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You shut up. He is a businessman, a con artist, a fraud.

PlasmaTV:
Shut up

A Muslim about to die should recite the khalimatul sha'adah.
So, the man traded paradise for a curse on a tribe? You can see to the extent tribalism is disease. It would make you cut your nose to spite your face.

Lastly fvvk all our so-called founding fathers, they founded nothing but tribalism and hate. From Zik to Awolowo to Balewa. They should all rot in hell

Dogalmighty17:
One often interesting trivia about the coup was Abubakar Tafawa Balewa's last statement. As he was about to be shot in the bush, he reportedly placed a curse. He said, "Igbo za ku rasa wurin zama a najeriya." Or something along that line.

Undoubtedly, that period is the darkest in the history of this country and Nigeria has not and probably will never recover from it.

Following does not mean anything. I think you and many young people overrate this followers thing.
You people think having followers mean people rate you so much? Nah. For those girls, it is simply an avenue for men to feed their eyes just for pleasure, nothing more. I follow a few of those girls on IG and I burst out laughing when they try to act like celebrities

Rapmoney:
So who are the millions of people following these women on social media? How come most men abuse and criticize them but they have a large number of followers? Why do you follow someone who does something you criticize?

Nigeria and tribe... So obsessed with tribal identity.

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me

I'll just jump to the end... I am too impatient and don't have strength

Namaster:
Cheating is NOT illegal so reporting them to the Police is FUTILE.

Physical violence is UNADVISABLE 'cause when will you stop?
Plus, you could end up killing someone or getting killed.

Regardless of which of happens, you DON'T want them happening in public.

Plus, a BURST of violence is FLEETING and UNSATISFACTORY.

NO!
Your revenge must be LONG and COMPREHENSIVE.

The first step is to identify the TARGET.
If your wife cheats with another man, the man is NOT your target.

He owes you NOTHING!
You DIDN'T marry him.
He DIDN'T cheat on you.

Your WIFE did.
KNOW this and act accordingly.

When you have irrefutable proof that your wife is cheating, CONCEAL your pain.

DON'T shout.
DON'T cry.
NEVER ask for explanation.

And unlike this man, NEVER ask how many times. They'll always say it's the first and ONLY time.

Instead, DETACH completely and look forward with GLEE as you scheme her ruination.

Your IMMEDIATE action is to REMOVE her from your presence.

That means if she lives in YOUR house, she DOESN'T anymore. NO letting her spend the night or whatever.

She must find ALTERNATIVE accomodation regardless of what time you decide to act. And it's NOT your concern how she goes about it.

Same thing applies if YOU pay the rent for the apartment you both live in.

And in the RARE occasion that she owns the house or pays the rent, remove YOURSELF.

NEXT is to amplify her reputation as a WHOORE.
That means EVERYBODY you know KNOWS!

Tell your church/mosque.
Tell your neighbours.
Tell your friends.
Tell her friends.
Tell your family.
Tell her family.

If she works in a CORPORATE setting and the infidelity is with a colleague (teammates, superior or subordinate), tell the HR.

It could lead to TERMINATION and she'd have a lot of fun explaining why she lost her job at her next job interview.

And make sure it's YOU doing the telling. Not her.
Goal is to give her NOWHERE to hide and NO way to twist the story to SALVAGE her reputation.

The reputation of being a LovePeddler must follow her EVERYWHERE she goes or, better yet, already there waiting for her.

That way, she'll ALWAYS be getting unsolicited dicck offers from randy men who know for a fact she's a LOOSE woman.

And she could be potentially OSTRACIZED since other sensible men will NOT let their wives hangout with her just in case her SLUTTERY is contagious (it is).

And sensible women will NOT allow their husbands near her because she's a LOOSE woman who could lure them away with the sex she readily gives out.

Then IF you have kids, CONFIRM they are yours.
If they are, explain to them in atomic details how their mother CHOSE to destroy their family becsuse she loves stranger's dicck MORE than she loves them.

Let the look of sheer DISGUST that graces her preteen son's face as he calls her "ASHAWO" crush her dark soul forever.

Some men HIDE the cause of their divorce from their children and allow their cheating wives to still PRETEND to be a good mother.

DON'T!

Next is the TAKING stage.
You take back EVERYTHING you've ever given her.
I've read about men who let their unfaithful fiancees keep EXPENSIVE engagement rings because they "gave" it to them.

DON'T be like that!
Take back EVERYTHING!

You opened her a business, TAKE it!
You bought her a car, TAKE it!
You bought her pants, TAKE it!

When you feel PETTY, remember that you bought these things for YOUR WIFE. NOT a prostitute!

Final step is to FORGET about her.

The woman you thought she was does NOT exist, act like it.
PURGE your memory and space of ANYTHING that reminds you of her.

NEVER acknowledge her existence.
If you see her again, act like you DON'T know her.

A woman who cheats on you must be DEAD to you.

Anyway, that is how to HANDLE an unfaithful spouse.

Is the Senator still alive?

No mind am,.. Closet pedophile. Dey look for small pikins. A teenager or 20y old that hasn't finished going to school, you want to be a housewife. A girl 2years younger willl be 27 and ready to add value to your life. Keep chasing kids who are just starting to experiment sex

meobizy:
29 means you were born in 1995 or 1996. What is wrong with selecting women born in 1999? They will be 26 this year and a lot have been chasing my 40 year old cousin that they want to settle down.

Nothing she didn't know that she is just knowing. Probably the man's business ran into some problems, and she decided to run as the money may not be flowing like before.

oz4real83:
The part where she said she "needed her own man" caught my attention, did she discover that the man had a wife already and children?

I can tell you for free that she called off the marriage because she discovered he didn't have as much money as she thought he did.
Challenge her to give you specific actual reason why she called it off, not the vague buzz words she is throwing around.

"anywhere you see me, just dash me money".
That statement says it all. These people are all about money. Decisions about marriage are strictly about money for them.

I don't care, it has nothing to do with me

K

When they employed una through padi padi, did it make the news?
Now, another set of crooks want to do their own padi padi recruitment, una dey sponsor news articles. So that make we do wet in na? Carry placard on your behalfs? Clowns!

Was it a coincidence or was it made to coincide just to make story sweet?

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me

Its called 3some not 2some. Why do Nigerians keep saying 2some? It is irritating and shows a deep lack of intellect among our population. To know the number of "Some", simply count everybody, including yourself!

Knelsoon:
If someone has 2 wives, does it sound strange to have sex (2some) together

It is only a greedy person that falls for this kind of scam. I don't belive in eating where I didn't sow

Yes, they actually DO something.
Eat your certificates, if you feel so entitled

lereinter:
Lolzzzzz

Cart pusher, driver, waiter are drivers of economy

Clown

Goes to show that production and the real sector are the actual drivers of the economy, not academic qualifications. The mistake people make is thinking academics somehow entitles you to wealth without getting your hands dirty. When in actual fact, academic qualifications are supposed to aid production

It is nairaland anybody can claim anything. You can even claim to be the president of the USA. But your statement "coming from a Nigerian" already gave you out that you are someone that has never left the shores of this country and sees anywhere else as eldorado so long you get there by entering a plane.

nigeriansamurai:
🥱 (My Lord the way some people think)
Calm down, before you start preaching...
I am gainfully employed, a landlord and I also have assets manage here in PH and Abia. Ive been to China for work.
One thing is certain Russia is anything but the wasteland you are describing, by far a better place to live than most of the places you have mentioned. I plan to travel there by 26 for an additional program in engineering.

Thanks for the unsolicited advice.

Yes I have. I've been to the UAE. In Africa, been to Benin, Togo and Ghana.
Your derogatory tone of "coming from a Nigerian" tells me you obviously haven't stepped foot outside this country and so you think everywhere else is better than Nigeria. That mindset needs to change, else you will just waste your life all in a bid of looking for greener pastures

nigeriansamurai:
Sounds funny coming from a Nigerian...

If you don't mind me asking have you travelled out before?

All these japa folks are very funny. Trying to psychologically justify to themselves why they chose the path of voluntary slavery. That is what these conversions of whatever they buy over there to naira are about.
By the way, Russia is a frigid, dead country, there is nothing going on there.

Why are you contradicting yourself?

Image123:
All the glory goes to God. It's not your neighbors kpon kpon that put Covenant on the world map. Your neighbor has been since blessed for his or her contributions. No one is saying the university fell from the sky.

Nobody is talking about the poor members kids attending the school. Of course they can't pay the kind of money to run such a world class institution. It is not a charity organisation, it needs serious funds to run. We are talking about the poor members contribution being recognized and not Bishop getting disgusted whenever that is mentioned. Stick with that as the topic and stop being evasive in a bid to be defensive

professorPABX:
All Glory must be to God. Papa gave all the Glory to God. This is not a new story, Papa always repeat the story whenever he talks about Covenant University. What I liked most was his Prostrating or lying down on the floor to thank God for everything before the audience.

Papa said we built and not I built. Everybody contribution is reflected. I know where you are going. You want to talk about School fees.

For where!

DisLifeSha:
Their children get scholarship for the university

Slave, the little things I've done that people contributed, I acknowledged them.

adeoluone1:
Please start yours first whether you will even see people to contribute.

It hurts when Bishop does everything not to acknowledge members contribution. Even if it is to say God used members as part of ways to actualize it, he doesn't say it. I personally know a poor family who were attending the winners church then. They gave money as "seed" towards the University and on weekends, the man and wife joined many others to do kpon-kpon i.e manual labour at the building site of the University as part of their contribution as encouraged by the church.

K

Even though the man said the truth, the fact that he simped for her in the past gave her reason to diss him in this manner.
The Praise John girl is a mini celeb, doing modeling and stuff. We live in a society where men simp a lot. So, that kind of girl will have a flooded inbox, why are you adding yourself to the crowd?? I don't understand how some men think sha.

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me