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I’m just going to drop the pictures so you read the write up and help this helpless girl with her mom and siblings from an abusive dad. The video of the abuse and full story is on twitter this is all I can share.

boxer022:
To me anybody that takes back any gift given out of love to their partner doesn't truly love that person.

exactly, someone people buy gifts to keep the other person in the relationship.

Ritzybeauty:
Just a very wrong mentality because to be honest it still doesn't change anything

Yes, maybe they feel it heals the pain of heartbreak.

boxer022:
To me a gift is a gift. If for instance I give my girlfriend a gift and due to any reason whatsoever our relationship doesn't work out again, there is no need taking it back from her. It happened to me personally a very long time ago, I bought a Nokia phone for my girl then which she didn't really appreciate and complained that she can't use the same phone with her elder sister. I saved up money again then took her myself to the market to make her choice. She chose a China phone and insisted on using both the Nokia I got her and the China phone. I deceitfully collected the Nokia phone back from her insert her sim card into the China phone I bought for her. In the end the relationship didn't work as she became too proud of herself and telling me and my friends that I cannot do anything in life without her. I ended tbe relationship and never took the China phone l bought for her despite our relationship been dead.

you did so well. I see a lot of people taking back gifts and it is disturbing to watch.

I see a lot of people do this and it’s all shade of wrong. Why do you take back the gift your gave to someone you claimed to once love after the relationship or marriage fail?

I thought you did it out of love. Gifts are never meant to be taken back after giving away.

Don’t allow anyone pressure you into buying anything you don’t feel like buying in a relationship so you don’t feel the urge to get it back after your relationship fail.

Read this, because you gift your partner doesn’t mean they will stay with you.

Check this out for the full video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WaEIzF5EwSk

Cutehector:
taaa go sitdon one place... As if you are not a sinner yourself. Lmao if you talk now..i will post another one yoh called someone a biîtch.

can you post that?

Cutehector:
He who comes with equity, must come with clean hands.


https://www.nairaland.com/7369107/people-use-business-cover-up#117323012

go through the comments and see how I tried talking to him respectfully but he kept on dishing insults.

There is no consequence for not changing her last name except you have plans of traveling out as a couple. If you can’t deal with her holding onto her last name and she is refusing to change, this is a sign for you to take a long walk.

A lot of people in here are so mean with words. If someone makes a post you don’t agree with it will be so mature of you to read and pass, you don’t have to comment.

We all have different views about things, we don’t have to agree but don’t insult people please. Anytime I see a post in here 60% will be filled with insults. Most times when people make a post here it’s for awareness and some enjoy writing while others might need legit help.

It’s a faceless forum yes but doesn’t give you the right to be saucy. Respect other people opinions and you can educate another person respectfully. Thank you

faceland:
Instagram was originally for high class prostitites (when it was only on iPhone but there was an Android app call InstaChat). No beating around the bush, jus straight forward "I am new in your town, how much?"

I’m just hearing this for the first time.

BigYash:
Those girls wen dey form wears distributors on social media, you think say na only cloth them dey sell? Some originally didn't want to trade pucci alongside, but yahoo boys go use money lure them. In other words,if your babe dey trade on status, or do home delivery.. You're on a long thing simp. And na most simp dey open the business for the bitches..

wow

Samantha123:
Sometimes I wonder why parents have so many kids if they won't be able to treat them equally.

If you know you won't be able to treat your children equally, just have one child..

Children can never have the same personality and parents need to remember that the children didn't force them to be conceived, but they're the ones who decided conceive them and bring them into the world.

you have spoken well.

Starz825:
Some women go dey do like witch
If you check the uploaded comment you go notice say na women full there....
Na their way
Since bible days

hmmm

Lamanii22:
Lord gimme the grace to love all my children equally...

Amen

Aareakinwunmi:
Thankful to God, I grew up in a house of love

it’s something to be very grateful for.

A lot of parents pick favorite amazing their kids and they show it. They shower their favorite kid with gifts, hardly correct or spank them and those kid can never do any wrong in their eyes.

As a parent if you’re doing this you’re causing division between your children and you’re building jealousy and hatred in their heart.

If you know as a parent you can’t love your kids equally then you have no business with giving birth to more than one child. As lot of siblings rivalry today is as a result of parents favoring one child and making the other kids feel invincible.

As a Godly parent you owe it to your to bring them together and show them love equally. You may not know the damage you have done until those kids are adults and can’t stand the sight of each other.

Below are pictures of some adult complaining of the damage their parents did to them by favoring one child over the others.

Eleyigidgan:
just shut up already

the audacity.

Eleyigidgan:
even you too you're part of it.
Stop being a hypocrite

You sound disgusting, you’re probably a young child but learn how to talk you’re not too young to show respect.

vickyfrancis1:
The truth is that 60% of people running online biz are into one shady deal or the other...the biz is just facade...most of the guys doing comedy, music and IT stuffs are coded Yahoo Boiz and drug dealers, the females selling fabrics, perfumes and make up accessories are oloshos too...TikTok and Instagram na there haven...if you know you know...
Don't let anybody tension you.
You're not a failure.

wow

Yankee101:
I noticed it too
Some men will ask you to come to their hotel

it’s crazy.

Olasyke:
Are you naive or you just want to chase clout? People have been using different ways to mask their real business before you and I was born. Don't act surprised.

this is the first time I’m seeing this so I should not be surprised because you said so?

Is this what people do now? I was saw this online and I was going through the comments I noticed a lot of people use business as cover up for prostitution.

Clients to buy your products if you don’t deliver yourself. The moral standard of this generation is depreciating everyday.

Mindlog:
If she is not taking up some bills in the home, what is she spending her income on?

most ladies feel their money should be for themselves alone and not helping out with some responsibilities.

tamcamp253:
Why do people ask dumb question on here when you should be sensible enough to support your husband in paying the bills as long as you can

most time when you see a post, it’s to create awareness especially the ones I write because most people don’t know this.

Fahvvy:
No o....

Please don't support him okay? ...
He's the "man" so allow him be one ...

His money is for the family while your money is for you ...
Even your parents and siblings too, as a man he must be responsible for them ....

How can he call himself a man when he can't carry samoll responsibilities of you and your family? ...

Hmmm

iHateFraudsters:
Yes we're quick to insult because you ladies are quick to think with your anus.

stop it with the insults. When you see a post understand it before you reply or you pass. I’m creating an awareness with this post. Stop insulting people that character is disgusting.

eastgates1:
Please dont support, cross your legs and wait for him o. Let him work n kill himself oloriburuku somebody very stupendous and calamitious liability. If na me i for done return you since

hope you read what I wrote before thinking it’s me. Most of you are quick to insult.

neonly:
It take two to tangle
Two is better than one
No matter how small u contribut is will always be appreciated

I support this but I wish people can talk more on this before marriage.

duro4chang:
Yes, you should

I support this.

Aareakinwunmi:
Yes, don't turn in a liability

I support this too.

Most women ask me this question and I keep hearing the word “my money is my money and my husband’s money is for the home”. As a man do you think your working class wife should also take up some bills in the home?
I tell people this a lot in marriage you unlearn and relearn and during relationships there are a lot of things you should talk about before marriage.

Check this out for a more detailed explanation and don’t forget to drop your opinion too.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMlsfOcwh0Q