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Enny2013:
No disciplined person shud b reckless wt sex...

people dyknow how risky this is.

Having sex on a first date can influence a lot of your decisions regarding a person, you get carried away by the sexual pressure you derive from the sex and forget the things that make up an healthy relationship.

Most people are in horrible relationships/marriages today because of sex.
This is a more detailed explanation ����

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBV_v2LaT18

Dear Ladies, it’s that time of the year where you get to spoil your husband, brothers, boyfriend with gift.

This period don’t be on the receiving end but on the giving end. Here are some amazing affordable gifts to get for you love ones.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_Wv-R0_XVU

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year in Advance.
Sometimes it’s hard to think of the right gift to give to your spouse, parents, kids, employees, employers, colleagues, neighbors, customers, friends and business partners. Here are some gift ideas and those gifts mentioned are very affordable too.
Check out this video for those gifts ideas.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wHrB_y2Sz9c

Zonefree:
No, it's not wrong. What's wrong is me pretending not to care about her body count when in reality it matters alot to me.

The easiest way to get the correct answer is by multiplying whatever number she gave me by 4.

For example, if says her body count is 22. I'll multiply 22 by 4, that's 88.

A Nigerian girl with body count of 88 can never give me peace of mind.

it’s wrong asking that on a first day though.

Rayban25:
There's nothing wrong in asking if she likes sex...most girls nowadays talk about their sexcapade and will want to sleep with you on meeting them the same day without even having to ask them that question

does it make it right? It’s wrong and we need to do better.

A lot of us have been hurt by those we love, cheated by those we trust and we carry this pain everywhere we go, we wear it like a nice perfume . It’s time to let go of that pain and hurt, it’s not going to be easy and it’s a process and you accepting the fact that this pain is there is the biggest step to recovery.

Holding onto that pain draws you backwards and it makes you judge everyone base on that pain. It’s time to let go. I’m not saying the pain will just go away immediately it’s a process.

Have you been hurt by your parents?
Have you been hurt by your siblings?
Have you been hurt by your boyfriend?
Have you been hurt by your husband?
Have you been hurt by your friends?
Have you been hurt by anyone dear to your heart?
Have you been cheated?
Have you been hurt by your girlfriend?

It’s time to let go.

It’s time we let go of the hurt, pain , trauma we have carried for so long.

If you have been hurt it’s time to forgive and let go. You can never become a better version of yourself without letting go of the pain, rage and hurt.

Pain draws you backwards. It will be hard to forget but it’s time to heal.

Breathe in and out hmmmmm. It’s not easy but if you don’t heal from those pains it will draw you backwards and it will damage things in the future for you.

If you feel like sharing your pain it’s okay to share here let’s heal together but if you don’t feel like sharing it’s okay.


It’s time to let go and letting go doesn’t mean this sad event didn’t happen, letting go doesn’t mean you should become friends with this person/people. Letting go doesn’t mean you shouldn’t share your stories when you have the courage to or they shouldn’t get punished for raping or abusing you.

Healing is for you and you deserve the best, the pain you carry inside you is too heavy and it’s weighing you down.

Thank you for going in this journey with me and I know this is for someone out there.

Suunnn:

hmmm

Zonefree:

I'm so asking this question on a first date.

If your body count is higher than your age, I'll triple my protection with you during coitus.

If I'm going into a relationship with you, sex must be involved and I'll start letting you know on our first date.

it’s wrong on every level. Wait, what makes you feel you will get the correct answer?

When you’re going a first date there are some questions you should never asked.

1. What is your body count, that is not a first date question.

2. How much do you earn, you should never ask this question on a first date it sounds like you’re after the money.

3. Do you like sex, are going into the relationship for free sex?

Check this out for a more detailed video and guys please subscribe too.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tC051Nk8MQE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Db6x68qu2U

I saw this thing and I was shocked. When you’re dating staying faithful is a must. This is not nice and I’m not here to Shame any gender.
Greed is damaging a lot of relationships and social media also has a major role to play.

As shared by Twitter user, Josh:

lder Cousin been dating this girl for like 6months and he finally has made up his mind to marry her but he didn't tell her yet. We talked about it and he wanted to know if testing her loyalty was good, I told him to go ahead and do anything he wants cos marriage is a life time venture.

So he goes on to test her with another girl. His girl bakes cakes so he asked this girl to start with wanting a cake. Before I continue, he literally takes care of this girl's bills. Even the cake business, he pushed her to start it and got her

All she needed to keep the business going. He got her an iPhone 11pro max earlier and now she's asking for 13pro max. He had said if she passes this test, he would get her 14 and go see her parents immediately.

So the girl pranking her started with the wanting a cake and all.

The girl paid for the cake and they kept talking for two weeks. The girl then asked her id she was into hook up that she has a client who's willing to pay 200k for one round. She said yes, that she's even into girls. So they fixed a meeting and date for the hook up appointment.

On the day of the appointment, my cousin went to her house and complained that he's sick and needs to be taken care of, she told him to calm down and gave him paracetamol that she's going to the market to buy stuff for cake that on her way she'll get him malaria medication.

He begged and insisted she stayed, but she wouldn't. Soon as she left, he too drove off and went to the hotel where they were supposed to meet. She arrived with the other girl who took her up to the hotel and when they got there, she saw cousin and she fainted.

I don't know what to say, but I recommend you do anything and everything you need to be certain your partner is loyal. These days, people are wild, moving mad.

https://twitter.com/josh_uglyasf/status/1600463638489231360?t=IMRA9cJnfvGaFGVs7tnf9A&s=19

I will like to appreciate every single parent out there, it’s not easy to raise a child alone. You’re doing a great job.

As single parent raising a child/children alone is not as easy journey. You have to be intentional about parenting to succeed.

A lot of single parents struggle with living their lives, working and raising these kids.

There is something a lot of single parents are doing wrongly and I’m creating awareness about it. As a single parent, I know you want to live your life and move on with life but taking your boyfriend/girlfriend to your home is wrong, this affects your kids negatively and it gives them the wrong perspective toward love especially when you keep bringing different partners to your home.
You don’t understand right? Click on the link for a well detailed explanation.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Db6x68qu2U

If you know anyone that has body odor this video is for them and this video is not to shame anyone but to help you.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtCcRiySwJI

VeryWickedGoat:
As long as a sperm was present then the onus is on the womb to prove its fertility.

A barren woman is destructive to Mother Earth.

Omo what are you saying?

VeryWickedGoat:
A man cannot be infertile as long as he produces sperm. Its like saying a corn seed cannot germinate.

Check the womb it was planted in for barreness or post-abortion injuries.

what are you saying?

culf:
That's deception. marriage can be dissolved on such ground, that is, if he was aware before the marriage and did not inform her.

he was very aware and is doctor friend too.

Something trended earlier this week and it made me remember was a lady did to her would be husband.

Is it right to keep secrets regarding your health from someone you’re about to marry? A lot of us do evil stuffs and mess with people lives.

A man got married and for 2years they have been looking for a child, the wife has been so worried not knowing the husband was infertile. Why do we play with people heart or life?

Check out the full story here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QqJE9mPQzlc


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Db6x68qu2U

Have you been wondering why a lot of victims go back to their abusers? In this video I shared 5 reason why victims go back to their abusers.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O7mT5LZDGt8

You can share your own reasons too, Kearny is an everyday activity.

I saw this thing on twitter and I found it very useful and I thought to share it.

Why do victims go back to their abusers?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O7mT5LZDGt8

boxer022:
It is not a kind of closure. Take for instance, a guy gifts his girl wig to make her hair look beautiful and later on the relationship didn't work. If he collects the wig from her what is he going to do with it? Also you a guy out of love buys his girl undies and bras, then later the love dies a natural death, will he naked her just to collect them back? Even if he collects them later what is he going to do with them? So looking at it critically a gift given out of love is a gift simple. No more no less.

well spoken.

Autobot05:
You didn’t get my question
Is it wrong to give back a gift after a breakup ?
Like willingly give back not forcefully

No

cayorday89:
It all depends on the circumstances, most people saying it's wrong will definitely do worst if they find themselves in such situations... To be honest I don't know the action I will take if the necessary factors are in my favour.

hmmm, we train ourselves to learn to do the right thing.

Persephone1:
Expensive gifts should be collected Biko. You can't buy a girl a car and she goes on to break up with you the following week. As a friend i will follow you collect am ,rinse the space she parked it with water self.


Which levels?

this is funny but wrong. Did you buy the gift to keep her Umoru him in the relationship?

boxer022:
To me anybody that takes back any gift given out of love to their partner doesn't truly love that person.

thank you, some said it’s so kind of closure.

Autobot05:
I’m asking because I once did it (returned a monetary gift after breakup ).

when people collect back what they gave in a relationship it’s all shade of wrong except you collected those gifts on false pretenses.

Maynman:
What do you mean “keep the other person in the relationship”?
Or you mean the other person is staying in the relationship because of the gifts they are receiving?

it’s same thing. Some men spend a lot in a relationship to home the girl and the girls stay cause of what she is gaining. Do you understand?

boxer022:
That reason alone doesn't justify love or show that love exists between them.

yea

Nonexisting1:
Politicians retrieve transformers and buses after they fail elections, how much more an ordinary citizen like me. I will even try to retrieve my sperms if I ever fuccked her without condom.

hmmmm

Autobot05:
What about returning gifts (& money ) after breakup ?


Jesus is the ONLY WAY ❤️

why would you want to take those back?

Abfinest007:
Take it to Twitter and tag the right people seun mod won't let it get to front page

we have done that just trying to get it to more people.

Chnbanc:
Cheap format..
It's called next of kin.
Why I called it cheap
Is cos
1. No family names
2. No address
3. No evidence of abuse
Only a long cunny and funny story

it’s not a format, the evidence of abuse is on twitter. Search the name of twitter before you start judging.