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Danielmoore:
Most pprostitutes end up getting the best husbands

Evablizin:
Marriage is for matured people remember age is not maturity rather just a number,if you rush into marriage without preparation you must surely rush out whether you're desprate or not.

dingbang:
Well after making all that money.. Its not when u get married now, u will say your husband is still stingy because he doesn't give you money...

IamKashyBaby:



I agree with ur mindset OP...

If only all the ladies will think like that sha..Marriage is not the answer to the problem and never beg ur ex to take u back juz for the sake of what ur friends told u...

It is u will be the one to be with him and not them..

So many ladies who are desperate to settle down once they reached the peak time, but the divorce/ separations are more alarming these days..

npowerng:
When did you start going to your PPA?

npowerng:
Your payment would start from March.

npowerng:
Good day, from what you said, February was when you did verification and march was when you started work.

npowerng:
Dear Existing Beneficiaries,
Some of you have payment issues and don't know what to do.
Please read carefully and ask follow up questions below.
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Bulletproof:
Please I want to buy a jacket I saw on jumia, however I discover it will be shipped from overseas! I apparently need this item before 28th of this month, but I don't know how long it will take Jumia to deliver it? I'm unclear about the 10-20 business days as stated on their website!
I will be glad if someone can share his/her experience buying items abroad via Jumia so that I can factor that in to my plan!

Thanks guys
Its should arrive before 28th,mine takes up to two weeks

uc4uandc:
Personally, I don't think any lady will accept a land for a BD present!

omoelerin1:
you can be the OP's second wife.

9japrof:
Here art thou, am on a 12k salary and I don do savings Wella, infact people wey go gimme contributions plenty. They are even willing to gimme money wey I go use pay for ur bride price. You go gree marry me?

Lol

Gbemiie:
Hello ma! Please do say your reasons for the above notables. What model would you say one should get then? And please, how best can one cennect internet to the pc? A modem or can i use my phone's internet to run it just fine? Seeing what I what to use the gadget for. Thanks (I feel so much like a novice right now).

cc rose54321

Laryne:
Brotherly HP anytime. .. I've been using it since 2012 yet no complain. ..

lomprico:
I have been in love before so I know how you feel.

But your brother may have a point. My very close cousin was in ur shoes one time, due to inability to find job his elder sis try sending him to Ukraine for MSc, he had a girl he has been dating for 8 yrs, when he told her of the travel plans she cried n cried that he was going to leave her after all they have been through, told tried convincing her that he wont do such, he even called her mum and told her he was ready to bring drinks to her family indicating he wants to marry her. She still did not believe him, this my guy sabotaged his visa runs so that he wont travel again cos he did not know how to tell his sis he's no more going (because of his girl). He confided in me on this, I almost broke bottle on his head. To cut the long story short he is still searching for a decent job as I type this and guess what his girl has left him last year because, in her words "I need a better provider" .
My cousin almost took his life when this happened.

So, Op am not saying all ladies are the same but use your head and not ur heart in this situation. When u make the money women in all shapes n sizes, the very good ones and very bad ones will flock around you but if u are broke.. well.

tonyx4x44:
Hmmm this is quite confusing o I lift weights too.

Insecure about what exactly?



How?

uncleade:
YOU MEAN ELECTRIC LIGHT OR SUN LIGHT?

continentalceo:
For year?! Definitely not in Nigeria. What part?

tonyx4x44:
Loving relationship, 3 years in, tall boy, short girl.

Height difference in relationships can cause a lot of aesthetic problems, but I never expected this one.

In a recent heart to heart session, my girlfriend stated that she has had thoughts about breaking up with me because I am way taller/bigger than her.

Imagine fa, I was busy thing we look cute together, while she was there thinking the exact opposite.

Life sha.

My problem is ehn, how can I help her feel less disturbed about this?

Ginaz:
Well they said I should socialized, that was a disaster. There was a nice gentleman I met after my broke up with my first bf, he seems nice but he didn't understand me. There was a day he asked to see me, just hang around somewhere nice to have a chit chat. My God, the last minute I broke the promise... I felt nervous, felt my heart beating. That would be the first time since 4 years ago I would want to go out with someone.

I called it off, apologized to him which he took. He came to visit me instead but maybe I was too strict with the going out stuff and he was that type. He invited me on two occasions to visit him since he located. If I did, that meant he would be the first guy ever to get a visitation from me. (apart from my ex).

He won't understand, I felt he wanna suffocate me with his positive outbursts which was a good thing however he should have taken it slowly. I was depressed also, plus my introverted self made it very difficult for him so I won't blame him. I let go...he wasn't worth it. It still hurts cos I liked him a lot. ..(the price of being introverted and weird)

Exactly, my ex too didn't really understand me,I feel suffocated sometimes and the cure is just to be left alone for a while.

At the start of the topic I mentioned i had 4 people I share deep emotional talk with, well, let's make that 3.... I lost one. Out of the 3, I only talk with one face to face , two are via phone and I have only seen one.

Life most go on, I can't change myself. I don't go out of the house. ....24/7 I'm indoors worsened by the fact I no longer go to work. Oh, I went to visit my aunt this year! At least I went out.

What I do is try to go to the stadium every Saturdays, say hi's to few people.....smile...feel happy. I'm no longer depressed, if people decide to take me for what I am then it's OK, if they don't, it's OK too.

Life is too short. Please be happy, accept your personality, know it, exploit it, let it defined you instead of waiting for people's approvals. Don't seek a pat on your back cos you won't get it.

*****

I read novels,... have a talk with my dog( he hears sit, stand, sleep, come, back and are you crazy? ) I look for his trouble a lot.... quarreling with mom helps too( I can't be having a mouth odour na, let the air out of the mouth sometimes ). I pray, read the Bible, sleep and eat( I do that with passion)

I have added a little weight (* no wonder the guys won't stop staring at my bum bum, could you imagined a J.S.S 3 kid be calling me on the street? )

Lol,I can imagine because a five year old boy once tapped me on my bum bum

I'm happy. Be happy too. Live your life.

That's it exactly, I am me and I like me,I don't care about what people say about me. In my compound,I only greet them ,don't have any friends but people look at you, as if sure being proud

By the way, my cousin came to visit me early this month. We both introverts, we never stepped out of the house but what a blast we had......em music be playing, em novels be sliding....em food be vanishing...em farts be smelling ...it was a blast.

Ginaz:
I don't know the right section to post this but I really need to know cos I'm tired already so forgive me.

I'm in my early twenties, I'm the kind of girl that just love being alone with herself. I don't go clubbing, don't go to parties( except I don't have a choice and I'm being forced by my mother, marriage tinx)

I have few friends, just 4 I share deep emotional matters with. I'm always alone when at home, in fact I get excited about it.

I have never visited anyone this year, except on 2 occasions. Only 2 have visited me also, I close from work straight home and sleep, read novels or watch movie.

I like social stuff but too much of it kills me, makes me shy and tired. Now I'm at my aunt's house, I've been inside my room since Saturday, I only come out to do house chores. This is my personality but I feel people don't understand.

My aunt just had a talk with me right now that I keep myself from people, and it's getting me mad cos I didn't think it that way.

Nairalanders, please am I too introverted or what? Is there something I'm missing? Please.

vingeophysicist:
lol you are not lenient oo. Although Yoruba ladies for me is a no go area for me base on my experience with them. Infedility is there first name and there ladies can pretend and are usually pious but when it comes to intimacy flee!!!