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Education / Re: Tuition Fee Hike: OSPOLY Reveals Next Move As Students Refuse To Pay by Wennerhood(m): 8:46pm On Feb 03
😆 we’re not serious in this country yet

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TV/Movies / Re: Angel Evicted From The Big Brother All Stars House by Wennerhood(m): 8:04pm On Sep 24, 2023
Imagine mercy that nominated angel crying 😆

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Celebrities / Re: Nollywood Actor, Charles Granville Is Dead (Photos) by Wennerhood(m): 5:45pm On Sep 24, 2023
Rest well
TV/Movies / Re: Seyi Has Been Evicted From BBNaija All-Stars House by Wennerhood(m): 8:07pm On Sep 03, 2023
😆at last
Business / Re: Make More Sales From Twitter � by Wennerhood(m): 10:37pm On Aug 12, 2023
I text you bcs of the hair growth
TV/Movies / Re: Bimbo Ademoye Wins AMVCA Best Actress In A Comedy/tv Series by Wennerhood(m): 9:38pm On May 20, 2023
Congrats
TV/Movies / Re: Yvonne Evicted From The Big Brother Titans House by Wennerhood(m): 8:17pm On Apr 02, 2023
😃who cares

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Phones / Re: Oraimo Unveils The Freepods 4 With An Active Noise Cancellation And Sound App by Wennerhood(m): 6:54am On Apr 01, 2023
ChiefAkajiaku:
Where can I buy this?

I need 20 to do giveaway on my birthday in April smiley





Happy birthday in advance and I will like to be part of the give away chief
TV/Movies / Re: Justin Evicted From The Big Brother Titans House by Wennerhood(m): 7:11pm On Mar 26, 2023
People just lost interest almost everything that concern Nigeria and I don't even remember they're still doing the program 🤣

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TV/Movies / Re: Juicy Jay & Olivia (juiovla) Evicted From The Big Brother Titans House by Wennerhood(m): 7:23pm On Mar 05, 2023
😐people just forget this program

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Sports / Re: Rennes Are Raping PSG On A Steady Voltage by Wennerhood(m): 2:27pm On Oct 03, 2021
winkis matter of time
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N-power: DISCLAIMER!!! by Wennerhood(m): 4:23pm On Sep 13, 2021
Their money is more important in my PVC and they won't even ask you for original copies
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 6 Things To Do Before Leaving Your Job by Wennerhood(m): 5:03pm On Sep 08, 2021
Nice one
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Is The Highest Salary You Have Ever Received by Wennerhood(m): 5:34am On Sep 07, 2021
Mine was 65k but just have to leave due to threats and stress. Man wey no get papa no go con die now for chinco work
Celebrities / Re: Naira Marley Acquires 2015 Mercedes Benz S550 #30million by Wennerhood(m): 1:47pm On Sep 02, 2020
tongue congrats and God pick my call
Celebrities / Re: Laycon Rubs His Manhood, Then Smells His Hand (video) by Wennerhood(m): 1:42pm On Sep 02, 2020
undecided what are we going to do now
Celebrities / Re: Bbnaija 2020: Kiddwaya Insinuates That He May Dump Erica For Nengi by Wennerhood(m): 1:40pm On Sep 02, 2020
cheesy what did you expect from spoil brat
Celebrities / Re: Bbnaija Update: I Regret Dating You! Erica Tell Kiddwaya by Wennerhood(m): 1:39pm On Sep 02, 2020
grin himself regret
Sports / Re: My Guy's Friend Won 49million From Bet9ja by Wennerhood(m): 12:12am On Jul 20, 2020
grin God pick my call
Romance / Re: Can A Man Love Two Women Equally? by Wennerhood(m): 9:40am On Jul 07, 2020
Is obvious you never love the first one but if you truly love her and you won't have fall for the second person

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Health / Re: CORONAVIRUS: Kano overtakes FCT with total confirmed cases, records 80 in 24 hrs by Wennerhood(m): 5:24am On May 01, 2020
grin Kano is doing well in this competition
Romance / Re: Reply To: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Wennerhood(m): 1:43am On Apr 10, 2020
whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked cry grin I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. undecided The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department shocked

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today grin

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely
Nice writeup and please can we chat +234814508191
Celebrities / Re: Isabella Ayuk Flaunts Her Fiancé And Diamond Engagement Ring, Set To Wed by Wennerhood(m): 6:39pm On Apr 08, 2020
cheesy see another achievement for her
Politics / Re: Why Should Law Makers Get Cars For Making Laws? by Wennerhood(m): 12:32pm On Mar 31, 2020
We make them feel important to man kind and instead for us to stand against those that don't even care if we exist or not but it surprise me when I see reasonable able youths still fighting theirselves for this thieves
Politics / Re: President Buhari Declares Curfew In Lagos, Abuja, Ogun. by Wennerhood(m): 8:55pm On Mar 29, 2020
cheesy hope he will remember
Health / Re: Coronavirus: 8 New Cases In Nigeria. 97 Confirmed Cases Now by Wennerhood(m): 11:22pm On Mar 28, 2020
This thing is serious now[color=#006600][/color]
Politics / Re: The 2023 Presidential Race - What The SOUTH Should Do. by Wennerhood(m): 1:12am On Mar 17, 2020
grin make abba kyari end his tenure first now
Politics / Re: Segun Oni Dump Apc For Pdp Ahead Of 2023 by Wennerhood(m): 1:11am On Mar 17, 2020
This people suppose to be hanged and if the country is working
Politics / Re: Gov. Yahaya Bello Is 44 Mom Dies At 101 Does it Mean She Gave Birth To Him At 57 by Wennerhood(m): 1:09am On Mar 17, 2020
smiley wonder kid and are we not in this country that bubu is younger than his kid sis
Politics / Re: 10 Takeaways From Oshiomhole’s Victory by Wennerhood(m): 1:07am On Mar 17, 2020
grin you mean takeaway food
Politics / Re: APC Crisis Deepens As 12 Governors Set To Dump Party by Wennerhood(m): 1:05am On Mar 17, 2020
cheesy Nigeria with dreams
Politics / Re: The United Nations Should Have A Mandate To Take Over Failed States Like Nigeria by Wennerhood(m): 1:04am On Mar 17, 2020
Some people no nice but just let us sell and share the money lol

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