Yes, bad leaders make a bad country. But that aside, consider the bigger picture of what this potential trend portends for an already derailing society. A lot are taught by mother and father to innocent minds growing up and that's what Asians capitalize on in creating values and discipline in their society and this translates today to a lot of advancement and sanity in their society. But creating a society of single parents breeds promiscuity, hatred, ill-nurtured children and emotional scars. These don't promote a sane society for other meaningful advancement.

Kobojunkie:
Look, what Nigeria is today is culmination of trends both at the family and societal levels over at least the last 50 or more years. So, don't pretend what is happening today came about overnight. This is the rest of what our parents and grandparents were doing for the last 50 year and clearly the result speaks for itself.

Pick sense from Asians and why they are moving fast and if they fancy divorce as we've carried it on our heads and making it a trend in Nigeria.
Societal building begins from family units and that's the secret of Asians. But we Nigerians prefer to follow the west in building an insane society.

Kobojunkie:
You pick sense where there is sense to be picked..

No matter how strong-headed or stereotyped you are, please try and pick some sense in other people's views.

Kobojunkie:
What you said makes no sense at all. Marriage comes before divorce. In many cases, the reason divorce happens has to do with a one failing to succeed where it concerns working on the marriage.

And no, divorce is not an easy end to marriage as unlike marriage abandonment which was practiced by your ancestors --- an easy unofficial divorce that society seemed more ok with, official divorce forces couples to face each other in deciding how to end the marriage together.

Being religious doesn't mean you "follow the crowd" and worship men instead of Allah/God. Any sensible religious know in their hearts what is morally right to build a better society from what is learned from the Holy Books.

Kobojunkie:
Religion does absolutely no such thing. Instead it is the men you have abandoned your heads to that fill your heads with lies causing you to believe that by listening to them you can even influence others when the truth is instead that you can't.

So it never occurred to you even to this point that the reason why the divorce rate among the religious mirrors the divorce rate of those who are not religious has to do with the fact that what your religious leaders feed you are lies?

You have valid points but your two points are what religion help to address in creating a sane society. Life is not a bed of roses. If we all truly follow and live what religion preaches we would have less of these problems.

Kobojunkie:
1. If mother is not happy or father is not happy how can children be happy? Think!

2. How do you force unity on adults? Can someone force you to be happy in a situation against your will? Use your brain!

Each party should learn contentment, perseverance, forgiveness and loyalty. That is what we need to preach, not divorce as long as you were adults that knew your lest from right before getting married. 80% of divorcees end up living a more miserable life silently eventually.

gracealonev:


She doesn't have to be a divorcee to advise people to place their joy above societal expectations.

Is this one aware marriage pre-dates religion?

Divoc19:
Divorce is a new trend in our society
Divorce is here to stay
The more people realize that religion is a scam, the more they get divorced and live a happier life like our ancestors

Senseless talk. She should as well explain how their children will be without the trauma and be happy ever after.
Instead of promoting unity she's doing busy body that will further derail a derailing society all in the name of attention seeking.
We are not taught like this in Islam and she should respect the hijab.
And for guys in favor of divorce, saying religion brain-washed people, please go back in history and you'll understand marriage was in a society pre-religion.

Guys please be careful, women especially are carrying so many diseases around today. They are easily exposed during intercourse because of their anatomy, and even with contraceptives there are increasing chances carelessness make those a lot more ineffective attributed to pre/post sexual body fluid exchanges.
If you are in doubt please visit a government hospital or any credible sexual health clinic and ask some questions.
Hosts can be carriers for years without knowing, especially those that would just treat "normal infection or toilet disease" and carry on without proper checks.
There is no glory in making few minutes' fun and brag affect your long term.
Follow God's wish on abstinence which health professionals also preach or stay with one partner that you're sure of their status.
Also, please run checks on yourself at a government hospital if you suspect you've been exposed in the past. Most STDs would give you some brief symptoms after few days/weeks of exposure but won't manifest until many years later unless you get tested. The earlier you know they are there and you start treatment the better. The popular ones destroy CD4 cell count over the years.
Ladies and gents, pease visit a government hospital or any sexual health clinic if you have questions.

God has ordained Tinubu for the office if you read the handwriting well. Besides, if Obi wins, northern aggression will continue, if Atiku wins, IPOB will rise against it. All indicators are showing Tinubu is the only one that can unify the nation and tame all these aggression at this our critical time. That's the primary thing we need.

Omahleigh:
Killers endorsing their fellow killers. Look at urchins celebrating endorsement from a known terrorist organisation. Desperation has driven these people to the point of seeking and celebrating endorsement from Fulani Herdsmen!! The same organisation that is responsible for the death of hundreds of thousands of farmers across Nigeria is who they're celebrating its endorsement? The same people that have crippled agriculture in Nigeria is whom they're celebrating? The same organisation which it's members were responsible for the maiming of Catholic church worshippers in Owo is who they're celebrating its endorsement?? The same Fulani Herdsmen who popularised kidnapping of travelers is whom they're now celebrating?? What is wrong with these people?? Why have you let tribalism make a fool out of you? Have you lost your soul? What is wrong with these people for god's sake?? You want to completely destroy this Nigeria because you want bragging rights? Kai! I pity this country if APC mistakenly wins. If you support BAT just to spite the Igbos, remember that we will all suffer the consequences together! You will not be given a waiver because you're APC or Yoruba. The same thing has played out over the course of 8 years under Buhari and Nigerians have never experienced this level of nail-biting poverty and insecurity. You can argue that Tinubu is cerebral, but what about his age? Will age and sickness allow him oversee his government or will it be run by proxies just as it's being done in this current administration?
Nigerians cannot afford to have another absentee president at this crucial time when our very livelihoods depends on it, especially an absentee president that is friendly with cold blooded murderers!

SANE YORUBAS, THE HANDWRITING IS ON THE WALL AND THE SIGNS HAVE NEVER MORE CLEAR! PLEASE GO AND PICK UP YOUR PVC, VOTE PETER OBI SO ALL THIS WICKEDNESS WILL END AND OUR CHILDREN CAN HAVE A BETTER BRIGHTER FUTURE. APC IS EVIL INCARNATE!!

A word is enough for the wise.

It's because of people with the same mindset like yours that Nigeria is still backwards.
Must you know someone in government or get government contracts before you get a better life?

bankylan:
Calling Peter Obi a stupid idiot by someone who is not sure of where his next meal is coming from is a new level of insanity. Peter Obi is a billionaire, he can afford to live anywhere in the world....he can afford to buy whatever he wants. he can feed you and your entires household for the rest of your existence.......... Wheather he wins or loses in the election, it does not stop him from living a good life.

You all taught Jonathan a lesson years back. Jonathan can afford whatever he likes and even get contracts from Buhari if he wants. But for you, no access to your local government chairman, and if at all they need you, it will be when they need people to buy ice block or arrange chairs for their outdoor events.

May God allow you realise your own idiocy on time.

Dumbest post of the day.... likening Nigerian politics with football. Grow up!

Biofil84:
Weather G5 or not the truth is thank God for BVAS . This election will be a shocker to politicians and willl cause a new political order and bring a rethink to most politicians..



Let me tell you straight what i told a friend..
WORLD CUP...... Argentina
PREMIER LEAGUE.... Arsenal
PRESIDENTIAL TICKET....Peter obi

Just watch yourself

This can land you in jail. Be careful

Ofunaofu:


Not at all

But we all know that Tinubu is a notorious Narcotic drug trafficker the state of Chicago has ever known

The records are there

Hope you've seen for yourself how the poll went.

kollinz1234:
Even a monkey can rule Lagos and succeed but take it out of Lagos and see it incompetence. Take fashola for example; after doing wonders in Lagos, ordinary minister of power he could not handle


Let's conduct a poll here on Nairaland, since we are sure of having enough of Tinubu's supporters here

LIKE FOR OBI

SHARE FOR TINUBU

MENTION PDP FOR ATIKU

The results of the outcome will be here for everyone to see

secessionist spotted, they are always judging from unfounded allegations and seeking for sympathy. Stop playing the game of east, west, north, south. Nigeria is one Nigeria. This is 2022, almost 2023 sef man, stop living in the past.

onuman:


In bold. Shettima the Boko Haram sympathizer knows that old and sick Tinubu's campaign is like a campaign for Shettima to become president of Nigeria through the help of votes from the SW.
Talibanization of Nigeria shall be the outcome of Shettima's presidency, if any miracle makes APC to win.

Another ignoramus spotted. No need to argue with you like you said, but grow up and learn more!

tegrianonigltd:


Obi is bigger than Tinubu, economics, education, banking sector, corporate sector, public sector.

I know you will argue because of Tinubu godfatherism,


But do me the favor bring TINUBU updated CV

I will OBI OWN,

We will give an international recruiting firm, anyone they say is the best to head the largest organization in the world, you will, I will pay you 500 pounds cash.

Or we bet 5k pounds each.

No be quarrel, make we no argue, let’s play matured politics and game.

Asiwaju of Nigeria. The Jagaban of Africa. Respect! Even Datti knows you are the one that can fix Nigeria out of all the lots.
That's the same way he will command the respect of all Obidients saying rubbish about him today when he becomes the President. The will all come back to lick their wounds.....yeye people.

Babe you are wicked

PrettyBolu:
You are welcome to make register. You should have gone for other positions like state house of assembly member.

God continue to bless your wisdom. How I wish majority of people here have the power of discernment like you do.

Sannisege:
Wike is saying that although he’s not in support of the Muslim-Muslim ticket but it’s still better than a Fulani man succeeding another Fulani. Get data and watch the video. Wikes knows that it’s a waste of time supporting OBI

God bless you
Don't know if he's jinxed his followers to ignore reasoning and just marvel in his hypocrisy.

gasparpisciotta:


Stop this bro.

What tangible things can you hold Peter Obi to apart from his his usual statistical analysis

Kpele Mr "our turn"....Sorry

PrinceOfLagos:
I respect Atiku so much but it's the turn of the south and Peter Obi is our choice

And thus one will also be shouting emilokan at some people. What is this you are asking called? Competency over regionalism pls.

Latidoh1:

Why are you Yoruba's very selfish. You guys are currently occupying 2 out of the top 4 positions in the country. Why not give another region their time, slot and opportunity. Do you know that greed is very bad?

We blame the western world for racism and yet we are enemies of ourselves. This is bad.

StrongandMighty:

Grow up!

Highways:
It will get worse if Tinubu enter.... If someone he made president is like this, imagine the kind of person he is... The doctors go just disappear leaving us with Goko cleanser and co

Social media is supporting him bros. He leads in that area. Guys supporting behind their keypads from America, Canada, Brazil, UK etc have endorsed him.

OVB123:
No notable personality supporting peter obi from the east? I hope they will not disgrace their son, on that day of election?

Just take it easy bro. You don't know me I don't know you! But we are both Nigerians. You said we made up our mind to vote based on tribe and yet you said we voted in Buhari. Yes, I am Yoruba but let me remind you it was not Yorubas that voted Obasanjo in.
Support your candidate in your space and don't call people names or insult them. The originall poster did not mention or insult easterners, you can go back and read his post..he was only telling you the rating was a world recognized one and not made by some guys in some corners to fraudulently promote their candidate. Please embrace peace, I do not see why you should insult me also in this post.

Lashist:

Relax zombie. Did you read what your fellow dumbheads said before I replied him. Can't he just support your candidate without insulting easterners? I doubt you have a reasonable answer to this. Nobody is ruining Obi chances anything. The softest person that speaks to you won't make you urchins decided to vote Obi. Your mind is made up to vote based on tribe. That been said you guys that supported buhari used insults to bring him in. I don't know why you want to stupidly form a Saint. It doesn't matter who you vote, if BAT wins, you'd suffer same thing others will suffer. Your frustrations won't change in anyway

Your candidate has warned you to stop this hateful and violent lifestyle. Can't you just support him in peace? You and your fellow obidients keep ruining his chances with this backward lifestyle..

Lashist:

You are just so dumb. Insulting easterners bcus you want to sell your candidate that gives no shit about your useless life. You've forgotten that the easterners you are insulting also support BAT

Asíwájú n'iwá.....n'ígbàgbogbo, n'íbigbogbo.
Many haters will leave NL laslas.

Why will you label Igbo ladies as corrupt and encouraging corruption? This is not a good example and I'm sure these ladies will not take this lightly with you.

Sucre6:
No sleep no sleep wake up, collect your money, they are only milking the old man dry, he aint getting no vote from them, inside their mind, they already know their incoming, Tinubu is just wasting few billions, nothing more to see here, and Its gon be a wasteful venture at the end

Why do you have to hate the northerners like this? You are not Nigerian more than them. We are all under the same constitution and allegiance.

matrixme:
Like I commented the other day. Tinubu is a conditional philanthropist. There are worst cases of flooding in Kogi, Benue and Balyesa states, but the old bat turned his compass to Kano to pacify them again. The other time he donated billions to Kano fire victims. This romance with Hausa/Fulani group is going to fail ultimately. Watch and see

Brother I'm only trying to support your view. Obi is the hypocrite. I am for BAT

Okhuadams:
Just as stupid as you. No wonder your friends and neighbors warned me of your stupidity I never believe them until now no wonder you are like this very insultive bigot

Obi knows more than the FG na. Stupid hypocrite.

Okhuadams:
what OBI should have done instead of condemning FG in Baylesa.
JAGABAN IZA COMING