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@op "Matured lady" is a subjective term which have varied meaning depending on the personality.

Ijelababy:
September 8

wow! so close.Mine is 7th sep.Were are you residing

One man food is another man's poison.True,there are alot of stupendous benefit of dating ladies above 30.Only if you know op.

@op,why not.There are alot of ladies out there that dont really care about your money.But,you should be a lil bit comfortable,chearful and caring with the little you have.The mistake many guys make is trying to 'impress' the lady so much in the begining of the relationship, hence she wire her thought towards the material aspect.Just be yourself and be real.

QueenSuccubus:


Why not drink alcoholic drinks ? This is the best way so u can start talking to other babes in yo street...And if u say that u never tried any alcoholic drinks, this is the BEST OF THE BEST so u can forget her & if ur lucky tonight u can get laid

then after the liquor is eyes clear again.The thinking continue...

ubunja:
in nigeria seems Job Shaming in trending..

truly,i so much wonder why people on social media quickly use it,as if he pays his bills.

RuthDaniels:
You need not suffer our eyes or cringe our brains with your tales as logic demands, when you are with someone who doesn't add value to your life but rather diminish the little you are fortunate to have, you kick the fellow out. Do we need to spell that out for you?


BTW as for your topic, It is not always what a woman has to offer but what you are man enough to get out of her. Make her your sex object and she will be, make her your partner or helpmate and she will be. What often kill you guys is pride and ignorance!

you just said it all.You are the one to define your relationship by yourself.If its for kpanshy sake or serious matter and she will definately adjust her ways or you let go of her.

Marisol911:
hmmm, Whats the other option then? help a girl out

i have mentioned some possible way out to your social condition in my aboved post.

ObaKlaz:
I totally misconstrued your initial post. Good thoughts, bro!
*Turns aside*:

Now lady, don't masturbate. I repeat, DO NOT masturbate!. Heed the suggestions of the gentleman above.

thanks for your understanding.Stay bless bro.

ObaKlaz:
Ok. You have to pardon me for jumping the gun. Now, please enlighten me on those 'other options' you mentioned.

ok thanks.Firstly,she can decide to go see her guy,atleast distant shouldnt be a barrier.Secondly,the said guy may come around even thou its a brief visit.Third,she may channel her thought to more productive and challenging issues in order to reduce her sexual urge pending she meet her guy.Thou,her 'age range'and 'sexual experienced' matters in determining her rising libido

ObaKlaz:
So she can consider 'other options' even though she's got a boo, huh? You're saying those 'other options' (which is actually euphemism for cheating) can't ruin her relationship? or that diseases and drama don't come with those 'other options'?

i havent stated any.How come you arrived at that conclusion?

ObaKlaz:
And why exactly shouldn't she masturbate?

thou its a known fact that many ladies masturbate and fail to admit it.But,the danger associated with it is so stupendous that she may not be able to manage the psychological effects, which may latter damage her relationship in a latter years.Cos,its addictive and poss a threat to her relationship

Marisol911:
For the past two weeks nw, sex has always bin on my mind. like always. the worst part is that boo is so far away, i try taking my mind off it by immersing myslf in work bt the moment im off work, the urge comes bk strnger than it was before. what else can i do o

there are so many options for you to get cool off.But,dont engage in masturbation.

lakesider:
The worst crimes in the world is committed by Christians, eg the Spanish Inquisition, the slavery, the first world war, the second world war, the murder of six million Jews, the murder of ten million Congo's by Christians Portuguese, the murder of 20 million south Americans and forcing them to convert to Christianity or die by burning, the lord resistance army in Uganda, the killing of all Muslims and Jews in Jerusalem when the crusaders invaded the city, that's to mention a few I can go on and on so he who live in the glass house should not throw stone. All religion commit evil on one way to another so stop blaming Islam because islam is perfect while Muslims are not and vice versal.

tanx for sharing this.May be you should add 'war of cross',what about the fight between 'protestant and catholics'.I think the hate in him and lack of having historical facts has becloud his sense of judgement and reasoning.

luminouz:
Pulling her legs bawo?
Don't say dat walepackagement naaaa

She Goan get hundreds of PMs tonight!!!

you be sure gee.Nd you want me to believe you are single abi,or you want them to keep tagging us as a 'yoruba demon'that many see called us habi.I know trust you ma man

luminouz:
Not all na...just ME!!!

thou,i know you are just pulling her legs.I just imagine how many PM's she wil get tonite.

Nairalanders sha.All of a sudden all the guys here are "cool and single".Well,i wish the op all the best in her search for cool and romantic guy.

@op,Its never too late.You can retrace your steps.Dont joke with your mum

7th,september

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Ehen! Alas someone with an objective scope of the matter

if only he answer some of those question.I could deduce his social antecedent towards that line of sexual orientation.

mvem:
...any solution?... Even the white man with renowned psychologists struggled with homosexual solutions for years, to no avail...that's why now they just accept it

yes there is a solution to it if it stems from psycho sexual disorder when growing as a child or environmental factors.But,if it is biological as in 'innate'as believed by some behaviourists, then its a bit dicey to profer a solution to the sexual orientation.But,its not totally imposible

Shankieboy:
I was never molested.
I was never initiated.
My orientation started since nursery school.
Gayism wasn't even a thing then.
It was never learned.
I never knew I wasn't alone till years ago.

i need to ask you again.When you are young did you suffered from 'peer rejection' and 'peer isolation',or your father possess some of these traits;cold attitude,distant,selfish or aggresive father.Which could lead to loss of"masculine".If you didnt tick the above factors then it may not be a psycho sexual development issue as a child growing up or environmental factors as i thought.Rather,it may be a biological disorder which i fear has a more long term consequence in changing your sexual orientation.

Its an abnormality in your chromosome.But,if possibly you can share more light in your socialization process and childhood history,i could deduce the major causes of your personality disorder.Gayism is a learned behaviour.Thou,some see it as a bridge in man's psycho sexual development which can hapen to a man when attaining puberty due to some multi factoral reasons.I bet yours is biological

sekxyqueen:
not here. .cos the ones here are either stupid,useless or broke

why would you make a blanket statement.Those that means you cant make a contribution without using a vulgar words.

Rayhandrinni:
Birthdays....

Used birthdays as a tool on the gram
"Is it true people dont say no on their birthdays? Can I have your number?
That ones sure


The one time I asked a girl out with this was a long time ago...she was so happy it was her birthday, I noticed and asked her out...she quickly said yes ....only to wake up the next morning and it wasn't her birthday anymore but my girlfriend

bad man.Some how sha