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Who is this one? My friend take your poverty infested self out of my mention and go and queue in Kogi

theophorus:
Kai! Why He dey pain you say dem no give Bello jungle justice?
Well, Sha try make your source of money dey legit ooo cos you may not be lucky like Bello ooo.

Useless people, they all want free money without working. This one will waste her time doing all these rubbish and still remain poor

You will think all these is because he is sharing money to them? No! He is not sharing a dime. They all feel "honoured" to be able to see a big man or celebrity. They will worship a politician who stole their money and attack an ordinary working man as being "rich", as if he is the one that stole their money. Useless people. See their poverty ravaged faces. Stockholm syndrome.

This is highly educative. Thanks

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U don't believe in karma? So if I kee u, I go scot free?[/quote]

They are both "husband", while lesbians call themselves "wife"

Basicend:
So Richard is the "She" in this marriage.

He will always be at the receiving end.
Not surprised based on the way he usually behaves.

That's serious.

Yeah you're right about the wet dreams. It seems the body must secrete the sperms out either way.... Similar to girls having periods.

I laugh when people say northerners are modest. No! It is the poor religiously brainwashed ones. The rich one are more decadent than southerners.
The Quran frowns at gold adornments for males. But look at this palace, everything is gold. Same thing you see in those rich Saudis and Arab billionaires... And these are the people that are supposed to be upholding the tenets of the Quran

Karma is a bhudist concept. I bet a lot of people don't know that. They think it is one universally accepted truth because Americans say that a lot. It is not o. I'm not a bhudist. I don't believe in karma.

Nonexisting1:
What if they did not believe in your Christ? What happens to muslims and traditionalists among them? Your Christ will just come and force everybody to wake up and face judgement. Judge them for what exactly? For their lives and their activities that have been played to them shortly before their brains shut down? Do you even know how people die and what transpires immediately after death? Nobody is judging anybody except karma that will make them experience the evils they did in this life when they return in their next lives. For every evil you do now, you will serve the punishment here in one way or the other and if you don't finish serving the punishment, it will be waiting for you when you reincarnate. Religion is made by man and for man as means of control, it doesn't take you to anywhere so forget it.

The cliche that "respect is earned" is fallacious. It is disrespect that is earned. Respect is a default, i.e you should respect someone till they give you cause not to. You should not disrespect someone till they "earn" your respect

RealityKings1:
Why should anyone respect you, just live your life.
If anyone disrespect or disregard you, pay them back in the same way.
Respect is earned.

K

What useless strategic vision? Those guys kept First Bank as a top 5 bank for decades. You do such a thing when the organisation is struggling, not when it is thriving. What does Otedola know about banking. This is going to make customers, investors and shareholders jittery and if care is not taken could lead to the end of the Bank.

DTaj:
Please stop exposing your ignorance and stupidity on an online platform! Tinubu had nothing to do with this!

First Bank's new majority shareholder, Mr. Femi Otedola, who is also the Chairman of FBN Holdings Plc, the bank's holdco, is executing his strategic vision for the bank. It is common practice for organizations to do this, when a new owner or a new management takes charge. There are many examples in the banking sector, asset management space, telcos, manufacturing, etc.

It is not about everything that happens in the economy that we must blame government.

Use your brain, unless you have none!

I watched one influencer's review of the place on IG yesterday... It didn't look encouraging. Even as a paid influencer, she was still scoring stuff 7/10.
The food looked bland and ordinary. The burger was mid, the crockery, table arrangement and general ambience lacked lustre.
I think there is already an over proliferation of fine dining places on the island.
Business men with means should delve into manufacturing, agro production and processing. There is fat much money to be made from the 99% population than entering into an already overcrowded market to serve the 1%.

There is nothing out of place here. Islam and Christianity are both monotheistic religions., hence their worship could be intertwined. What is making lots of people think they are so different is language. Christian worship in Nigeria is mostly conveyed in English, while Islam in Arabic.
But if you translate both to the same language, you will be shocked the close similarities.

Its because Nigeria is an English speaking country. If you see Arab Christians praying in Arabic, you would think they are Muslims, because you grew up to associate Arabic with Islam.

Shut up! . Many big players play the last seasons of active football in their home countries before retiring. Even those whose countries don't have competitive leagues, let alone Nigeria with a thriving league. Classism and status is the problem with you people in Nigeria. For many people, it is about doing what they love and earning what they can in the process.

auditor0471:
Brown watch your legs oh. Oga you should have invested in your prime so that by now you will reaping your investment, this Eyinmba stuff no follow

Even Helinues don remove hand

helinues:
Reno, nobody sent you this dirty job.

You see why you need to slow your attacking others unnecessarily down.

You are on your own in this

Fake. There is nothing like DPR again. The department has been scrapped.
DPR recruitment that year, they used us to do exam and interviews, and after that other people went to resume work. Scam nigeria

As a matter of fact I did. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't womanize, I don't steal, I work for every naira I have. Even when I lost my job during covid, I drove uber temporarily to survive. I eat healthy and in moderation. I continually seek knowledge to improve my skills and values. I am kind and compassionate and I have a direct relationship with my God, without being a religious zealot.
I can't be all this and someone else will want to force me to settle for less.
I marry woman out of love and she went to cheat, claiming "bored", then trying to blame it on me with some filmsy excuses. When I no be impotent, I dey fire down wella. My swimmers dey do Olympic - I have a son (I use DNA test confirm am).
So don't serve me any b.s about training. That you cannot hold your own does not mean another person cannot.

PlanetZero:
Best trainer. I hope you break her head. As though u adhere strictly to every train u were given. You don't demean female gender because God created you a man.

It is inferior to the Office of Governor. Go and ask please

fergie001:
Enter that office called Chief of Staff, fess!

I will train my daughter not to cheat on her husband. I will train my daughter not to fraudulently try to grab a man's property, but to work for her own. Any more stvpid questions?

PlanetZero:
Yes. You will celebrate this when they do it to your daughter in future. Omugo omo

What do you mean "downgrade"?? The only position higher than that of a Governor is the President. Even senators and Ministers resign to contest governorship, talkless of a mere appointee serving at the pleasure of the president.
We're talking a whole governor with a mandate.

fergie001:
It's looking Lagos East actually, to round off Ambode's one term..... My first pick will be Tokunbo Abiru.

Jags will decide though!

I think that's a downgrade from his current position actually. Like the OP said, the State needs more a technocrat than politician.

Feminists and simps will not like this. They are already frothing at the mouth with comments above.
I commend the man. It takes tremendous courage to overcome the onslaught of a scorned woman. It is especially harder as people outside who are not informed think it is a petty thing, that a woman is a fragile harmless entity and divorcing her is easy.
They don't know of the physical, psychological warfare you have to withstand from a highly dangerous, vicious and manipulative species.
Many men just simply fold and keep taking the shyyt.

It is the viciousness of the comments for me.
Look at black people in Nigeria so invested in a far away war because of religion.

There are wars ongoing in Africa, you will never hear it on the streets of the outside world. They don't give a fvvk about us. What is your excuse for being so invested? Religion? It is the same Muslim and Christians as we are here that they also are.
I doubt anyone you stop on the streets of Isreal ever heard of Deborah, Chibok or Dapchi. Likewise anyone in the core muslim Arab world ever heard of any struggles of Muslims in Africa.

You guys are all clowns with all the "Isreal kill them all" and "death to all zionists".
Black slave clowns, always ready to entertain the white masters.

I've been through this stage before... I shared my story here sometime last year and early this year.
The truth of the matter is, it is not easy untangling yourself from an arrangement you've become used to.
But that is what is called "comfort zone". You can't grow in your comfort zone. It happens in all areas of life, whether career, business, academics, etc.. Marriage is no different. You know you deserve better, you know you can get better.
Let me be plain with you., take the advices you're getting here about reading, watching YouTube messages about tips for moving on after divorce, learning a skill, starting a masters program (if you already don't have) emeshing yourself in work, meditation, praying, etc.
Do all of these, but don't ever go back.
That thing you left behind, is not good for you.

As someone who has gone through what you're currently going through, I endorse this comment.

Tallesty1:
Moving on is never easy, especially if you truly loved the person. People will tell you to stay busy or jump into another relationship, and while those things might help, they rarely talk about how to handle seeing her in everything you do. This was your wife—someone you shared every moment with.

I’ve never been married, but I’ve been deeply in love. When things started going south, I had to sit myself down and weigh the good against the bad. The bad was overwhelming so after a phone call one evening, I took the phone away from my ear and said to myself, “God, this is the last time I’ll call this number.” And that was it.

How did I move on? First, I uninstalled WhatsApp, quit Facebook, and used the time I’d normally spend on social media to learn a new skill. It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

So, here’s my advice:

Decide that this is what you want and that it’s for the best.

Remind yourself that you deserve better because you’re a good person.

When you start missing her, remember all the times you wished she wasn’t there.


Lastly, read books. I recommend:

The Manipulated Man

The Rational Male

Positive Masculinity

Preventive Medicine

And most importantly, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fck*.


Start with the last one—it’ll help you see how unhealthy and toxic that relationship was, teach you to prioritize what truly matters, and guide you through what you’re feeling.

Cheers to a happier and brighter tomorrow.

Nooooo. That imposingly tall figure behind Goodluck those days. What is this brief illness that will kill a man at just 54?

It is obvious you're a bot. The repetition gave you away.

immortalcrown:
Answer my questions when you are sincere and willing to have the conversation.

I just answered your questions. Practice your religion in private, and leave the law courts for everyone. Is that too difficult to comprehend? Or you want your own country?

immortalcrown:
Kindly answer my questions if you are willing and sincere to have this conversation.

There is nothing like "the court will handle only cases of Muslims". We're all Nigerians, lets have courts for all Nigerians.

immortalcrown:
Three questions:

1.
Why is there so much noise or controversy about Sharia court in SW?

2.
Will the Sharia court handle cases that involve non-Muslims?

3.
I sincerely thought that Sharia court is in line with the Islamic faith. If this thought is correct and the Sharia court handles only the cases that involve only Muslims, why should a Yoruba person that willingly practises Islam in Yoruba land reject Sharia court in Yoruba land?

Those who are kicking against Sharia court in Yoruba land may have valid reasons for doing so. But I will not take side with them when I have not known their reasons. So, I sincerely need those people kicking against the Sharia court in Yoruba land to answer my questions.

This is disgusting to watch. Many of them here are not here because they are extremely poor and would literally die if they don't get that amala. No, they are there because nothing they love more than a so called free thing. They feel they are smart when they get something they didn't work for.
It is that thought that really motivates a lot of them

He is no longer president, so she no longer has any use for him. Its just like how of my guy did introduction to one girl and shortly lost his job, immediately, she left him.
Men are in a loveless arrangement, the earlier they realize it, the better. Cos by then, they can etch a better deal for themselves, where they don't have to provide love and affection to a species that strictly deals with them based on what they can get from them.