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Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 10:04pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
UncleLondon:U've nailed it all man |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 10:03pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
Genea:Hmm dats hard 2 bliv!!!! |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 1:23pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
Genea:Are u talking abt ursef or ur 1st daughter? |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 1:22pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
PervyByNature:I agree wid u bro |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 1:21pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
Andrew114:Can u prove it? |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 11:15am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Genea:Virgin kwanu? |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 11:12am On Jul 04, 2015 |
mrsefan:How old are u? |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 11:11am On Jul 04, 2015 |
mjames:You are very correct bro 1 Like |
Romance / Re: The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 11:10am On Jul 04, 2015 |
PervyByNature: Aside 4rm d Bible view-point? y will u overlook d Bible's view-point in d 1st place boss? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: TRAGIC!! DELSU Female Student Commits Suicide After She Was Jilted By Lover. by wenson(m): 11:06am On Jul 04, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: How To Get A Lady Visit You Without Any Excuse by wenson(m): 11:01am On Jul 04, 2015 |
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Romance / The Sad Truth About Virginity And How It Affects Marriage by wenson(m): 10:30am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Growing up, a woman’s virginity was such a big issue and a high value was placed on it. From time immemorial, a woman’s virginity has been seen as one of her most prized possessions and a certain respect was accorded to any woman who remained a virgin till marriage. But with modernization came a new school which places less value on a woman’s virginity. These days, virginity is even seen as a curse. Girls have no qualms losing it to the first man that comes their way. In the days of old, a maiden was expected to go into marriage as a virgin. If on the first night after the marriage her husband discovered she was not a virgin, her family gets instant condemnation. But civilization has substantially changed the way people perceive virginity. Today, there’s so much pressure on girls to gain s*xual experience before getting married as some men do not want to marry a woman with no s*xual experience. Most girls who have friends that are already sexually active feel left out when they are discussing their experiences, hence the urge to also experiment for themselves. Virgins are really very scarce these days as majority loose it even before the age of 20. Some girls even compete among themselves who would be the first to lose her virginity. But what is the big deal about virginity? Could it be the secret to a happy marriage? Let’s take a look at some of the answers given by some Naij.com readers. According to Ella Ada Obani, being a virgin does not guarantee a happy marriage but it earns trust. “You might be a virgin, but ur attitude and character is zero,” she adds. Owomoyela Abimbola Hanna said: “Yes it does, because the bible doesn’t support s*x before marriage. And whenever we do things according to the will of God, we live a happy and fulfilled life.” “It pays to be a virgin. If you are a virgin when you pray, God answers you speedily because you have kept yourself pure. Secondly, it is only a foolish man or a ‘man dog’ that does not have value for a virgin. Do you know what it cost a lady to preserve her indecency for just one man? Any husband that happens to be the first to drink from the cistern of his wife should count himself blessed. 2yrs ago, Imo state government was giving out cars to serving female corpers that got married as virgin. Let us teach our children to uphold their virginity. Your virginity is your pride ,”Ebony Celestine said. Anekwe Nkechi believes that some girls are still virgin in 20’s but it has nothing to do with happiness in marriage. She explains that some virgins find it difficult to conceive, saying: “ so virgin or no virgin doesn’t guarantee anything .” Justynoble Ben is of the opinion that being a virgin can guarantee a happy marriage to some extent because your husband will always respect and cherish you and with that he will hardly hurt you. “I f I am given such privilege to be a virgin again, I would love to be ,” he adds. Eno Jonah said: “It doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage but you’ll be happy about not having a dark past. Your husband will always respect you for that, if given another chance I’ll still be a virgin for him again.” “The answer to this question is Yes & No. Being a virgin guarantees a happy home as your hubby will cherish you like gold not only that, he won’t have the mind to cheat on you and you also earn respect trust from him. On the other hand, why I say it doesn’t guarantee a happy marriage is when you are married to the wrong person. I am a virgin and am very proud of myself, still love to be a virgin again in my next life,” Muslihat Obomeghie said. Another reader named Jane Odukwe said: “My question is the man coming to marry a virgin, is he a virgin? Typical no, so why is he looking for a virgin? Sounds as if making marriage work is made for women alone. What about the men, can’t they put effort to see that their marriage works too .” It is quite understandable that the pressure to remain a virgin till marriage has become more and more difficult in today’s world which celebrates waywardness, immorality, indecency and stupidity more than uprightness and decency. But there are still a number of virgins out there and you can be one of them. If you desire to, all you need to do is make up your mind and determine to keep your virginity till marriage. Though it is not very easy, it is possible. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: How Guys Save Ladies Number On Their Phone by wenson(m): 5:38pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
falconey:Lolz |
Romance / Re: How Guys Save Ladies Number On Their Phone by wenson(m): 5:36pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1:Bros nothing o, ah jst dy ask prettythicksme weda na like dat she dy save boys number 4 her phone |
Romance / Re: How Guys Save Ladies Number On Their Phone by wenson(m): 5:18pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: prettythicksme:na like dis Shey? |
Romance / How Guys Save Ladies Number On Their Phone by wenson(m): 4:28pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Like seriously, one girl was going through her boyfriend's phone and saw many funny girls name saved in the phonebook viz; Nuella small yash. Becky stingy. Cynthia small breast. Chioma big yash. Doris K-leg. Favour long teeth. Nancy chewing gum. Maureen bad cook. Vivian kezaya. And she was having fun, laughing at all the names she saw; and decided to check out what her own number had been saved as and when she dialled her number, what she saw was Ifeoma mouth odour. # Kachifuo |
Jokes Etc / 6 Types Of Slap by wenson(m): 7:39pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
TYPES OF SLAP There are 6 major types of slaps, they are: 1)TAKE AWAY SLAP: This is a situation where someone gives you a dirty slap and all you do is hold your face and walk away, this kind is normally received by newly born again Christians. 2)RESOUNDING SLAP: This is when after you're hit, u keep hearing some funny sound in your brain like wiiiiiiiiiii, and voices on your head singing skelewu. 3) FORMATTING SLAP: This is the type that makes someone forget instantly what he or she was doing, you find yourself asking questions like " what did I do?" " who slap me? This type is very common, it is a slap from guys who re stronger than you. 4) EXPLANATION SLAP: When someone gives you this kind, you find yourself explaining the situation to the nearest person out of your own accord. E.g.. Bros, sheebi you been dey watch? I been no do anything o, I just dey pass na. This is a slap from soldiers that have missed promotion for a long time. 5) FIXED DEPOSIT SLAP: When you receive this kind, all you do is just stand right where you are and watch the person walk away. This slap is from elder brothers. 6)RHETORICAL SLAP: The moment you download this slap u start asking questions that don't need reply " Mark you slap me?.. AD: There is no doubt that in our live experiences we have received one or more of these slaps, lol! CC: Lalasticala, Ishilove, Seun. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Tomfrench Wins Mr. Nairaland Contest 2015 by wenson(m): 10:24pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
Congrats |
Romance / Re: Going Out The First Time? Here Are 7 Best Topics You Can Discuss With Your Date by wenson(m): 8:37pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
Noted. buh ah dnt tink dese will work wid Ufuoma n mah Warri babes |
Romance / Re: 9 Romantic Ways To Propose [photos] by wenson(m): 12:40pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Slimzjoe:Noted |
Romance / 9 Romantic Ways To Propose [photos] by wenson(m): 12:28pm On Jun 25, 2015 |
Proposing marriage to the love of your life can definitely be an overwhelming experience. Especially when you are trying to be creative, romantic, and original. While getting to the question you’ve been dying to ask can be frightening, whether you want to do something elaborate or something low-key, these ideas are sure to make you the man of her dreams. It all starts with a great idea and ends with the right question. 1. Beach Go to the beach and build a sandcastle together at a safe distance from the ocean.When your partner isn’t looking, put the ring on the highest tower and ask her to look at a strange creature. Just pop out the question and tell her to get the ring. 2. Workplace Sneak into your partner’s office in the morning before she arrives. Write your proposal on her desk or a blackboard and stay hidden from sight until she shows up. 3. Cinema Take her to see a movie and while you guys are trying to get the tickets. just pop out the question. You can also compose a short movie which displays the special question on the screen, just pause, ask her to read what’s written on the screen and it will be fun to see her reaction afterwards. 4. Photography proposal You can propose to your your girl by hiring a professional photographer to take couple sessions for you and her. Then propose to her during your photo shoot while the photographer captures every moment. 5. First meeting place Surprise her by inviting her to where you first met each other. Make sure it’s well tidied up and decorated. Recreate the same moment and then propose to her. This will definitely move her and get embossed on her memory for a lifetime. 6. Surprise package You can propose to your partner with her most cherished item like a perfume, a wristwatch, or even a dress, chocolates and food delicacies. You make sure the ring is hid inside the package and get it delivered to her doorstep. 7. Party Invite family members and friends for a party and have everyone present wearing a T–shirt or carrying balloons filled with helium bearing one of the letters in the phrase “Will you marry me”? Then during the party suggest a group picture to reveal the message. 8. Onboard Plan a romantic trip for two to a beautiful city, while you are on the plane use the loudspeaker system. Propose at 35‚000 feet and of course get your proper plan by the flight attendants first. Announce the question and include her name. 9. Hotel Go have a drink in an hotel bar after work or late in the night with your partner. When it’s time to go, have roses and candles all set up in your hotel room and ask her to come check something out in the room while she’s trying to ask you questions like what you guys are still doing in an hotel by that time of the day, just pop out the question and she will definitely scream to respond. Propose to her in an usual way and she will never forget the experience in a life time, Just make sure it’s somewhere romantic or public so she will definitely say yes not no! But remember to ask her parents if you can marry her, otherwise they won’t be happy with you.
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Politics / Opinion: See The People Who Need WARDROBE ALLOWANCE Instead Of Our Senators by wenson(m): 9:12am On Jun 25, 2015 |
A friend shared this picture with me on Whatsapp and ask how much will be required to clothe them. Seriously, its time we set our priorities right in this country. We are not asking government to be dashing people money, we are only asking for policies that will create an environment where entrepreneur can survive. Where farmers will be rewarded for their labour. This is the right time for us to speak for ourselves and for the sake of our brothers. It is well with my country. Amen!! I believe this, what of you
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Romance / Top Three Reasons Why Men Lie [A Must Read] by wenson(m): 7:42pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
It’s time to have a frank discussion about lying and deceit. I see a lot of fears floating around in the the dating world and it can be disheartening. In order to have a truly fulfilling relationship (or even start a healthy relationship) with a great guy, you need to come from a place of strength, confidence, and fulfillment. Whenever a relationship goes sour (or fails to launch), it’s almost always caused by some tiny fear, doubt, worry or insecurity that grows and festers until you feel overwhelmed by the whole ordeal. And what happens? Your fears and worries compel you to confirm whether they’re real or imaginary. You stop enjoying the relationship for what it is and start craving validation and confirmation that it’s “the real deal.” And there’s only one thing that manifests from that place… neediness. These days, people are quick to throw the concept of neediness around without actually looking at what it is. I’ve had some of my female readers complain that the term neediness makes it sound like I’m framing women as weak, fragile, insecure creatures that just cling to men (and stress them out). Nothing could be further from the truth. I think women bring a tremendous strength and power to the table in relationships… when they have access to it and are free of their own fears. Men and women have fears. Those fears are greater now more than ever really since there’s an entire industry devoted to making sure men and women are wrought with insecurities so they buy products (sowing in and agitating tiny insecurities is the bread and butter of the marketing world). A major fear is being lied to deceived which brings me to the main question of this article: Why do men lie? Here are a few potential reasons: 1. They don’t want to hurt your feelings. And if you’ve shown yourself to be a girl who gets upset and dramatic when he tells you the truth, you’re essentially training him to say what you want to hear to keep the peace. At best, it’s sugarcoating or avoiding a volatile subject. At worst, it’s a straight up lie to avoid drama and waterworks.Weak? Cowardly? Sure, but men live in the mindset of wins and losses, victories and defeats. What’s the upside to being honest if it simply leads to a more difficult life with no perceived upside. Which brings me to the next point… 2. They don’t want the drama. Like I was saying, if not telling the truth is harmless enough and being honest will just cause drama, heartache and grief for both parties, why would a man want to do it? I’m not advocating the behavior and I hold honesty as a high virtue for myself, but part of looking at this requires us to be honest about human nature: Humans (men and women) want to make life easier for ourselves, not harder. And that’s not the case if there’s… No perceived upside. If you want the truth and honesty, find a way to reward that behavior, not punish it by putting him through hell. 3. They want to impress you and/or they don’t feel like “enough” without lying or putting up a front. From one angle, you could almost look at this one as a compliment: the guy is trying to impress you because he doesn’t feel “good enough” to get you on his own. It’s not a compliment though – it’s not only insecure behavior, but it also doesn’t allow for a real foundation to be built for a relationship. For a guy to be honest with you, he has to be secure enough in himself to know that you’ll still want him if he’s “real” with you. OK, now I want to step back because I can imagine that my points may have enraged certain readers, who are ready to comment with things like, “Why should we have to reward his dumb ass for not lying?” And “why shouldn’t we put him through hell if the truth is that he’s an jerk?” Easy there – let me put it to you like this. First, this isn’t a male-female thing. I’m talking about human nature – no one gender is more or less habitually a “liar”. You know all sorts of women who lie to their female friends on occasion… you may or may not have done it yourself |
Romance / Re: Amazingly Cute Pet Names To Call Your Boyfriend by wenson(m): 8:28am On Jun 23, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: Amazingly Cute Pet Names To Call Your Boyfriend by wenson(m): 7:43am On Jun 23, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: Amazingly Cute Pet Names To Call Your Boyfriend by wenson(m): 7:30am On Jun 23, 2015 |
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Romance / Re: Amazingly Cute Pet Names To Call Your Boyfriend by wenson(m): 7:29am On Jun 23, 2015 |
AsanwaKC:Ah dnt like dah name 'baby' it always make me feel like a child wen ever any bae calls me baby |
Romance / Re: Amazingly Cute Pet Names To Call Your Boyfriend by wenson(m): 7:27am On Jun 23, 2015 |
obiak4:U mean another name 4 Ijaw is Izon? hw cum am hearing dis 4 d 1st time? |
Romance / Re: Amazingly Cute Pet Names To Call Your Boyfriend by wenson(m): 7:26am On Jun 23, 2015 |
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Romance / When You Break Up With Your Boo by wenson(m): 10:49pm On Jun 22, 2015 |
Wen yuh were HAPPY because u sate together yuh enjoyed the MUSIC. Buh now u are sad because of the break up, Yuh undastand the LYRICS....!!! How true is it? |
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