₦airaland Forum

ajalawole:
calm down dey read. She was the daughter of her late husband brother.
If my wife do this to any child.... E don end be that. Some woman are evil then the devil itself

You didn't watch the video. The little girl is the daughter of her husband's late brother. It's the girl's father that is late and not her husband.

How is this woman different from the bandits everyone is condemning?

Herbalists are the greatest problem we have in this country. It is because of them that people have the audacity to commit crimes. At this rate, security agents should start going after them, but will they since they also patronise them.

Plus, do we still have a functioning orientation agency? It's a pity that most of these ritualists always get caught after wasting lives of innocent people. The orientation agency should go on massive campaigns and let potential criminals know that they will eventually get caught if they commit a heinous crime. So, they should killing people as if they were chickens.

Most of them are here condemning the criminals, but behind the scene, they do worse things.

Lol...I understand his pain but when majority are bad, we don't pay attention to the few who are good.

But he could be right because growing up, we interacted with some Fulanis who were quite peaceful. I think this generation of Fulanis are just bent on giving the tribe a bad reputation.

My childhood neighbour died during childbirth because her husband didn't allow her to get blood transfusion when she needed it. It is
a pity some people are a slave to religion.

Even God emphasized the use of wisdom in our dealings, but over religious people are doing the opposite. They should let her be since she has accepted her fate.

Even with chemotherapy, nothing is guaranteed. My sis had a successful chemo, but within a short while, the cancer ravaged her. That disease ehn...

chudez0147:
What perfume would you recommend?? I think this is a good advice. It shouldn’t be more than a hundred thousand 100k. 80k would be perfect, so that I can use the remaining 20k for the life chicken .

Most Nigerians hardly show appreciation for a kind gesture, and I am impressed that your friend is trying to show his appreciation. However, the amount you are quoting is way too much. Someone that earns 85K shouldn't be budgeting 100K so he can buy his helper a gift.

He should just budget no more than 20K. With that amount, the list of what you can get is endless. Cologne, Christmas hamper, live chicken....just name it. Don't go overboard with your gift because even the man is aware that the salary is meagre.

Angelfrost:
I have been married for a good while, and not a damn thing about my wife and kids has ever graced social media...!

Asking people to respect boundaries that you have failed to set and establish firmly from day one is just silly self-deceit.


Till this very day, I have not seen one thing about Olamide, the musician's, personal affairs... I don't even know what his wife or kids look like... Same for some other top celebrities within this nation and overseas.

Popularity or not, you can completely shield your personal life affairs from the public if you are smart.

You are not a celebrity, and even if it hits social media, no one will notice. These celebrities deliberately put their private lives on social media because of the desperation to stay relevant. It is good for business.

FaAbData:
Do you know there's something called statutory rape? Age of consent?.

As a 33 years old man if I sleep with a 17 girl who loves me and was even the one to seduce me and was even the one untop of me taking the lead, it's rape. It's same with a 33 years old woman and a 16 years old girl
Rape doesn't always have to do with force

I know of statutory rape, but I think there should be exceptions to how some of these cases are judged. A boy of 16 may be a minor under the law, but his actions can be judged depending on the severity of his crime.

I have read in the news how some young men under 17 ganged up to rape a woman in her 30s. Would you dismiss their behaviours and not press charges against them because they are minors? Of course not!

In this particular case, those that watched the video said he was even hitting the woman. He is obviously hooked to porn and just practicing what he has been watching. With a good lawyer, that woman can easily get off the hook.

Zonefree:
Oshey, age analyst 🙌

Lol...He was my neighbour, so I know better.

Let's be honest, though IBB ain't no saint, Mamman Vatsa was a traitor for planning a coup again IBB, his best friend which could have gotten him executed.

And knowing that the penalty for coup was death, Vatsa's execution was justified. Unless he was set up and innocent of the charges. But findings proved that he was guilty as charged.

If you want to end terrorism, the first step is to track the people sponsoring them. The funny thing is, it is very easy to identify these terrorism financiers because most of them operate under the guise of BDC operators and textile business men.

But EFCC would rather go after customers that make deposits or transfer of just 5M, while turning a blind eye on these criminals.

maasoap:
US, UK, West generally is much worse. Such practice is very rampant among them and non existent in Nigeria. So, you don't understand the subject


The moment you're accused of rape in the West, your life is automatically ruined! Don't you read news?

Of course I read the news always. And the news tells me that after being accused of rape, what follows is an investigation, then judgement.

If you read my post with a clear head, you would understand the questions I was trying to raise. Why was he not arrested and arraigned in court if he was accused of rape?He rather stated that he was sacked on allegations of rape.

If you are also conversant with the news, you would know that what employers normally do in a case like this, is to suspend the accused pending when investigation is concluded.

But how can investigations be concluded if there was no arrest? So, stop talking like we don't know what is happening in developed worlds.

advanceDNA:
there should be potential sex offenders list for women like you to protect boys since you see nothing wrong with fvcking a minor because he's a [b]boy......[/b]

.. And yes...i noticed you repeatedly called him a boy, which is what he still is..[b].a boy!! In every measure ....yet your carnal, dlrty rape apologist mind couldn't establish what is wrong.....[/b]

I find the emboldened very funny and couldn't help laughing. Don't blame me for what aunt Jumoke did to you as a teenager. But I'm sure you must have enjoyed it.

advanceDNA:
U are a rape apologist and u should be ashamed of urself because u won't say the same if ur son was involved..

If the boy were my son and I see him in such an explicit video, I won't consider it rape. I would rather be disappointed for raising such a promiscuous son. I might even consider donating him to charity because a son like that is a menace to the society.

advanceDNA:
U are just a rape apologist....justifying an adult and a minor sexual intercourse ..

U won't say the same if ur ur teacher's son slept with him ... At the end of the day u are same with men who say dirty stuff when the tables turn and a they say a 17 year old girl is old enough

Lol... Don't allow emotions to blind your judgement. It was the boy that seduced the teacher, and not the other way.

A 16 year old boy is old enough to reject the advances of his teacher. Physically, he is even stronger and from the video, he wasn't raped.

However, people tend to raise alarm if an older man sleeps with a teenage girl because they mostly do it forcefully; even threating them with death. So, comparing both scenarios is absurd!

Maybe it was she that married the guy and not the other way y'all are thinking.

Lol...Let this man continue to pepper Reno; same way he likes to pepper others. I wonder why he has remained silent. This is so unlike him.

From the comments I have read above, I can boldy reaffirm my claim that almost all Nigerian men (including the mad ones) are chauvinistic, with a deluded illusion of being the prize.

To those blaming the woman for calling off the wedding, would you say the same if it was the man that caught her with one of his groom's men?

Lovit:
In all you do, marry an emotionally intelligent woman

If not, small quarrel like this, she won't cook talk less of serving you food

Women low on EI, always lose their marriages, sometimes people think it is an evil spirit or village people that are causing women from a particular family to lose their marriages, but it is just low emotional intelligent that runs in that family

How do you know a woman with low emotional intelligence?

1. They quarrel a lot
2. They are very irritable
3. They don't know how to say sorry
4. If there is a quarrel, even if she is at fault, she won't admit it and she won't apologize
5. If you are married to them, you the man will always be the one to make peace, she doesn't know how to make peace
6. Their mood swings controls them, they don't think outside the box
7. Relationship with them is always one sided, you do everything to keep the relationship going. the day you stop, relationship dies
8. They are always critical, frowns at jokes, they don't overlook faults

etc

Your points are valid. But most times, women degenerate into becoming emotionally unintelligent because they married men who are abusers, chauvinistic and irresponsible. These types of men will even expect their wives to say sorry if when they are guilty.

maasoap:
You don't understand, next time you should ask. What happened is that there is no case against but the society is already judging him. It is like when you're accused of something that you didn't do but your reputation is already damaged.

UK is not Nigeria. The society cannot judge or gang up against him if a case of rape wasn't established against him by the UK police.

His evidence that the wife committed paternity fraud is a solid proof that he can use to clear his name. Why is he silent?

The way Nigerians place so much value on meat should be studied in Harvard. And the way they treat their maids should be studied in Yale.

No normal human being in her right frame of mind would hire a 6 year old to serve her. This is pure evil!

People keep behaving like this, but still have the audacity to condemn the atrocities of bandits. Any human that treats his/her fellow human in an inhumane way is a bandit.

He is not 59 and should be in his 60s.

enemyofprogress:
Na which kind clothes be dis now? Him come look like gateman.

That his safari clothing can pay your one year house rent.

geoworldedu:
Maybe those ones sha. Mine I'm not tolerating, I'm just living life how it should be. I don't know about my wife though. But one thing I think I've been able to make her realize is helping her know that religion is a big scam with evidences, so tey right now she can argue against religion publicly, whereas I do mine privately and only online. I wonder where she got her own courage from

Religion is not a scam. The people practicing it are the scammers.

MRS IDIBIA SPEAKS OUT.

"Being a musician doesn't mean you are above the law , being a man doesn't mean you can do and undo , if your ex took that rub!sh from you I won't, I am a doctor and a career woman can't take orders and give submission to another human because he is my husband, we are all equal . I have advised him to go back to school , see London is not Nigeria. Here male and female are equal ".

_ Dr Natasha

geoworldedu:
What if the two partners are behaving like two good friends. That's the kind of relationship I'm having right now. None of us is doing fools. We read relationship breakups like this together and try to discuss why it went those ways.

I have seen people who are supposedly best of friends, but they are barely tolerating each other because they are used to people seeing them as friends and don't want to part ways.

Most abusive men are yet to meet their match. Men can only abuse weak and overly dependent women. If you are that type of woman, then you have a long way to go.

Hedonisco:
Exactly. And as a man, it is one's duty to find a woman that is willing and groomed to happily occupy this position.

Keep looking for a slave.