A lot of parents don’t understand that parenting is something you have to be intentional with. Trust me you’re doing a great job as a parent but we learn from each other.
Do these two things with your children and watch them start opening up to you.
I keep telling people this not everyone is dating for marriage, some people are dating for the fun of it. That is why you see a lot of this embarrassing marriage proposal.
You might be thinking the person you’re dating will say “Yes” to you when you pop the question but you will be shocked. A lot of people date to pass own time or they’re waiting for their spec.
Someone can love you do everything for you and still not want to marry you.
Click on this link for details watch an failed proposal
dayleke: Quick question; Did someone hurt you or disappointed you recently if you don't mind me asking? No, just educating people and creating awareness.
THEGALADIMA: Those two points are not sacrosanct to declare there is a case of infidelity or not. These days especially if you work and live in Naija, the case of mounting bills and dwindling income will cause couples to be preoccupied with so many thoughts and so cases of showing lovey-dovey will naturally shrink. This is another angle.
When you’re ready to say “I Do” make sure you communicate your needs to your spouse.
Marriage is partnerships and the both partner should be ready to put efforts to make it work.
I remember a lady sharing her story with me on how she got married to her husband and he asked her to stop working after the wedding and that Was never in the plan. It took a lot of effort and people to keep their marriage working. It’s important you communicate your needs to your partner before you say “I Do”.
Sniper101: No mind that OP and the "hot" content wey she dey feel say she drop.
PS: 5months ago since I met the lady, I've never slept with anyone else (which is unlike me) ...which is to say that I still find her sexually attractive and appealing nah Because, if I don't? I honestly would've been cheating on her nah
I have answered your question above and honestly you already know the answer.
Have you ever met someone that claim to love their spouse but still cheat on them?
A lot of us have spouses that are cheating in our face but we don’t know. The worst thing that can happen to a person is sacrificing your all for a cheating spouse.
How to know your spouse is cheating :
1. Sex - Partner cannot maintain erections or orgasm as before. Less sexual prowess or initiation. It feels like hard work.
2. Disconnection - No gisting, dates or conversation. Communication is severed and no emotional support. You feel all alone in your relationship Click on this video for full details
TyroneP: To the man in question, he thinks he is trying to protect them(women and kids) from getting hurt and perhaps lose everything but truth needs to be told even without asking.
he is destroying their lives. Do you know it was on my friends father funeral the wife and kids found out he had a child outside.
There is no relationship between loving someone and telling them the truth. In fact, love makes you to lie to the people you love. That's basic common sense. What they don't know won't hurt them
this is wrong, love makes you open to your partner. People just keep secrets for their selfish interests.
GOFRONT: Hmm.......Crazy things are really happening.
One of my tribal man who is a family friend happens to work with a reputable construction company and posted to a nearby state for work. He secretely invited their matured househelp over to his place, got her pregnant. Scared of the embarrassment that he would face, he then rent an Apartment for her in the town close to where he works.
That was how housmaid got an apartment of her own and that was also how househelp turn to Madam's CO wife in bearing children. The matter shock all of us by then, but nobody come holy pass.......She should be on her second or third kid by now
Is it possible to be in love and yet hide so many things from the one you claim to love?
A lot of us are hiding so many things in our marriage/relationship. We have kept so many secrets from our partners and it’s eating us up but instead of opening us to them we choose to tell others.
Someone shared the story of a man who had a family in another state in Nigeria 🇳🇬 and is married with family in another state and the wives don’t know about. Whenever he is traveling to see the other family he tells this one I’m going for work and does same with the other one.
He has never given the women any reason to doubt him but it’s eating him up and instead of come straight with this women he choose to open up to someone else.
Why will you choose to put someone you claim to love in total darkness? Why live in lies? We have lost our human sense.
Marriage is beautiful when you marry someone that understands you and you understand them.
When you’re ready to say “I Do” make sure you tell your would be spouse about your ugly past that has the tendency of ruining things for you guys tomorrow or also about so health issues you have.
You owe it to them, it’s better they hear it from you and choose to stay or leave. A lot of people have this mentality of my past is my past and forgetting most times some past has the tendency of damaging your beautiful tomorrow.
Blakjewelry: Adaptation doesn't mean staying in an abusive relationship, it means getting use to each other and creating room for the other to adjust. Both of you are coming from different backgrounds so give room for each other to adjust this is expected of both of you and not just you. I followed this rule all my life and I will say I have never really get into any serious problem in any relationship I have tried my hands on lol.