₦airaland Forum

t4cash:
I know the women will disagree but honestly, its obviously easier for women to be faithful. I repeat: its easier for women to be faithful.
Think about it? How many women go to the streets and pick prostitutes? That should tell you that indiscriminate sex is not in demand in womenfolk as in menfolk. It has nothing to do with morality. Its biology.

unless you are a geneticist with a first class honors degree and a PhD please do not talk about outmoded biological claptrap.
in different cultures people do behave in very different manners. in the USA or UK it is relatively easy to hire a male escort

i do agree that Nigerian men do appear to be rather unfaithful but this again seems down to culture MORE than anything else. when my mum learned i was going to marry my Nigerian boyfriend she was devastated, she said that he would never be faithful.

i have always had a stronger sex drive than any of my boyfriends and my late husband ,but i was never unfaithful and as we seem to accept cheating is a huge weakness does that been woman are stronger than men?

A: You have trouble trusting people
O -You love life
I -You are loved by most, hated by many, yet wanted by plenty
B- you are wild and crazy
H-You have good looks and a very good personality
E- you love pre-intimacy
A-You have trouble trusting people
N -You're great in bed.
N -You're great in bed.

so i am loved for my looks have trouble trusting people , am a bit crazy and would seem to be very interested in sex- seems quite true

thank you all so much! its my favorite picture ever, i am number 5 out of 7 kids and its the only one with just the 3 of us.

a newborn baby

mummy ,daddy and little weev

sorry the picture is so big i had no idea!

this is my dog Dexter he looks a bit crazy here but he is so cute!

i have a boy of 3 and a girl aged 7. that will do.

its not always women that want to marry fast! my husband first asked to marry me after 6weeks and kept on at me until i relented and we married after just 5mths .it was an excellent marriage ,but my husband passed away two years ago he was only 31 and i often wonder if deep down he knew he would not have a long life and wanted to squeeze everything in.

  I personally think if you can not imagine marrying someone after 1yr then you must question why you are with them. and to the men who are saying that you must wait 3 years or so to see a womans true character 1st of all it works both ways and 2nd if you keep a woman hanging about for 3/4 years you are going to see a change in her coz she is annoyed at this waste of her time.

marriage can be hard work and if you go into it looking for a perfect partner without fault then you shall be surely disappointed.

Jalal:
Hey weev i meant the pronounciation must be weird (funny) when people are speaking it!!!No offence tho!!!

Un TUH-r oo gawnh pawk?
Haha!!!!

ah i see it sounds a little like Russian or Greman

"cnot uhL-pawk Kah" sure we can kiss.

Rhodalyn, i was called black or colored because my mother is Nigerian and if i were to define myself i would call myself black.

@panthress thanx that was sweet of you.

@ Thagodfada, thank u too being black is more than the colour of someones skin.

as i said earlier my parents have been in a happy mixed marriage for nearly 40yrs, if you marry for the right reasons it will work and if you marry for the wrong reason it will not  irrespective of colour.

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@ Weev: your mum is a nigerian? I could have sworn that pix is of a white woman
[quote][/quote]@ Dafman, hmm! i am used to that attitude, when i was growing up in the UK everyone referred to be as black or colored, when i am in Nigeria everyone calls me white . i know i am light skinned but look in my eyes oh yeah and i am built to African standards too

panthress:
most interracial marriages especially white/black has never lasted i don't know of one that has ever lasted.

yeah some mixed marriage do not last because they are started for the wrong reasons-for a visa etcetera but not all

have a look at my picture Panthress, i am the proud product of a marriage between black Nigerian mother and a white Irish/Scottish father - please do not generalize- my parents have been very happily married for almost 40 years

i know a mixed race marriage is harder but i think that is mostly down to outside influences my parent were lucky they meet at university and my mothers parents were so happy she was marrying a doctor they could not have cared less if he was a green alien. my fathers family were hippie type people and did not care, but i know this is rare especially 40yrs ago

hesitation

my home town Glasgow

elinadoon castle in Scotland were as a little girl i though a princess lived

Glen coe the most beautiful place in the Scotland

my beautiful children

today

when was the last time you fell over?

fission

why do we Nigerians seem to think we have the monopoly on culture and tradition i fear it makes us look foolish!

i cannot speak for America as i have never spent any real time there, but i did grow up in Scotland and they have so many traditions regarding who you can or cannot marry. until recent history you would not have been permitted to marry anyone from a diffrent clan that is any one not belonging to you tribe- and if a man married a woman who's family were more wealth or powerful (from a different tribe) than his own he would have to take on the womans family name if it is stronger than your own.

A man would also no have been allowed to marry a woman younger than him ,as his family would have to be sure she was strong enough to help her husband through his life, indeed a young couple were not permitted to marry until the girl was pregnant. the couple had to live together in the man parents home until the woman became pregnant ,if after 1yr she was not pregnant they were forced to split and not allowed to try and marry anyone else for 1yr.

none of these things are still practiced but Scottish culture has not fallen appart they are a patriotic people second only in my own experience to Nigerians. culture is built on the peoples of a land, people are not built on the culture they are the culture.

every culture has traditions but the world is becoming smaller and we must move with the times or be left behind

marry the person you love.

nikinash:
not enough to take him home

really that disappointing i would love to come back to Nigeria to work but i do not think it would be financially possible!

this is the pronuntiation of the phrases i gave earlieier

what is your name-(Jen ub TAH-num uh HAW-ruv)

my name is (SMIIH-shuh, )

how are you? (KIN-mer uh HAH shiv?)

i am well and you (chanhn-yel mee uh JEE-ah-nuv KAHL)

will yoou give me a kiss? (Un TUH-r oo gawnh pawk?)

no, but i'll slap you! -(Chah TUH-r ,ach vehr mee ghoot skahlk)

hope that helps.

i have dated what i think many would concider to be a large amount of men but it could have been more so i think i have controlled myself , a bit

my first lanugue is scottish gaelic so here goes

"de an t-ainm a tha oirbh?" what is your name

"S mise, (name) my name is,

"Cimar a tha sibh?" how are you?

"Tha gu math, tapadh leibh" i am well an you?

"An toir thu dhomh pog?" wiil you give me a kiss?

"Cha toir, avh bheir mi dhut sgailic" no, but i'll slap you

"tha gaol agam ort" i love you

how much could a university lecturer expect to be paid in Nigeria?

lauryn:
i think she's Caribbean, maybe from Sri Lanka or Guyana

yeah i say Sri lanka, do not think they are lenses many people from the Asian sub contanent have eyes this colour its the size of them that make her so striking

its totally normal to look it just the unfavorable comparisons that are unhealthy, if you are in love or falling in love then this will stop, not the looking that will continue your whole life until your eyes or libido gives out.

and do not feel to bad i can assure you your girl is looking to we're just sneakier.

how many guys have i dated in my whole life?

more than i should have, less than i could have.