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Politics / Re: What Is Wrong With These Pictures Of Obama, PMB And GEJ by wenson(m): 11:52am On Jul 21, 2015 |
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Politics / What Is Wrong With These Pictures Of Obama, PMB And GEJ by wenson(m): 11:28am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Just came across this and I decided to share.
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Romance / Re: Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by wenson(m): 4:26pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
adonbilivit:No time asin |
Romance / Re: Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by wenson(m): 2:04pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
bobbykeen:Wat is she like? |
Romance / Re: Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by wenson(m): 2:03pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
adonbilivit: And u will b d Op? |
Romance / Re: Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by wenson(m): 2:00pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
Tobiee:Guy hope nothing iz wrong |
Romance / Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by wenson(m): 11:14am On Jul 16, 2015 |
Quite a lot of girls complain that they don’t get noticed when, the truth is, they are being noticed, but guys are being put off from approaching them, because of some of the subtle signals that they are sending out. Men are not as sure of themselves as you might think, so if you are giving the impression that you are not really interested, or the guys think they are more likely to get a slap around the face than they are a conversation, then they are going to be reluctant to approach you. If you have been wondering why all your efforts to look gorgeous and desirable don’t seem to be attracting the men, then read these ten tips on how to make yourself seem more approachable to guys.. 1. Think about your general appearance We know that looks aren’t all that counts, but we also know that first impressions are important. Not everyone can afford chic clothes and the finest makeup, but you should still make the effort to make sure that you look neat and tidy. You should also be able to show your individuality in how you dress, but bear in mind that extreme fashion and extravagance will put some guys off. 2. Don’t give anyone a hard time Remember that a guy could be watching you out of the corner of his eye, so don’t do anything to make him think twice about approaching you. If you launch into a verbal assault on a bartender, because he forgot to put ice in your drink, you’re going to make yourself look scary to any men who might be looking on. 3. Don’t look too busy to talk Most people won’t interrupt you if you look too busy, so don’t be so engrossed in your phone, or your iPad that you don’t even notice that a guy is showing some interest in you! Also, if you are out with some friends, then don’t stand around in a huddle sharing the gossip, because that will dissuade a guy from making a move too. 4. Don’t hang out with the boys There’s nothing at all wrong with having male friends, but if you hang out with them all the time, then other men are going to be cautious about approaching you. You may know that your relationship with these guys is nothing more than a friendship, but another man who is not a part of the group will assume that you are in a relationship with one of your male friends. 5. Think about the body language You can make yourself look unapproachable by the way that you stand or you sit. Don’t fold your arms in front of you, and keep your body facing toward the people that you want to attract. You don’t need to make it look like you are desperate to attract attention, but you do want to send out the signal that it’s OK to approach you. 6. Laugh, smile and have fun You will appear a lot more approachable if it looks like you are having fun, so smile and laugh and have a good time. The happier you look, the more you will make a man feel like he wants to join you and share in some of the fun. 7. Tell him with your eyes One look can say it all, so use your eyes to draw a man in. Without making it too obvious, try and catch his eye occasionally and then look away again and perhaps, let your eyes linger on him for a little longer than they would usually. Too much eye contact with a stranger will make him feel uncomfortable, but get it right, and it will get his attention and make him want to come over and meet you. 8. Don’t get all tongue-tied when someone does talk to you If a man is talking to you, then don’t get all embarrassed and tongue-tied. If you don’t respond to him, then he’s going to think that you are not interested and leave you on your own. Smile, engage him in conversation and sound interested in what he has to say. 9. Don’t look too aloof Confidence is attractive, but over-confidence could make men think twice about approaching you. One thing that guys really fear is being rejected outright by a girl and being given the cold shoulder. Don’t let your confidence be mistaken for aloofness and give out the impression that you are too good for anyone in the room. 10. Give him opportunities to talk to you If you have your eye on one guy, then put yourself in a position where he can talk to you. Be there, when he goes up to the bar or, get on the dance floor when he does. Get him away from his buddies and he’s more likely to approach you and, if he sees you often enough, he’s going to be more comfortable about approaching you. Do you have other tips on how to seem more approachable to guys? Stay happy! |
Romance / Re: Drop Your Number For Whatsapp And Your BBM Pin Here by wenson(m): 10:18am On Jul 16, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: What Every Woman Should Do To Keep Her Man... by wenson(m): 10:12am On Jul 16, 2015 |
Mod wetin we dy wait 4? push dis 2 fp make all dese Yoruba n calabar girls know |
Politics / Re: Checkout This Prayer Composed With APC Leaders by wenson(m): 3:09pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
ifyan:Lolz |
Politics / Re: Checkout This Prayer Composed With APC Leaders by wenson(m): 12:31am On Jul 11, 2015 |
Starships4u:No b only transformer o mah guy! Make e go baf wit cement |
Politics / Re: Checkout This Prayer Composed With APC Leaders by wenson(m): 12:29am On Jul 11, 2015 |
Israel5:In Jonathan's name as hw? |
Politics / Re: Checkout This Prayer Composed With APC Leaders by wenson(m): 12:28am On Jul 11, 2015 |
playboy99:Compare n contrast dude. GEJ beta Dan APC jokers |
Politics / Checkout This Prayer Composed With APC Leaders by wenson(m): 10:09pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
In the remaining days of the month of July, the month of perfection, may ur enemies be confused like APC; slow like Buhari and rejected like Amaechi and Tinubu. While they are gathering against u like Lawan and co....may God enthrone u like Saraki, decorate u like Dogara, and single u out like Ekweremadu. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 11:22pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
K9blunt:Are u still 2geda? Ah mean d guy dah disflowered |
Romance / Re: Interesting – 18 Differences Between ‘single You’ And ‘boyfriend You’ by wenson(m): 8:18pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Adaobi12:Dunno y we r too lazy 2 read dese days |
Romance / Interesting – 18 Differences Between ‘single You’ And ‘boyfriend You’ by wenson(m): 5:06pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Without any further ado, here are the differences between single you – you without a bae, and boyfriend you – you with a bae: 1. Single you loves “bro-ing” out with the “bros.” Boyfriend you hasn’t seen another Y-chromosome in months. 2. Single you gets hammered, literally, WHERE’S THE BREW? Boyfriend you is content getting socially lubed over a champagne flute full of Riesling, with brunch. 3. Single you generally only worries about one birthday. Boyfriend you literally had to buy an extra Blackberry, just to keep track of her and all of her friends’ birthday dinners. 4. Single you hates rom-coms Boyfriend you doesn’t feel pressured to lie about shadily loving a good rom-com. 5. Single you follows any girl showing the right amount of cleavage in her social media avatar. Boyfriend you follows bae around while she runs errands. 6. Single you barely goes food shopping. Boyfriend you browses through scented candles at Bath and Body Works. 7. Single you orders like two, fat, bacon egg and cheeses for breakfast – and sends ‘em back if they’re not oozing yolk, lavishly. Boyfriend you hasn’t seen the likes of an egg-yellow in ages. 8. Single you grills the sh*t out of couples who engage in PDA – yeah, I’m looking at you, motherf*ckers. Boyfriend you has no problem looking like John Travolta at the Oscars whenever he wants to smooch baby girl in the public sphere. 9. Single you barely speaks to his own mother on a day- to-day basis. Boyfriend you, on the other hand, always seems to find time to speak to hers – especially after a Serial podcast, or two. 10. Single you makes sure to watch movies daily, sometimes twice. Boyfriend you makes sure to shower daily, sometimes even twice. 11. Single you creeps on Instagram, and publicly like any targets of interest. Boyfriend you still creeps on Instagram, but certainly ain’t liking anything – at least not “publicly.” 12. Single you gets hyped about basketball season. Boyfriend you gets hyped about seasonally-flavored lattes. 13. Single you sees a lifetime full of parties, and traveling, and other extravagant forms of debauchery. Boyfriend you sees Lifetime movies on Friday evenings, with the most extravagant aspect of the night being how much candy you packed on top of your frozen yogurt. 14. Single you gives the Uber driver 1 star and an earful, to say the least, if he doesn’t provide you an aux cord. Boyfriend you doesn’t seem to mind getting his ears filled with Taylor Swift, in fact, he even knows the words. 15. Single you loves being friendly and social. Boyfriend you remembers what happened the last time he smiled at – or by any other means, acted pleasant to – a girl he didn’t know. 16. Single you maintains a great balance of social, physical and emotional health. Boyfriend you is a f*cking sociopath – but eats quinoa a few times a week – so the appearance of good health, across the board, is there. 17. Single you heads for the hills when he learns she’s on her period. Boyfriend you heads for the closet where he keep the towels. 18. Single you thinks of “bootylicious” when he sees Beyoncé. Boyfriend you thinks of “feminism.” |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 4:37pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Genea:Let's start with ur age! how old r u? |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 1:03pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Genea:Ok buh can u convince me? |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 1:02pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
pablus:Mah guy dun misquote me o. d tin is jst simple all virgins r dsam even wen dy r old dy go 2ru dsam pain a young virgin will go 2ru |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 1:00pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
mykoscar007:Yea any problem? |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 12:59pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
K9blunt:u have no regrets of loosing ur virginity? |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 10:06pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
pablus:It same with all d ladies b it 50,40,30 |
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