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God save Nigeria from evil politicians

U should know her fear, she is 29, age is no longer on her side. If u love her marry her now. I wont advice her to risk it. Marry her & succeed with her. Love conquers all things. I dont like people wasting other peoples time.

we are in the era of lies & cover up, afterall the majority are ruling, who cares what the minority think

I hv always been of the opinion that Buhari govt should invite GEJ for questioning on the so called looted funds if we Nigerians are to know what actully transpired in the last admin. But Mr. Buhari is enjoying the game he is playing with gullible Nigerians, the media including Sahara Reporters are been used to dish out sentimental issues by Buhari govt. If GEJ is not brought for clarifications, then the whole anti-corruption stunt is to distract Nigerians from incompetence of this admin.

God, pls help us survive Buhari & APC

Bless you Sir, I & my friends benefited from your economic policies. Opportunity are for the prepared ones. All the outstanding youths during your tenure were gracefully affected by ur policies. #WEWILLNEVERFORGET

Simply, the best

Simply the best

#IMPEACHBUHARINOW

Is not too late for Buhari to go, otherwise Nigeria will move from recession to anarchy.

#IMPEACHBUHARINOW

Buhari is a failure.

APC will be remembered as the party that produced the worst govt in the history of Nigeria, as they have not impacted the life of Nigerians in any positive way

A country where the only selling business is politics can never move forward.

The increase in non oil revenue, is it not the one we are paying with our incomes as a result of increase in custom duty? This govt is a failure.

liquidmetall:
she was serving God faithfully ?

As in born again or just church goer

According to her, she does not have a firm stand in Christ until recently

Mologi:
Do what u believe is right....becaus the lady was OBEDIENT

My brother this is a serious decision to make, my mum opposed it but I was determined until she tell me this story. Am confused, everyone knows that we have agreed to marry.

There is this lady that am in love with, my previous posts state more about this.
Three weeks ago she accepted my proposal after much delay, during which i had suspected that she is in active sexual r/ship against many people perception of her.
I have prayed & received answers to marry her but my suspicion is strong.
Yesterday she told me her live & how she wanted to be wild but the watchful eyes of the mum restrained her.
But in the university she had friends but most of her male friends are not godly.
One approached her, she fell for him. After their first sex she felt ashamed but continued until God knows when.
She now claimed to have parted ways with the guy & made up her mind to serve God faithfully. My fear is that I never trusted this lady but I love her.
What do I do guys?

There is this lady that am in love with, my previous posts state more about this.
Three weeks ago she accepted my proposal after much delay, during which i had suspected that she is in active sexual r/ship against many people perception of her.
I have prayed & received answers to marry her but my suspicion is strong.
Yesterday she told me her live & how she wanted to be wild but the watchful eyes of the mum restrained her.
But in the university she had friends but most of her male friends are not godly.
One approached her, she fell for him. After their first sex she felt ashamed but continued until God knows when.
She

And they trust Buhari

In fact this days I always feel that the only thing this ladies need is to be bleeped & dumped. But how could a guy who has been under God for 10 solid yes be thinking like this. Our ladies don't know what they want, guys be wise

To the next guy,
He hook up with this babe 4yrs ago during her NYSC, they loved up. My guy was a selective kind a guy. But he met all his desires in this babe, and decides to settle with her. He proposed & she accepted.

After her NYSC the girl left & they were in contact as they usually visit each other.
As the r/ship lingers, d babe started telling him that her family want her to do her MSC as work is not forth coming, but my guy asked her about their marriage agreement, she said she spoke to her mum about it & both of them are afraid of telling her Dad.
My guy said OK let him come & see d Dad, she refused. This was the same guy that usually feed them as d girl always complain to him about money. He spend on d girl every need, support her in her Msc. Spend over 20k every month on his & her airtime.
Most times I envy him, as he always get assurances from the girl. I was like what a true love, how & when will I be in the euphoria.
As time passes & I was gisting him my constraints in my own r/ship & advice I got both online & offline & how it has helped me take certain decisions.
He decided to seek counsel & one elderly man told him that the girl is using him. That he should insist that she meet her father & should stop spending on her.

My guy applied the advice, reduce the call rate, stop spending on her until she say her decision. That was where everything started turning upsidedown. She will at one time cry that she doesn't know if she will ever get another love like him, she is afraid of losing him, that he has spent so much on her bla bla

And my guy was like babe u hv not said anything nah, say something. She later came up that they should pray, & after a while said she has not seen any sign.
I told my guy ur babe is gone. He said he know, after 4yrs. They schedule to meet, but d babe called & told him that she will not come again. That is not the will of God for them to marry. My guy bless her family that God should treat them the way they treated him & she cried. What a life.
My counted his loses, & decide to remain celibate after four failed loved lives.
Guys don't carry ur r/ship alone, seek counsel, don't let emotions becloud ur reasoning.

So after wasting 5 solid yes on one babe, my guy went on 6months love sabbatical. After which he hook up with another babe as man must not be alone.
The girl was good & responding well. After dating a while he proposed to her, she accepted & they went to meet the guy & girls parents, everything was fine. They did intro & all trad rites remaining traditional & white wedding, which my guy is planning to do d two in succession. 3months to the date, the girl told my guy that her parents said they don't like people from his state.
So the marriage was called off.
My guy said he is going on 1yr sabbatical this time, he now believe in my theory that today's love is a game that every guy must play with his brain, or be outplayed by our tricky ladies. The Eve nature is still very much alive today.

As young guys looking forward to settle down having gotten our dream jobs, two of my colleagues shared there experiences in the hands of ladies that made me ask one of them why is it difficult for good guys to get true love. He told me that the world has changed down here. The other told me he doesn't even know who is good & who is true again.
Fast forward to our exprieneces:
1. The first guy dated a girl for 2yrs b4 he got a job. The girl was in her 2nd year then, my guy start taking care of her welfare till she graduate with hope that he is training his wife.
He try everything possible to met all her demand that his only achievement in his first 3yrs of working wz only the ride he bought.
As the girl graduate, my guy wz now desperate to meet the girls parents so they could make their marriage arrangement formal.
The girl now started giving excuses that her father is not in the country that my guy should wait. My guy waited & waited, & start using his brain just to see the girls insincerity. He confronted her to tell him what is going on, she refused.
In a fateful day, girl was using convenience & her phone ranged, my guy pick it up & converse with d caller who happens to be d girls boyfriend.
My guy confronted her again, she agreed & apologized. My guy said ok can we see your Dad now, she still refused.
My guy did his homework to find out that she hz been with the other guy for a long time.
Since then they started having issues & d girl left, calling & apologizing. My guy wish her luck & she bursted into tears which don't change anything. The first r/ship gone

The GIANTS all the way.
UNIZIK

These ladies are more complicated than many of we men imagined.
Any time a lady need space & time to take a decision over a man she has known over the years, I will advice the man to start looking beyond the r/ship bc she has lost her excitement to the r/ship.
She has a another option that gives her more excitement.
Bros try as much as you can to let her go without showing her that u r hurt.
Don't beg her, just forget her, talking to her will only make u heart broken.
Don't let her know how u feel.
What can't kill u will only make u stronger.

Jesus is enough for me, thank you Lord

akinsal:
Win1234 Win1234 Win1234. How Many times i call u

Abeg please dont force urself on a lady that doesnt have ur time. I think i was once in your shoes. Infact ur previous thread just seem exactly like what i also passed through (i.e. Family Commitment)

I think an Ideal Relationship is supose to be a two way communication thing. Once d other person feel otherwise just know she is not the right person for u or she is having a problem of trust.

I think i had similar experience. Initially i felt i was too impatient with her untill i finally decided to test her by refusing to continue if she decides to remain i her shell. But she [b]fail[/b]ed because she refused to reply back since then and for about 3 months now. Altho i feel bad i quit but i believe im not doing myself any good if i face this kind of relationship problems @ dis early stage where someone toils with my emotions mjust because im too emotional and i end up been heart broken.

For me i think she has given u the sign that she isnt interested in you. Perharps she has got better person. So move on.

There are better Ladies who will love u for who you are. Just be patient in discerning the right one so u dont end up running in and out of Relationships.

Thanks boss

valdes00:
I no knw why sum guys like to dey force Dia selves on girls..... babe no feel u, buh u wan force am.... she go cum dey play u..... kai

I doubt it, I HV bn d one playing safe. D thing is DAT each time sees me she alwz pretend to be good

valdes00:
I no knw why sum guys like to dey force Dia selves on girls..... babe no feel u, buh u wan force am.... she go cum dey play u..... kai

Mi mistake though, I just want to know he long is OK b4 I bk off. So that I will not offend mi conscience

vizkiz:
You even get time to dey change whatsapp number because of babe. Guy you no get work?

She doesn't hv DAT number, is d only number I use 4 whatsap

JudgementHammer:
Guy na friendzone u dey oh. U fucck up sef. Why u quick let her know say na you? U suppose let her continue to bleeping point so u go see her true color

I hv followed her on whatsapp 4 days so I decided to initiate the conversation. She is up to something I know. But mehn am a kind of confused here