₦airaland Forum

folake4u:
You must be mad and have no help

i didnt even dignify that leech to give her responsed.

Try harder man.Who girl friend epp self.

Minjim:
Most of 2pac's songs are inspirational. The dude is a Poet.

Dear Mama
Thug Manson
Do for love
Changes
My Block
Until the end of time
Life goes on

50Cent's 'Big Rich Town' came close.

Coolio 'Gansta's Paradise' and 'See you when you get there.'

Bone Thugs' feat Akon 'I try so hard.'


Those are my inspirational rap attack.

we so much have similarities,mostly on pac's tracks.Keep ur head up.Brenda got a baby.I wonder if heaven got a gettho.Letter to my unborn child and Bleep all yha.

folake4u:
I used to be that girl

thai shall not lie.Maybe you are crushing on their fat/tall pockets.Now you know

@op.Why will you equate 'submissiveness' to slavery in marriage.I doubt if you have first hand information in marital life of this contemporary era, were most of the crucial matters in the family are discuss both by the couples.Well,its your own social definition of the word"submission"but,its not related to slavery in marital life, in as much their is love,understanding and mutual respect among the couples.Its just a matter of'role differenciation'and nothing you and your cohort can do about changing that social fact.

Keep cooking for her and after she filled up her belly she go and meet real man that will shag her wella.Be foaming good boy/man.

Gender war in nairaland keep waxing stronger.True,I dont see any biggie in that pix,it depends on alot of factors that come into play. like the personality,class and social exposure of the lady thats involve in the dating irrespective of whether Nigeria or not.

@op,so much possible.Depending on the guy and his GAME.

RuthDaniels:
I am not disputing the fact that men are polygamous in nature, in my conversation with Walepackage, I agree that men are visual beings, moved by what they see.

What I oppose is the unwillingness of some called men to control themselves. The exude men are polygamous is over used, it's boring and annoying. Guys can do better. If you are not ready to tame your testosterone why make marriage vows?

Control is the key.

to be candid with you.Its a very difficult situation.For the fact that its an 'innate trait' which many men tend to fight here and there in their social mundane.Total Control of it,is a mere impossible.With the current state of our society, its difficult to adhere to that 'dogma' for long cos the inner impulse of man will always ask.Thats why we 'consciously or unconsciously' do things atimes that we regret/unhappy about.Thou,i am not talking about 'chronic cheaters' in relationship/marriage.

Evangelistofluv:
It takes thr GRACE OF GOD FROM A REAL BORN AGAIN HEART to resist temptation..... Ability to resist is the KEY

you really get it.Its a difficult task to comeby.Thou,few are exeptional.With this our contemporary era, alot of social vices can easily sway away even the most righteous man.Only the GRACE of GOD will help.

MONITZ:
Kk,U ve a very solid grasp of the topic nd u said it all...

tanx man.Have a wondaful nite rest.

MONITZ:
Really,as regards the study u carried out? Can u let me in on some of the findings?

men hardly stays with a partner irrespective of their status,position in the society.The study shows that 'most married men are have different mistress,girl friends and what have you"just that some are more smart than others to hide their 'dirty secrets' from their spouse.Its a known fact.

MONITZ:
Thank you for this piece of urs,there was an experiment that was carried out and it involved a cock and a hen in one and a cock and 15 hens in the other. It was observed that the cock and the single hen when made to involve in the sexual act ,the cock couldn't go more than 10rounds of sex with the hen Bt when the same cock was made to involve sexually with the 15 hens,it went round them all without getting tired,so it would suffice to say that men are naturally polygamous in nature because they like different spices Bt the women folk don't see it this way because they re disadvantaged...

you really get my standpoint.Thats what am driving at.There is more to man's sexual development whic is stem from a 'multi factoral issues'.The 'innate and the extrinsic part'makes it difficult for man to stay fidel.I have a study that we once conduct on "marriage"the findings with shock you.

RuthDaniels:
Lol...

Not all men cheat.... Compromise is not needed

yeah.Not all men.But,the bulk of the percentage of men do.Can i ask you pls;are you in serious relationship or married.

RuthDaniels:
Not all men cheat.. that I know, that means some men have been able to overcome the so called polygamous nature of theirs and these men should be emulated.

Yes... A big deal breaker,the problem isn't forgiving him but trusting him again. I hardly trust, when I do, I trust deeply. Breaking that trust is like ending it all.

yes i agree with you"not all men cheat"but,they are just few in reality.But,i think with what you wrote above you can compromise in your viewpoint in order to stay in the relationship or marriage.

RuthDaniels:
Lol...We are talking about the same thing.. You tried to explain why men are polygamous in nature and I agreed to that with the "ideologue". Men are considered to be polygamous in nature because they are moved by what they see.


A weakling is one who has no control over his/her emotions, an undisciplined one who satisfy all urges even when he shouldn't. One who can not stay faithful to one partner. Such is a weakling!

now i got your stand point.You are so much on point.It takes an 'emotional balance and well control' man to stay years back-to-back in marriage without cheating with his spouse/partner.But,the sad truth is that most men dont fall into this 'ideal description'in reality.Just few.Thou,so many factors come into play as to ascertain the cause of their action in their respective ways.So do you see those men as a 'deal breaker' for you when in a relationship/married.

RuthDaniels:
If you are referring to the ideologue :Men are moved by what they see, you may be right but then No sane Man should be controlled by what he sees.

Only a weak fellow with low self control will allow his mind wander off in the direction of what he sees.

nope.I am talking about the quote of the first commenter which you countered against in your viewpoint.Inbetween,whats your own view of'weakling'

RuthDaniels:
The "Men are polygamous in nature " excuse is the most annoying of all.

There is no justifiable reason to cheat on your partner, all are excuses of a weak man!

you wont understand that quote due to the perspective you are seeing it from.But,the bitter truth is that its an innate trait in 'man' which its rooted from also the social milieu,personality formation and biological composition of the man.Thou,it can be tamed or control.But, its few men that can control the 'polygamous tendency' in them.

CastedAyo:
[color=#603008]Go and meet her Mum, beg her, give her mom money, give her more money, lastly give her money and have your girlfriend back.


Fvck the hell out of your girlfriend on MONDAY, pour all your akamu into her honeypot.

When she tells you she's pregnant, TEAR RACE!!!!


On behalf of all men, if you don't revenge WE SHALL DISOWN YOU![/color]

chai,see advice oh.This one strong ghan

Lisaflex:
Thanks

you are wellcome.

Shugarlord213:
I don’t know what you people are saying. I have taken women as h.oes and treated all Nigerian girls as the same.

I stopped dealing with women for 5 months to enable me save money to buy a car, because with a car you have unlimited access to their kitty even your friends wives and girls will follow you just so you know how cheap they are.

Once I fvck a naija gal, I just drop her at the busstop and leave #500 for her hand. Sometimes as soon as she steps off my car, I zoom off

If the girl like male she call me again if she doesn’t call me I get over 40 number ladies women way day disturb me for WhatsApp

Why spend for a leech when you got a car and bills to pay. I even bought a dog so to tell you I can’t afford to spend money on another being with complete legs and hands

Guys get sense pls and pls. Get a car if you don’t have. If you are on leggedis benz we way get car go fvck your babe and we don’t care how you feel atall

i concur with this.

Innobee99:
Same thing my ex did. Anytime the other guy annoys her, throughout dat day will be insult for me. Am a sharp guy, i easily code any babe am dating.

most especially when she loves the guy more.Just go into relationship with your head this days to avoid much bruhaha.They aint worth it.

fayded:
Its not the first time, she has been dramatic for so long. Buh I always ignore and just keep giving her face. Now, I feel insulted and tired and confused. How can the only girl in this world that I've never made a move on(besides my relatives nd sis), accuse me of going around doing such ish. She knows me well, and she knows my friends.
Its just annoying.

just ease it off your mind.Thats why i said she may have an 'ulterior motives' towards it,since the story has been flying around since ages why the sudden changes and drama now,if not that she has a reason behind her action.Just assume she aint existing in your world again.

Lisaflex:
Lmao @ "ten bombs just exploded in my head "...By some miracle, i hope you survived it. Wouldn't want something like that on my conscience.

Yeah, i know(bad habit)... Even my friends are turned off by it... Working on it (you can see that in my reply )

Will try and do better.

i love your open mindedness.Truly,you just prove to be real and flexible.A rare phenomenal to comeby on such a platform.

Just dont be a nagging lady and the one that quickly turn me off is 'dirty woman'.Chai Mbanu.

@op,its normal when you are a player and you keep a lady as a friend,guys hardly believe you aint kpanshing her.But,it aint work that way.Just talk to her and give her fact that the story shoudnt ruin ur friendship with her.If she keeps behaving unexpected or dramatic then move on.Maybe shes tired of your friendship, trying to use the story as a yardstick to do away with you or she have an ulterior motive towards you.

Innobee99:
Am sorry to tell u d bitter truth. She has someone she loves more than u but presently having issues with the guy. She's upset cuz she luvs the guy more.





Just my one kobo

your head they there.She's just using the OP to pass time.I think, HE should just bone her as many as suggested earlier on, aint got time for long thing.