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BigSarah:
Maga

yes girl.Its a two way thing.Either he pays or you pay.

Happy for you girl...Maga must pay

Thats when you have got no package in you,only to impress her with 2/3 of your salary.I weep for this kind of man.

BigSarah:
Cos it's lame

did i appear to you like i am cutting that crap.Hey,i aint interested in that shi.it,just passing a message to those sisies,asslicking guys.

MENZPRIDE:
FACTS n SOLUTIONS could be stumbled upon, you can never tell....
Better still,you can increase and expand you scope of experience.

my man,i have reach my final bus top already.

guuudy87:
Then advice me like a married man

ok,see it this way.It wont be your portion,but assuming you accept her back now becos u have this job,what if you lost your job and money stop coming,will she leave you again and calling you names again.I think shes more interesting in what you are,than who you are.

guuudy87:
It's either you're a virgin or you've never been in a relationship before

i am done with courtship nw,happily married.Even at that i dont accept parasitic relationship

guuudy87:
You're a typical bush man

i see reason why you ask this kind of dumb question,cos you know what, your brain is wired to reason between the thighs of that lady.Hence,i sugest you channel your pathetic self towards emancipating yourself from her chain.Slowpoke

Jamb question.

BigSarah:
Your line Lame AF

hey,why did you said so

MENZPRIDE:
My guy, I'm still trying to find out, when I see, I will let you know.
Just in case you find out before me, just holla your guy!

funny guy.Even the best 'social scientist',couple with the best 'behavioural psycholologist' have not provide a study or research that gives a deep 'grand theory' that explain their 'personality' .Then,who am i,to discover the predisposing factors to these trait of behaviour that is exhibited by them.

We all know most of them are just bandwagon,without proper understanding of the word 'feminism'.

MENZPRIDE:
That's the complicated and contradictory natures of women.
I once had a female friend - more like an aunt, who broke up from her man, coz the man is not Domineering!
'she wants to travel to Lagos, to see her aunt, the man gives her transport, she comes back after some days, she wants to go to Aba to see her Sister's family, the man gives her transport. She comes back, one week later, she wants to go to the village to see her grandma, the man gives her money without complaints..... The man needs sex, she complains of headache or not being in the mood, the man relaxes and told her 'rest yourself, maybe next-time'.
She broke-up with the man, complaining that the man does not really love her enough, if the man had love her enough he would not permit her to be traveling upandan. If the man had loved her enough, he would have demanded and insisted on making love to her wether she is in the mood or not, after-all, she is his woman.

Then what did they want?

tosyne2much:
This is the same thing I'm saying.. Some of them are already used to abuse and any man who can't follow that same way of treating them with abuse is who they will never pay loyalty and respect to

walahi i was shock when this girl said that.You are right,but i still believe abusing ones spouse/gf in a relationship dont makes someone though.Thou,i told her i have my reservations and limits.It will take along period for these type of ladies to change this kind of impression they has formed in thier subconscious.

BiggyB242:
Never be a weakling in relationship, I can't be in a relationship when I'm not the one in control, and still I haven't hit a woman during my years of dating.

nice one.There are better approaches to solve issues with one's spouse.Cheers

Jupxter:
They see abuse as the norm,which is why when they meet a gentleman, they feel like i don't deserve such niceness. What is it? What does he see in me? What does he want to do with me? But one attribute of nice guys is they have sharp eyes and see what other guys don't see in a lady. They don't just understand. Any lady that has this issues should be left alone, they've been bastardized by the bad guys in their past relationships and no matter how nice they're treated, they want to return home, " to receive the bad guy's treatment". Leave them bro when we see such species, let them go, imagine going through 7 men and all seven are bad, and the eight treats the lady nice, it will feel unnatural, like he wants her for her goodies, money, beauty, sex and whats not. In the end, the bad guy if he tarries a bit, will find a lover that would reciprocate all his acts of love and gentility. This is how it has always been !Every one with what works for him/her !

true said

BiggyB242:
When you find yourself in so many abusive relationship, you finally thinks that's the norm.

Many MATURED ladies are looking for you type of person, don't become a monster because you want to impress a lady.

that was when a lady i met in benue also told me if a man has never hit her during the period of dating, its a sign that he dnt really love her.I was like'you mean it'.Some of these ladies are just confuse, or due to their past abusive relationship which has reshape their thinking faculty to see it has normal.Thou,i dont support 'weakling' as a man,you should react to some certain issue but dont hit,abuse or inflict physical pain to her.If she didnt apprechate you for who u are, someone else will do.

LagBlogger:
I am not looking for long distance stuff. Same location (Abuja) is what I'm after.

with all these fine fine ladies in abuja.hardly,you can stay a week in abuja without getting one.

xendra:
mtchwww

its early to start with.No hard feelings

xendra:
and over 80% of them were actually raped or molested by jerks like you.

i would have answer you in same way.But,i wouldnt do that,cos i will asume that the most 'working part' of your brain was malfunction when you typed that shi.it,as such,its expected of you to post this giberish.When you decipher from lie and fact,then you can quote me.

After you,she will tell another man.Most of them use this to cover up there wayward lifestyle when growing up.

The foundation of the relationship is faulty.How could you tell a man that you are a virgin when you know you were 'defile' longtime ago.I know why you brought it here, is becouse your conscious is telling you he will finally find out,which you are afraid to loose him.The truth lies that you could have save yourself this stress initially by telling him your status.But no,you decide to play along with his intelligent and looks holly to him.Well,it depends on who your guy his,he may consider you,but it will keep ringing in his head mosttime he wants to 'kpansh' or if you offend him.

Towncrier007:
The guy might be shagging her

some how,but not a fact.I had alot of flings back then in school,and it all started from pet names and if you a 'gamer' then yes, something may eventually happen.Thou,it maybe harmless to her,but a wrong signal to the other guy.

Jupxter:
You can see the mentality

just stating the obvious man.

Rokia2:
As long as she's your girlfriend, you just renting. Meaning you can be replace any time. You wanna make it official, marry her.

I'm pretty sure your babe has a whole list of back ups, just in case you wanna act up. You will be replaced before you can even blink.

typical mentality of an average naija babe.Thou,its a dicey situation,in school or place of work,we have those who we called different pet names.Thou,there is a slight probability that we can end up 'shaging' them but its not a fact.

All these small girls that dont really know whats 'feminism'.Imagine her definition and usage of feminism.You cant differenciate from 'idealism and realism'.You think 'dating' is a formal relationship, where every rules of engagement is 'rule bound'.The way we act,behave,think,attitude,and relate in a relationship is mostly revolve around the emotional,subconscious part of a man.Which, the most logic part has been beclouded with subjectism.Any one can pay for anything in a relationship be it on an outing,gift,picknik,shoping.Its not mathematically started that everything should be equal.It is just a fallacy and utopian to have that preconceive notion you stated aboved.Pls read more on your 'feminism'

KreativGenius:
Very true @ personality is not static, which is why,we must not write anyone off, no one is a lost cause technically. People are in their phases and conditions many times, and self improvement and adjustment that may lead to drastic changes will always be on the table as long as life remains. I'm a living witness to such a drastic change that can occur in the life of an individual.

that is what makes us more human and difficult to have an exact/accurate deduction of prediction/precision in the course of explaining 'man's behaviour' which is the aim of social science.These problems are the problems face by the behaviouralist and social psychologist in studying the personality of man,rather we can just make an inferrence or a closer accuracy in prediction of man's behaviour.Personality can be alter or change depending on situation,social milieu,intention of the actor and other factors at that moment.So those trait can be posses by someone and act diferent

I think most people possess one or two of those trait you listed.Having some of those traits those not make someone to be naccist rather attitudinal change varies atime and personality is not static,it can be switch or mixed atimes.Educative and interesting.Nice one bro.

KreativGenius:
Good Morning.

I'll ponder on this, trust and loyalty. I'll really ponder on this.

How's work ! How's this week going !

Its goin well my man,how is yours and family too.

Its one of the following;its either the kpansh was so sweet that she felt so alive and overwhelm or the guy paid her good cash that push her to rush to snap another pix for her next catch, forgeting to clean her room or herself.Dirty hoe