₦airaland Forum

elloso:
Hello fam.
I will be traveling to the UK soon (Scotland precisely) and I intend to book a flight (Turkish Airline) that has a stopover at Istanbul and Dublin.
Do I need a transit visa to go through Dublin?

Please I really need your reply 🙏

You will need Transit Visa. Same applies to all flights with stopover anywhere in Europe (if your only passport is Nigerian). The flights may look cheap but don't fall into that trap if you can't process your transit visa in time.

Ijelenwanyioma:
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too

Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying)

Madam, that's part of the ways of identifying stupid and ingrate women.
A man would toil day and night to fend for the family and the reward they give him is lack of appreciation and playing the victim card. 99% of men would never expect you to think in that direction, especially when you have kids together. Men are wired to provide a cover for their wife and kids but women like you would always listen to wrong advisers, including spiritual advisers.
I will advise you to watch the people you move with, they will push you to break your home by yourself. They will mislead you even into adultery if this is not happening already.

what is that woman looking at and smiling in the first pic?

TMSMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1447100/alex-otti-vists-sanwo-olu-photos/

Lions are omnivorous and they eat grass occasionally. Please always research well before accepting myths.

Why is this guy still talking rubbish? A disillusioned fellow with no sane advisers? What he's doing is pure felony and he should be careful because of the consequences.

Thank God we avoided this man. If he accepts this offer it will be disappointing. Where on earth is this done? Puppet

But why was he deported? Can he still go back to UK today? Just curious.

Mumus like you would fall in love with him. If you're truly down to earth you dont need to make noise about it. People see and know it naturally.
Hypocrites everywhere.

loosecanon50:
Tell me why people won’t fall in love with this man.

May God comfort you sir. They pain of burrying one's own child is deep. May his soul rest in peace.

Did you live there legally?

Napata77:
IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE ''EQUAL RIGHTS'' IN THE UK BECAUSE OF THIS PUBLICITY STUNT NEWS, YOU ARE THE BIGGEST MUGU ON EARTH.

SEE HOW EASY THE WHITES FIND IT TO FOOL YOU PEOPLE. IT IS AMAZING AND DISGUSTING.

I LIVED IN THE UK, NOT HOLIDAY, AND I CAN ASSURE THERE IS NOTHING LIKE 'EQUAL RIGHTS FOR EVERYBODY' THERE!

So much thoughts in a single post!

Jammy2012:
1. It is hard for women with issue of husband demise. This scenario could take toll on the female children especially. The woman who did not or could not marry will have to deal with responsibility in one way or the other; Some find a legit and paying job, some engage in promiscuity to feed the children (which means female children will also see promiscuity as a source of income as they come of age). The legit and working class single mother could have little or no monitoring capability over the children, especially the girl child. This girl child become a victim of the society remodeling. The society gives answers to her curiosity, rather than from the mother. The cycle will still continue from there.
2. Some single mothers become so bitter that they recruit their children into hating men and make them see their bodies as weapons of torture and extortion to men. These set of mother's manipulate their children into believing their fathers was/were bad men. They turn feminists overnight, knowing deep down that they don't have that happiness too. The funny and terrific thing is that, the psychology of the female children are now adjusted into believing that they can also have the capability of nurturing their children alone too without the help of a man. So, any little misunderstanding, is the last straw that break their Camel's back. They hardly tolerate male genders playing their roles as husbands and fathers. These children never knew what having a father feels like, they don't see the need for that with their children

What a risky thing to venture on! Typical Obidient!

No sane person will support physical abuse. Most guys that abuse their partners only need rehabilitation which we unfortunately lack in this part of the world. A lot of things must have happened before it got to that stage and it's part of the societal values we've been saying we are lacking. It is animalistic to beat up your wife, in fact a lot of things we do for free here are considered insane in some parts of the world. We are gradually losing our values and promoting divorce is not the right course to make things right ,love.

Beautiful94:
Whatever she did might be trivial. An abusive partner abuses for no just cause and even if she did something? is killing her the best thing to do? What if she were your daughter would you not prefer that the man brings her home alive rather than kill her?
Some men are just plain wicked.

Why was she begging for forgiveness? Do you know what she's done and is seeking for atonement and not divorce instead?

Beautiful94:
I cannot agree less to what she is saying. Just this morning around four o'clock i heard a woman's voice pleading and begging her abuser whom i guess is her husband, her voice was pleading " have mercy on me". This woman shouted for not less than two minutes. In this case, divorce should be accepted.

Yes, bad leaders make a bad country. But that aside, consider the bigger picture of what this potential trend portends for an already derailing society. A lot are taught by mother and father to innocent minds growing up and that's what Asians capitalize on in creating values and discipline in their society and this translates today to a lot of advancement and sanity in their society. But creating a society of single parents breeds promiscuity, hatred, ill-nurtured children and emotional scars. These don't promote a sane society for other meaningful advancement.

Kobojunkie:
Look, what Nigeria is today is culmination of trends both at the family and societal levels over at least the last 50 or more years. So, don't pretend what is happening today came about overnight. This is the rest of what our parents and grandparents were doing for the last 50 year and clearly the result speaks for itself.

Pick sense from Asians and why they are moving fast and if they fancy divorce as we've carried it on our heads and making it a trend in Nigeria.
Societal building begins from family units and that's the secret of Asians. But we Nigerians prefer to follow the west in building an insane society.

Kobojunkie:
You pick sense where there is sense to be picked..

No matter how strong-headed or stereotyped you are, please try and pick some sense in other people's views.

Kobojunkie:
What you said makes no sense at all. Marriage comes before divorce. In many cases, the reason divorce happens has to do with a one failing to succeed where it concerns working on the marriage.

And no, divorce is not an easy end to marriage as unlike marriage abandonment which was practiced by your ancestors --- an easy unofficial divorce that society seemed more ok with, official divorce forces couples to face each other in deciding how to end the marriage together.

Being religious doesn't mean you "follow the crowd" and worship men instead of Allah/God. Any sensible religious know in their hearts what is morally right to build a better society from what is learned from the Holy Books.

Kobojunkie:
Religion does absolutely no such thing. Instead it is the men you have abandoned your heads to that fill your heads with lies causing you to believe that by listening to them you can even influence others when the truth is instead that you can't.

So it never occurred to you even to this point that the reason why the divorce rate among the religious mirrors the divorce rate of those who are not religious has to do with the fact that what your religious leaders feed you are lies?

You have valid points but your two points are what religion help to address in creating a sane society. Life is not a bed of roses. If we all truly follow and live what religion preaches we would have less of these problems.

Kobojunkie:
1. If mother is not happy or father is not happy how can children be happy? Think!

2. How do you force unity on adults? Can someone force you to be happy in a situation against your will? Use your brain!

Each party should learn contentment, perseverance, forgiveness and loyalty. That is what we need to preach, not divorce as long as you were adults that knew your lest from right before getting married. 80% of divorcees end up living a more miserable life silently eventually.

gracealonev:
She doesn't have to be a divorcee to advise people to place their joy above societal expectations.

Is this one aware marriage pre-dates religion?

Divoc19:
Divorce is a new trend in our society
Divorce is here to stay
The more people realize that religion is a scam, the more they get divorced and live a happier life like our ancestors

Senseless talk. She should as well explain how their children will be without the trauma and be happy ever after.
Instead of promoting unity she's doing busy body that will further derail a derailing society all in the name of attention seeking.
We are not taught like this in Islam and she should respect the hijab.
And for guys in favor of divorce, saying religion brain-washed people, please go back in history and you'll understand marriage was in a society pre-religion.

Guys please be careful, women especially are carrying so many diseases around today. They are easily exposed during intercourse because of their anatomy, and even with contraceptives there are increasing chances carelessness make those a lot more ineffective attributed to pre/post sexual body fluid exchanges.
If you are in doubt please visit a government hospital or any credible sexual health clinic and ask some questions.
Hosts can be carriers for years without knowing, especially those that would just treat "normal infection or toilet disease" and carry on without proper checks.
There is no glory in making few minutes' fun and brag affect your long term.
Follow God's wish on abstinence which health professionals also preach or stay with one partner that you're sure of their status.
Also, please run checks on yourself at a government hospital if you suspect you've been exposed in the past. Most STDs would give you some brief symptoms after few days/weeks of exposure but won't manifest until many years later unless you get tested. The earlier you know they are there and you start treatment the better. The popular ones destroy CD4 cell count over the years.
Ladies and gents, pease visit a government hospital or any sexual health clinic if you have questions.

God has ordained Tinubu for the office if you read the handwriting well. Besides, if Obi wins, northern aggression will continue, if Atiku wins, IPOB will rise against it. All indicators are showing Tinubu is the only one that can unify the nation and tame all these aggression at this our critical time. That's the primary thing we need.

Omahleigh:
Killers endorsing their fellow killers. Look at urchins celebrating endorsement from a known terrorist organisation. Desperation has driven these people to the point of seeking and celebrating endorsement from Fulani Herdsmen!! The same organisation that is responsible for the death of hundreds of thousands of farmers across Nigeria is who they're celebrating its endorsement? The same people that have crippled agriculture in Nigeria is whom they're celebrating? The same organisation which it's members were responsible for the maiming of Catholic church worshippers in Owo is who they're celebrating its endorsement?? The same Fulani Herdsmen who popularised kidnapping of travelers is whom they're now celebrating?? What is wrong with these people?? Why have you let tribalism make a fool out of you? Have you lost your soul? What is wrong with these people for god's sake?? You want to completely destroy this Nigeria because you want bragging rights? Kai! I pity this country if APC mistakenly wins. If you support BAT just to spite the Igbos, remember that we will all suffer the consequences together! You will not be given a waiver because you're APC or Yoruba. The same thing has played out over the course of 8 years under Buhari and Nigerians have never experienced this level of nail-biting poverty and insecurity. You can argue that Tinubu is cerebral, but what about his age? Will age and sickness allow him oversee his government or will it be run by proxies just as it's being done in this current administration?
Nigerians cannot afford to have another absentee president at this crucial time when our very livelihoods depends on it, especially an absentee president that is friendly with cold blooded murderers!

SANE YORUBAS, THE HANDWRITING IS ON THE WALL AND THE SIGNS HAVE NEVER MORE CLEAR! PLEASE GO AND PICK UP YOUR PVC, VOTE PETER OBI SO ALL THIS WICKEDNESS WILL END AND OUR CHILDREN CAN HAVE A BETTER BRIGHTER FUTURE. APC IS EVIL INCARNATE!!

A word is enough for the wise.

It's because of people with the same mindset like yours that Nigeria is still backwards.
Must you know someone in government or get government contracts before you get a better life?

bankylan:
Calling Peter Obi a stupid idiot by someone who is not sure of where his next meal is coming from is a new level of insanity. Peter Obi is a billionaire, he can afford to live anywhere in the world....he can afford to buy whatever he wants. he can feed you and your entires household for the rest of your existence.......... Wheather he wins or loses in the election, it does not stop him from living a good life.

You all taught Jonathan a lesson years back. Jonathan can afford whatever he likes and even get contracts from Buhari if he wants. But for you, no access to your local government chairman, and if at all they need you, it will be when they need people to buy ice block or arrange chairs for their outdoor events.

May God allow you realise your own idiocy on time.

Dumbest post of the day.... likening Nigerian politics with football. Grow up!

Biofil84:
Weather G5 or not the truth is thank God for BVAS . This election will be a shocker to politicians and willl cause a new political order and bring a rethink to most politicians..



Let me tell you straight what i told a friend..
WORLD CUP...... Argentina
PREMIER LEAGUE.... Arsenal
PRESIDENTIAL TICKET....Peter obi

Just watch yourself

This can land you in jail. Be careful

Ofunaofu:
Not at all

But we all know that Tinubu is a notorious Narcotic drug trafficker the state of Chicago has ever known

The records are there

Hope you've seen for yourself how the poll went.

kollinz1234:
Even a monkey can rule Lagos and succeed but take it out of Lagos and see it incompetence. Take fashola for example; after doing wonders in Lagos, ordinary minister of power he could not handle


Let's conduct a poll here on Nairaland, since we are sure of having enough of Tinubu's supporters here

LIKE FOR OBI

SHARE FOR TINUBU

MENTION PDP FOR ATIKU

The results of the outcome will be here for everyone to see

secessionist spotted, they are always judging from unfounded allegations and seeking for sympathy. Stop playing the game of east, west, north, south. Nigeria is one Nigeria. This is 2022, almost 2023 sef man, stop living in the past.

onuman:
In bold. Shettima the Boko Haram sympathizer knows that old and sick Tinubu's campaign is like a campaign for Shettima to become president of Nigeria through the help of votes from the SW.
Talibanization of Nigeria shall be the outcome of Shettima's presidency, if any miracle makes APC to win.

Another ignoramus spotted. No need to argue with you like you said, but grow up and learn more!

tegrianonigltd:
Obi is bigger than Tinubu, economics, education, banking sector, corporate sector, public sector.

I know you will argue because of Tinubu godfatherism,


But do me the favor bring TINUBU updated CV

I will OBI OWN,

We will give an international recruiting firm, anyone they say is the best to head the largest organization in the world, you will, I will pay you 500 pounds cash.

Or we bet 5k pounds each.

No be quarrel, make we no argue, let’s play matured politics and game.

Asiwaju of Nigeria. The Jagaban of Africa. Respect! Even Datti knows you are the one that can fix Nigeria out of all the lots.
That's the same way he will command the respect of all Obidients saying rubbish about him today when he becomes the President. The will all come back to lick their wounds.....yeye people.

Babe you are wicked

PrettyBolu:
You are welcome to make register. You should have gone for other positions like state house of assembly member.