I divorced my husband out of group influence last year in 2023. I started working as a nurse, and my friends told me that I could do without a man. So I got motivation from friends and left my husband. As I'm talking, two of my friends who advised me to leave my marriage got married recently. I feel lonely and I can't find another man. So far, I have dated five men, and they just sleep with me and go. These men despite dating me they never respected me owing to fact that I'm not that attractive cos im in my thirties. One of my boyfriend got married to a young girl recently leaving me heartbroken. I'm tired and I need to be in my house with my loving husband. My actions were out of immaturity and wrong advice from evil friends.

I realised my mistakes. How can I convince him to allow me back? How can I persuade my husband? Advise me please 🙏

Don't Listen To That Man Promising You Heaven and Earth, He May Become Worse Than Your Partner; I Regret Leaving My Marriage- Tiwa Savage

"Simi And Adekunle Gold Makes Me Rêgret Being Single, Their Love Is Still Burning Fresh Like They Started Just Yesterday". – Tiwa Savage writes in pain and rêgrets leaving her marriage.

In her words: "While on set with Simi I had to ask her when she met Adekunle Gold again. Because AG kept calling & checking up on her every now and then, like 10 times in 10 minutes hahaha. Their love is still burning fresh like they started just yesterday. Omo, na that day single life pan me.

Indeed people don't know the value of what they have until they lose it, the poor and the rich cry differently, many of those ladies you see out there celebrating their divorce and separation from their spouses aren't truly happy, no one celebrates divorce and if they are truly happy then, they won't celebrate it.

Many were gull!ble, a lot were mislêad and dêceived into leaving their homes thinking that there is something on the Streets but within a space of time the euphoria will die down and reality will set in, most of them cry silently and the big lady Tiwa is one of them, if not a case of violence sit down with your husband/partner and sort things out. Every relationship have ups and downs, even twins fight and have issues.

Don't listen to that man promising you heaven and earth, he wants to have a taste of your new wine and will lick your foot if that's all it takes to get it but when that happens he may become worse than your current partner.

The pasture looks lush green on the other side from afar, it can't be same when you get there.
Guard what you presently have jealously, it is the best.
Being single no be moi moi

I recently picked my wife's phone to make a call, because had a low battery. She comfortably handed me the phone. Upon receiving the phone I saw an unread message from what I later found out was a guy since My wife had saved his name with a lady's name.

I wasn't going to open it but because of the nature of the message, I was forced to read the entire conversation. The unread message on her screen was "I will do anything for you sweetie".
I know a woman can send that message but my instincts were telling me to confirm the gender from their chat.

They had a long history chat. And calls. I discovered something that shocked me.
It was from their interactions last year when my daughter was born.

When my wife was in the labor ward, I was leading a presentation for our company.
In fact, when my wife forwarded the picture of my daughter to me on WhatsApp, was about to give a speech at the meeting. I was so excited, i had to announce to everyone l had a daughter. I used FORWARDED because she originally had uploaded the picture to this man and captioned it, "Our baby girl"

I took my phone to scroll to see the time she forwarded and found out My daughter’s name that we now call her was suggested in their chat by this man.

I feel so embarrassed, ashamed and betrayed.
I don’t know what to do next.

YEMI ALADE IS A VÏRGÏN AT 32😳

Nigerian superstar mama of Africa Yemi ALADE talks about her being a vrgin and why she prefer to stay single than date a Nigerian man.

Reasons why I will remain a vïrgïn till I get married is that Nigerian men are fun of having more than just one lady, which I don’t like sharing a man with someone, Nigerian guys will promise you the whole world just to have you on bëd but for me I prefer to remain a vrgin till I get married I don’t even have plans of getting married to a Nigerian man, because they cheat a lot.

"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper

A girl who doesn't have transport fare to visit someone that she claims she loves. "liability"

A lady who can't get you birthday or valentine gift but expect you to bring down the world for her during hers."liabilit.

Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5 minutes. Always flashing, complaining and requesting for data and airtime..."liability"

I wonder how some Men cope with ladies that think relationship is an occupation where she's supposed to be paid and taken care of? S*x is not a benefit to only men. She might not even allow you have the s*x, yet you keep spending on her like government. "liability"

Stop dating a liability no matter how beautiful she is. Beauty is a bonus, focus on her content. Date a lady who can add something meaningful to your life.
Things like: financial intelligence, emotional intelligence, spiritual intelligence.

Date someone who's capable of managing multiplying whatever she has and the ones you give to her, your soul will be at peace!
Not someone that will always be at the receiving end.

We're not saying she must be rich.
But let her have something doing no matter how little it is, because no matter how much money you make, she must be able to assist you during the rainy days.

Some of you boys just see nyash and be willing to sell everything you have just to make it work, you might give her 100K today she'll say "thanks" but when you call her tomorrow and tell her to visit you she will say "send transport money" "liability"

RonuThings:
😎

Half Bread is better than Opka 💯

It is better to become a slave Abroad than to settle down with a Nigerian Woman 🤔

Marry a Nigerian lady at your own peril 🥱

hmmm

BrotherBisola:
Davido i know,

Who is Asake

Asake is a popular yoruba musician. now you know

1Sharon:


You are what you attract.

Not really what you think. I have this feeling someone or something out there does not want me to get married

juman:
Your nose is infected.
Go to pharmacy to get medication.

you mean is not spiritual problem. I've decided to follow a lady to her Church for total deliverance

1Sharon:
Like attracts like.

Madam, this one pass my comprehension

Charmingrascal:
Why are you always attracted to smelly girls?

it has been the same story amongst all the ladies I've ever met in this life. Maybe, it could be spiritual problem that requires spiritual cleansing.

TheWolfen:
BTW

Are you gay?

God forbid bad thing, I'm not a gay, i have feelings like a human

Johnthejohn:
Let me tell you what to do. Follow my advice and never listen to anyone else. Forget about women and follow your dreams. Women are nothing but distrators. Go and adopt but never adopt any girl, make sure you adopt only boys. it is well with you

Oga this advice is somehow now, i really want to marry

DannyXpress:
Maybe you meet the unhygenic ladies

If you perceive it from every lady, then your sense of smell is very potent.

I perceive it from every lady. that's the problem I'm having right now

Optimistguy1969:
Wait, you dey put nose for their vjay?
Where the smell dey come from ?

not really, whenever I'm with a lady, that particular smell shows up immediately, and I'll begin to detest the lady for just no reason. I'm thinking it's spiritual problem.

Whenever a lady comes closer to me, i always perceive a smell that makes me to hate the lady for life. I want to marry a lady and settle down, but this particular smell that emanates from ladies is making me not to marry.

I have complained to my friend about it and he made me to know that every lady has the same smell, and it's called "Fishy Smell". I have tried to cope with the smell, but to no avail.

All my friends are married except me. I'm even planning to become a "Reverend Father" since marriage seems not working for me. My friends are angry with me because i refused to marry a lady. I really wants to get married, ladies that wants to settle down with me are also angry with me, some have waited and got married to another man because of impatience.

Is this a spiritual problem or what Should i visit a church for deliverance, or should i go and bath in the River for spiritual cleansing.

What should i do, advice needed urgently. Matured mind only.