₦airaland Forum

Revolva:
You are funny what do u mean so USA should throw 100 use or hour abi

Usa is a dream country to go and chase dreams and make it and you are here .

As if they give u visa you won't go
See you don't know why it's important to have a USA citizen ship
Go ask major industrialist like the Rupert Murdoch media giant tycoon and other tech industrialist wanting to break into d usa market you see the reason the country have the most billionaire on Earth

Abeg America is d place to be and also Canada

Oga if you give me usa visa I won’t go.
I have never applied for one before

[quote author= post=86390045]God bless Nigeria.

@websurfer above, please mind the words you use on other members on this forum.
Do not address members the way you won't like to be addressed.
Let's keep this forum sane.
Kindly be guided.
Nice day![/quote]Suya seller dont make me open your chapters this morning if you dont want to go into depression

I keep wondering what is in that forsaken USA except the slave jobs and hustles Nigerians can’t do without

Damn man go to instagram or facebook and see how they complain like Nigerians on social media.

Or at least haven’t you met friends from there ?

Fu..ck man this people have a minimum wage of 7.25$ / hour for a decade now

[quote author= post=86389318]Damn it!
The image of that road and environment is gory!
Not fit for human beings to live.
And look at people hawking their goods in the dirty and disease-infested poo!

May God punish all our evil and corrupt politicians in this nation.
May they never end well..This is only the beginning for them.
This criminal's name Orji Uzor Kalu is tarnished forever, same with James Onanefe Ibori and many many more of them.
May the tears of the citizens they stole from torment them.[/quote]Dumbo look at the photo well. Its photoshopped
Though there are dirty environments as such anyway

Wonderful piece. Post source and complete write up

rafhell:
i usually don't drive my car on mondays due to lagos traffic.

i took a bus to obalende this morning and was forced to trek from obalende to VI.

To be honest i enjoyed the 35 minutes trekking.

As for me, i prefer the bikes and keke do not come back.

Lets trek as we use to do and improve our health.

its trekking for me every monday morning.

Now this is a sound person

dlondonbadboy:
If you don't have money in Nigeria, at least have sense. The young thief and his dumb lawyers didn't appeal the 21years sentence. They were appealing nonsense.

So if this is your reason why you want to quit, no wahala. But I'd have advised that you strive and get your share of the national cake.

The country is dead, let's join hands together and bury it..

I agree with you that the lawyers were appealing nonsense.

But one quick question. have you had issues with Nigerian police before ? Where they leave you with no option than to use a lawyer they will provide you


Not like they even have anything against you

tsdarkside:
it is theoreticaly not possible that way....
when immigration even agree sef,then what....!!??

paperless....!!

then what....??

The only usefulness of my passport and my license is for bank identification purposes and travel. Aside that, it is useless

DaBullIT:
So you'll love to quit being a Nigerian ? God to immigration office , they can help you

I want to quit bro, there is no hope or jurisdiction being a Nigerian

In all honesty, i have come to a point where i feel i no longer want to be a Nigerian.

Like, I don’t wish to uphold the laws of Nigeria which is meant only for the poor and it’s jungle ways of dealing with people. After-all, there are no benefits of being a Nigerian

How can a judge sentence a man to 21 years for robbing just 2k with a toy gun yet almost almost all the thieving politicians parade free and oppressive.

I am fed up being a Nigerian

ubcandid:
nice choice of words from a mentally sound advocate. Your complex is the issue.

There is almost no better way to tell most of you Nigerians how bad your comprehension level is.
Now you shifted your comprehension level to complex.. Waste of time

ubcandid:
yes it is. Wonder why black rappers have commonized the word 'nigger'? Even the white folks use it with suave. The world has gone past that.

Your ignorance is far worse than disease. Even latest movies are correcting the error and you are here writing rubbish with a low mentality

ubcandid:
No, it's no longer. Blacks have done so well that the label is a pride.

Let it be a pride to yourself

olaNL:
A black man practicing a white man's wedding tradition on Arabian soil. This would have been only imagination a 100 years ago.

I know your quote is true but start with correcting the term black and white.. it’s pejorative to call yourself a black man

Here to learn more about life..

I am here to look through typical Nigerians and nairalanders private proposals instead of opinions


Modified: haha see them above and below
They havnt set up meeting to change their lives

Jewessgratitude:
So? You still wanna try or go off for a while?
Everyone needs that someone but somehow it just goes sour when you least expect it.

Taking a break?

Dont mind me for being nosy. You vsn ignore if you dont feel like talking about it.

might never settle, at least not here in Nigeria

Jewessgratitude:
Im sorry dear.
Your response just broke me now.

Please try and resolve it with her. Or take a long break off relationship for now.

Sowii o

fine.
Well, i’ve given it up for real

robotix:
the best way I always know a girls motive is via questions, unknown to them. A few questions can unravel a lot of things.

Websurfer is a great dude... I don't blame you for calling him rubbish. He should treated that girl a biitch, forked the hell out her and dump her sorry ass but he went on doing Mr husband material.

I have better things to do with my time than letting women distract me.
No point communicating with her in any way

kingseg:
In the short time u may feel very pained. Cut all communication with her. You will see someone better in no time. Be open minded. Love yourself and enjoy your self. Thank God you ended it and didn't manage her

Thanks bro, i’m trying my best

Jewessgratitude:
You too are toxic. Like how can you be asking that kind of question? Oh...you expected her to go on her knees and say "oh... I can't move on, if you leave me I'll die" ruuuubish!

If you meet another girl, ask her the same question again because that is what will strengthen the relationship. Shows you to gat security issues.

She'll move on. And she'll meet someone better.

I have a hard time responding to just anything

NiklauseFred:
If you want to live long pls try and stay away from Nigerian girls with low mentality of seeing a relationship like a business.

#myOpinion

They will tell you it is love and care. Even the skills we are trying to set them up with so they can earn for themselves, they won’t be serious

robotix:
Ah, my guy, you are still on this? I do not know if you still remember me, but i did create a thread sometime in 2018 because of you in order to help you navigate this whole mess.

What I will suggest now may not be cool with you based on your standard but it will save you a lot of stress. Like I indicated in that thread years ago, you like pretty women, same as myself but this come at a price based on the Nigerian ecosystem of relationship.

These kind of girls often have ego issues, unstable, volatile, selfish and when you analyse all the failed relationship that you have had, you will begin to see similar patterns.

Because of their beauty, they always feel on top of the world and think everything revolves around their body. The girl you referred to in the OP is an indication of what I am talking about here. They are usually flashy, often on social media using the snapchat app to filter their face and all those nonsense..

I now avoid them like plague, no matter how beautiful they appear.

Also, spending money on these girls carelessly will not make them stay. If my memory serve me right, I think I did mention in the previous thread that a friend burned through 25M (50M in today's estimation) because of a girl who didn't love him but his money.

Do you like how they toy with your emotion, no respect for your being and sanity? Do you like the emotional stress and all that comes with these beautiful fools? I do not think you do. Who like wahala? nobody, except a lunatic.

All the girls I have had bad experiences with falls into this category, especially when you try to be responsible by treating them like a wife, instead of LovePeddler...

You can't continue to spend time with girls who do not have plan in the relationship except the good times they currently enjoy. At this point, you should have a lady you wish to marry and one who is focused so that you can use the time on these stressful relationship on other venture and you can find one if you change your setting and criteria for picking ladies. You have no choice than to change your setting and criteria but if you wish to fork as many girls as possible, you do not need to change it. It all boils down to what you want.

Sex is nothing bro and that girl you referenced here does not care about the relationship, neither did she had a plan.

I had to go for a girl that is not flashy but facially pretty, average height, hardworking and focused because I was tired of all the stress. You may need to do same too. She was the one that asked how I want things to go, which means she hoped it won"t be waste of time

There was this idiot I met here that made me put a complete stop to girls that stress guys but that is a story for another day. That one was after money, mocked me because I didn't dish out as much as she wanted, while acting like we need to taking things slowly. Imagine wanting us to take things slowly but does not want us to take the money slowly... clown . Me that was operating from years of experience

But the good thing is as soon as she left, God opened massive door and 2020 is looking good on all indices plus, I had already gotten a backup with the non flashy girl. So, it was not painful when she retorted to her nuisance because I knew a day like that will come, after 2 previous mishap.

For you, you are lucky to have a family with some amount of money, maybe that is why you feel spending money on this girls would not harm you... for me, I have to work for every penny from scratch, i have to plan, strategize, no godfather, get my guys and we make money together.

You need to change your settings with which you pick girls. If you just want fun, do not change it.. but if you want something serious, you have to change it. It all depends on you AND STOP starting a relationship with money... it never ends well. The girl I am with now didn't get a dime from me for more than a year. It is just recently I started opening up bit by bit.

Everything you wrote is as if you explained the whole story for me. This girl was actually and genuinely my number 1 crush for years,i mean the most beautiful and classy girl i ever had a crush on.
Although i never got a cent from family or anyone my entire adult life.

Thank you and i understand better now

Retirement package

Mishael42019:
My greatest regrets in life is being a Nigerian

Our parents couldnt be from Europe

FactBoyz:
When I tilt towards Atheism, God has a way of reminding me and proving to me that he exists.. Honestly...
RIP TO THE DEAD

Don’t become an atheist for me thoughts and strange occurances. Be one after thorough study and research about this world. Use Wikipedia especially
Then you will understand the nonsense called religion and the true realistic meaning/force in the world easily explainable by logic