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Men dem will never cease to amaze me.Wooing someone you got nothing for, online,its appaling how they act this way.I can bet that its a M behind that monicker or an unstable small girl that is just exhibiting her youthful exuberance.

mpowa:
If I leave my beard it go grow pass Osama in few weeks, But I can't cope with it, It has nothing to do with looks, I hate beards on me.

it matters bro,if you can really shave it well and take care of it,it will makes you look cool.Thou,its your preference that you dont like it,but nature has imposed it on you.

faridaije:
I’m taking a mental health break as I was at risk of breaking down and making a fool of myself

Retreating from society

Until January 2018

Just taking time to see where my life is going and come to terms with mums death

But I’m worried because some of my friends may be worried and wondering where I am (I deleted Facebook, changed my number etc no one has access to me)

Also, because I have not been going to socials people may think I am not a good friend as they were there for me when my mother died

first and foremost, sorry for the loss of your mum.May her soul rest in peace.Alienating yourself from the social world will breed individualism,and if persist for long can manifest to suicidal thought,dementia and some other psychological trauma.You can decide to change circles of friends,but replace it with other new ones,that makes you more social being and well groom to absorb more shock ahead.

I think this"nice guy" issue is an overated topic.There's nothing like nice guy or bad guy,its a subjective interpretation.What makes someone niceguy in your dictionary may be a badguy in another person's dictionary.You think u can not stil be dump by the so called 'nice guy'.Well,its an eye opener for some girls who think relationship only revolves around 'sex and money',without other factors taking into consideration.

KreativGenius:
Bro this your experience ehn

that is why its safe to be trusted and loyal than just love without trust and loyalty.Morning

pocohantas:
Thank you!!!!
Both set of women are contributing to the society!
I wonder why he thinks mine is emotional and his is logical. He clearly agreed the certificate is a waste in the longrun, which I objected to. Educated housewives contribute to their homes and society at large, albeit not financially.

Women are the ones most times faced with this challenge of giving up one for the other, but they didn't have this child alone. Some are not totally happy with the decision, they just have to give up the formative years for their kids. Some working mums also wish they can have all the time for their kids, but the economy isn't helping. Both set of women don't have it easy.

thats the point i am also driving to.Women plays a larger role in the society,also the men.Education for women should not only be 'reduce' to kitchen,but rather be seen as a sacrisfy made by them to stabilize the society which is the most paramount gain(wholistic) than individual gain.

ubunja:
and there are people im prepared to debate with. NOT YOU.
u are right and im wrong.
lets move on

you and pocohantas have a valid point but from diffrent perspectives which is the beauty of ideas.I think you are viewing it from the 'angle of financial again/materialism that stems from been a graduate which is extrinsical in value,why she from the angle of "womanhood,socializing younger ones which is more intrinsical in value.Both are vital component that shape our societal progress,which they are interrelated and functional.

To be sincere @op,that girl aint loyal and trustful.I can bet that she has had sex with that same guy more than once or with another random guy.Shes just a pretender and a hoe that can hardly control her urge or libido.Some years back a girl i was dating was almost lured by her femalefriend.She wanted to connect my gf with her bf's friend,in which they went to a party together, which i gave her my consent before going.Fastforward in the party she was offer a drink and she's the type that dont really drink,but her friend assured her no lele,which was a plan for the other guy to have his way to take her home.But,unfortunately,when she was bit tipsy,she just try her best and holla at my digit with the name of the venue,which in a jiffy i was there.Her friend was shock when she see me, thats how i pick my bae to my house that night and this was the end to their friendship.If a lady is really into you and love you, hardly she cheats no matter the circumstance.

yanshDoctor:
majority of social girls only date cute/rich or popular guys for showoff to feel too big or better among their peers. some of them cant date a guy without a car.

the funny thing is that it does not matter how bad or terrible these guys treat them. they will bear the burnt and still beg the guys. but they will come to social media to fluent the guy did this and that for them only to fool the gullible. until it becomes too worst for them to bear any further before it backfire.

i detest girls that want to use me to showoff. i know them at once. they are quick to invite you to meet their friends. out your dp on their social account. e.t.c. they even lied and hype you to their friends.

i think its for both sexes,cos i can bet that you too cant roll with an unattractive lady or a shape less one.Either way, the eyes like seeing beautifull things.If you have it flaunt it,thou,dont be an arrogant.Your monicker thou.

MidNightHunter:
What's then special about fucking around,bro ? Any guyz can go around an engage in all form of sex with random ladies ,@ the end ,it profits nothing !
Maybe,just to feed ur childish ego. smh

#SpitOnFuvkBoys!

he was feeling like kingkong.When almost some have lost count how many we have kpansh,but regreting those act now,no big deal.Thats why i just laugh when i see some kind of comment braging about how many lady they shag.

It aint thesame,beard is natural and its manly.Most guys that criticize beard guys wish they have one.Just trim it,and always keep it neat.Its watsup

TheTrueApostle:
Because men should be more concerned about struggling out with life and fending for themselves, not their look, that's an effeminate disposition when displayed by a male ( bobrinsky knows better) ..

BTW; I'm the one offering the said prize, and I set the rules and owe no one any explanation for it bra...

I still salute u ma bra, like weeetin!!!

i understand you the trueapostle man,but i just thought about you balancing the equation for both sexes.But,since its your game as you said,you run it the way you deem fit.No lele,you are mouthed.

All this epistle just to win a lady's heart...I aint interested in that 'crap'.Just be your self, no matter your personality someone out there will still fall for you, not by memorizing all this formular or dont do 'this and that'.The last thing i will never be caught doing, is to fake my personality or impress a lady just to be loved or get laid.

Why only ladies,mr kpansh man

Realist

KreativGenius:
k bro

cya around, plenty end of d year church activities ere too
chalo

no lele man.Enjoy your stay over there.

KreativGenius:
Yes i agree, i work with some 25 folks offline, Imagine one come and seeing he is a " beggar " and all what i am not? Imagine how i felt in the conference scrolling my phone offline and saw me been misrepresented? My brand name is been affected, i simply asked for peaceful resolutions yet it was rebuffed. I dont have their offline contacts. What do i do?

just let it slide,its weekend.Catching fun later

KreativGenius:
I'm calm. Just want some foot soldiers off my back that's all. I'm cool bro. Trust me. You know i always mellow when you hit me up.

Been out for a conference since four days not logged in here, only to see myself been labelled as a fake dude, just to get back at me. Not fair bro !

i understand.Thats why its advicely you be on your own.Dont engage with any of them here,they aint worth it, man

KreativGenius:
Thanks to black, and the other lady, but plz appease your oher sister. Before the incident, she knew me not. I'm tired of being around this same subject, and despereately neede to forget it ever happened. Abeg appease her i have no case with her. In exchange i will permanently stay away from all this section females, i won't quote, send or reply pms. If i meet a lady real life and she's an active member i will disenage her (as your sisters ), i will block any female romance landers on my whatsapp too. Iwill also permanently disengage anything close in exchange. It's too draining. I don't want to be mentioned in future threads. Best of luck to everyone

just chill man.

None

@op.Then what point are you driving at

@op,Thats wickednes of the highest order

ogologoamu:
E be like say the last person that handled Her messed up.

something like that brother.May after the guy has rise her moral and expection,he just ejaculate before the cap enter the pu.nany finish.chai its painfull thou.

30 seconds,not even 2minuts again.Sorry for the disapointment @op.

You mean cheap,like buying a cheap goods.Its okay

@yhemstar,i am amazed with the way you sound with this issue,without even sounding like a "moralist".Studies has showed that the "emotional and psychological" phace of man has stage before it fully developed to "puberty".At this her phase of development she aint fit to venture into dating or what have you.Her control of stimulus is not well attain, asuch she could be sway easily,without giving a proper consideration to the issue, which its as a result to absent of those impulses,or give a wrong responce to an issue because she is;emotional unbalance,psychological unfit at that phace of her life.I dont believ that crap saying they can be in that relationship without the boy having sex with that innocent child, its a pure lie.I still maintain that at 12 that girl is still a juvenile irrespective of her biological composition,whose priority should be education or something worthwile.Such act can breed unwanted pregnancy,nympo and other related social problem at the long run.Sexual education should be introduce.

yhemster:
Just relax Ms. Hypocrite. The boy is 16. Instead of you to advise the boy on how to be a good brother to the girl and advise abstinence till a mature age, you're throwing out curses. The sad reality is lots of girls of age range 12-14 are getting sexually active. So, what's the big deal in a 16yearsvold boy dating a 12 years old girl?

oga,what is wrong is wrong irrespective that some are doing it.The girl is too young to start experiencing sex at this phase of her life.She should rather chanel her energy to schooling rather than allowing a boy to turn her to a sex machine at her age.So pitiable that values and morals are withering away in our contemporary society.

vchykp:
thanks

you are wellcome man

@op,you think "stealing" is only associated with ugly ones.Where did you got that theory from.Because shes beautifull.Well,the ball is in your court if you can be with a "thief" fine without complaining.I really detest a "thief" with passion.She's testing you my foot

@op,hardly you found a crook cheater to completely change,and you know this yourself.You sound as those guys that hardly get a chick for themselves.Hence,you saw her giving you "kpansh" is a big opportunity and favoured for you.You aint in love,but your sense of reasoning is beclouded with your quest for relentless sex.My advice for you,go for medical check up and do away with that girl totally.Most girls aint loyal this days.

What an illogical assertion with an egoistic undertone

This makes me remember my encounter with a 'married lady',those days in my ppa,without even awared she's married.God save me i found out from a neighbor who happens to know her husband.I have to tell her to delete my numba nd stop calling me.Those men,mostly in semi-urban setting tends to be brutal and aggresive,dont confront him and avoid her totally.While you walk around also watch your bak.