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tochez24:
If you don't have money as a man,if you like become Romeo, 99% of NIGERIAN girls will avoid you, talkless of being in a relationship with you⚠️

They're all for the money... Except you're talking about the 1% left which most of them are taken, most men marry off good girls at very tender age(before 25 years)

My cousin married his wife when she was 18 years, a beautiful virgin bride and he's enjoying his marriage till date.

.... And you're here lecturing us on how to date whores!!!!!😏

there are women who will build with a man and love him to the end of the world. I don't the type of women you meet and most times you attract your kind.

Are you a good person?

Are you Godly?

Are you decent?

natedensel:
Lol you can't know how ridiculous you sound until you're a guy searching for the women you described, you'd have better luck finding a needle in a haystack cuz the reality is you'd waddle through different girls in your life and you wouldn't come close to finding something close to what you described, I'm a witness, I've been looking for one and every one I've met is pretty much the same and I wouldn't generalize but almost every guy are complaining of the same so I'm not the only one.

I don't know the type of women you surround yourself with but I'm telling what I know.

Maintaining a healthy relationship can have a positive impact on your work life in several ways.

Firstly, it can provide emotional support, which can enhance your confidence and resilience, thus making it easier for you to tackle any workplace challenges.

Moreover, having a secure relationship with your partner can help reduce stress levels, which in turn can help you focus more effectively on your tasks.

Additionally, a supportive partner can offer valuable insights and advice, enabling you to navigate professional decisions more effectively. I do this with my partner and it's beautiful.

Overall, a strong and healthy relationship can contribute to your overall well-being, which often translates into improved performance and productivity at work.

Side Question: Why are you still in that toxic relationship?

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Puss360:
Lol.... Lemme come and learn

Please do, thank you.

Love800:
You very correct.

All of dem are good tactics. But the last and most important one is have a life of your own(ur job, worklife, to provide financially).

very important.

natedensel:
Lol, the thing is you don't even believe what you posted up there, how can you get the chance to do all this when a girl will conclude you're a waste of time the moment they realize you ain't rich, it's extremely difficult for girls to look past your finances, infact it's the only thing that would determine if they would continue talking to you or not, let's not fool ourselves abeg, they'll date an unruly, ill mannered and uncultured leprechaun if that leprechaun is rich, and they would choose him over the most gracious gentleman who's broke time.

Different women have a different mindset, some interacting with those women. Some women want someone they can build with.

PerfectStranger:
This op must be from the 80s. Outdated epistle

I am not from the 80s and this still works.

Gbadugbakun:
Oga all this one na long talk. What Nigerian girls are interested in is money. Once you have it, no matter how rude you are to them, they'll stay. Even if you beat them they won't leave because they worship money.

It depends on the type of girls you are meaning.

tochez24:
If you don't have money as a man,if you like become Romeo, 99% of NIGERIAN girls will avoid you, talkless of being in a relationship with you⚠️

They're all for the money... Except you're talking about the 1% left which most of them are taken, most men marry off good girls at very tender age(before 25 years)

My cousin married his wife when she was 18 years, a beautiful virgin bride and he's enjoying his marriage till date.

.... And you're here lecturing us on how to date whores!!!!!😏

Why is everything about money? This is why I advise money to stop buying women over with money, look for genuine love.

Starting a relationship involves building a connection with someone you’re interested in. Here are some steps to consider:

1. Get to know yourself: Understand your values, interests, and what you’re looking for in a relationship.

2. Meet new people: Socialize, join clubs or groups, and engage in activities where you can meet potential partners, I don't like going out this is for you.

3. Show genuine interest: Ask questions, listen actively, and show that you care about the other person’s thoughts and feelings.

4. Communicate openly: Be honest about your intentions and feelings, and encourage open communication from the other person as well.

5. Take it slow: Let the relationship develop naturally, without rushing into things, many people tend to fail here.

6. Build trust: Be reliable, respectful, and trustworthy in your interactions.

7. Be yourself: Authenticity is attractive, so don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Don't stop living to please the other person.

Don't forget, that every relationship is unique, try not to compare your journey with that of Oluchi's, trust your instincts and enjoy the journey 😊

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Biglittlelois:
Not only women, men too, I know of a married man that told his wife in a heated argument that he will cheat on her and nothing will happen, she then left the house for him to cheat at will, his next point of action was to tell everyone his wife left him for no reason

Lesson; Married couples should tame their words and watch what they say to each other.

This is bad.

I have met a lot of women who say dangerous words in the heat of an argument with their spouse and this can destroy their marriage or break trust.

It's important to be mindful of the words we use in the heat of an argument, especially when it comes to the father of your kids. Saying something that plants a seed of doubt can be really dangerous and hurtful.

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Are you looking for ways to bond with your kids and create lasting memories together?

Here are some fantastic tips that will help you build a strong connection with your children and have fun at the same time.

1. Quality Time Together: Do you enjoy playing board games, hiking, or having dinner together? Dedicate some uninterrupted time to engage in activities that you both love. The key is to be present and fully engaged during these moments, so turn off your phone and enjoy each other's company.

2. Shared Interests: Do you have common interests with your kids, such as sports, cooking, or gardening? Participating in activities together is an excellent way to bond and create a sense of connection. You'll have a great time while building unforgettable memories.

3. Open Communication: Do you create a safe environment for your kids to express themselves openly? Encourage them to share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment. Actively listen to what they have to say, and let them know that their emotions are valid.

4. Create Traditions: This is one of my favourites. Do you have any family traditions? Establishing them can strengthen the bond between you and your kids. Whether it's a weekly movie night, a monthly game tournament, or an annual camping trip, these traditions will create lasting memories that your kids will cherish forever.

Try these tips, and you'll be amazed at how much closer you'll feel to your children. Have fun bonding.

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As a single parent, it's important to make the right choices when it comes to choosing a spouse.

Unfortunately, many single parents make the mistake of not considering all the important factors, which can hurt their children. So, if you're a single parent looking for love, take some time to consider all the things that matter before taking the plunge. This video will open your eyes to those areas.

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immortalcrown:
As long as there is still a communication to the point of telling the person what happens in marriage, the person is not an ex. Find another adjective for the person.

Can you explain?

Hello everyone. So, I overheard a really interesting story the other day about a couple facing a particular issue, and I was so captivated by it that I decided to create a video about their experience.
Do you think it's proper to keep informing your ex about things that are happening in your marriage? #marriage

https://youtube.com/shorts/WktXDSb0QzY?si=skVEqPinbJGqeLV8

It's disheartening to see that many men still hold on to the belief that gifts alone can win over a woman's heart and that the absence of gifts will have no impact on the relationship. It's time we understand that relationships are built on love, care, and understanding, not material possessions.

https://youtube.com/shorts/yfLVk2_Sr0Q?si=EW5qOecdAyeSF9OT

GOFRONT:
In a bid to avoid going too far before gettin to discover we are both AS, I will be like :Hey baby hello I'm AS, how about you??

I found out a lot of people lie about this. I feel the best is going to a lab.

immortalcrown:
If you find it difficult to let go, marry the person and adopt how many children you want.

most people do even think to this part.

Have you ever imagined finding that one person who fills your life with love and happiness, who supports your dreams and helps you achieve them? Imagine finally falling in love after going through a series of heartbreaks and realizing you've found your true soulmate.

But what happens when you're hit with unexpected news that shatters everything you've built together? That's exactly what happened to me. After three amazing years together, we decided to take the next big step and get tested for compatibility. And then it hit us hard - we were both AS. How could this happen again? My heart was shattered into a million pieces.

Have you checked your Genotype?

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Hello, I have a question that's been on my mind lately. So, my ex-fiancé called off our engagement and now he's asking for the diamond ring back. But I'm not sure if I should return it since he gave it to me. What do you think? Should I give it back? Is it common practice to return the ring after a break-up? Let me know your thoughts.

https://youtube.com/shorts/SQcMLTF3OLg?si=XIJZOUl2Wnt0orrc

Marriage is a beautiful bond that comes with its own set of responsibilities.

It's not just about enjoying the perks of being married, but also about fulfilling the duties that come along with it. Ignoring these responsibilities is not an option if you want to maintain a healthy and happy marriage.

Link to the full video below
https://youtube.com/shorts/66Y9Yymq6YY?si=aduEUsJ-cUyU-RFP

ahnie:
One use to be on diary section brandishing her perfect marriage.but she Dey collect steady for house.

Wo make we just leave Matthias.

She probably wanted people to learn from her mistake. If you have looked me up you will know I'm not painting a perfect marriage but a Godly one.

tonicyril:
She never said u won't face gbasgbos
She never said her marriage is perfect
She never said she's having a smooth ride of marriage


All she's saying is HOW TO MANOEUVRE TRU THE DARKNESS AND CONQUER THE UNDULATIONS IN THE MARRIAGE..


Are u cleared now??

Thank you.

ahnie:
Sadly people preaching all these how to save your marriages are facing GBA gbos at home.



No insult intended.

I totally understand but that is not my case.

Hello lovelies! Are you aware that communication is the key to a healthy and long-lasting marriage? It's true! Without proper communication, couples may find themselves struggling to connect and may even drift apart, leading to the possibility of divorce.
So, it's essential to keep the lines of communication open and work on strengthening your connection with your partner.

Learn to also listen to your spouse's needs and have them as a priority. Watch the video for a detailed explanation.
https://youtube.com/shorts/My49zrh-CX8?si=yVs_VO9KHg_gADXj

neonly:
Click le bend

Educate yourself.

Foodqueen:
It's true.

They will never see anything good in people. Always changing every good thing they hear about you to bitterness that will make them happy.

Av one family I know. They are always online looking for celebrity that there marriage crashes.

This is absolutely true.

As technology continues to transform our daily lives, digital parenting has become a crucial aspect of raising children in the modern era.

It's no surprise that screen time, online safety, and responsible use of technology are some of the top concerns that parents face. But fear not, I have got you covered. Here's a breakdown of the key aspects that will help you navigate the digital world with your kids:

First up is screen time management. It's all about finding the right balance between screen time and other activities like outdoor play, social interactions, and homework. We know it's tough to pry kids away from their screens, but it's essential for their overall well-being.

Next up is online safety. Educating your children about the potential dangers of the internet is vital. By teaching them about privacy settings, safe online behavior, and how to recognize and report harmful content, you're giving them the tools they need to stay safe online.

Responsible use of technology is another key aspect. Teaching your children to use technology ethically and responsibly is essential. Encouraging critical thinking skills and media literacy helps them navigate the vast amount of information available online.

Parental controls and monitoring tools are also a great way to manage your children's online behavior while still allowing them to explore and learn in a safe environment. But remember, communication is key. Maintaining an open and ongoing dialogue with your children about their online experiences is crucial.

Finally, it's important to set a positive example. Modelling healthy digital habits and behaviours for your kids is essential. By practising moderation in your own screen time, respecting digital boundaries, and engaging in meaningful offline activities as a family, you're shaping their attitudes towards technology.

By addressing these challenges and opportunities, you can empower your children to navigate the digital world safely, responsibly, and with confidence. So, let's get started.

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Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you and your spouse had a disagreement, but you weren't sure whether to share it with your family or not? It can be tough to know what to do, but here's a tip: keeping some things between you and your partner can actually strengthen your relationship. By working through the issue together and coming up with a solution that works for both of you, you can build trust and intimacy in your relationship. So, next time you and your spouse have a disagreement, consider keeping it to yourselves and resolving it as a team...
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Whether we like it or not our parents' marriage has a huge impact on our lives. It can be conscious or unconscious.

Most kids who are abusive or violent come from homes where one of the parents is violent. Check the video for a detailed explanation

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