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01mcfadden:
I was the one that talked to you about anxiety disorder then over the phone.
I lost your contact and your phone number isn’t on your signature again.
How can I get through to you, I’d like for us to talk again, please.

Please check it again now and reach me....sorry for the inconvenience.

arcnomec:
Thank God you had your baby,
I lost both baby and mother within a space of 4hrs .
Life hasn't been funny with me

Oh my God!!! So sorry to hear about that brother. I pray God will restore all to you beyond your expectations.

WhoDeyThere:
Stay strong bro. I had similar experience, she died 27days after CS. I can relate to how you feel. Contact me if you don't mind, let's Rob minds together.

Ok bro....how do I reach you....I can't access the mail attached to this account. If you don't mind please chat me on the line at signature

Thanks for your concern.

01mcfadden:
Condolences on the loss of your wife. May she rest in peace.
I see you talked about anxiety disorder. That’s the task at hand for me now. I’ve been battling it for the past three weeks. I just got placed on drugs yesterday. I’ve not taken drugs or injections since God knows when and I’m surprised it’s come to this now.
Please how did you overcome it then?
I’ve sent a request to send you a mail.

Please I need help.

I no longer have access to the mail please reach me via my signature

seborrhic:
Wao,this type can be traumatizing because you be asking yourself where do you start from?
How did you manage to cope with such deep emotional trauma?
P.S read that you have been having some mental health challenges,it's quite understandable.
Pray you have the fortitude and mental strength to overcome.

Yes, I have been dealing with ADHD and Anxiety since about ten years old...got diagnosed at 29 but when this lady came into my life, she made things so easy that I even forgot my medications completely, at I a point I asked myself if she was human or an angel cos everything about us moved so smooth, only for death to rob me of her. Honestly everyday comes with its own challenges ever since she left. Sometimes I loose touch with reality but knowing I have a child to cater forces me back to life. To make things worse I'm an introvert almost a loner.

About how I'm dealing with I had to move down to my hometown with my parents cos suicide has been knocking on the door of my heart. And I'm also in therapy and also taking a whole lot of antidepressants.

DaddyRochie1642:
I feel your pain, you have no option than to be a solid Rock for your child.

Thanks so much for the encouragement, it means a lot to me.

WhoDeyThere:
Stay strong bro. I had similar experience, she died 27days after CS. I can relate to how you feel. Contact me if you don't mind, let's Rob minds together.

Ok, thanks bro. Hers wasn't even CS she had a normal vaginal delivery and happened in a space of 8mins. No complications at all except for the cramps she started feeling on day 7. The whole thing still remains mysterious to me.

Foxie:
Reading this, my heart sank. Please accept my deepest condolences. I believe she's in a better place.

Sure....I believe she is too, thanks so much I'm grateful.

PJ123:
So sorry my brother!!! God be with you and the baby in Jesus name till the very end!!!

Amen....thanks so much for the words.

- Witnessing a loved one die in your presence is a scar for life, it can damage a person for Life.

You can share your experience if you wish, it is not an easy thing to talk about.

7th of December 2023 at about 10pm, few hours to the naming ceremony, a day I will never forget, 6days after she gave birth to our one and only child during our first year of marriage.

The trauma began when she started complaining of cramps in the morning, I called the doctor and we went to the hospital afterwards, they attended to her through the day and she was getting stable, we were waiting for her to finish the last drip and get discharged when all of a sudden she started gasping for breath and in the space of 30 seconds before the medical team could do anything she gave it up right before my eyes.

Till today as I type, the shock hasn't left me, coupled with the fact that I was living with Anxiety disorder before the incident. This has taken me in and out of mental health clinics since then. The baby is barely 3months old, all by myself, life feels empty and miserable.

I will forever live with your memories Eunice. I love you.

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