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smartsoft:
come to me i will like you the way you are

ok will be ther in 15mins so you can "like me" the way i am.

i would date a poor man in a heart beat if i believed he was a good man money is transitory money can not tell you it loves you or look into your eyes. not everyone has the same opertunites in life , same choices , same background so i do not beleive you can make sweeping judgements about people. doing so is a sign of an uneducated mind.

50/50 its basic math human race is basically 50%male 50%

but women are sneaky and men do not readily admit when their partner has been unfaithful but a woman will tell EVERYONE so there is an outward appearance of men being more unfaithful.

it all crazy i spent my adolescence in the UK thinking i was a bit chubby with a HUGE ass, i came to Nigeria in my early twenties and was informed by my (Nigerian) grandfather that i was so skinny i would never get a husband! my grandmother spent the next 6 months force feeding me. i like a man with meat on his bones can't bare a skinny guy.

i was lucky enough to meet Sean Paul once, a very nice man but not much to look at in the flesh-

i would assume she had something (or someone!!!!) better to do, ask for a full explanation and if one is not forthcoming - dump her.

What is (was) your (the).....
First name: Aoibheann ((WEE-vuhn)
Gender: all woman
Favorite food(s): Cullen skink
Favorite color(s): purple
Future child's names: Caitlin, Elizabeth & veronica- matthew, Allister & Andrew
Sign or b-day: Libra (very typical)
Favorite number: 73
Biggest fear: violence
Favorite quote: live as if you were to die tomorrow, learn as if your will live for ever.
Obsession(S): books ,i hate the thought i will not get to read all the books i want to during my life.
Addiction(s): gym
Biggest turn off: bad manners and ignorance
Biggest turn on: eyes
First thing you notice in the opposite sex: build
Last book you read: rainbow mars Larry Niven

Preferences...

Chocolate or vanilla:vanilla with chocolate chips
Hot or cold: cold
Coke or Pepsi: Pepsi max
Truth or Dare: dare
Rightie or Leftie: rightie
20/20 vision or glasses: 20/20
Big or small: tiny


Do you...

Speak another language:English, French (a little), Gaelic (1st language) & Portuguese (fluent)
Own your room or share with sibling: always had my own room but we used to pile on the bed like puppies to sleep.
Have a sibling(s):4 big brothers 2 baby sisters
Think that God should be male or female: i cannot conceive of the Almighty's appearance
Think that God should be white or black: neither
Like your handwriting: a scrawl
Type fast or slow: fast
Think you're beautiful/cute: to modest to say
Sleep with a stuffed animal("teddy bears" and the likes in case you don't know): when i was a little girl a stuffed lamb called lambsy

Misc...
What is/are the thing(s) you miss the most: i am a widow, so my husband
Are you straight/gay/bi: Straight with a capital S
Piercings: ears
How tall are you:5 ,2
How tall do you wish you were: 5,2- good things came in small packages
What would you change about yourself: my cheeky nature- gets me into trouble all the time.
What wouldn't you change: my hair, my independent streak& my mind.

smartsoft:
@wev, why would you say there is notting wrong with it.. if i were to be your boyfriend and you caught me with another girl.. would u be happy... and maybe i was kissing her that moment..

Lets face the fact.. in this modern world now.. expecially nigeria is kind of common among the girls.. prove me wrong..

smartsoft if i was your girl you would never be kissing anyone else

there is nothing wrong with double dating in principle but the problems come if and when you fall for one of the people you are seeing, the other one when dumped could cause terrible damage. its a dangerous game.

thank you

yeah i have, i told my boyfriend of 3 years i did not want to marry -that i wanted to concentrate on my career .......................then i married someone else 6 months later he was VERY upset.
i also once dumped a man by fax message because he was so needy i could not do it face to face.

i think its very simple if your are a virgin then by all means marry a virgin, but if you have been sexually active then marry someone that has also been. its important that a married couple share the same moral codes. speaking as a married woman sexual compatability can be the glue that keeps a marriage together.

sure would love to know what you think reading it made me feel like a bad mammy- www.math.missouri.edu/~rich/MGM/primer.html#MB

currently lecturing in anthropology and sociology at a Scottish university, would love to do the same in Nigeria - thats my plan/dream

i had my son circumcised but don't know if i would do it again, it just seemed such a dramatic thing to put a infant through , i don't know what the answer is but its a tough question.