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bigtt76:To say that you are a female, you should be very ashamed of yourself. What has rape got to do with ethnicity,where is the correlation. If i remember quite alright, is it the same abacha girls who sleep with men for ordinary nokia torch light. Rubbish |
@op, From my own point of view and I would also cite some examples. The earlier one develops the mentality that no one owes you anything, the better even if they are people you have onced help. Its doesn't work that way My dad sibling is very comfortable and lives outside the country, while her brother is struggling here. Now I don't have that mindset that she needs to render us any assistance cos truth be told I don't even want it. Mind you my dad helped her tru schooling and stood by her when her husband died. That asides my mum recently connected with a childhood friend of hers, of which she had helped before. She stays abroad now, mum approached her to help with loan to invest in her business. Do you know how much she got #20,000 I believe from this examples its enough to say you can't depend on anyone simply because you feel they owe you for your past deeds. I have this personal conviction more than ever that no one should feel obligated to help me just because of our relationship and that's why more than ever am determined to make it on my own, with Gods grace. Its better to be the one giving than the one asking. Trust me I could remember a friend told me she needed money,I gave her the last money on me, only to discover that she had savings. Whereas me that gave her never had any but I did it because of her previous good deeds. Again its was my turn to ask for financial assistance and she said she doesn't have meaning her savings is a no go area. Do I hold any grudges, Absolutely NO, its only buttress the fact that I don't owe anybody anything neither does anyone owe me anything. The only people am indebted to are my parents not even my siblings. If I am helping my siblings,then its would only be from the kindness of my heart. Yoruba would say atelewo eni ki n tan eni je |
Kissup:Waow, see my birthday mate here o |
The way people paint this marriage sef, just makes me loose interest in it day by day. When will people realise that marriage is not a trophy neither is it a competition. So if a Lady is 30 and not married, does that make her less of a human. If marriage is what ones life be about, why do married folks still suffer from depression. So because she wants to get married before 30, she should force herself on every dick and harry that comes her way. What happened to self fulfilment |
Megaflex:You are right, I have been looking for information on this for a while. I would like to know more please |
bazkid24:I will, ASAP |
bazkid24:I haven't watched it, I guess I must have missed a lot |
Episode one Mide pulled over in the parking lot, she alighted from her car, a 2008 brown toyota camry,her black transparent block heel touched the ground. She was dressed in a floral green dress, matched with a studded earring and her hair packed in ponytail. A quick look at the parking lot, it was a pleasant sight to behold, filled with various collection of cars, Mide had always been a lover of cars. One that caught her attention was the lamborghini urus performance suv. She stood with keen interest imagining herself behind the wheels, she was lost in thought when she heard a rather husky but familiar voice. She quickly adjusted herself, the man moved closer and they shook hands. Mide: Good morning Mr Austin, I am so glad for the opportunity given to me and I promise to make the best use of it. Austin: Your reputation preceeds you, I am very honoured to have such a distinguished personality like yourself as a guest speaker in our schools anniversary. Oooh. This doesn’t speak well of me, I left you standing here, shall we go to the conference room so you can meet other acclaimed speaker like yourself. Mide giggling she said, ”If you may lead the way please”. Mide Johnson is a distinguished human right lawyer, she graduated from the prestigious university of Ibadan popularly known as the premium university with a first class degree in law, she further went for her national youth service in the south eastern part of Nigeria, before proceeding to law school. Mide started her career as a human right lawyer because she came from a poor family background, she saw firsthand how people suffered social injustice and vowed to give back to the society in her own little way. Emerald is a private school with plans to open a university underway. She had been invited by the schools public relation officer, Mr Austin as a speaker in the event. This was one of the moment, she began to feel uneasy, filled in a room with people who thinks with money they own the world. She quickly remembered her role model, Olivia pope ”even if Olivia was just a fictional character in her favourite series scandal” She held her shoulder up high and walked graciously like a queen, exchanged pleasantries and in a short while the program kick started in the schools auditorium. They were called one after the other to the high table. The auditorium was quite enormous and breath taking, with a gigantic podium, large projector and an amazing sound system. The hall could hold a capacity of about 20,000 people, she thought to herself. Its was a multiple aisle arrangement, the hall was filled with dignitaries and students of the institution. Emerald group of schools is owned by the CEO of Emerald oil PLC. Dr Aderibigbe. So it explains why the event is top notch, speaking on the stage was the owner of emerald empire, Mide watched Dr Aderibigbe with utmost respect, he is a very powerful and respected person in the society. Mide was lost in ecstasy of the event, she was called to give her speech. She climbed the podium with excellent pose and demeanour “ All protocols duly observed, my special thanks goes to the organisers of this event for deeming it fit to inviting me. As you all know I am an advocate of social injustice ranging from child abuse, sexual abuse,domestic violence amongst others “ Mide noticed the little girl seated in the third row, she flinched when Mide mentioned sexual abuse, through out the course of her speech, she kept her eyes glued on the girl and then it became clearer. Mide could recognise that look, it’s was that of a victim who had been sexually abused. She was so sure because she herself had been a victim and has not quite gotten over it. The incidence lurks around her like darkness. She was devastated, this little girl going through such horrible experience. She finished her speech with a “thank you” and everyone applauded her. The event was over and she quickly searched for the girl before she was lost in a pool of crowd. She bent and striked a conversation with the girl and learnt her name was Hope. Before she could say further, a man emerged, he appeared to be hope's father. She exchanged greetings him,and off the man went with Hope before she could probe further. Definitely, Mide knew she had to investigate further, curiosity runs in her DNA. She scheduled a meeting with Hope's teacher after finding out the information from Mr Austin, Of course she lied with her intent. She had told Mr Austin that she is working on a campaign for the girl child education and wanted Hope to be the face of it. The next day,Mide met with Miss Daniels,Hope's class teacher. She was a petite young lady who seemed intelligent. Mide had waved at her when she walked into the restaurant. She soon settled herself on the table after they exchanged pleasantries. Mide began by asking Miss Daniel's,the kind of pupil Hope was. She began by describing Hope as a good and well mannered girl. Mide knew just the right question to ask,she probed further by asking if Miss Daniels had noticed anything out of the ordinary with Hope. Miss Daniel let out an heavy sigh, at this point Mide was sure the conversation had just started. She went on to describe how everything was normal with Hope,until early last year when her grades reduced drastically,she wasn't talking to any of her friends and became withdrawn. She as Hope's teacher called the attention of the parent to the psychological health of their ward, and even suggested she recommend a psychologist but the parent bluntly refused and insisted their daughter was fine as her behaviour was normal for her age. Mide asked her what could have triggered Hope's psychological trauma, Could it be family issue? Miss Daniels nodded in negation and said she was sure its wasn't family related issues because she herself had looked into it. Mide told the teacher her suspicion and she didn't look a bit surprised. She replied by saying she also had the same thoughts but the parents doesn't seem interested in helping their daughter or perhaps they knew who their daughter's sexual predator was. Mide assured the teacher she was going to get to the root of the matter, they ended the conversation and bade each other farewell. Mide got into her car and headed for Hope's home,she had collected her house address from her teacher. On getting there, Mr Davis,Hope's father was confused as to why she visited seeing he recognised her from the event the previous day which was on Friday. She went straight to the point and told him she was concerned for Hope mental well-being and as such,it's her duty as a human right activist to investigate cases like this. Mr Davis went delusional and ordered her out of his house. She was certain something was wrong and she was determined to find out. As she was about to start her cars engine,hope stood on the lawn staring at her, like she was trying to communicate something. Sitting on her couch watching her favourite series, she heard a sound at the door step but didn’t find anybody instead she found a small piece of paper boldly written on it “ Do not meddle in what doesn’t concerns you else you won’t live to tell the tale” This sent cold shivers down Mides spine, she was trembling. |
Hi everyone, I almost didn't post this story but thank God for the courage. I used to love writing as a kid but it's became a forgotten dream along the line, decided to pick up the pieces and came up with something. I am not a writer neither did I study English, criticisms would be highly welcomed. |
Don't blame your cousin for anything,he /she did the right thing. I perfectly understand your situation cos I have had close people in that condition. It's al depends on your stance from here, do you want to do the right thing or do you want to keep doing the wrong thing. They would surely be angry with you and might even disown you, but stil they deserve to know the truth. I know you had to lie because of the pressure from home especially your parents but have you ever thought about where that lie would lead you. I have an uncle who did same now the father is dead,his fathers friend thought they should honour his dad's memory by getting him a good job cos they were in the position. They requested for his certificate and he couldnt provide it. That was the end for him My point is just gather some people your parent will listen to, arrange a meeting and tell them the truth. If you know you don't want to go to school let them know. Not everybody has the brain to go to school, going to School doesn't guarantee success. Please don't fool them anymore, my younger bro did the same, he gained admission but didn't graduate to the next level cos he didn't make the cut off mark. He fooled us but I found out,it's was painful considering what everyone contributed to his education. He is an example, dad disowned him but now he has calmed down and they are building back their relationship |
Guest2017:She already collected one and it is due December so she can't collect another. I use pay later, do they loan big amount. |
Please nairalanders which microfinance bank provides loan with a reasonable interest rate and a considerate duration. I was thinking of renmoney but when I checked their reviews,I found out their interest rate is ridiculous compared to the 4-6% they claim. The loan is a business loan and the applicant is a salary earner. |
Yes,of course. it's all boils down to the type of girl ure with,believe me they are still very much available, depends on where you look |
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Windflower:Does anyone know if it's possible for a graduate of health education to study public health (Nutrition) in UI |
Honestly,sent UI mail close to a week now and no response yet. I wonder whats the use of displaying the mail on their website if they don't make use of it. |
Please is there anybody with vast knowledge of public health in university of ibadan |
skayT:get ginger and peel the back,put it on the affected tooth and chew like u're eating it. Spit the left over and repeat for three to four times. get alcohol and put a considerable amount on the affected area,do not swallow. Hold for few minutes and spit out You can also get this yorubas native toothbrush,use to brush for a while |
alexistaiwo:KinI igbere,shioor. Your yoruba can sure make a dead man sick from his grave guess you wanted to say iregbe |
alexistaiwo:I understand,but I thought the broadcast was for azra,how did pilgrim intercept it. Plus I don't really understand this their azra issh |
bazkid24:Lol,I guess we will soon find out but someone should please explain to me where did pilgrim come from. The last episode,the mad witch talked about him and this azra issh |
quinSonia:Finally,a female fan of into the badland, You are welcome I think waldo is now a baron,remember the last discussion between him and the widow. |
bazkid24:I am here,I didn't think the thread would come back to life after the derailing |
I went last year,for the three days,wanted to mark biology,having studied health edu only for a person who just came that very day to collect the last pack simply because I didn't read biology. It's was quite painful @op please which other subject can I mark asides biology |
This your terms and condition no be small o |
Hotfreeze:please can you expanciate. I have experience working with a NGO and going for my masters soon,where are this supposed job |
So true,I have failed so many aptitude test because of this maths,jeez I just don't like it,I prefer English to mathematics |
bazkid24:Honestly,thought she was going to accept but let's just wait and see |
bazkid24:I am watching Arrow,just watched the season finale last week. It's became boring at some point but the new series seems to be promising. I stopped watching flash at season 2, I just wasn't into it anymore |
One thing I know for sure is you will never hear of an Abacha seller being raped 
