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Oh shut up, you didn't support nothing

Lithiumite:
Tinubu needs to stop this immediately.....I supported subsidy removal,naira devaluation,telecoms tarrif review,tax reforms.....but this one is a no no!! If it's expedient but the timing is totally wrong.

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me

Your story is very believable. I identified all the classic things oloshos do, especially the part where they give you the fake compliment about your rod being big.. Thats what they tell every client to flatter their ego.
Hookup Oscrohs are far better than those dirty roadside mgbekes. Because a hookup girl understands what it is to please a man. They give you intimacy, kissing passionately, give head, allow you do whatever you want with all parts of their body and yours. Even gist and share nice conversations with you.

Africa and their cursed tribes.
Cursed continent

Abeg bring back the old champions league, not this convoluted arrangement.
Yesterday, I was watching the highlights, and they kept saying all the small teams have been eliminated
So what was the point? It wasn't called "champions" league for no just cause.

You're still evading the question. I need you to directly address the topic, not using generic buzz phrases to sidestep it:
Its a fact that ladies get bored or less attracted to a man who makes these mistakes OP talks about. Y'all want men to remain uninformed, so that you can treat them how you wish. So anytime anyone tries to enlighten me, you people rush and try to discredit it. Well thank God, men are now waking up.

sweetrace:
Like I said, you’re writing from a place of deep hurt. You went out with a liar does not make every woman one. I hope you find someone who’ll change your opinion. However, you need to be emotionally healthy.

The "relationship joy" will just come like that? Without personality clashes and all the processes?
Lie that you have never felt bored when a man showed you that you're the center of his world. Lie you have not used a man's over availablility to you to take him for granted? Lie.

sweetrace:
She is absolutely right! You’re writing from a place of deep hurt. Relationships are supposed to give joy, but you think it is world war 3. Nah!!!!

I disagree with you on this:
Healthy relationships don't just emerge from thin air, mutual respect isn't an automatic thing. These things are a result of our psychosocial dispositions. There is nothing manipulative here. I learnt a lot of these things late myself. Humans are like children to each other, you have to define your individual personalities to forge a relationship.

free2ryhme:
This kind of mentality is incredibly harmful and outdated. Treating women like this just to "destroy their egos" is toxic and disrespectful. Healthy relationships should be based on mutual respect, trust, and care—not manipulation or control. It’s sad to see that these outdated views only contribute to negative cycles, like poverty or lack of progress. Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity, no matter their gender. We need to change how we think about relationships and treat each other with kindness.

This "who hurt you" cliche is now stale. Whenever the truth is spoken about them, they try to discredit it with thay phrase.
Men learn or perish!

missjekyll:
Who hurt you,op? And this is how you choose to process your trauma? Lol

Sorry about that bro... I've been there before, it is never a good feeling... There's always that sinking feeling in your stomach when the storm is gathering and when it finally happens.
But here is the good news, this phase will pass and you will move on to other things.
My few advice:
1. Don't accept contract employment. It always comes to this. Apply only for full time roles, if not stated, insist on asking.
2. Don't give up on paid employment, forget that jizz they all talk about starting your own business bla bla bla. If you are educated and of working age, chase the salary. It gives you a realistic pedestal to set yourself up for later life.
3. Identify anything that may be putting you at a disadvantage - is it Hnd you have? Get a Bsc via top up, direct entry, distance learning etc. Is it Bsc you have? Get a masters, doesn't matter in what field, just be a masters holder. Is it certifications? Try getting the key ones.
Stack up and relaunch.
Cheers

Let me tell you guys what is going on:
Tinubu, ElRufai, Reno, Bwala, Wike, Fubara, Bala Muhammed, Tuface, Annie, VDM, Afe Babalola, Farotimi are all in the same camp: they are all serving you guys distractions, so you don't have time to even see the real thing going on.
Millions of Nigerians are airheads who only know nollywood and marriage and gossip, so they have given them Tuface and Annie to occupy them. While the smaller percentage that are politically interested, they are acting political drama for them.
Nigerians see beyond these theatrics! Demand good governance and accountability from your politicians. Stop being distracted and stop being manipulated by tribe and religion.
Peace out!

There are two things:
1. A lot of govt agencies exist statutorily, they and their employees add no real value to the economy. And it is the same all over the world. The employees are not fantastically paid, but their sheer numbers makes the figures substantial. Most govts don't lay them off because of sentiments.
2. Most govts may talk about downsizing to cut costs, but only end up refilling the positions with their own candidates... Trump may be having that same motive.

K

They already have him that... I think they called it "man of the year". The owner of the station is trying so hard to azzlick Tinubu so that he can get a soft landing on his fraud cases

JustPowerApps:
Why not make President of the Year Award and give it to Asiwaju of Hardship and Renewed hopelessness

The Jagaban of Starvation.

Dem Online Agbero will soon start ranting, if you reply nonsense to my post, may Tinubu never depart from you

Talking like a privileged Nigerian... Why won't you sound so self righteous cos you have people benefiting from the Nigerian sleeze. I speak for people in the streets who would take a prison term in America (even if it is life imprisonment) over your so-called freedom in this hell-hole.

BadBradley:
you must be mentally and materially dispossessed and hopeless to trade places with that dude or assume any normal person will

Damn!

There is also the chance that after the expiration of the prison term, he will be let into the American society, especially if it was a long term. What do you mean survival rate being low? Isn't it better than the hell people are facing here in naija. People even undertake risky land journeys to same abroad. And you're telling me they won't jump at a free plane ride without the hassle of visa processing and all to same America. Let's be realistic na....

richardoz:
and hope you know that the survival rate is extremely low for whoever takes such risky and stup!d adventure? Now to imagine they will deport automatically after serving jail term! Isn't that f00lery?

Bros leave that thing, its America we're talking about here. Do you know how many people here will willingly trade places with him just to have the chance of going to America?

maasoap:
Who told you it is not going to be life or near life sentence? You think ex convicts find it easy in US after serving their terms? Nobody and no organisation wants to employ them before you commit crime or advise your brothers to

Wow this one's prayers have been answered. After serving whatever prison term they give him, he can then continue living in America. Another japa route just opened up. Update don land o

I agree with you 100%. Same way those terrorists settlers in the west bank who are annexing people's lands need to be bombed out too...
I bet that flew right over your head. You don't even know where West Bank is... All you think the world as a Nigerian is Christian vs moslem.
Shallow clown.

MrSly:
Donating bomb to eliminate terrorists who are killing and maiming people world wide is a collective priority.

GAC is governance advisory council not governor's advisory council. If it was governor's, then it would have been under the governor.
But it is not, it is the council of cabal members under Tinubu to ensure lackeys are all kept in check

Okay, but if you ever try to apply for a visa to get a better life or access something over there that is not present in your country, then you're a fvking hypocrite. And if you're already over there and typing this, then you're a scumbag

SalamRushdie:
Go and fix your country...can you even allow someone that's not your tribe contest councillor in your village ? You people want what you can never give anyone

Make America white again .
Nigerian indigenous "white people", una don dey see how e dey go abi? First, he has blocked your worthless asses from getting jobs in America via inclusivity, second he has blocked your offsprings from being citizens even if you hustle to go and give birth there.
Trump knows how to press your buttons, he is very smart, while doing these to you, he also gives you something to applaud, like giving Isreal more bombs to wipe out those moslems you so much hate. And tackling lgbtq people (werey people wey go still continue to do their shits anyway), so overall you continue to applaud the "Christian" Trump.

Do you mind these people shouting karma karma up and down? Ignorant people don't know karma is a bhudist doctrine, they think karma is one universal concept. There is nothing like karma, life is time and chance. A wicked person may get away with it and nothing will happen to him and his future generations.

IvarTheBoneless:
Enjoyment Minister. Jerry Boy. These ones quietly ate money.

Forget karma, likely has choice properties all over best locations in Nigeria 👌 👍

Yes he took nothing to Heaven / Hell but 2 - 3 (or more) generations will still benefit from his thievery.

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me

Did they cut off your hands and legs? What stops you from suing to defend your human god?
You better run out of here before Ogun go strike you

PlasmaTV:
See now
If nairaland wasn't a faceless forum, you could be sued for this senseless and proof less balablu.

Did he con you or defraud you?