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LordShiva97:
Hover. Hoe. Veer.
Network.

Galactico4ever:
Ekiti

Gemineye:
i shall be a terror!!! that the kingdom of darkness shall fear
Everyone can never be preaching love
I'm not a man or preacher of love!!!

I'm a war!!!
I'm a fight!!
I'm Indaboski!!!
Bahose!!!

noakchukibadan:
Hello,
Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another. I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member,many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage, although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE
There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children does anything wrong, she always those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.
She can go for months without we talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, i have begged, cried prayed . I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that their is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago the man said unfortunately he can not do anything . This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dare not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years , she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never came bother to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May , and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.
This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.
I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of her blood pressure 2 years ago.

Rickbronze:
It will always beat me every time as to why a man who hasn't achieved financial success is worrying/thinking about women. That's why I love naija girls, they'll put you in your place so fast your head will spin.

NwaEje:



Say NO to depression!!!
Say NO to that coward!!!
Fight on with me!!!

LordAzubuike:
We spoke one on one last week now... Outside your gate.

SimplePlan34:
Not every one will make it. Some of us has given up just patiently wating for d end to come let's get out of did shit called life. I am just existing now.

unmask:
I understand you are pained....but I believe it is wrong to mention her name or put her picture in a public forum

When you give a gift and expect something in return....then that is no gift....it is a business transaction.....and like all businesses you win some and you lose some

OpenYourEyes1:
[s]The Church (not the false "church" ) told you the simple truth, but the hardened hearts will not listen , you will never listen.
Those who refuse to listen to the The Word of GOD are doomed.

Will continue this later

0ppa:
Of course, I can, and I deliver very fast. Send a mail.

0ppa:
Of course, I can, and I deliver very fast. Send a mail.

seemegold:
mine is April 17

MsFaith:
16th April

ePoster:
Im really tired!
it seems that all my mates have boyfriends except me
i dont just understand. The guys are interested as hell when chasing. But whenever i say yes, the fire just dies.
Apart from that, i just get bored!
Dating is suh hard.

I like a boy who was my classmate. I know he likes me too but the way he acts... God!
Im aries. I dont know if thats what is affecting me.

EjaikreTheViper:
Na wa o. we marry wife for you, you still want make we help you put ur prick for inside her toto? Be a man and give her a special treat

judgementyard:
@op I earnestly pray you receive sense before the new year
Thank me later

KubwaBoy:
Will go to church too but make I open my last bottle to thank God for a successful year

Danwakae:
By 10:00:00.pm, 31-12-2019... No nonsense in the next decade...2020 and above