₦airaland Forum

77up:
When you all ran out of what to say, you will remember there is agbero in lagos as if they are not in Nnewi

exactly what I was telling one fool on Twitter yesterday. There are agberoes in Abuja.
I don't believe Tinubu has ever stepped foot in my home town, uromi in Edo state but there are countless number of agberoes there. I don't know how to Tinubu introduced agbero into all Nigerian towns

CaveAdullam:
1. Women will always blame men for their lapses and failures. Social media and the advent of feminism, gender equality and inclusion has provided a leeway for women to express their independence, yet, nothing to write home about them.
Even if a woman becomes God, subtract all the men from the equation and they will run heaven to the drain. Even in the Bible fictional tale, Eve caused the fall of man and yet 'God' blamed Adam her husband.

2. Not that men don't like women or vice versa but that their sexual selection strategy is conflicting. Women are opportunistic, emotional, instinctual and always goes where the bag is bigger, ladder is higher, and walls stronger: Hypergamy. While men are the ideal lovers: sacrifices and care for the women and children.

The conflict here is that men want women to reciprocate their good deeds but women are unable to do so even when the man falls low. Women always stretches their tiny necks like giraffes to something always higher and forget the good deeds of the man that once treated them with care and love.

3. Men may prefer women for their wombs, vaginas and breasts while women value men for their money, power, status and attention.

However, this conflict as a result of their sexual selection strategy hasn't stopped men and women from coexisting as there has been a whole lot of compromises along the way in order to get better. Simply put, the sexes evolved to be complementary to one another, that is, the strength of one covers for the weakness of the other.

4. You are just cherry picking nonsensical claims: bride price, ritual killings, female genital mutilation blah blah blah to justify your assertions. Of course, you are very wrong.

Female genital mutilation is now a thing of the past even though the cultural reasons behind it was to curb female libido and promiscuity. However, male circumcision is still in vogue, infant baby boys still getting severe pains as a result of sexual hygiene purposes. No two ears hear about this.

Male and female offsprings has been used for ritual killings in the past, reason because the "land must be cleanse of demons causing famine, diseases, drought"...men, women, children all benefited. If you're referring to the present ritual killings in Nigeria, then blame it on female promiscuity, myopic tendency and greediness; same way you'll blame young boys that are killed daily as a result of cultism.

5. You make mention of bride price as if there's anything men gain solely through marriage but rather pains and agony. Men diminish themselves in marriage because they want wives and children to be happy. Despite that, all they get most times is henpecking and inveighing from spouses and sometimes their children. Offsprings are of benefits to mothers and fathers. Even children still prefer their mums to their dads.

6. Men: Short life expectancy. Highest number of homeless people. Highest number of prisoners. Highest number of school dropouts. Longer jail term. Highest number of work casualties. So, what are men enjoying actually?

7. Do you know how many men from yester years has losed their lives as a result of war? If women were truly hated, they would have gone alongside with men to wage war and bring prisoners. But the love men has for women and children, women aren't conscripted, after all, they are the weaker sex.

8. You lots, women and feminists should be grateful to men, had it been possible, you lots would have gone into oblivion long time ago assuming males can reproduce on their own.

"Abeg getat".

Edited: God blamed Adam her husband.

regarding your point number 5 offsprings are of zero benefit to a man. As a man you gain nothing from having children. 99% of the time you will be long dead before they even get a job and are able to support you if you fell off on the way and majority of the time they won't even support you even if you were alive.
Children only love a father who provide, children love their mother whether she was able to provide for them or not. My step mother abandoned her children when my father died, they still loved her.
Women abort children, dump new born babies in gutters everyday yet everyone still believes a mother's love for her children is greatest thing in the world.

Take a look at your WhatsApp status, everybody is "hustling for my mama" nobody hustles for the papa. Listen to all the musicians, "their mothers prayed for them" no father prayed for their children.
As a man once you have children you become a slave. You work and earn 100k, you give your wife 80k for food and school fees, you send 10k your mother, and use the remaining 10k for transport.

An average married man don't have 2 good pairs of shoes whereas his wife has numerous heels and good clothes.
Abeg I don tire to type.

I'm proud of her. All simps must go extinct
Why would a sensible woman want to be hooked with a woman wrapper who kneels publicly without shame?

ironheart:
Otmay look like a joke, but reality is setting in even to the ultra rich in the society. Having a gwagon doesn't determine your level of wealth. It is a source of mobility. In ancient times horses, camel donkeys where like our vehicles of these days. You can choose to have any to sell your products in them.

that motor when gulp fuel. The fuel he used to transport the plantains might cost more than the plantain he's trying to sell. He for use bike if say na hunger

shortIGBOman:
But this my Igbo Babe too fine. Her name is Amaka and She is a beauty Queen in the East. She won the most the beautiful IGBO Girl in the East for 2 years straight.

If your Babe no fine reach my Queen Amaka, just hide your face with shame

this one that looks like a prostitute with 28 years experience. You better delete her picture before she transfer you HIV through Bluetooth

She's ugly normally naa


Reno is still a morọn though

ShaqFu:
Very funny and slimy individuals. The fact she's hosting "Dr. Saraki doesn't mean she supports him" what a load of horsecrap.

To say the truth, I even wonder if majority of these Twitter celebrities have PVC and do actually vote. During the 2019 election, I can only remember Tiwa Savage and Toke Makinwa and some of them voting. These button pushers who call themselves influencers were no where to be found.

Nonsense and ingredient.

lmao. People who are saying Pdp should field Makinde and Peter Obi for President and vice president?
Twitter is conglomeration of fools who have illogically high opinion of themselves

Optimistguy1969:
Please can someone give me just 2 advantages of taking alcohol?


I want to know what alcohol does to you and your body.

Please make me know..... I am a teetotaler, and I understand alcoholic drinks are bitter.


So, wetin una dey gain if una drink?

na Action bitter everybody around you dey drink?

If a man dies on top of a woman, the man will be blamed and also accused of taking drugs. Imagine a woman dying under a man, he will be accused of drugging her even if drugs test comes out positive. The worst part of it is that it is men that will accuse, judge and crucify him. Tuueeeh on the male gender, one of the most foolish creatures in the history living things

ChybuzzDD:
You should have found out the reason first before coming to write about it here.
The reason they took that decision was clearly stated.
Safeguarding the society is far more important than making money.
Everything is not about money, as we see it in Nigeria.

you dey mind these guys. Small small boys that don't even know how to drive, driving rough inside a place as crowded as university campus and these ones are coming here to type epistles.

Elimon:
You argue like someone backwards earnestly... With respect to ur views tho...
The vices that come out of a particular sector doesn't mean u should shut it down overlooking its vast usefulness. I used my dad's car to school at times and I know how helpful it used to be based on the distance from my house to school before I got a place of campus. Same goes to other students. Election malpractice in Nigeria doesn't mean u should stop elections but create measure to control it. Same goes to student with cars.

students aren't allowed to wear some kind of clothes to school, they aren't allowed to operate phones inside lecture halls. Schools have their own rules. They have their own problems. Is it the same Schools that have not been able to build lecture halls to fully accommodate students that you want to add car park to the lists of their problems? There's nothing backwards in being realistic. They analysed the situation and make their own rules and regulations. You aren't smarter than a combination of 30 plus professors and numerous doctors of different academic professions who sat down, analysed the situations and came up with the resolution.

3exe3:
Same as on the major roads but is reduced due to the presence of security agencies

What's stopping the schools from creating checks and balances for such

The school is meant to be a ground of innovation

They should learn how to solve problems not always being on the defense

No environment grows with such

they should now bring VIO and road safety to mount checkpoints inside campus or what? There are other more pressing issues in school than those. Schools just recently got a bit successful at flushing out cultism from campus and you want them to add another problem to themselves?

Small small boys that don't know how to drive, they purposely drive rough to draw attention, some even scare pedestrians and start laughing inside their cars. Such idiocy shouldn't be accepted anywhere

Medianna:
Talking about hennesy in a club. The buyer is not a fool to waste 100k, but its because he value the drink more than the money...(I.e worth)
So back to my point if you're sure she was worth it back and now, just don't spoil it with your mindset.respect is reciprocal



The challenge here is not her but the way you're seeing the whole relationship... I know men like respect yea, but the way you saying it is like you're looking down on her..sorry if I misunderstand you.

my point is, if I can buy bottle of drink for 30k to 50k at that time, I see nothing noble in paying 100k for 1 year tuition fee. You have no idea how I see her. She just knows how to respect me. Because I said if slap her doesn't mean that's common. She used to disrespect people a lot mainly because that's how they do in her place in Warri but not anymore. If she does anything that warrant slap(which is very rare) she'd surely cover her mouth.

Foreigna2:
Population of every local government is Minimum of 150k people.
Those supporting Obi have never won elections in their lives. Even Obi has won only 1 election in his life. His second term. The court gave him his first term.

that's what I'm saying. Getting 35k votes on Twitter means nothing. Nigerian presidential election total number of votes is normally 25m plus.
Where they are looking for 15m for your candidate you are bragging with 35k, no be foolishness be that?

Foreigna2:
Peter Obi couldn't get Atiku tangible votes last time.

Those who vote are not on twitter, those on twitter are not those who vote.

You guys will cry bitterly.

even if the whole 35k people vote for am for real life that one na one local government area total number of votes naa

Na only Sevilla we know

bigcee:
Lol, don't mind the guy. He is playing with fire

these small small Nairaland boys sef

Medianna:
Omo!!! This your noble deed that you want to use ego and scatter it.
From the way you sound..its like you own her already... A piece of advise.
Just don't show her this part of you OK..she might feel suffocated.and you know ladies na

even when we met 7 years ago, I had nothing. Even that time sef she still knew her place. Now sef I don't have kobo. There's nothing noble about it. Do you know how much a bottle of Hennesy cost inside club? So paying 100k for 1 year tuition fee is nothing. She still gats respect herself

bigcee:
She never get your time. When she is ready, na Nairaland you go run to create thread

Useless talk. Someone that we've been together for 7 years?
2 years after we met I still had nothing in my account. Una just believe say una understand everything. Since August last year I have been broke.

Goodvibes8:
Happy new month Dear nairalanders. Pls i really your advice on this issue.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and 3 months, I intend to make her my wife. She is always on her recommended glasses because of her eyesight, She is a great, beautiful and brilliant girl but she lacks patience, she is not always patient with me.

She is a kind of girl that if she need something from you, just be ready to give her what she asked instantly and immediately else she will give you attitude.

I take good care of her, we go out on dates, I send her money for up-keep, I always try to be a good and better man for her, she is not a bitch and I love her so much.

Exactly this time last week, I sent her 35k for her up-keep. So yesterday evening (6pm) she called me and she said her glass lenses has expired, she can barely see and it's causing her serious headache, that she needed 25k to renew the lens.

I gently told her I can't do transfer at the moment, let her use the money I sent to her last week to sort it out first, then I would send everything back to her including the money for her glass lens in 4 days time.

She started giving me attitude, she said the money isn't up to 25k in her account, that she has used part of the money. I also explained the reason why I can't do transfer but she didn't listen, from 7pm yesterday till today she refused to pick my calls.

This morning, I have to make some calls to my friends to help me with some cash, then I sent her the 25k to go see her optometrist doctor. Infact what happened is just a tip of an iceberg, I can't even narrate what she done on several occasions, She doesn't care if you have what she need. Everything about her is urgent!!

I see this her behavior as a red flag. What should I do? I love her, she's a first class graduate. Pls don't call me a simp. I just need advice Pls.

her parents have died?
Look, don't think I'm one of those guys here. I paid my girlfriend's school fees of 100k plus from her 200L to final year because her mother is poor, 100k was nothing to me that time and other story but trust me, if I use eye talk to her in public she will code immediately. If I slap her she will use her own hand to cover her mouth so that people will not hear her cry. Now sef I don't have kobo but she dares not misbehave. She smoke igbo?
How can you be taking care of a female and she will have zero regards for you?
You be mugu?

Wetin?

Obaseki is a goat. These foolish Ronaldo and Messi fans have misconstrued the meaning of goat.
By goat I mean Obaseki is a big idiot. Now Edo state has been relegated to the background. Anenih is dead, the only person of worth we could have had this coming election is oshiomole but now he's irrelevant. The entire state is now irrelevant. The foolish oshiomole sef mumu himself by supporting Iyamu. They should all fucck off

FuckDModz:
English education.

Where's Literature in English?

These vagina people and foolishness sef. So because someone you admire is pregnant, now pregnancy is entering your eye too. You no know say you get womb since?

Well finally someone serious in Pdp.
Wike will fry bandits like suya, the same way he fried IPOBs

You are just a hoodlum. I wish his parents could arrest you

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DeepSight:
I don tire.
Good night again.

goodnight. I have been in a very bad mood all day mainly because FG have not paid salary. Sorry if I was rude to you.

DeepSight:
Yes he completed his first term.
You have too many facts scattered and wrong.
Good night again.

he was still in power when he got booted out. If Buhari is ousted this evening, did he complete his tenure?

DeepSight:
As you have already guessed, those were not the errors I sought to correct. I have corrected the errors I sought to correct, daz all.

PS: My last post. Should not have used the word "republic" in reference to the 1st republic lasting over four years. Cos it wasnt a republic throughout. However it was an elected government and lasted over four years.

Ol boy good night. Take care.

as for your point regarding whether power was taken or not, the elected leaders was power not taken from them? Did Shagari whom the people gave power complete his term? Was the power not taken from him?
Abiola whom the people elected, was power not taken from him?

DeepSight:
Doesn't change the fact that leaders were elected then.

I don't even understand the point you are trying to make, I already explained what I meant by power was taken. Even the elected leaders was power not taken from them? Did Shagari whom the people gave power complete his term? Was the power not taken from him?
Abiola whom the people elected, was power not taken from him?