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Lovit:
In all you do, marry an emotionally intelligent woman

If not, small quarrel like this, she won't cook talk less of serving you food

Women low on EI, always lose their marriages, sometimes people think it is an evil spirit or village people that are causing women from a particular family to lose their marriages, but it is just low emotional intelligent that runs in that family

How do you know a woman with low emotional intelligence?

1. They quarrel a lot
2. They are very irritable
3. They don't know how to say sorry
4. If there is a quarrel, even if she is at fault, she won't admit it and she won't apologize
5. If you are married to them, you the man will always be the one to make peace, she doesn't know how to make peace
6. Their mood swings controls them, they don't think outside the box
7. Relationship with them is always one sided, you do everything to keep the relationship going. the day you stop, relationship dies
8. They are always critical, frowns at jokes, they don't overlook faults

etc

maasoap:
You don't understand, next time you should ask. What happened is that there is no case against but the society is already judging him. It is like when you're accused of something that you didn't do but your reputation is already damaged.

enemyofprogress:
Na which kind clothes be dis now? Him come look like gateman.

geoworldedu:
Maybe those ones sha. Mine I'm not tolerating, I'm just living life how it should be. I don't know about my wife though. But one thing I think I've been able to make her realize is helping her know that religion is a big scam with evidences, so tey right now she can argue against religion publicly, whereas I do mine privately and only online. I wonder where she got her own courage from

geoworldedu:
What if the two partners are behaving like two good friends. That's the kind of relationship I'm having right now. None of us is doing fools. We read relationship breakups like this together and try to discuss why it went those ways.

Hedonisco:
Exactly. And as a man, it is one's duty to find a woman that is willing and groomed to happily occupy this position.

Lifestone:
And they sent him to school, spent money and resources to raise him till he was 14. Aside the boy didn't claimed he was abused by the unfortunate Mother, he looks good for his age.
He was picked from an orphanage home not stolen as you claimed.
Yoruba will call this Foworaku

SmartPolician:
Out of every 1 marriage that failed, 9 worked. Unfortunately, people prefer to talk the one that failed and negative outcomes than the 9 that worked and their positive outcomes.

DiarisGodoo:
She wasn't that pretty when he married her. See below

mamagee3:
This is when excellent detective work comes into play. She couldn’t have committed suicide with stab wounds all over her stomach.

Most people commit suicide with a single shot to the head…How could she stab herself multiple times; after one stab wounds?, she would go unconscious and will not be able to stab herself the second time.

Suicide is not an option, nobody commits suicide with multiple stab wounds….

onatisi:
So how will it affect them negatively,please explain.

I'm surprised you are asking this question. Is the unending unhealthy competition among half siblings not enough to affect them negatively?

Should I hammer on the divided attention the children get that makes them feel less loved, or they having to deal with evil step mothers? The problems are endless, and that is why half siblings hardly share a bond and are always fighting. Will you feel at peace knowing there is no unity in your home?

Please why is polygamy working in arab nations if it is bad ?
Can you compare the lifestyle of the Arabs to a typical African? In Arab nations, women are regarded as nothing and men dominate. It is mostly a master-slave relationship. So, with such a set up, it is a no-brainer why polygamy is working over there. But even at that, the women and their kids still compete among each other.

onatisi:
The best solution to divorce is polygamy .most especially for men ,if you know you are losing feelings for your wife ,just marry a second one . Just an opinion though

RollinTNDA:
Only people with high IQ will pass this one

Ttalk:
How are you sure he went through all you think.

What makes you think he didn't? Perhaps, you can school me.

Why are Southerns don't have deep thoughts, seems the north they tagged illiterate are more wiser

Look like another divide and rule so that eyes will now shift away from the real Fulani terrorist to the villagers.

Shift, everybody knows Fulanis have been terrorising the north, but other criminals are capitalising on that to commit crimes so the society can tag the perpetrators as 'Fulani bandits'.

His story is not real


So, tell us the real version.

Ttalk:
The guy story no straight.

They crossed deep river only to remember that bike can't cross river and he quickly insert 2 sets of kidnappers that include people on bike who distract

He could be a kidnapped victim that was forced to make such statements.

Most of the Fulanis can speak the local dialect of these villagers

iwaeda:
I pray this is not arrangee, I have listened to it severally, so many thing not connecting, Kabba is far from Obajana and a Benue man understands Yoruba.