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RomanceRe: Please How Do I Tell Her This!! by Windflower(f): 3:37pm On Oct 19, 2017
Why should it be difficult to tell her,honesty and communication is very important in a relationship. I have learnt to handle criticism from people,not allowing it to cloud my sense of reasoning. Just be plain with her and see how she will handle it. I once told my ex to start using perfume,in fact he asked me to recommend one for him,days later his friends girlfriend told him she liked how he smell and he felt happy about it and thanked me for it.
RomanceRe: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Windflower(f): 7:57pm On Oct 16, 2017
GOFRONT:
I want to get married to a girl frm a poor family bakground......I just wonna bridge a gap
So you can rub it in her face of how you elevated her.
RomanceRe: Is It Really Normal To Be "Scared" Of Falling In Love? by Windflower(f): 10:27pm On Oct 15, 2017
Dasherz:
wow. .. I see my relationship life through your post. ... I really need work on myself for the best .. It's high time i finally let go and deal with whatever comes next .. good or bad
Lol,sure its not easy but we just have to try.
I just came across your comment on the introvert lounge,I never knew we were the same. smiley
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RomanceRe: Is It Really Normal To Be "Scared" Of Falling In Love? by Windflower(f): 2:39pm On Oct 15, 2017
Dasherz:
ok this is so me
that's why I friendzone guys alot cos I'm just scaroed of loosing myself in the world of emotions
smileyReally,so u prefer to friendzone them,we ladies are soo full of emotions which cloud our judgement and growing up I promised myself to be strong and independent.
Most of my relationships didn't last up to two months cos I don't take shit,I once broke up with a guy who was using me as insurance cos his relationship was heading for the rocks,I called it quit immediately,with my emotions in check. I am now trying to adjust but guys self ain't helping matters.
RomanceRe: Is It Really Normal To Be "Scared" Of Falling In Love? by Windflower(f): 7:23pm On Oct 14, 2017
You are not the only one,i have never been in love and when I notice have started getting used to someone, I would freak out and end up ruining it.
My reason is I don't like being too attached to the point where I won't be able to find myself,like some girls won't be able to eat or sleep due to heartbreak
Hell no,sometimes I this love is overrated
RomanceRe: Lovers Get In Here by Windflower(f): 11:47am On Oct 13, 2017
CyberGypsy:
mehn .. u don't know how to hold a convo .. is this my good morning ?? smiley
Lol,my bahd. Good night
You don't know how to be caring either,where is my breakfast when its almost lunch, huun
RomanceRe: Lovers Get In Here by Windflower(f): 6:52am On Oct 13, 2017
CyberGypsy:
u forgot the part where he said ,' when they say " i love u" to you..
Youd feel a rush..kinda like goose bumps' .. m sure u get a thousand goose bumps from the I LOVE YOU different guys(ur male friends) tells u
sadHaha,why would a male friend tell me he loves me,nah I was referring to my past boyfriend's.
I get goose bump because I am not one that says I love you to any random guy,The L word scares the shit out of me which people have abused by telling it to every dick and Harry that comes their way
TV/MoviesRe: Which Of The 3 Movies Can You Recommend? by Windflower(f): 7:16pm On Oct 12, 2017
live4christ:
Lost,one tree hill and Nikita...I need to download one of the series
I haven't watched lost,Nikita is an action movie while one tree hill is a story of a group of friends in high school right to their adult life.so its depends on ur choice
RomanceRe: Lovers Get In Here by Windflower(f): 6:51pm On Oct 12, 2017
thanta:
all your male friends tell u they love you?:-|... And err you might jus be the " i want them all" type.. Goodluck with your err emotional quests.
Lol,I know what I want. I am not a confused human being,thank you
RomanceRe: Lovers Get In Here by Windflower(f): 6:48pm On Oct 12, 2017
CyberGypsy:
sorry to barge into u , but make your point ! u mean all your male friends say 'I love you' to u ? this is serious
Nope,I didn't say that. I meant if the points he listed is truly the signs one exhibit when they are in love,then its means I am in love with all of my friends( both male and female).
thanta:
SYMPTOMS
2. Youd want to see,talk to him/her like everyday

I have like 3 male friends that's I surely like seeing often
3. Their messages make u blush beyond porportions and you can chat with him/her for hours without noticing time has gone by.

I am an introvert,so I chat a lot when am less busy,even while chatting with female friends I do blush,if what we are discussing is very funny
4. You get nervous when they are coming over to see you

Its normal to be nervous when meeting with someone, even the same sex.you would want to please them with everything. I recently hanged out with two of my female coursemate and I was kind of nervous cos we haven't seen in two years.
5. Youd start thinkin about every little thing they say and be like .."i wish i had given a different reply"
6. Most importantly- when they say " i love u" to you.. Youd feel a rush..kinda like goose bumps

I have goose bumps anytime am nervous, scared of something or when my body is reacting to anything
Even when a guy tells me he loves me,I get goose bump because at that moment confusion set in and I wouldn't want to hurt him by not replying but not because am in love or I can't do without him.
My point is,I don't agree that because of the above,its means ure in love. I think its goes beyond all this
RomanceRe: Lovers Get In Here by Windflower(f): 6:18pm On Oct 12, 2017
[quote author=thanta post=61358260][/quote]If this is love,then I guess I have fallen in love with every of my male friends sad
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 10:17pm On Oct 09, 2017
gidjah:
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For me,its takes me time to trust and open up to people,I can only do this if I feel comfortable around you
Yes,I get you. Its happened today,a colleague was initiating a conversation but was just not in the mood to be chitty chatty,which people tend to mistake for pride.
I can also talk to a crowd as long as it is work related
People tend to look at introvert like they ain't normal which is beginning to get to me already.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 10:06pm On Oct 09, 2017
DonOms:
2) Well, it is easy to conclude that Introverts marry late through Inductive Reasoning. Introverts don't socialize easily, they prefer their own company and they over-analyse small issues extroverts overlook. Now, those three factors would ordinarily mean 'late marriage.' However, there are other factors such as culture, wealth, tradition and environment, all of which may actually favour an introvert in certain situations. So, in essence, INTROVERTS DO NOT NECESSARILY MARRY LATE. In fact, I personally think Introvert ladies are not as affected as men since our society makes men do the "hard" social part.

In conclusion, Introversion may come with its own disadvantages but many things attributed to it aren't even true. Most introverts are very easily lovable people except for those who don't understand them and therefore label them as all sorts.
Waow,you really understand the introvert nature,but I think introverted ladies are as affected as men too.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 3:15pm On Oct 09, 2017
Mcy56:
Just saw this thread now, pls how true could this be cos I'm an introvert and born in Nov.?

Also, I read somewhere that introverts marry late, how true is this?
Hmmm,I need an answer to the question above too.
I mean if an introvert doesn't socialize or relate with people,then how does such a person settle down.
I am 24,and the only event that I have attended is just one wedding which I was forced to go. I guess that's the disadvantage of being an introvert.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 3:11pm On Oct 09, 2017
gidjah:
but you built a wall they can't seem to cross , you need to lower your fence
I totally relate with this,but is it all introvert that has this problem cos I do. I find it hard to let people in,Is it just a normal thing or does it has to do with being an introvert
RomanceRe: Be Honest, What Will It Cost? by Windflower(f): 11:44pm On Oct 08, 2017
Op,I wouldn't like to speculate,so just offer me the money first then I would let you know if its enough to dump my boyfriend cheesy
Or should I send my account digit at once
RomanceRe: Is it Possible To Start All Over Again After Graduating? by Windflower(f): 6:39pm On Oct 08, 2017
Fongido:
He didn't study a course of his choice. he accepted the course bcoz he wanted to be in university but now he knows better
Same here,mine was because of my o level result. After I finished my aunty told me to go back and choose a good course that she would even sponsor me but I declined.
I had rather go for my masters than go back to uni,its depends on your friend,if he believes the new course he is going to study is worth it. What works for taiye might not work for kehinde,on a lighter note,the course one reads doesn't really matter in the Nigeria of today. My thought tho
PoliticsRe: Seni Saraki Pays Homage To Emir Of Ilorin As His Father Watched by Windflower(f): 6:19pm On Oct 08, 2017
dfrost:
cheesy guy how you take know? Although you are not far from the truth. It's sickening to see old folks lining up in front of late Saraki's residence hustling for items.
Seriously,do they still do that till date. I thought their jazz had become impotent on kwarans
RomanceRe: Why Good Girls Remain Single?? by Windflower(f): 2:54pm On Oct 07, 2017
dcolumbus001:
Those who have read the book hope you found it interesting and educating.
This my email just incase ure shy to drop urs here

Xaxman6@gmail.com
Its was an interesting piece,well-done op.
I don't think I agree with your definition of a good girl,being a good girl doesn't mean you shouldn't take care of your personal looks and development. I think a good girl has to do with having a good heart,being considerate of your partner. Just because a girl is the church type doesn't mean she is a good girl,she might be a runs girl behind closed doors.
RomanceRe: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Windflower(f): 8:07pm On Oct 06, 2017
hpymoment:
I am not trying to be a saint here .....the highest thing a guy am dating can do to me is to give me money esp wen I visit him n wants to go. Jeez! It's makes me feel like am an olosho. Ayam not understanding myself, kind of weird
Its not weird,its called decency. A guy once did it and I felt so humiliated, if I didn't have my tf I won't have bothered coming,its just painful not ladies would see it this way
RomanceRe: Should A Jobless Guy Go Into A Relationship? by Windflower(f): 8:01pm On Oct 06, 2017
Gbadegesin19:
With the too much expenses of girls wanting recharge cards, going to the cinemas and all that, is it wise to be broke and still veer into a relationship?

Broke guys in relationships share your experiences and thoughts too.
Its all depends on the purpose of your relationship, you have got to define the reason why you want it. Is it because you want to satisfy your sexual urge or do you want to build a future with the gurl.
Also,look for a type of girl whose ideal is the same as urs,its is very irritating when people say these kind of things about ladies,not every lady is the same.
I am a complete introvert,I had rather stay home than waste money going to eateries,I don't depend on people coz I don't want to feel indebted to anybody,while in the university the guy I dated was going tru a rough time coz his mum passed and I know how I helped him financially with the little I have. So its depends on where ure looking,there are still some good ladies out there.
You also have to work on yourself,you can't expect a reasonable lady to stay with you when ure broke and unambitious. She has got to see that you have a great potential and drive to success,no girl would date a lazy guy.
HealthRe: 5 Warning Signs Stress Is About To Make You Sick by Windflower(f): 1:51pm On Oct 06, 2017
[quote author=emmyid post=61161428]That number 2 (Putting up weight) isn't for Nigerians. A typical Nigerian undergoing dialy stress finds it hard to afford food rich in calories. Na only starch we de fit afford. [/quote
Its very true,thanks for the enlightenment @op
I am experiencing all the symptoms even the weight gain,yet people tell me its enjoyment this is causing it,meanwhile I go through a lot of stress
RomanceRe: Please Help A Really Confused Nairalander by Windflower(f): 4:38pm On Oct 05, 2017
Chai,even I as a graduate earn less than 100k,while some earn as low as 10k. You are indeed lucky
The truth is getting education doesn't mean you will be successful in life,its only gives you potential and a platform to success. You are lucky to have made it in business,however you still need the certificate, you never know when an opportunity might present itself.
Also,it is education that will make you stand out and be unique in your business. You have the money,so many higher institution offer part time classes,you can even attend online lectures,its that easy now.
CelebritiesRe: Kemi Olunloyo Blasts The Bible, Submissiveness, Tiwa Savage And Queen Zaynab by Windflower(f): 4:17pm On Oct 05, 2017
Everyone shouting gender equality,I just hope you would be able to handle the aftermath.My younger brother came back from school angered with the way the boys are being treated,while girls are given special preference, I tried explaining to him but he clearly thinks they are being partial.
The fact is we can't be equal with men,the role of a man and woman is not the same. A woman should respect her husband but not be a fool all in the name of been submissive,that's what matters most.
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Johnson Shows Off Her Figure In New Photo by Windflower(f): 12:08pm On Oct 05, 2017
arodavoo:
Pls tell all your friends not to have any deal with this number +2349038473855 0816 891 8904,he goes with the business name *vee_ tech _consultation network communication*,he claims to sell data plans for all networks at cheap and affordable prices
He is a thief and a scammer,they are people who live and survive on people's sweat,his name is preciou abiola mazo
Kindly rbc till it get to every nigerian
You are right,dem plenty for this nairaland. It happened last month, though not this veetech but the fellow scammed me of #1500 and didn't transfer any data.
I wonder how some people will sit at the comfort of their home and feel its okay to rub people of their hard earned money. It z well
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Windflower(f): 7:58pm On Oct 03, 2017
ImaIma1:
Why is it even an issue who marries first? If I am ready to marry, I have wait for my older one to meet someone, fall in love, agree to marry, before I go ahead. Very funny.

People have different fate and plans. One's own should not disturb the other.
You are so on point,I wonder why people read meaning to every little thing,then we relate it to culture and tradition.
Who started the culture and tradition in the first place
RomanceRe: How Did You Learn To Swim? by Windflower(f): 5:47pm On Oct 03, 2017
DeadRat:
well, maybe you Havent Noticed. Rats Love Eating Flowers These Days and We Dont have A Reason To Stop soon.
Lol,I haven't seen where a dead rat eats,except ure an alien rat tho
RomanceRe: How Did You Learn To Swim? by Windflower(f): 5:14pm On Oct 03, 2017
DeadRat:
Sarcasm Of Life, honey... Thats What Life Does To Bring Love together
Lol,its ain't sarcasm honey,not the moment a rat ate my last foodstuff,the only reason am still contemplating is because ure a dead rat

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