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[quote author=Ginaz post=51059229]I don't know the right section to post this but I really need to know cos I'm tired already so forgive me.

I'm in my early twenties, I'm the kind of girl that just love being alone with herself. I don't go clubbing, don't go to parties( except I don't have a choice and I'm being forced by my mother, marriage tinx)

I have few friends, just 4 I share deep emotional matters with. I'm always alone when at home, in fact I get excited about it.

I have never visited anyone this year, except on 2 occasions. Only 2 have visited me also, I close from work straight home and sleep, read novels or watch movie.

I like social stuff but too much of it kills me, makes me shy and tired. Now I'm at my aunt's house, I've been inside my room since Saturday, I only come out to do house chores. This is my personality but I feel people don't understand.

My aunt just had a talk with me right now that I keep myself from people, and it's getting me mad cos I didn't think it that way.

Nairalanders, please am I too introverted or what? Is there something I'm missing? Please. [/quo
Its like you have just described me,could remember while I was in the university,a coursemate called me and asked why am so reserved. I can be a talkative when need arises,but I just like being alone and not having to deal with the madness of some people. My work is a part time job,so I don't out everyday, I can be home for a week and I won't even step outside. This whole thing is beginning to scare me,I am 24 already, how would I meet Mr Right if I don't go out.

Just try and be observant,study her to know what she likes and dislikes. From my own view,I would say she is afraid of being committed. Throughout my stay in the university, I was never committed to any relationship because I heard stories about school love ending at the school gate and I didn't want that, some ladies have this great phobia for commitment, so don't rush her,just let things flow naturally. Make her feel very comfortable with you before making any future plans else you might just spook her and she had just freak out.