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PoliticsRe: Gov Otti Celebrates With Former Kano Emir, Sanusi, On Daughter's Wedding by wands: 12:32am On Apr 28, 2024
yarimo:
Otti only good at snapping pictures, otti is the only unserious governor in Nigeria.
opposite
PoliticsRe: Consumers Lament As Food Prices Rise 30% In Eight States by wands: 9:09am On Apr 27, 2024
PoliticsRe: VAT Revenue Rose From ₦‎347bn To ₦‎549bn Under Tinubu – FAAC Report by wands: 8:59am On Apr 27, 2024
If na tax, I give it to Tinubu. But to industrialize the country, I doubt if he can. Na only tax he sabi
HealthRe: Emzor Pharmaceuticals Plans $23 Million Investment In Ogun by wands: 8:58am On Apr 27, 2024
Lol
CelebritiesRe: Obituary: Junior Pope To Be Buried On May 17 by wands: 8:51am On Apr 27, 2024
RIP. So, it's finally True
PoliticsRe: APC Enugu State Mourns Senator Ayogu Eze by wands: 6:42pm On Apr 26, 2024
RIP man. Las Las, na everybody go later leave this place.
CrimeRe: Communal Dispute Brews As Itsekiri, Ijaw Tango Over Land In Delta by wands: 4:06pm On Apr 26, 2024
Na WA oo. Land matter no be here oo.

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CelebritiesRe: Mohbad’s Father Allegedly Pastes Court Summon For DNA On Wunmi’s Gate by wands: 4:01pm On Apr 26, 2024
d142475:
As long as he pays for the DNA, no problem. Such a wicked "Grandfather."
not spotted
PoliticsRe: Kwara Lawmaker, Ogbeni Seun Ogunniyi Launches Smart POS, Cash Empowerment Scheme by wands: 3:27pm On Apr 26, 2024
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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Naija Dating Site by wands: 1:28pm On Feb 23, 2021
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: An Employer Asking Applicant About His Salary In His Previous Work.is It Right? by wands: 8:26pm On Jan 12, 2021
Its just a way of knowing if they can afford to pay you or not.
PoliticsRe: Is It Not Cruelty For The Government To Order Another Lockdown by wands: 4:22pm On Jan 12, 2021
Lockdown kills faster and affects everyone. Çovid19 kills selected persons.
ProgrammingRe: What Are The Benefits/effects Of Facebook And Whatsapp Synchronisation? by wands: 11:53pm On Jan 10, 2021
ALL in the bid to reduce fraud
BusinessRe: FCMB Names Yemisi Edun As Acting MD by wands: 5:38pm On Jan 06, 2021
congrat.
CelebritiesRe: Temi Otedola Flies To Ghana To Meet Mr Eazi Over Missing Laptop (Pix) by wands: 4:09pm On Dec 24, 2020
love is beautiful! Love is actually sweeter when the man and the woman are both earning. Don't be deceived! There Is no romance without finance. As cliché As that sounds, it's nothing short of hard-biting, bitter truth. Every marriage and relationship truly needs money to pulsate with proper excitement. The relationship is sweeter when the partners involved have good means of earning income, the reason we are promoting workable relationships for employed singles. Join workingandsingle now to meet with working singles who are interested in genuine relationship.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Strictly Working Singles Dating For Serious Relationship In View Of Marriage by wands(op): 3:53pm On Dec 24, 2020
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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Strictly Working Singles Dating For Serious Relationship In View Of Marriage by wands(op): 3:44pm On Dec 24, 2020
[quote author=anna44 post=97233945]It is very difficult for me to start a new relationship because my marriage with my wife ended very badly. I want a new relationship and find a girlfriend, but it's very difficult and scary for me. I read articles on how to deal with this https://breakupangels.com/why-man-want-to-come-back-after-a-breakup/
but it didn't help. What can you advise me?[/quote
I don't seem to understand your intention but you can kindly clarify. Do you wish to get back your woman or to get a new woman?
RomanceRe: Eight (8) Things To Discuss Before Getting Married by wands(op): 3:38pm On Dec 24, 2020
very important points to be considered
FamilyRe: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by wands: 1:41pm On Dec 22, 2020
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RomanceEight (8) Things To Discuss Before Getting Married by wands(op): 6:21pm On Dec 19, 2020
https://workingandsingle.com/article/3_eight_8_things_to_discuss_before_getting_married

Dating is misunderstood by most people for honeymoon where as it is the period of familiarity between both parties. It is the foundation of every marriage and any marriage without good foundation is bound to fail. Dating period is the opportunity to know your partner better. As questions about things you think might cause issues along the line. It is better to prevent divorce by ending the relationship than hoping to manage the relationship and end up divorcing. Several points which should be discussed and agreed upon while dating your partner are enumerated below;

1. DEBT:
Who among the partners are indebted? Who will be responsible for paying it off? Which plan does the person have to pay it off so as not to affect the sweetness of the marriage?

2. LOCATION:
Where do you want to live long term? Do you prefer city life? Country life? Island life? Do you prefer lagos life where 80% lagosians are immune to rough life? How will the location affect your jobs/sources of income?

3. CHILDREN:
Does one have a kid already? What roll do they play in your child’s life. If no children, do y’all want children? How many children do you want to have?

4. RELIGION:
Are you Christian, Jewish, Muslim? Does your partner share those beliefs? If not will they be flexible and respect your beliefs? Do you just believe or do you practice?

5. SEX:
will you be able to have sex with one person for the rest of your life? Do you really love sex? Are you willing to explore in sexuality? Are you wanting an open relationship?

6. HOUSE HOLD WORK/ CAREERS:
Who will do what. STRUCTURE is so important. Will there be need for house help? Will you be doing the washings or the clothes will be taken to the laundry?

7. AC TEMPERATURES:
While some like their AC on 78 degrees, others do not. It is neccessary you understand the preferd living condition and to know if you can adjust or cope.

8. LIVING WITH RELATIVES:
Is any relative going to be living with you in your new home? Are you both ok with that? There are definitely a lot of other things that should be discussed but for now, let's digest the above points.

The points are endless. There are definitely a lot of other things that should be discussed. Kindly drop your point in your comment so we can learn to avoid stories that touch here on nairaland.

RomanceRe: Ladies,what Are Your Plans Before Getting Married?? by wands: 4:41pm On Dec 18, 2020
StacyO:
Hi. smiley
Nowadays, no man wants a full housewife any more.
No lady wants to be turned into a full housewife neither.
Every Tom Dick and Harry wants to contribute to the family in any which way they can.
We ladies aren't left out, as some of us have become breadwinners in our homes.
As a lady, who would want her name blazing in the future, what plans or goals have you laid down so as not to get caught up in a fast lane, when you're finally ready to settle down??
I know some of us ain't even thinking of getting hanged on a family tree. Lol
Mine: Before some years to my mid 20's, I would actually want to create a famous name,which won't only be recognized at home but,anywhere you think humans live.
I don't know how Forbes list works but,my name wouldn't get missing.
All this things can't be achieved in a day but then,efforts need be made.
Nonetheless, what big goals do you as a lady plan to achieve??
You are 100% right @OP: Nowadays, no man wants a full housewife any more.
No lady wants to be turned into a full housewife neither.
There Is no romance without finance. As cliché As that sounds, it's nothing short of hard-biting, bitter truth. Every marriage and relationship truly needs money to pulsate with proper excitement. The relationship is sweeter when the partners involved have good means of earning income, the reason [url]workingandsingle.com[/url] is promoting workable relationships for employed singles. Join free to meet with employed single guys interested in serious relationship in view of marriage.
RomanceRe: Who Should He Marry? by wands: 4:33pm On Dec 18, 2020
When you expose yourself to many options, you end up becoming very confused.
RomanceRe: I Love Him,but: ? by wands: 4:19pm On Dec 18, 2020
switchic2:
Hi Guys,please i need your advice.There's a guy way back in school that was asking me out,for about 2years.He's 29 and I m 25.We were very good friends then and i told him I couldn't date him then because i thought he wasn't serious.He eventually got tired and stopped asking me out and started dating someone else.After a while,i started dating someone else,but i discovered it was him i loved and not my own boyfriend,but since he already had a babe,there was nothing i could do.He also told me he loved me,but he was already hooked with his babe whom he told about me.He tried breaking up with her ,but couldn't and since i had a boyfriend,he didn't want to risk loosing both ways.To cut d long story short,we both endured our relationships and graduated,though we kept in touch.After a while we broke up our respective relationships and still remained good friends.He kept on telling me he loved me,but is scared that i can't wait for him since he doesn't have a job yet.I love him deeply and told him I can wait,because I don't want to loose him again.my problem now is,he hasn't asked me out again,i tried convincing him of my willingness to wait and he keeps saying he loves me,but since he's jobless,he doesn't want to keep me waiting,saying that,He doesn't know how long it will take before he gets a job.He started calling me once in a while.I can't really call him my boyfriend,or even say we are dating,but I know he loves me very much.I got fed up,and stopped calling him,but i can't seem to get him out of my mind.I haven't met any guy like him.Please advice me,What should i do?Should i move on with my life,or b patient and wait for him?
Sorry about your worries. That guy is a very good guy. He knows that not having a job does not qualify him to date. I am also glad you are aware that going into relationship without finance is very dangerous. There Is no romance without finance. As cliché As that sounds, it's nothing short of hard-biting, bitter truth. Every marriage and relationship truly needs money to pulsate with proper excitement. The relationship is sweeter when the partners involved have good means of earning income, the main reason [url]workingandsingle.com[/url] are promoting workable relationships for employed singles. If you are working and single, seize the opportunity to meet with other working and single guys interested in serious relationship in view of marriage.
RomanceRe: She Said She Prefer Her Friend Than Me. by wands: 4:10pm On Dec 18, 2020
tommide442:
Good afternoon nairalanders...I'm new to this and it's my first time been on here..please I need your candid advice...there's this girl we've being dating for a year now....we going to 400L now,she has a friend she lives with in school...then an issue came up between the two of them whereby my girl just have to packout of her house...this my girl actually used her house rent to sort her friends birthday and buy cloths for her birthday... i wasn't even aware before not until she later opened up what she was going through in this girls hand...this girl rubbished me and my babe..saying her parents isn't capable of taking care of her...saying alot of things..my babe mom give her this money for rent even had to borrow it she squandered it on her birthday without getting anything in return...she doesn't even wish my girl an happy birthday neither did she even present her any gift,...she lived with me throughout last year before the covid start this year... She promised to cut things with her and their words won't be more than greetings...so on Wednesday she was telling me something about a pregnant departmental mate...so i was shocked and i asked her where she heard it from...she then said she heard it from her...she actually went to Ibadan from ondo to visit her sister so she actually go to her house to visit her....and I was shocked after all the promises you make that you will never have things to do with this girl again and greeting greeting is okay...so I challenged her and tell her you're getting closer to this girl again..,this same friend advised her to double date when she was with her ex because she doesn't hide things from me....so I told her you've to pick one is either me or her...she said she's gonna go for her...that if I'm not okay with her been with her I can end things with her...putting all the faults on me..defending her and i was just really shocked....so i refuse to reply her messages since Wednesday now she keep telling me its over and keep pleading again..keep breaking up and begging again..,she'd end the relationship and start pleading again,so nairalanders I'm confused...I really need your advise....I'm sorry if my grammers are bad and please no insults please...thank you all in advance.
Sorry for what you are passing through now. I must tell you this painful truth; most relationships started when you are independent do not end well. Another truth is that your gf in question is in love with her friend. It could be that the girl already knows the intimate part of your girlfriend. The secrete to being in control of a girl is knowing her weakest point/secretes. Your girl could be a bi; loving both men and women and her love for her friend is more than that for you but she doesn't want to loose you both since you are the one who loves her the most. She wants to win win.
i wish you could understand that relationship is over rated and most times, those beautiful posts and pics you see about couples do not come with their bitter feelings.
I would advise that you shun relationship and focus more on your academics. Give your 90% to your studies and work towards becoming somebody and they would come after you when you are successful. And when you are working and still single, [url]workingandsingle.com[/url] brings working singles together for dating and relationship. Your soulmate could be there. It is free provided you are working because workingandsingle is after workable relationships. Best of lucks.

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