passionate88:
Warrisdis?

Na 2dai u c am?

megamank:
very correct and on point.....

Yea man

DharmyYinks:
Do dis for most guys and u just earned ursef d position of a maga

Wah do u mean bros?

Cutehector:
Women need to be true to themselves first.

Yea ah agree wid u buh we guys also have 2 b 2ru 2 ourselves n b 2ru 2 dem also

1. Women have this thing called feelings.
don’t hurt them.

2. They don’t wake up looking pretty. It
takes time and effort.so wen they look
good, please Appreciate them.

3. It doesn’t matter who dumped who or
why. But Whenever they see an ex with
another girl, it always bothers them. Not
because thy’re not over you, but because
they know they used to be that girl.

4. They notice every little thing so be
careful what you say and do.

5. Their eyes are located in their heads. Not
on their chest or butt. So when you’re not
looking in her eyes, SHE WILL KN0W.

6. It’s not that they deliberately like
being late…it’s just a woman’s nature. They
would rather Arrive Late looking good and panache than
arriving early looking ugly and unkempt. So never
confront them
when they are late!

7. Finally, the words of a woman are foolish but only
the foolish man won’t make the best of those words!
Feel free to add yours…..........

blackboy92:
I can relate to dis very well

Relate to it very well as hw?

TheUmmah:
The poster above is a well known fool and a habitual bleacher! Beware of it!

Nawa

Jollyjoy:
Op some persons are worth letting go no matter how special they might have been to us....

u jst said "SOME" not all!

gabazin080:
@OP, were you not taught summary in school. This is just too long for my liking

Bros 4 sec school dem no teach u how to read passages?

Homes a point in just about everyone’s life when we
accept we cannot make it through this life alone — that
we need a partner in order to make it out alive.
Different people come to accept this at different points
in their lives, but regardless of who you are, how or
where you were raised, or what your current living
situation is, you will realize — sooner or later — you
can’t make it solo.
Moreover, you’ll come to accept that you don’t want to
make it alone.
There’s a difference between knowing or being told you
need someone in your life and feeling you need someone
to share your life with.
We are told different “truths” throughout our lives and
although we often believe what we are told, we rarely
find the motivation to do what is recommended without
first experiencing the need to act, to change.
One of the greatest motivators for settling down and
partnering up is realizing you already let an ideal
candidate get away.
Just about everyone is searching for the next best thing,
but only once you realize that finding better is mostly
impossible will you truly appreciate what you once had
and what you were once too immature to hold on to.
Only once you understand how good you once had it
will you understand how bad you have it now, and only
then will you be capable of turning your life around and
turning it in the right direction.
In a sense, you need the one that got away in order to
find the one that stays by your side forever.
.
.
1. Realizing that loving and being in love aren’t the
same thing.
When two people who are perfect for each other end up
not working out, it’s usually because one of the two
feels that he or she is no longer in love with the other.
Relationships can be incredibly intense in the beginning
— even more so when you’re dating someone who could
potentially be the one. As the novelty and excitement of
it all die down, however, so do the corresponding
emotional responses we experience.
Not feeling your heart flutter when you see your partner
doesn’t mean you’re no longer in love. It just means you
are no longer worried you may lose him or her. Sadly,
this is a deceiving feeling as you can always lose
anyone at any time.
.
.
2. Realizing that finding someone to love is a lot easier
than finding someone to love you.
You can fall in and out of love weekly if your mind is
open to it. Of course, it would be a very shallow sort of
love and surely wouldn’t last, but nevertheless you
would still feel many of those emotions most closely
related to the phenomenon. The hard part is finding
someone to love you in return.
A lot of factors come into play when considering
whether or not a person is even capable of loving you —
so many factors that, in the end, it all comes down to
luck.
If he or she happens to be in the right place in life, in
the right mindset, then he or she may fall for you. Such
windows are small, however, and are missed more often
than not.
.
.
3. Realizing that you’re capable of treating people
horribly.
Love brings out the best and worst in people. When
things within our relationships are going the way we
wish them to, we’re the nicest individuals in the world.
But because we put so much on the line, open ourselves
up and put great trust in another individual, when we
feel threatened, we lash out with horrendous fervor.
There is no better person than a person in love and no
more horrible a person than a person feeling he or she
may lose that love. You need to accept how horrible you
can be in order to realize how much it takes to avoid
being that person.
.
.
4. Realizing that your emotions can play tricks on you.
What most people don’t realize until it’s too late is that
our emotions aren’t good indicators of reality. First, we
have the reality that exists outside of us, that isn’t
subjective, but entirely objective — a reality that exists
only in the physical sense.
We then add a second layer to this reality by perceiving
and interpreting what we perceive. Only then do we
experience emotional responses — but not in response
to reality itself, but in response to our interpretation of
it.
Feelings are the third, and furthest removed, layer that
make up our personal reality. If we misperceive,
misinterpret or misunderstand something then our
emotions will reflect the errors we make, not what
actually exists.
Most relationships fail because of just this —
misinterpreting reality, drawing the wrong conclusions
and then allowing our misleading emotions to get the
better of us.
.
.
5. Realizing that although forever is scary, it can also
be comforting.
Fear of commitment is a real thing. Every time we
commit, we are simultaneously rejecting all other
possible alternatives; there are always opportunity costs
associated whenever we make a decision.
Most decisions don’t worry us too much as we feel that
we can reverse them if necessary. When it comes to
love, however, most of us believe that it is or, at the
very least ought to be, forever.
Making a decision that you believe you need to stick to
for the rest of your life is scary. What if you make the
wrong decision? What if you’re going to miss out on
something better? These will always be possibilities —
you can’t wrestle with them because these questions
will never go away.
Instead, focus on all the positive things that having a
special someone in your life allows for. The truth is that
you are never stuck when it comes to relationships…
unfortunately most people don’t realize this until they
let that special someone get away.
.
.
6. Realizing that missing someone can hurt indefinitely.
Most physical pains are temporary. Emotional pains, on
the other hand, have the ability to last for decades.
They may not be constant, but they have the ability to
resurface again and again for years to come.
All that’s necessary is for one experience, one thought,
one memory to trigger another painful memory. Because
we’re only human, we learn from experience. The only
way to understand how much it’s possible to miss
someone is to miss that someone that you now know
you could spend your life with.
You will never miss anyone the way you miss the one
that got away. I can say this with certainty because if
you do manage to find another special someone to
spend your life with, you’ll sooner die than let him or
her slip away.

classicB:

Only a silly guy wud do silly things to win a girl's heart. If Twas the other way round now u guys will say the girls are trying to force themselves on u
Na God go save us

buh u know ladies @times force themselves on guys

classicB:
No guy can win my heart with all these trash, once the love isn't there just forget it

Dats y u saw d word "silly" in d topic

Captainswag225:
u sure? Why ? Ur mouth die?

no o mah guy ah b correct wafi boy o we no dy carry last. buh d tin b say me no wnt dem nw! my focus nw is hw 2 make my future bright so dat d lucky lady wunt suffer #winkz

Captainswag225:
u be fine dude oo. I sure say ladies dey follow u plenty.

mah guy tins dnt always work dah way o

starlingslimnet:
Self Denigration and degradation, totally uncalled for....in my own opinion I had say it's incongruous and ignominious. This self abnegation of value is what makes Ladies think they are indispensable and imperative to our healthy corporate existence. In a sense Ladies are overrated.

Ah no fit talk!!! bros u b Obahiagbon junior brother?

Captainswag225:
LOL., u know u are guilty of one or two of what u said.

Me? Shey ah dy Crase ni?

Captainswag225:
o.p u talking nonsensse

badmouthing is allowed!

Mehn c lalasticlala dy view my thread! 2day na better day o Abeg jst help me push am go FP.

spyg1:
@OP, nothing is silly in trying to win a girl's heart.

bros like seriously?

tosyne2much:
4. Bullying and Ridiculing Your Fellow Male just To Win The Ladies' Heart
Dem plenty for this forum. They mouth-thrash their fellow dude so as to be seen as female lover

For d 1st tym bros u r commenting on mah thread! mehn ah dy do Thanksgiving 4 2morow morning mass.

And emmmm less ah 4get dis 1 wen u talk still follow

falconey:

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Help me ask dem bros

ladyF:
Nice Can u space the write-up please.

Done!

A lot of times, we do things in the name of love or
winning over a lady. But an average Nigerian lady really
intepretes most of these gestures as desperation, lack
of self worth or plain foolishness.
If you do any of these, you might want to think again
especially if you are not married;

1. Telling a lady you can die for her:

This is just an expression of low self worth. A lot of ladies are arebeginning to see through these deceptive lines. At the end of the day, they discover that the guy cannot even
kill a cockroach for them. Those words are just means
to a selfish end.

2. Travelling thousands of miles just to meet someone
you saw on the net:
A right thinking person would not embark on this journey. Anything can upload any pix on the net and claim to be that. Even when it eventually becomes who you think it is, the lady might not say it, but she knows you are another mugu on the loose.

3. ‘I love you pass my mother':
As strange as this sounds, some guys still say it to a lady. Ladies if a guy tells you this, please kick him out your house and life, he doesn’t love you. If you have a cane and can flog him, do that as well too. Thanks in advance.

4. Describing ex in worst words:
Well I guess if you are not reserved with him, he might even describe you worse with his next lady. If you break up with a lady, old things are passed away, and all things have become new, don’t think you can buy your lady’s heart by
painting your ex with despicable terms. If she is shrewd, she will refuse you.
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.
5 feel free to add yours.

NOTE: If you want to win a lady’s heart, you need not do these
thing because the valuable ones will see you as very
cheap. You are not cheap anyway but please don’t act
that way. Thanks

D poster above me deserve a hot slap

Eya

MsBliss:
Everyone has that one big phobia/fear

Seconded

sainty2k3:
Warri again?

Yes o na Waffi o

boboLIL:
Keke de reign for warri oh......private cars wey de dia sef na 2010 models....lolss

2010 model ke na 2007/08

Agimor:
Na Enerhen Junction be dis abi Op

Sure guy

smithsydny:
nah warri be this?

No na Brazil

Imortal001:
Warri no dey carry last, kpata-kpata na bracket first.

Naso mah guy