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HAVE you ever wondered about what lures men to women? What makes a man think that a particular lady is the right choice for him in marriage? In the same vein, why do men, after a period of time with a lady, seek new relationships, engage in extramarital affairs, sex scandals, break marital vows and still not feel remorseful?


Mrs Titilayo Adewuyi, a teacher, never bargained for what she got after 25 years of marriage to her hubby judging by their first three years of memorable courtship. Her husband, James, was working with one of the old generation banks until a few years ago, when he was transferred to another state. Before then, Mr James Adewuyi was a supposed honest spouse, but on getting to his new environment, one thing led to another and he began to 'notice' other women.

His experience took a bad turn, however, when he impregnated one of his many secret lovers soon after and since she was not a live-in-lover, he put her up in a nearby town. In order not to arouse suspicion, Adewuyi always invited his wife to spend few days with him at his location and being a teacher, she always utilised the several holidays to her advantage. So, she never suspected her romantic husband, but as fate would have it, Mr Adewuyi was shot dead during an armed robbery attack at his branch, and thereafter, all hell was let loose.

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kandiikane:
lol@J12

My rapture was a spiritual alignment. I had a tiny view of heaven, in 5 months I shall be there.

Be careful of what you wish for!

Waoo impressive!

NYSC's life = N5million. Smh in disbelief.

Yeah the bride was wearing an upper laced wedding gown by Sara Burton from Alexander Macquenne household.

@BABE! - I must sincerley commend u 4 ur calm attitude in which u respond to others on Nl. Instead of throwing insults u keep ur calm, that explains a lot. On topic - honest & poor.

Seanet2 & fstranger or wherever they calls themselves are the most bigoted and disgusting people on nl. Their comment reeks of idiocy.

A lot of bigots and internet warriors on nairaland. Why is this so? Thought it was a place to exchange ideas and argure constructively.

Desperate times calls for desperate mesures. A state of emergency need to declared in those core north trouble states. Then the military should move in and crack down real hard on those islamist fundamentalists who are formenting trouble.

edoyad:
You might not want to hear what i have to say but if you kill them that is what the sponsors of last week's violence want you to do. Give the impression that Jonathan is not in control.

So what are we suppose to do? Sit down and watch them kill us all?

OMG! This is terrible. Wtf is going in the north? Hey people, if any southerner has families, friends, or relations in the north, please call them back home. It's not worth it  living among this animals.

100% Yes!

*hisses, door slams & walks out*

@virgo, ivynwa, kulutempa, deadie, Ezeuche and the rest of you who support the splitting of Nigeria, thank you all, for you all spoke my mind. Enough is Enough! Why are we forcing this union? We aren't compactible, for how long must we keep decieving ourselves?

Pataki:
I think you are talking in respect to the thread EzeUche created about Fstranger I suppose? Unfortunately, I did not see the exact post or thread where Fstranger made that comment, I only read it from the thread EzeUche created about him.  And my point remains valid. A thread created to attack another forum member should not be encouraged. That was why I requested the OP should be banned too. It is absolutely childish and utterly silly. Given that the OP himself is not devoid of the same points he accused Fstranger of.

Personally, I do not take Fstranger to be serious. I have my personal reservations about his posts on Nairaland. Anything that bothers on bigotry, I detest; as I like to stand on the point of objectivity and rational thinking. I may be wrong sometimes. . . . but never would I go so low to the point of becoming a bigot.

Not now, nor ever.

I must sincerely commend you for your calm attitude in which you responded to me. It shows you are well mannared. I righly agree with all you have said concerning Fstranger and Ezeuche. Thank you for taking your time to explain yourself.

Pataki you 're one of the most respected guys here on NL base on your sensible postings. But i was left stunned when you couldn't condem zstranger for insulting  the youth corps guys that were killed in the north. Instead you were pointing fingers towards Ezeuche that he too should be banned. You are becoming more of a bigot or what?

What is it about the koran? Yeah hollandis, i would 've come witness the burning f_ckin koran, but i live in the states. The worthless crap is full of trash, lies, deciet and hatred. As a matter of fact, i just bought one and i will tore it to poo (toilet) now. Any body that doesn't like the idea should go burn in hell or hug transformer.

Since 911, uncle sam listens and watches over almost everything. Believe it or not.

Sun of god:
Lets find out

I am going to shoot Obama tomorrow -  

Hey son of God! You 've just triggerd a device from NSA

Offcourse! Not only cia, even fsb, mossad, mi5 and the rest of them are all monitoring forums all around the world. Do you also know that users of blackberrys and i-phones are being listened to?

Fstranger, ystranger and zstranger is a devil incarnate. He is on crack and he is deluded. He is dispaying pyschotic trait.

@zstranger - I think you should do yourself a favor by checking into the nearest psychiatric clinic asap! You are displaying psychotic trait big time, this isn't a joke.

Hey @tyson55 i 've heard about the book you talked about "the satanic verses" what is it about? Just being curious.

Abuja — It was shocker Monday at the first session of the Nigeria Election Debate Group (NEDG) organised presidential debate as the vice-presidential candidate of the United Nigeria Party for Development (UNPD), Alhaji Galadima Samari, could not speak English. He spoke through an interpreter from the Voice of Nigeria (VON).

Out of the four vice-presidential candidates slated for the first session of the debate, only two attended. They were Samari and Mr. Gabriel Ogbonna of the National Transformation Party (NTP). Those for the Mega Peoples Progressive Party (MPPP) and the Social Democratic Mega Party (SDMP) were absent. No reason was given for their absence.

Chairman of the NEDG, Aremo Taiwo Alimi, declared the debate open at 4.25 pm.

Regina Abu was the moderator, while Prof. Ralph Akinfeleye of the University of Lagos and Ms. Ijeoma Nwogwugwu of THISDAY served as panellists for the first session.

The hall was virtually empty, unlike the presidential debate organised by the NN24 television where the hall was filled by Nigerians and diplomats.

Of all the eight rows of seats, only three were occupied. Each of the vice-presidential candidates was given three minutes to respond to questions from the panelists.

In his brief remarks before fielding questions from the panelists, Samari said he started politics in 1967 with the Action Group (AG), joined the Great Nigeria Peoples Party (GNPP) in 1979, the Social Democratic Party (SDP) in 1992 and the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP). He said he left the PDP because it had no programme for Nigerians.

On his part, Ogbonna simply described himself as an engineer and a man with core family values.

The NTP vice-presidential candidate said he would ensure the eradication of corruption if elected the vice-president of Nigeria, adding that corruption was the major problem plaguing the country.

He blamed corruption for unemployment and pledged that he would use his office as vice-president to ensure equal distribution of wealth.

On how to ensure quality health policies for the country, Samari said he would use education to enhance quality health programmes, while Ogbonna pledged that he would ensure that Nigeria gets clean water within 90 days of being elected into office.

Both of them spoke on how to ensure an integrated road network to help transportation in the country.

On a specific note, Samari spoke on how his party would ensure the maximum use of road and rail network to ensure the distribution of goods and services across the six geo-political zones.

The second session was a monologue as the PDP vice-presidential candidate, Alhaji Namadi Sambo, was the only one present.

His counterparts from the Congress for Progressive Change (CPC), Pastor Tunde Bakare; Fola Adeola of the Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN); and John Odigie-Oyegun of the All Nigeria Peoples Party (ANPP) did not attend.

Meanwhile, the Director-General of the PDP Presidential Campaign Council, Senator Dalhatu Tafida, has said the PDP would not beg the presidential candidates of the CPC, Gen. Muhammadu Buhari; ACN, Malam Nuhu Ribadu; and ANPP, Mallam Ibrahim Shekarau, to attend the presidential debate.

As promised i have updated the story from Yesterday. Read and be fulfilled.

Check back tomorrow same time for the rest of it.

@tyson55 - Ok, i 'll do that soon.

On Thursday last week, Mrs. Young dropped in to see me at the clinic for a chat. "You're looking remarkably well," I greeted her as she entered my office. "Your trip to Geneva has certainly done you a lot of good. When did you return home anyway?" I asked. "Two days ago," she replied. "How was the effect of the Cialis drug for premature expulsion and the China drug you bought for the enlargement of your husband's manliness?" I enquired. At this point, she burst into tears and it was extremely difficult to console her. She caught her husband for the third time with a 'call girl' at Allen Avenue, Ikeja, Lagos.



Every driver that wants an accident-free trip must drive safely, have a good car, know his road signals, have good driving skills and be a very good observer. This is also true with sex in marriage because marital sex is a journey and not to be done in a rush; sex in marriage really makes marriage what it is.

Those who want to succeed in marriage give their sex life a lot of attention. What makes marriage different from every other relationship is sex. When couples play down on their sex life, marital destruction is inevitable. Any spouse that does not see sex as something needful, legitimate, delightful and pleasurable might soon be 'replaced.' For no reason must a spouse 'beg' or 'plead' for sex from the other partner. Rather, sex should be mutually given at all times.

Do you know that the nervous system in the human body is connected to the sex organs, and every sexually-deprived husband or wife will naturally be nervous? While this does not only lead to anger and tension, it increases the stress level of such individual. Everything must not be the way you want it. The opposite of selfishness is self-denial. When you take any sexual decision, not minding the consequence on your spouse, you are digging a grave for the union. Always put yourself in your spouse's shoes. So, in this series, we shall be studying six reasons married men run into the arms of 'call girls,' regardless of the fact that they are successfully married.

Reason one: The desire for adventure, exploration and wild-lovemaking drives many married men into the arms of 'call girls.' From childhood until date, there is one thing that is universal to the human race and that is the desire or taste for 'something new,' desire 'change.' The best way some married men fight monotony and boredom is to go out to see what is happening 'elsewhere.' If you will all agree with me, there is really no difference in the female sexual organ. The bosom, womanliness and buttocks of the wife at home is the same at the market place and all over the continent. Nevertheless, the differences seen in the same material coming out as different products 'of class' is in the freshness, packaging, style, skill, approach, cleverness, expertise, method, fashion and colour. When sex between couples is always in the same place, with the same nightdress on the same bed in the same position, it does not only become tasteless, but outdated.

Wife, when your innovation level is zero, lifeless and sex had become a dull non-erotic obligatory routine-duty that must be carried out, your husband is secretly looking for a way out. Don't be predictable: make a conscious effort to dish out pleasant surprises, just as you dish out difference type of meals, stew and soup. Let your sex timetable consist of African, China, French and intercontinental dishes.

Stay sexy for your husband: don't take him for granted; encourage his sexual advances and exploitations. Invest in some sexy lingerie that flatter your figure and shape. Wear his favourite perfume that you know always turns him on when you are in the mood for sex so when he gets a whiff of it, he knows the next action to take. Men love subtle seduction. Husbands are visual and are attracted to what they see. Wear an attractive 'G' string and sit opposite him and just open your legs slowly, innocently and seductively, or lie seductively unclothed in an unusual position that is irresistible for him.

Add some spontaneity to your sex and romance. Jump at your husband when he least expects it. Have sex at unusual times and places; treat him to an erotic set-up, flirt and laugh with your spouse. Having a great sense of humour is a good recipe for a healthy sex bed. It is disastrous for a wife to always lie like a log of wood and wait for her husband to make the first move. Ninety per cent of married men love to see their wives take sexual initiative and be in charge. It sends erotic feelings down their spine and opens up their wallet to sign any cheque.

Reason two: They hate the same style of sex. For a change tonight, lie on your back with a pillow under your head, your legs in the air as straight and high as possible. While kneeling (his chest at your calves), your husband can push your legs to one side slightly then lean forward, and enter you. He can place his hands on the bed or floor on either side of your upper body for support. Why this will keep him away from the 'call girls' is because keeping your legs up high and close together creates a super-tight fit, which means goose-bump-inducing friction for you and your man. And since he is entering you at a slight (about 30 degrees) angle, you both get a down-there sensation that's very distinct from what you're used to in the missionary or canine position. You can take one of his hands to your focal place for him to stroke while he pumps away, or just lie back, luxuriate in how oh-so-fabulous your body feels, and know that the view of you writhing in ecstasy is also making him howl.

You can experiment with the alternating bending of your knees a bit and opening your legs slightly. With each move, you will both experience a completely different grip and feel. Since the snug fit will loosen a little and the angle of entry will change, mixing things up this way will make your desire seriously take flight.

Alternatively, you can lie on the floor or another flat surface face up, with your legs bent under your thighs and your arms raised straight back over your head. Have your husband lie on top of you face-to-face, his legs straight and his hands gripping either your shoulders or your sides. Once you have squeezed the pose so that it is comfortable for you both, he can penetrate you with wide, circular motions or deep, up-and-down thrusting this will not only erase the 'call girl' memories, he will sign off his weekends for you.

Unlike other deep-access positions, this one allows for optimum eye contact, kissing, and touching. He can play with your bosoms with his hands or tongue, and with your hands above your head, it is up to him to triple your pleasure. With your legs bent under you and your arms straight over your head, your back will naturally be slightly arched. You will find that his manliness will reach even deeper delights.

'Call girls' are expert when it comes to giving sex in a standing ovation. What stops you from learning the secret 'trade brand' of a 'call girl' and doing likewise; face your husband, standing with your legs shoulder width apart. Take your left foot and turn it out to the side while keeping your right one facing forward. Have him widen his stance, with his legs about three feet apart, and then ask him to bend his knees ever so slightly. Wrap your arms around his neck and have him put his arms snugly around your lower back. Here is where it gets a little tricky: Pull your right leg up and place your right foot on his left shoulder, keeping your right knee bent. As he slowly enters you, ease into the vertical split by sliding your calf as far up his left shoulder as you comfortably can.

There is a reason husbands are drawn to this style. The flexibility is h-o-t, so, do this one and he will worship you as a sex icon who knows how to stretch sexual boundaries. Pressing your husband up against a wall will help both of you keep your balance and force him to relinquish all power over to you. To him, there is no bigger turn-on, and if this be the case, what is he looking for outside?


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Lamentable ml

Nice one Seun. May Nl continue to grow, so you can be the Zucker of Naija .