your addres and i turn up there",irrespective of them being in a relationship or the supose guy to meet is married,they dont care.I think these set of ladies just want to 'explore'.If you are aiming for serious relationship with her dump her,but if it aint serious then just continue to 'shagg' her.But hey cmon, protect yourself.

Let me in.I love you and i wunt break your heart.

Amarabae:
lie.
A big lie.

do more research on it.You will found out that'feminism' brought about unprecedented outcomes to marital life and relationship,which eventualy leads to highrate of divorce,domestic violence,lesbianism,hatred for man and so forth.These factors are view as threat to social existenciality of human, as such should be curtailed in order to reduce it proliferation in our society before it ruin it.

Feminism is 'evil' in all totality

With this new trend 'feminism' that must of them embrace,without a proper understanding that culture,religion,social millieu plays a vital role in marital life.Even,the so called 'western societies'are still battling with this social menace.May GOD help us from these set of ladies.