₦airaland Forum

Chygoz01:
what of silent treatment is it a red flag too

ZIMDRILL:
very true but there is a problem based on social and tradition/culture practice, were there are expectation based on tribe or social behaviour that do not benefit you as couple but society just do it.

Most african cant hold hands in public or show affection in public

ogawisdom:
Lol I am not surprised coming from a woman. The main thing in marriage is compatibility, money, commitment and understanding.

Tyktoker:
Emotional connection is stronger after divorce! Why? you suppose emotional control is different from love abi, you Nigeria can make this English language meaningless ehhhhh.

Tharealisrael:
That submission is what women find difficult to do these days..they believe they are equal to the man.

RedpillAnalyst:
Off course written by that gender. Priming you for manipulation..

OZIOGU1:
This is lacking in most homes and is tearing marriages apart, especially when is one sided, sad most couples treat this aspect of marriage with kid gloves, but it is even more important than sexual connection.

Basicend:
Immediately I saw Emotion $ Marriage in the subject, I knew it must be a female write-up.

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I have not even gone through it. They prioritize marriage so much, but manipulate the whole thing out of control and order often.

Emotion is needed strongly but there must be order and clear purpose in a set-up or union.

JustPowerApps:
Everything looks like red flag these days though, even a slight delay in reply to messages is already a red flag in this generation

Jeon:
It's usually the man who wants to open the relationship, and has visions of having a lot of sex on the side while maintaining his primary relationship. A few months in, when he realizes all that sex is not coming to him, but his wife is drowned in it? All of a sudden, they don’t think it’s a good idea anymore."



From the stories I do read on Quora, Reddit and LSA, open Marriage do favor Women a lot. Wow just learnt this.
And those stories were brought there by the Men themselves lamenting about what the wished for.

Dexy4yah:
It works for white people thou


Americans in particular

Gandollar:
Open marriage is an ill-wind that blows nobody any good. It will surely create a lot of insecurities and distrusts sooner than later.