₦airaland Forum

PDJT:
-Lol @OP, are you married to my second wife?

-It goes back to women and money. They are always after their own comfort, then their children. You’re no longer important or needed once you donate that fertile sperm to them.

-The question begging for answer is; can a man feel comfortable feeding himself and his children, leaving his wife to go to bed every night on empty stomach?

-There is wisdom in our ancestor-preferred marriage arrangement- Polygamy.

Polygamy is key and it's also easier. Each woman cater for her side while the man supports.

misterme:
I couldn't vote. I wanted to vote Jonathan. I stood in long queues for hours for several days trying to get my PVC. I still couldn't. Many people didn't get theirs. Meanwhile small northern boys who do scrap metal business near my place were receiving calls from their friends and relatives in the North to come and collect their PVC's which the said relatives have collected from INEC. I, a grown man, could not get mine in the South. In the North, small boys were being begged to collect theirs. INEC officers went from house to house to deliver voters card to people, including relatives of actual owners of the cards in the north. Prof Jega dealt with the south. He disenfranchised us and gave Mr Buhari victory

exactly why the fool, Jonathan deserved to lose. Rubbish. Do you think Obasanjo would've allowed that nonsense?

Oyerinde16:
Living on debt and not defaulting on repayment is accepted and different from living on debt or using debt to bleep olosho and defaulting.

Most people living on debt but not defaulting are not embarrassed, only defaulters are embarrassed and they deserve it...

defaulting for one day will never ever make anyone deserve public embarrassment. If they try that nonsense in correct country they will use their small cutthroat profit to pay damages for the rest of their lives

SavageResponse:
Oya make you sef go USA go borrow money then make you come refuse to pay back make you see wetin dem go do to you for that place!

People wey never enter plane before go just dey here dey talk anyhow

stop talking nonsense. I have a lot of people there. Don't project your life on others. What's plane that looks so luxurious to there. Have you ever heard of creditcard, student loan etc? They are all debts and majority of people don't pay them back in months or years. People default all the time

It's fine. Even I can insult Jeff bezos but he neither know who I am nor will he even bother to care

OnWebTech:
Useless Chinese loan companies doing nonsense in Nigeria, Can they try this in countries where GDPR law is heavily enforced?

I swear, if they try that nonsense in USA or western Europe, they will end up paying damages in millions of dollars to their own debtors.
An average human being in USA is living on debt, nobody harass any of their contacts

larrybabanla:
sure men do criticize men, but women, I bliv u know and understand what I'm talking about

I don't know. "women hate each other" is a nonsense notion. All human have every right to criticise anybody, it is not hatred, it is criticism

princetunex:
So you're happy with Buhari

I'm not. I insult Buhari, it's not because 'men hate men'
If a woman insult fellow woman you start seeing rubbish like 'women hate each other'

larrybabanla:
I know it's a woman that will open this thread, they hate themselves like kilode

rest with this nonsense. If a woman criticise fellow woman it's because of hate? Don't men don't criticise men, is it also because men hate each other?

Oga everyone default on loan repayment, it's not wickedness or anything. Nigeria owe trillions, USA owe trillions of dollars, Donald Trump owe millions of dollars, banks owe billions. Defaulting on loan is not a crime, for that you add interest not start harassing people who were not there when the loan was taken with calls. The so called terms and conditions you are talking about will never mention the part where they will call your contacts and lie to them.
You are only talking this because you live in Nigeria were people do anyhow.
In USA, an average American is living on debt running into millions of naira. Students go to school on loan and leave school with an average of N25m debt by the time they leave school. They still walk on the streets without getting harassed. If all these soko people try one third of their rubbish in a developed country they will spend the rest of their paying damages in millions of dollars to their own debtors

They should have a plan to collect their money without defaming people. if they don't, then they should sit their ynash down and rest.

Kingkyle1:
How does your personal affairs concern them man?
Yea, they should give more time and reduce interest rates but why would you agree to the terms and conditions only to renegade when the time for repayment comes? Isn't that absurd and wicked.
They shouldn't involve people who weren't aware or privy of the loan collections. I don't support the one they would involve one as a guarantor without ones notice.
I have lent many people money and i have had bitter experiences trying to recover my money. Nigerians are terrible with repaying loans. No plans or whatsoever on how to repay. In thks case what do you want me to do as i am not s loan app? Some that i lent money to were even finding ways to eliminating me. Can you imagine?
So Nigerians are a pain in the ass. I will never give any loan to anyone.

BigSarah:
Don't just protect loan debtors , also protect the creditors...
Pay the loan owed by defaulters to the loan companies...

And moreover before loan are disbursed, the debtors accepted terms and conditions as well permission to breach data

DISCLAIMER : I DON'T WORK FOR LOAN COMPANIES, NEITHER DO I SUPPORT THE TACKLING OF INNOCENT PEOPLE THE DEBTOR MIGHT HAVE PUT UP AS GUARANTOORS..
BUT STILL THE DEBTOR IS THE MAIN PROBLEM IN ALL THIS IF WE'RE BEING HONEST

debtors don't put anyone as guarantors. The apps just through your contact list and message anyone they like

rayvelez:
Pay your loan on time shikena.

Nobody who didn't have 5k today will magically have 7k to settle debt 7 days later. The loan apps aren't helping anyone, they spend millions advertising their business deceitfully and forcing down hungry people's throat without most of the people even knowing what they are getting into. they're doing cutthroat business, earning 25% in 14 days. Which legitimate business return 25% in 14 days?
They are into high risk, high profit yielding business and they should be ready for the risk and also have a plan to get their money back without disturbing innocent people who weren't there when they were getting their 25% profit in 14 days.
Besides everybody everywhere default in repayment of loan due to unforseen circumstances. Last year I had over 3m sitting in my account, if someone told me that this morning I would have less than 2k in my account I won't have believed

Rydermaverick:
It's matter of choice man..at least she didn't have sex with them for payment..

how did you know that?

Stupid man that should be sleeping in his own room while the two wives sleep in their rooms. The one who is privileged to be called will be celebrating the next morning

Rydermaverick:
How is she an "ashawo"??

ashawo sef no dey born for 10 different men. She's actually worse

I can marry priestess, mamy water native doctor or anything as long as she's well behaved and those her spiritual baggages don't affect her

Amazing woman kill you there.
Na ashawo you dey call amazing woman?

tobechi20:
We turn a blind eye when husbands pressure their wives for sex, because how could a husband demanding sex from his wife possibly be harassment? His sex drive is considered natural. His pleasure a given.

It’s not harassment when it’s your husband, right? Isn’t a sexually demanding husband normal? Aren’t they just Hot husbands? Don’t they all do it?

This type of erroneous thinking lends itself to less obvious assaults, manipulation, and even in some cases, violence.

But because it can be done in a marriage, it’s even deemed normal and acceptable.

Mismatched libidos among couples can be frustrating. I get it. But it’s also very normal and prevalent. So many factors can contribute to sex drive — external stressors in one’s environment, diet, sleep, medical issues, etc.

Postpartum women are given the green light to bone at six weeks after birthing a baby. Never mind the fact that pregnancy literally tears a woman’s body from limb to limb, molecule by molecule for nine solid months. Bah! You’re fine. Get back on the horse!

Never mind that a new mother may have had full abdominal surgery, in the form of a C-section. That doesn’t take immense healing or anything. Never mind episiotomies. Seriously? Are you looking for a pity party, postpartum women? We all know it’s super easy to heal when your vagina is ripped from front to back. If you don’t want sex after vaginal stitches, what’s wrong with you, women? 

Forget those postpartum haywire female hormones and sleep deprivation after giving birth. Those are just theories; that shit ain’t real!

Sarcasm aside, when a woman is out of the postpartum stage, her menstrual cycle returns. A period comes with its own set of hormone fluctuations that vary and change all month long.

If we all know a woman’s sex drive is largely impacted by biological elements beyond her control, why aren’t men more understanding? Why isn’t society more understanding?

Why are a man’s sexual needs the ones always tended to? What about what the women need? The mothers? What about the support they need to feel sexy?

Women are not only impacted by biology, but they are also sexually influenced by social and cultural factors in their environment. For example, married mothers tend to work the majority of the “second shift.” Second shift is the domestic work done at your shared home, after working your paid job all day.

Women are disproportionately scrubbing toilets. And we’re exhausted. Married moms are disproportionately handling matters related to childrearing. They are touched-out. How can a mom feel Hot when she’s doing most of the work? When she’s the one tending to the kids?

Instead of telling married mothers that they should do it anyway, even if they’re not in the mood, we should encourage men to do something that would contribute to a woman’s arousal.

For starters, men should respect a woman’s rejection. They should respect her body and her choices. They should respect consent. Consent still needs to be considered, even in a marriage.

A man’s actions, or inactions, in the household affect a woman’s arousal environment. We should expect married dads to pick up more of a woman’s second-shift duties. That means helping equally with parenting and domestic tasks.

From the outside, people who berate and belittle women for not satisfying the sexual needs of their husbands are bullies. They are unsupportive. Their unfair, and frankly, deeply flawed marital criticism is rooted in years of oppression against women.

No one, I repeat, no one should think it’s okay for a woman to have sex against her will. Not even with a spouse.

the exact reason all men should marry at least 3 wives. It has always worked until some Caucasian simps said it wasn't good

BornorBang:
1. Meaning you agree that a kid there could have possibly died whether he was eaten or not

2. Please don’t insult me. No be because say me and you dey nairaland together… if you wanna make your point, do so with your brain intact

so killing and eating are now the same thing?
Soldiers kill hundreds of people weekly should we now say soldiers eat people?

Rubbish. Nigerian movie that they will cover with duvet and start making funny noise is what you are calling badass sex scene?

In the end you said nothing. Where are they doing the ritual and what are they asking for?

Hanibbal:
The Op is a lady don't be fooled. She also registered that moniker/account today.

siofra abi wetin be her name. I don't know why they are obsessed with this redpill thing

I don't get it, why should we care about what a some guy said?

gentle136:
Nigeria religious mum do not take nonsense.


Na problem for person wey him mum too dey religious.

she only ended up proving his point that it's all blackmail. He has no reason to believe in the religion anymore

What is she going to do when he graduates and is no longer dependent on her stipends?

Captain8:
your level of ignorancy nor be here........

the tagged white men were used by africans to called all non Black skins........... while, the white skin people referred all black skin people as black men.......

you must be an igbo man, because, I can see the ignorance in you.....

white men is a name formed by blacks to called every light coloured skins......... like wise, black men name was formed by whites to called every dark skins.......

Only two race on this earth namely white men and black men......

stop been begot.......

you held the wrong belief for too long and now you ignorantly thinking it is the fact.......

look at this clown. Who cares where the name comes from? West indies was a mistake by the fool, columbus, nobody cares.
In Caucasian societies, white strictly means Caucasian, nobody refers to a Latino or Asian as black or white. Go to America and call a Mexican white or call a Pakistani or Indian black let's see if you won't be laughed at. You are so ignorant is actually hurts having a conversation with you.
You must be an absolute slowpoke, what brought tribe into this?

Lastly learn proper punctuations, reading the tripe up there makes my eyes hurt

ZendayaColeman:
The future is female.



Women are women worst enemies

rest. So all women are supposed to love one another?
Why?
Do all men love one another?

FahBuLous:
I wish to know u in person, then introduce my sister to u and make her insult u, I swear fear no go let u touch am
Bro, You have your own family, I have mine, you fucking have no idea the kinda family I have...
You can let someone useless your sister, that's on u not on me...

if your sister insults me I will rough her up.

vanbonattel:
Are you surprised?

It's only in Igboland, a place where evil is frowned at and efforts made to correct things that the community comes together to punish their youths in a bid to save them from a societal evil as drug abuse. The method might not be the best, but it's a way of drawing attention to the evil called drug abuse.

Other parts of Nigeria would deny the drug use, ignore it or collect government money and embezzle it all in the name of lying to themselves. They will even give it religious interpretations or start trading blames like, "is it not yoruba people that sell our fulani boys drugs?"

Igboland is the best society in Africa.

lmao if the same thing is done in the north you will be here calling them barbaric terrorists. Una too funny sef

FahBuLous:
Mehn , u are a fool...
I just confirmed it...
Where I am from, we don't joke with family, a man outside dares not touch an hair on my sister's head, we will battle it till thy kingdom comes... Not everyone is a weakling like you...
Please stop mentioning old fool...

you are the only one with family. I bet there are more people in my extended family than your entire clan. Don't start what will wipe out your lineage. If you don't want your sister to get beaten teach her good manners. If she do anyhow she will definitely get beaten and there's nothing you can do

FahBuLous:
I don't know why u guys can't mention someone without insults...
In fact, you are a fool...
I made my comment, if you are not okay with it, pass with ur miserable bitter life....
If you are good at beating women, go ahead...
I said I don't beat women, how is that a problem to you old fool??

yea because you're an idiot. I'm tired of seeing fools like you everywhere shouting on no account should you hit a woman even when you have no idea what the woman did. I've seen female relative squeeze the trousers the husband was wearing to the point that I was scared his penis will burst. I have seen countless number of women tear men slaps yet there are idiots like you shouting never hit a woman as if women are not human like you