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RomanceRe: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Windflower(f): 9:38am On Dec 12, 2017
CHRISTIAN71:
I believe you quoted me and I believe you did not read all my write up because you feel you can take an element from my compound to win cheap point.
I never said self control by partners are wrong, note I generalized it that's because I know that in some relationship it's even the lady in rare occasions that initiate it, my dear I even cited myself as an example.
I will not bring you to my level because I don't know your level of understanding but I will take you back to your days of adolescence when mumsi would always say, if you can't abstain, use a condom. That means our parents understand that weakness in us. Even God understand our weakness and that's why he said we should abstain from fornication and adultery. Haven said the above, we all can agree that our parents in most cases fail to teach the male child the need to be in control of their emotions and their hormones, things has gotten so bad that even our female children are no longer taught these norms. At this point, I would like to take a break on this topic. Sincerely, I would have loved to highlight more points to justify and bring out the truth about many things but I am busy at the moment.
Easy there Mr macho guy,I never knew its was you I quoted in the first place,was referring to the guy who said if she is not a virgin then she should give in,cos the guy who disvirgined her doesn't have two heads. You don't need to bring me to your level cos I smell pride there,so thanks am okay with my level of understanding.
Also,no need to send me home to my parents cos they trained me well and they obviously taught me self control, never I repeat never did my mum encourage me to use condom. So stop assuming what you don't know.
Shalom
RomanceRe: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Windflower(f): 8:13am On Dec 12, 2017
[quote author=pope191 post=63202895][/quote]Waow,so because sex and relationship is relative then a girl must give sex if he demands for it especially when she is not a virgin. Now my questions
* A man that doesn't have self control,is that one a man
* A man that allows his dick control him,is he worthy being called a man
* will giving out the cookie guarantee that the man would never leave or cheat on his girl
* If she eventually gives him,does it guarantee that she did it because she truly love him or she did it out of coercion
* Does having sex in a relationship guarantee its would lead to marriage
I must say am not surprised with your opinion,especially now when a 16year old girl would have sex and flaunt it on Facebook. Everyone is all about sex now but please stop misleading people,sex/lovemaking should be mutual,it should be because u feel connected to your partner and not just because you want to ease your sex drive.
RomanceRe: My Fiancé Broke Up With Me Because I Refused Him Sex by Windflower(f): 7:58am On Dec 12, 2017
savvy12:
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First of all,you have to be firm when making decisions, when you knew the man was odd and you don't even feel attracted to him,you shouldn't have agreed to date him. Do not be surprised that the man is married with kids and if you are not careful,he might even rape you.
I think its high time you start realising your worth,stop allowing the age factor weigh you down or worry if you would meet another kind of guy. I believe there is someone out there for you. I could remember when my relationship ended with my ex,its was something I could still hang on to but I said no and moved on,even when people looked at me like a fool for leaving a man they believe to be good,cos their believe was I might never meet someone as good as him,but of what's use is a good man when he can't keep our affairs personal,running to the mother at any slight quarrel. I have my self worth and I walked away without regretting or worrying that I was going to be single. Let the man go,focus on the abroad guy but be wise when doing soo cos you don't know what is going on over there. People say love is blind but its the people who are in love that are blind,not love itself. Never accept anything in a relationship if you know u won't compromise in marriage.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 5:20pm On Dec 11, 2017
gidjah:
almost with similar experience but my own room mate went on and told our course mates that he is afraid of me (since I hardly discuss issues with him)we were class mates then but I hardly ask questions and seek for explanations on difficult analysis.for a young man studying mathematics and computer then wey computer no even dey Nigeria .I had to vacate the room for Him and relocated very far were ordinarily close person would not wanna come by for visiting. i really do not like sharing my space with any one.not even my immediate. family
Lol,so he was afraid of you simply because u didn't relate with him. I wonder why people are so pained because u refuse to share details of your life with them,but how did you manage without tutorials
RomanceRe: I Need A Wife Asap by Windflower(f): 5:03pm On Dec 11, 2017
IamaNigerianGuy:
WindFlower.
You have the most beautiful monicker I've come across on Nairaland
Lol, cheesy cheesy cheesy
Christianity EtcRe: Bishop Oyedepo Asks Lady To Return To The Altar After Her Testimony At Shiloh by Windflower(f): 12:44pm On Dec 09, 2017
Dasherz:
Oh my!!!!! Been a Lil challenged in health. Then school work is also a factor So my time is all packed up but in all I Am ok

How are you?
Hope your'e super super great
It z well dear,glad to know ure doing better now
I am super duper doing great.
How is your day going,its been raining heavily here since morning
Christianity EtcRe: Bishop Oyedepo Asks Lady To Return To The Altar After Her Testimony At Shiloh by Windflower(f): 6:36am On Dec 09, 2017
Dasherz:
By encouraging you to work harder to become someone more fulfilling in the future
My twinnie,long time no see. You have been on a low key,hope aal z well,really missed ya o
RomanceRe: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Windflower(f): 8:25pm On Dec 08, 2017
Waow,this is lovely. Congratulations
I key into this testimony,hopefully will share my own nairaland romance story one day but wait oooh, its not fair,Togo babes be hooking our Yoruba guys but Togo guys are not making themselves available for the Yoruba girls. Errrm this is an injustice of the highest order
RomanceRe: God Just Put Extra Ordinary Smiles On My Face And I Want To Say Thanks Wt 10k by Windflower(f): 8:01pm On Dec 07, 2017
Thank God for you,may the testimony remain permanent IJN. Lemme try my luck 0120056483,gtb
EducationRe: Unilag 2017 Thread by Windflower(f): 5:11pm On Dec 07, 2017
Efunbanke1914:
Yeah... Check this
https://www.nairaland.com/4172485/unilag-2018-2019-post-graduate
Good day sir,please is there any thread for unilag 2018/2019 post graduate for public health.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 4:09pm On Dec 07, 2017
Rukkydelta:
I do
100% correct and I find it so difficult to visit others
I had a girl that stayed with me for two weeks here in school, she is a fresher so she stayed with me till when she saw an accommodation
I wasn't comfortable during the period of her stay
My personal space was just invaded. It was hard but it's an experience that was really worth it

INTROVERTS IN THE HOUSE HOW DO/DID YOU COPE WITH A ROOM/FLAT MATE?
Hmmm,Under no circumstances would I ever have a roommate again. I could remember while in uni,I had a friend who was squatting with me,one particular day she just lashed out at me that why do I always expect her to talk to me first,like I always avoid her,I was soo surprised because I just wanted to be alone,there was no strings attached. During my service year also,its was neccessary I have a roommate for security purpose,because I wasn't chatty with my roomie and other tenants,everyone would just neglect me and starts forming malice o,cos they think am intentionally doing it
RomanceRe: Gosh!, Slapped My Girl For The First. Been Trying To Make Up Help by Windflower(f): 4:47pm On Dec 06, 2017
derock123:
like i said, this is the first time its happening in 6yrs and i really regret that, been apologizing since sat and i'm very sure it will never happen again. please ladies, any idea of how i can reverse the trend. the atmosphere in my apartment is in its worst state. bought her stuffs, she accepted them but she still cries in the night.
That's because she is shocked and dissapointed at you,she still can't believe you could do such.
This is not a matter of buying her gifts,just give her time to heal and most importantly,start reminding her of how much you love her. Text her, do romantic things that would sweep her off her feet(if you can sing well,sing her a love song; Girls love it when guys do this),write her a poem if you can,share stories of your most romantic adventures. You can compliment it with gift but if it were me,gifts wouldn't matter at that moment,its has to do with psychologically assuring her that ure still the same guy she fell in love with. While doing all this,don't be too clutchy so as not to become a nuisance to her, give her time to reflect on things. Above all pray she forgives and forget. Trust me you wouldn't like it when she forgives and doesn't forget
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 9:48pm On Dec 05, 2017
charley94:
do you mind sharing the contact details of your personal assistant
Nah,we wouldn't want you to go through such stress, she would contact you personally smiley
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 9:19pm On Dec 05, 2017
charley94:
lol, How Much do you charge??
Its ain't much so don't worry,meet my personal assistant for more information smiley
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 9:17pm On Dec 05, 2017
gidjah:
No vex, was only trying to be funny ni o. You sound better now. Feigning extro doesn't make us any less in fact we do it far better than most of them. You need to See Me on d altar or pew vibrating..... U won't even believe I can't woo a lady. But thanks for my height n looks. It does d talking.
Lol,I didn't take it personally o,just wanted you to get my point. Thank God for the looks cheesy
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 7:00pm On Dec 05, 2017
charley94:
Read your dairy, interesting
Huuun,imagine and you didn't pay me for keeping you entertained. cheesy wink
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 6:57pm On Dec 05, 2017
gidjah:
[/b]Don't mind her jare[b]! By virtue of my kind of job you won't even believe yours truly can't scope a babe. Was with a very high profile Nigerian today who wanted t get certain luxurious gadget from me, we have been talking for like a week and he seem to be enjoying all my flows until we met today, I couldn't even look him in the eyes o! Right here in the federal capital city he came to my base to pick me up with his car, I was so ashamed... But at last last sha I had to convince him it was me o. Before him go change his mind about buying my hi-tech gadget. Thank god that pay alert Don enter now and d deal has been sealed. Bottom line:we should learn to pretend to be extroverts a times, It help us to appreciate thebopposite temperament and become less selfish. You begin to understand how the other person feels when u snub him or give him d cold shoulder.
At the bolded,get my point,I didn't say its not okay pretending to be an extrovert. I have experimented and realised I could be an extrovert if i want to but I still choose to be an Introvert by choice. I regretted what happened at my former working place but now am doing much better,simply because I have decided to put my work life and personal life separate. I am not pretending to be an extrovert at work,am only doing what is professional and expected of me. I used to be shy with my introversion but now I have realised that they are different and i have and still learning to do away with shyness. My work now requires me to speak with a large audience,even if I am shy at first,I would get my bearing later on and give a good presentation.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Diamond Bank Is Recruiting For Graduate Trainees 2017 by Windflower(f): 11:21am On Dec 05, 2017
closerange:
Email address...
Please help me send the dragnet questions, I have sent you a pm. Thank you
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 9:41pm On Dec 04, 2017
charley94:
Good can you help me get a girlfriend
cheesy grin wink grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How To Get To Adeola Adeku VI by Windflower(f): 9:37am On Dec 04, 2017
Nwanieke:
Good morning joblanders, I trust we are all fine. please help a brother, how can I get to 21A, Idowu martins street, off adeola adeku street, Victoria Island from mile 2. I have an interview there on Wednesday. thanks in anticipation as I welcome all your responses
From mile 2,take a bus going to cms,if you can't see one going to cms directly, then take orile first and then cms from orile. From cms,take a bus going to adeola odeku,just ask anybody,its very easy to get. I used to work at adeola odeku,this is the cheapest way of getting there as I have tried many other routes
NYSCRe: Kano Corpers And Camp Soldiers Clash In Karaye NYSC Orientation Camp by Windflower(f): 8:08am On Dec 02, 2017
These corpers are really brave o,i could remember during my time,the state coordinator came for a visit and a corp member appealed to how we were being treated by the soldiers,that it was very wrong. Immediately, the state coordinator left the venue,coman see first class punishment on all the corp members.
Its was definitely a day to remember
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 10:38pm On Nov 30, 2017
pryme:
What if your job is a high paying one but it requires you to be "out going" and the pay is very attractive wont you pretend? besides Introverts are known to be very good actors if they put their mind into it, because they dont act - they live it.
I get you perfectly cos I have been in that situation. I once lost a job for this reason,which was for the best anyway but now I try to moderate things and I wouldn't call it pretending like you did,cos being an introvert is by choice and not due to compliance. I can change to an extrovert if I want to but I prefer being me,cos peoples hypocripsy and backbiting is one thing that makes me to always want to be on my lane. Now I have learnt that being an introvert or not should not affect your work life,once there is a level of professionalism. I can speak to a large audience and you won't know that am an introvert.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 10:13pm On Nov 30, 2017
pryme:
Well, you can pretend to be an extrovert see how far that will take you cool
Haha,don't think so. I am okay being an introvert,its my world and have gotten used to it.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 9:51pm On Nov 30, 2017
pryme:
Let me guess you guys were busy struggling control pad, cos years ago that's the only thing that will keep me indoors all day.

But then, you have to open your self up to new experiences, sometimes being an introvert has its perks, but then it also has some weaknesses, you have to work on it too to live a fulfilled life.
Lol,control pad ke,not at all. Funny enough, I feel fulfilled and happy when I am alone,I do go out once in a while in the company of my female friends. Like you said in your other post about introvert not being boring. You are very correct,just because I don't like going out doesnt mean I can't be fun,its just has to do with if I am comfortable with the person.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 10:08pm On Nov 29, 2017
Olarewajub:
Thank you for sharing your experience.
I guess your ex is an extrovert?
You guys went out just once? Don't you think you were a little greedy (apology for the choice of word) in this area. Did you educate him about your temperament?

Hope my questions don't appear to be interrogative...
Good evening!
Yes,he was. I am not temperamental and its not about being greedy,its about how I perceive things.
To me going out on dates is not necessary,its like a waste of time,we can still stay home and have a blast.
Though,I do feel the need to go out sometimes but its doesn't have to be often.
Evening
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 9:12pm On Nov 29, 2017
Olarewajub:
No body is joking here jor. Dating and Introversion is a very sensitive topic.

Yes,its is and believe me its very difficuult. As a female,its normal for you to go on date with your boyfriend, that is extremely difficult for me. I dated a guy for more than a year and we only went out once wink
I prefer to stay at home,not that am ashamed of myself or anything but I just don't feel comfortable.
There are sometimes that I would just want to be alone,but he would not understand and think I don't want to be in his company. All these contributed to the break up eventually.
Giving a choice,I would like to date/marry an extrovert but who would understand the nature of an introvert and if he is an introvert,he should be an extrovert whenever we are together cos introvert can be fun and not boring like people say,its just depends on the company of people they are with.
FamilyRe: Do Parents Have A Say In Our Financial Matters? by Windflower(op): 3:07pm On Nov 28, 2017
olujastro:
I don't know if you know what bitcoin is but I wish you do so you can benefit greatly from this advice.
Bitcoin is the best place to save money right now especially for those in Nigeria who earn Naira that keeps losing value by the day. Its price is projected to continually rise as it's far from its peak potential.
Instead of saving money in the bank I just use it buy bitcoin and leave it there. If there is an extremely urgent need for the money, I sell part of the bitcoin(which would have tremendously gained more naira than I bought it for) for cash.
You should really consider it and ask for help if necessary.
Yes,I heard about it but don't really understand how its works. Would you mind sharing?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Ecobank Nigeria Intensive Graduate Program 2017 by Windflower(f): 3:05pm On Nov 28, 2017
Enkay12:
Ecobank.. Missed the test, they sent a regret mail last week but i just another mail from them for 9th Dec
I also received the invite again for 9th DEC,please do you have any dragnet questions.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 7:40pm On Nov 27, 2017
Olarewajub:
Perfect place to take a walk... grin grin grin grin
Waow,how I wish I could just dissapear there and take a walk to clear my head.
FamilyRe: Do Parents Have A Say In Our Financial Matters? by Windflower(op): 6:15am On Nov 27, 2017
CaptainJeffry:
Don't ever tell anyone how much you have or earn except your wedded wife. I'm close to my mum but I don't share my financial status with her else she will turn to god in my life.

Apart from private jet which I know she wouldn't need, I can afford her demands.

Try to set your family members up financially so that your burden will be less. When everybody in your family is financially stable, your life will be easy.
Thank God for you,if i was able to afford it,that would have been nice. Its draining me because I don't earn much myself.
The setting up is what we are trying to do

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