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Celebrities › Re: I didn't post it, Natasha is at risk: 2face Reacts to now-deleted 'help me' Post by We4all: 2:13pm On Dec 03, 2025
At his age, this man is still indecisive and acting like a teenager. Let her continue pressing your neck, by the time she is through with you, you will ask your fans for genuine help.

By the way, so Natasha is even a single mom. Hmmn... I was thinking she was 'tear leather', and thought she was doing TuFace a favour. Now, I know better. Both of them are bend down select and deserve each other.
Crime › Re: A Boy Kpai Woman Who Raised Him After She Said That She Wasn’t His Biological Mu by We4all: 11:45am On Dec 03, 2025
Huh! Now I understand why he was abandoned by his biological parents. Maybe his father was also a murderer and he took after him.
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all: 6:41pm On Dec 02, 2025
brain54:
They are always exceptions to every rule...


You think there is always exceptions to every rule, but don't agree that some kids are wired differently, and something as simple as slaughtering animals may affect them? Interesting!
Celebrities › Re: ‘I Was Given A Script To Sleep With A Dog’ – Nkechi Blessing On Acting Challenge by We4all: 6:10pm On Dec 02, 2025
JuanDeDios:
In the early Nollywood, Tina Amuziam slept with a dog in the movie Glamour Girls 2. You don't actually sleep with the dog. You enter the room with the dog and you come out. No porn at all. In that movie, Blessing Eremi washed her c##chie and used the water to cook vegetable soup for a potential sugar daddy (Jide Kosoko).
Thank you! I'm surprised that some people commenting could think that she was actually supposed to sleep with the dog. Smh at those commenters.
Celebrities › Re: ‘I Was Given A Script To Sleep With A Dog’ – Nkechi Blessing On Acting Challenge by We4all: 6:07pm On Dec 02, 2025
Some of you debunking her claims no nothing about screenplays. Giving a script to sleep with a dog doesn't mean she would actually sleep with the dog.

Haba....So, when a script says Genevieve slept with Emeka Ike, did they actually sleep together?
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all: 5:58pm On Dec 02, 2025
brain54:
People slaughter animals for food in a humane and respectful way.

Lol.... Your assertion is wrong. How many people have you documented their methods of killing animals before? There are people who will first strangle chickens to death before killing them. Isn't that cruelty even though they are used as food?


Did the kid open fire because he saw a chicken being slaughtered at childhood?

Okay, let me break it down. Do you agree that slaughtering of animals for food inflict pains on them and they suffer before dying?

Now, here is the message I have been trying to pass across: Some children may take pleasure in watching animals in pain and that may be damaging in the long run. Whether you agree or not, doesn't change the fact that this has been happening.
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all: 5:29pm On Dec 02, 2025
brain54:
I had to pull up the definition of violence from Google...


Slaughtering of animals, whether for food or rituals involves spilling of blood. And spilling of blood is considered an act of violence whether you agree or not.

I can see that your points were crafted to suit your narrative because you have been dwelling on slaughtering of chicken, as if chicken is the only animal people kill for food.

Have you witnessed a dog being killed before for food? Growing up, my dog eating neighbour would chain his dog and machete it to death. The chilling cries of the dog alone would break your heart.

With the dog going through such excruciating pains, is that not an act of violence? I guess at this point, you would say people shouldn't be eating dogs but stick to the type of meat you are used to.



People slaughter animals for food in a humane and respectful way.

Not dogs.

Like I said earlier children can actually be taught the value and to respect life through the slaughter of animals.

Lol...you have been dwelling about how Africans love to copy western behaviours, but this opinion sounds so unafrican. So, why are you suggesting something that is common among white men? At this rate you are contradicting yourself.

The people we try to copy (westerners) that always try to hide and come up with many ways of making simple acts like slaughtering a chicken for food complex are the most brutal set of people going by historical records.

Why not speak for yourself and try not to generalise? You may consider slaughtering of animals for food as simple, but others don't. Why are you getting worked up over it?

Plus, if you think that white men are the most brutal, then I guess Africans are now trying to give them a run for their money going by the deadly crimes that pop up in our news feed daily.

Look at how brutal slavery was on the African continent for example.


That is because your not so smart forefathers sold their people out in exchange for mirrors. They should be blamed first before casting blame on the whites.


Did the kid open fire because he saw a chicken being slaughtered at childhood?

You should read more about how childhood experiences play a vital role in the crimes people commit.



I feel before the adventure of the white man into Africa society. We had a more balanced society. Our parents had a way of passing a message through simple acts like killing chickens that would teach a child the value and circle of life and death for instance. It's not by hiding these things that make kids or society better.

Now, this is funny. You had a balanced society, but encouraged the killing of twins, practiced cannibalism, forced widows to drink water used for bathing their dead husbands, used humans as sacrifice...et al. If that is what you call a balanced society, then balanced must have a new meaning I don't know of.


A sick mind is a sick mind and can by triggered by the slightest trauma.

You believe a sick mind can be triggered by the slightest trauma, but not by watching an animal being slaughtered? Do you know how traumatic some people get watching animals being slaughtered. Plus blood, holds a cultural and spiritual power.

I know people who will never kill the animals they raised for food because of their empathy towards them. So, slaughtering of animals for food may be a simple act to you, but not for others.

Science/Technology › Re: What Do You Call This Bird by We4all: 1:33pm On Dec 02, 2025
God abeg oh! Must you people eat anything that looks edible?
Family › Re: I Was Promise 300k. by We4all: 11:36am On Dec 02, 2025
fredagu:
I was promised 300k if I can withstand weed for 2weeks please what's the best way to do it any suggestions for the record I am addicted already
Come and live with me, and I will teach you the true meaning of discipline.
Family › Re: Proudly Virgin At 30+ — Glory To GOD! by We4all: 11:32am On Dec 02, 2025
Nice write up. However, in my opinion, any woman who is keeping her virginity should do so for her peace of mind, and not for an undeserving man who is not worth that sacrifice.
Politics › Re: Ribadu: Abducted Niger Schoolchildren Are Doing Fine, They Will Return Soon by We4all: 8:54am On Dec 02, 2025
Politicians and their careless statements. How can anyone in the captivity of bandits be doing fine?
Celebrities › Re: Natasha Is Bad For Business - 2Face's Management Slams His Wife by We4all: 8:46am On Dec 02, 2025
She is way younger and TuFace should have known better. I guess he is well prepared for the drama and enjoying it. Sometimes, I wonder what brought them together in the first place.
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all: 8:42am On Dec 02, 2025
brain54:
I have read about desensitization...

And social learning theory. But still can't fathom how it correlates with a chicken affecting behavior. Can you explain?
Okay. To summarise, the more a child continues to witness an act of violence, those situations become normalized.

So, let us liken it to slaughtering of animals. When a child becomes so used to spilling of blood, he sees it as normal, and it may lower his inhibitions against committing violent acts that involves spilling of blood.
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all: 12:15am On Dec 02, 2025
brain54:
Can trigger certain behaviors like what...?


Seeing a chicken shouldn't trigger evil in any normal person. What behavior has killing a chicken triggered in Africans?

Seeking knowledge from anyone is different from throwing away your lifestyle and embracing or copying everything the person does.

It can only make you a caricature of that person!
Go and read about social behaviours and pay attention to the concept of 'desensitization' and Albert Bandura's 'Social Learning Theory'. Then you will understand why people behave the way they do.

If it has not been established that killing of chickens trigger certain behaviours in Africans, then perhaps it could be because we lack good psychologists over here.
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all: 12:00am On Dec 02, 2025
brain54:
Can trigger certain behaviors like what...?


Seeing a chicken shouldn't trigger evil in any normal person. What behavior has killing a chicken triggered in Africans?

Seeking knowledge from anyone is different from throwing away your lifestyle and embracing or copying everything the person does.

It can only make you a caricature of that person!
Lol. You quoted me when I was still trying to modify my post.
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all:
brain54:
Any child or adult that wants to be evil...


Will be evil.
It's not about watching a chicken being slaughtered.

If any thing a child watching or participating in a chicken being slaughtered would teach basic values like appreciation for food, the natural value of life and death cycle, responsibility and a whole lot.



Our problem as Africans is that we throw away our values and embrace everything the white man does.



We can never be like the white man. My lecturer used to say the best we can be as Africans to the white man is a caricature. Because we can only imitate him not be him!
No one is disputing your first statement because that is a basic fact. Anyone that wants to be evil, will be! Regardless, there are some childhood experiences that can trigger certain behaviours in people, of which slaughtering of animals is one of them. So, stop dwelling on that and try to understand the message I was trying to pass across.

As for wanting to be like the white man, I'm not sure I understand your point, but let me pretend I do. You think my opinion is straight outta the white man's behaviorist theories and holds no bearing on the real life situations
we experience in Africans.

Well, if that is your point, then let me ask you a question: Why did you get educated with books written by white men and why did you adopt most life styles practiced by white men? It is for one reason; because they know more than you do.

Learning from knowledgeable people doesn't mean we want to be like them. It proves that you are willing to undergo change to become refined and a better version of yourself.

So, if Albert Bantura, a great psychologist was knowledgeable enough to develop the 'Social Learning Theory', the least you can do is learn because he knows more than you do.
Family › Re: Which Is Harder To Raise, A Boy Child Or A Girl Child? by We4all: 10:55pm On Dec 01, 2025
isan:
Girl child ...... My landlord daughter is 13 and she dey chat 4 boys at the same time
You must be one of the boys to know so much.
Family › Re: Which Is Harder To Raise, A Boy Child Or A Girl Child? by We4all: 10:52pm On Dec 01, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Go and ask the baby mamas, the high school girls who dropped out due to unwanted pregnancy, the women who abandoned their children for their parents to raise, or the hookup girls and prostitutes used for r_tuals: how many boys do we find in their immediate midst? Based on the data you collect from those groups, you can then derive your own conclusion about which gender carries the highest social risk and reputational damage.
Who impregnated the baby mamas? Irresponsible men. Who impregnated the high school girls? Men who are sexual predators.

As for hook up girls getting used for rituals, just imagine if parents raised their sons well, then girls wouldn't be endangered species.

In essence, women carrying the highest social risk doesn't mean they are difficult to raise. It proves they are vulnerable to the villainy of men because some people didn't raise their sons well.
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all: 10:28pm On Dec 01, 2025
eepeepook:
You’re bringing the whole debate back to my question, why didn’t you butcher anyone with a knife?
For the simple reason that watching animals getting slaughtered didn't affect me negatively.
Family › Re: Which Is Harder To Raise, A Boy Child Or A Girl Child? by We4all: 10:24pm On Dec 01, 2025
Ask bandits how many females they have on their team, then you can deduce the right answer.
Family › Re: Porsha Williams Shows Her Girlfriend Months After She Divorced by We4all: 10:22pm On Dec 01, 2025
chipet67:
See how you dey struggle to make sense. You for no kuku close mouth?
Why are you so pained? Are you bothered that your girl could be bi sexual? undecided undecided undecided
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all: 10:19pm On Dec 01, 2025
eepeepook:
Children know the difference between good and evil. Seeing animals getting slaughtered didn’t affect you. It won’t affect the average child. Evil people show glaring signs.
Firstly, knowing the difference between good and evil doesn't stop children from exhibiting bad behaviours. Don't you follow crimes committed by kids on news channels? They can be very brutal that most times they are tried as adults.

Secondly, seeing animals getting slaughtered affected me emotionally, but not negatively. Your assertion that it won't affect the average child is not true because it is the average child that always grow up to become a murderous adult.

Thirdly, in most homes in Nigeria, you will find at least one cultist, and one of their penchants is slaughtering humans they way they do to animals.

If you think their childhood experience of watching animals being slaughtered has no influence on their present behaviours, then human psychology is definitely not your thing.
Romance › Re: Man Politely Turns Down A Lady Who Shot Her Shot At Him by We4all: 9:42pm On Dec 01, 2025
brain54:
When you look like a baby buffalo on a buffet...


Which man would accept such shots?🤷
She has a very pretty face and I'm sure if she gives you the green light, you will enter. So, stop with the charade!
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all: 8:45pm On Dec 01, 2025
eepeepook:
SMH. You grew up watching animals get slaughtered. How come you never picked up a knife to “teach your bro or sis a lesson?”
Because I wasn't an evil child.
Fashion › Re: Top 50 Countries With The Most Beautiful Women In The World by We4all: 8:41pm On Dec 01, 2025
Kemetian:
USE YOUR HEAD.

THE ONLY REASON SOUTH AFRICA IS ON THAT LIST?

THEIR WHITE POPULATION.

THEY ARE REFERRING TO WHITE SOUTH AFRICANS, NOT THE BLACK MAJORITY.

THAT REPULSIVE LIST IS THE WORK OF ANTI-BLACK RACISTS.
Who cares whether they were referring to white South Africans? I don't have inferiority complex, so their opinions don't matter to me.
Celebrities › Re: Nkechi Blessing Arrested The Lady Who Secretly Recorded Her At The Gym by We4all: 5:50pm On Dec 01, 2025
She was arrested for what crime exactly?
Celebrities › Re: 2face Arrested After Fight With Pregnant Wife Natasha In London by We4all: 5:41pm On Dec 01, 2025
It is too early for them to fight because they just started. The future looks bleak for those two.
Family › Re: Christmas: Is It Right To Kill Chicken In Front Of The Kids? by We4all: 5:36pm On Dec 01, 2025
I grew up watching people kill animals, and I always felt pity for them but will still eat the meat because of my love for meat.

However, I don't think it's a good idea to kill animals in front of kids. Children are wired differently, and there is no limit to what they can do. An evil child may pick up a knife one day just to teach his baby sis or bro a lesson. If you know what I mean.
Family › Re: Can You Fart In The Presence Of Your Partner? by We4all: 5:28pm On Dec 01, 2025
Is farting not supposed to be an involuntary action that can happen anytime? If it happens, suddenly, just apologise and move on. If you feel embarrassed about it, it's because you haven't bonded with your partner.

If your partner feels awful about it, then you might be dealing with someone who is as fake as Toke's bbl. Run from people like that cos they ain't worth your time. Imagine fuming over something you are guilty of! Regardless, try to control your fart as it can be embarrassing.
Fashion › Re: Top 50 Countries With The Most Beautiful Women In The World by We4all: 3:37pm On Dec 01, 2025
galadee:
Apart from Brazil, no single black nation in the list
Na wao! Is Brazil a black nation? Didn't you see SA there?
Fashion › Re: Top 50 Countries With The Most Beautiful Women In The World by We4all: 3:35pm On Dec 01, 2025
Lol...South Korea made the top choice. As in how? Is it the South Koreans I know or there exist another type that I don't know of.

In fact, I think Indians are the only Asians that look a bit attractive. Other Asians with their small eyes and short physiques shouldn't be described as beautiful.

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