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DrinkLimca:
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Not a nice thing to say. You are only sure of now.choose your words carefully

fruitfulmama:
Good evening all. Please who knows where they do frozen embryo transfer, that's affordable and have a good success rate in Lagos.

I know of bridge hospital. But the practice is becoming common n should be done in any good hospital. Soon u will get response from lagos mamas.

You can also check www.fertilechick.com

laudate:
Again, I laugh. Your culture? Is it not the same Bini/Edo culture that breeds girls and women who have turned the sex trade into something else?

Girls and women not married women.

You claim to have lots of Bini friends, please verify.

laudate:
Proudly....wetin? Your culture does not permit...what? I have a lot of female friends who are Bini/Edo, and are happily married. They still have a number of single guys as good friends, strictly platonic - nothing more. Are you sure they got the memo?

Lol at "are you sure they got the memo?"

My culture forbids adultery with a passion. The consequences could be death of the adulterer's children or husband or sudden/frequent/serious illness of her husband or children.

When I typed my culture doesn't permit all that, I meant cheating.it goes as far as forbidding using the money given to a housewife by an "ex"to cook or take care of her husband or children.

If u noticed,this laws are applicable to only the women. A way of reprimanding or disapproving the women from cheating on their husbands.

Has it helped ? Yes to an extent.

It's an abomination for a married woman to be calling and weeping on the phone with an "ex". It's as good as cheating.

Prognose:
answered.

Let her go. Before I got married , I had lots of guys as friends. The moment I got married I cut ties with them. These are friends without benefits.

Proudly Bini. Our culture doesn't permit all that. It's as good as cheating. Never be the excuse why she left her husband.

Sadly her heart is still with u. Encourage her to go back to her husband. Most of our young ladies look forward to the occasion"wedding" instead of the marriage. There's nothing that can't be corrected.

Never date/sleep with someone's wife. There are grave consequences.no matter what. Wether she gave green light or blue. peace out.

Prognose:
How do you deal with an ex who keeps calling you from time to time and crying on the phone? It's been 10 years. She's now married yet she still calls once in a while and at first all is cheerful and normal gisting, next thing she starts bringing up our past relationship and starts to cry. I've told her she's married now and all that is in the past but it doesn't seem to help. I deleted her number from my phone but for some reason I haven't been able to block her cos I'm worried she might need my help or something urgent. I'm not interested in getting back with her in any way but I'm still worried about her. Why wouldn't she have moved on after all this while?

Hope no blood Oath between you both?

Hope no abortion between you both?

Hope she didn't lose any vital reproductive organs?

Have you been supporting her financially?

You must not answers just to guide u

iomoge2:
Nice

Good morning, I like your hair. Is it all braids or the top has some Ghana weaving?

miraclebaby:
He has also used proxeed plus. All gave improvement but motility was not very good on any. Just moderate. But then, he stopped after 6mths on Fertilsan M after he heard from doc that his counts are normal at the moment.
I knew stopping wasn't a good idea but he wouldn't listen.
I don't have ovulation issues. Reason I went for first IUI was that if nothing was stopping us, then why not try. Only for us to notice later the count wasn't as good as we were told. Plus my later scan indicated PID.
We have done all treatments for infection again and certified free in two hospitals.
My thinking too is that the antibiotics must have affected his swimmers since he stopped all supplements.

All is well. The success rate of IUI is less than 30/35%. even after treating infection,once in a while we take herbal flusher or herbal detox to cleanse the system. It has its own function.

Food and Fruits contributes greatly. . Meaning whenever I watch what I eat and exercise I conceive.nuts (almond,cashew, ground nut and Brazilian ) vegetables,Avocado and plant protein

Also progesterone support after ovulation is confirmed.

Finally prayers. God is never late.As long as there is God everything is possible.

gasbee:
Good day Sir, pm sent

Please send a mai
I can't access the mail I registered Nairaland with

miraclebaby:
We've actually tried several. Fertilaid, with count and motility boost, Letro.zole, Clomid which gave him low libido so he stopped at a month. Then Fertilsan M. But he stopped all late last year only for him to run tests this month and we're back to square one. Trying to raise money for IVF now. Though he has resumed taking Fertilsan M.

The secret is non stop.use for three months and run a test to know if it is suitable for u. otherwise discard and go for another one. aside fertilsan N there are Other trusted products like Proxeed plus, Fh pro etc.


If u have PCOS, confirmed at the hospital try FH Pro and metformin together.depending on your size/weight.. u can take as much as 2000 mg. Until the symptom disappears.

Also before going for ART, try FH pro for wifey to improve egg quality and for hubby to improve count.

As little as rest and exercise and fruits it improves the count and also help to improve success rate

ranmoor:
If your bro is rich or d wife, then there is no prob. They can conceive thru IVF. Using in vitro fertilization, they can fertilise the healthy cells and discard the sickle cells... They just have to make sure baby making is thru ivf..
Anything aside that is a real problem! Even the child will not forgive them.
Peace!

Well said. exactly what I had in mind to type.modern technology can resolve the issue.

Redeemed:
@ spakuls and others that recently got their bfp, congratulations! You shall carry to full term and deliver safely like the Hebrew women. Wishing you a healthy and stressfree 9 months. Happy bumping!

@ Ekashiloh and other beautiful mothers of great nations, twuale for you! Thank you for keeping the thread alive.

@ BlessedDiva, trust you and your LO are doing great. The Lord will make it easy for you in Jesus name.

@ miracleaby, tower of grace, wonyi, Omojudy, legendsmother, imajoyfulmother, hapoymummy and other sabi mothers, trust you are doing great.

Wow. redeemed. I am great.how is my friend? Dancing like no man's business#BBN

OPEN HEAVENS BY PST. ENOCH .A. ADEBOYE

SATURDAY 14TH APRIL, 2018

THE LORD NEEDS IT!

MEMORISE:
And if any man ask you, Why do ye loose him? thus shall ye say unto him, Because the Lord hath need of him. Luke 19:31

READ:
Luke 19:29-35

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR:
Joshua 23-24; & 1Timothy 2-3.

MESSAGE:
A salient truth that everyone, particularly children of God, should not be ignorant of is that God created everything for a purpose. This is why we call the almighty God the God of plan and purpose. For example, in Genesis 1:26, when man was to be created, God first declared his purpose before creating him, saying:

“Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.”

God will not create what He does not need. Whatever you find on earth has a reason for existing. Not knowing the usefulness of an entity in God’s creation does not negate the reason why God created it. It is just unfortunate that more often than not, we abuse, misuse or completely neglect the use of many things created for one divine purpose or the other. In today’s Bible reading, even the owner of the donkey did not know the eternal purpose God had for his donkey until the Lord’s message got to him, asking him to release it to fulfill the prophecy concerning it (Zechariah 9:9). This donkey looked ordinary to its owner, but to its Maker it was a unique donkey. You therefore, need to look at things through the eyes of the Creator to understand their purpose.

Many years ago, I told some ministers who had just answered the divine call into full-time ministry that whatever skills they had acquired should be kept because such skills would be needed in the running of the church. These days, there is a tendency for an architect to drop his or her skill set when going into ministry. Such people fail to realize that the Church needs architects to design her buildings. Who would do a better job of this than a Spirit-filled architect? In Exodus 36:1-2, God purposely raised Bezaleel and Aholiab for the purpose of the building of His tabernacle. Indeed every good and perfect gift comes from the Father of lights (James 1:17).

Beloved, the Lord needs that skill, that gift, that money and that position you have. I appeal to you to use your talents primarily for God and secondarily as your meal ticket. May the Lord bless you as you bless Him with your divine endowments in Jesus’ Name.

PRAYER POINT:
Father, please open my eyes to see the divine purpose for existence. Grant me grace to use the gifts, skills, position and wealth you have endowed me with for Your glory and pleasure.

HYMN 12:
1. Take my life and let it be
Consecrated, Lord, to Thee.
Take my moments and my days,
Let them flow in ceaseless praise.
Let them flow in ceaseless praise.

2. Take my hands and let them move
At the impulse of Thy love.
Take my feet and let them be
Swift and beautiful for Thee.
Swift and beautiful for Thee.

3. Take my voice and let me sing,
Always, only for my King.
Take my lips and let them be
Filled with messages from Thee.
Filled with messages from Thee.

4. Take my silver and my gold,
Not a mite would I withhold.
Take my intellect and use
Every power as Thou shalt choose.
Every power as Thou shalt choose.

5. Take my will and make it Thine,
It shall be no longer mine.
Take my heart, it is Thine own,
It shall be Thy royal throne.
It shall be Thy royal throne.

6. Take my love, my Lord, I pour
At Thy feet its treasure store.
Take myself and I will be
Ever, only, all for Thee.
Ever, only, all for Thee.

OPEN HEAVENS DAILY DEVOTIONAL

DATE: FRIDAY 13TH APRIL 2018

THEME: SUSCEPTIBLE THROUGH MERRIMENT.


MEMORISE:

It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart. Ecclesiastes 7:2

READ: Matthew 14:6-11

6 But when Herod's birthday was kept, the daughter of Herodias danced before them, and pleased Herod.

7 Whereupon he promised with an oath to give her whatsoever she would ask.

8 And she, being before instructed of her mother, said, Give me here John Baptist's head in a charger.

9 And the king was sorry: nevertheless for the oath's sake, and them which sat with him at meat, he commanded it to be given her.

10 And he sent, and beheaded John in the prison.

11 And his head was brought in a charger, and given to the damsel: and she brought it to her mother.

MESSAGE

Today’s Bible reading narrates the sad story of how unbridled merriment can propel a man to do what he would otherwise not have done. The devil is a cunning old serpent. He knows too well that his chances of success are slim whenever he attacks a child of God directly. He therefore deploys tricks to attack people when they are in a vulnerable state, such as when the heart is merry and full of happiness. When you are light-hearted, be watchful so that it does not end in sorrow and regret. This is why the wisdom of God in Proverb 14:13 teaches us that

“Even in laughter the heart is sorrowful; and the end of that mirth is heaviness.”

A quick lesson we should learn from the story in today’s Bible reading is that merriment outside of God will always end up in crisis. King Herod was very sorry for making the promise he had made to his daughter, probably under the influence alcohol, but it was too late for him to take back the oath he had committed himself to in his light-heart mood. Another lesson we should learn here is that the enemy looks out for moments when you let your guard down, and then he strikes. Examples of such moments are times when you just won a victory and when you are in high spirits. Happiness often has the same effect as alcohol on the reasoning faculties of man, and so you need to watch it.

There is a type of laughter that is derived from pleasurable but sinful acts. The Bible refers to such laughter as the crackling of thorns under a pot (Ecclesiastes 7:6). The Israelites manifested such laughter and merriment when they made a golden calf for themselves as their god. Exodus 32:6 says:

“And they rose up early on the morrow, and offered burnt offerings, and brought peace offerings; and the people sat down to eat and to drink, and rose up to play.”

But for Moses’ intercessory prayers, they would have been wiped off the face of the earth by this foolish act. It is commonly said that “He who laughs last, laughs best.” The last and best laughter is the laugh in eternity with our Maker. Speaking about this laughter, Jesus Christ in Luke 6:21b says:

“Blessed are ye that weep now: for ye shall laugh.”

When the Messiah shall return the second time, he shall put an end to all suffering, and there shall be everlasting laughter (Revelations 21:1-7). Ensure you don’t miss it!

PRAYER POINT:

Father, help me not to indulge in any act that would give me temporary happiness and produce eternal sorrow.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: Joshua 22; 1 Timothy 1

AUTHOR: PASTOR E. A. ADEBOYE

HYMN 5: I HAVE DECIDED TO FOLLOW JESUS

1. I have decided to follow Jesus;
I have decided to follow Jesus;
I have decided to follow Jesus;
No turning back, no turning back.

2. The world behind me, the cross before me;
The world behind me, the cross before me;
The world behind me, the cross before me;
No turning back, no turning back.

3. Though none go with me, still I will follow;
Though- none go with me, still I will follow;
Though none go with me, still I will follow;
No turning back, no turning back.

4. My cross I’ll carry, till I see Jesus;
My cross I’ll carry, till I see Jesus;
My cross I’ll carry, till I see Jesus;
No turning back, no turning back.

5. Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
Will you decide now to follow Jesus?
No turning back, no turning back.

Consy38:
pls do you know the success rate of life Specialist cos am in Aba and I want hospital closer to my area and with good result

I have heard so much positive story about the hospital.Take your time to prepare at least three months. Also remember to put God first. Remember experience varies because I may get good experience from there ,the next person may get bad experience.

Be more concerned about the doctor n staff,how they treat their patients.when not satisfied ask questions.read more about the procedure.discuss your procedure with the doctor.do ur pre art investigation.leave no stone unturned.Remember to take good supplement at least three months before,deworm n take malaria drugs before the procedure.other have passed through n gotten good results.read from the thread again. Read www.fertilechick.com.


PRAY,PRAY,PRAY and PRAY

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iykmau:
@Galadima big congratulations and my regards to the Prince and Princesses

Sir inwangobio happy for them, just like your name sake and his brother doing wonderfully well (Dan&Sam).

My big sister wonyi sorry for the miss up. Is not as if God bless us and we leave our friends in nairaland. Taking care of twins is not an easy task.

The God that took away our sorrow, questions, mockery through this IVF will answer you all. I never forget remembering you in my payers. God will do it that's the assurance.

Good to hear.Congratulations.regards to the twins

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iykmau:
The Big Brother of the house (inwagobio)long time. How are my generals. hope thy're great.
My amiable sister Woyi, God of miracle is still at work. It must surely end in praise.

I guess u missed my moniker.God is awesome,great,dependable,reliable,fAithful and all sufficient.

brainky:
I didn't do much, the second one was God cos,like after the transfer the cyclogest I was given when I was about using it it fell inside the toile, I rested more , prayed more,ate more fruits,I didnt sleep too much,I wasn't anxious cos doctor told me the embryos were not too good . I didn't do the pineapple core thing.

Thanks dear. Awesome God

brainky:
Good day some years back I was here reading people story and also seeking for advice cos I was ttc. Today I

Congratulations dear,please tell us what u did differently.mummy IYabeji

Cuppymummy:
Who has been looking for a way to buy kedi at reduced price? Please contact this mama.

CC wonyi

Have you tried the turmeric, garlic, ginger, lemon and cloves antibacterial blend?

Thanks dear

adunola03:
Good evening mamas, please abeg help me analyze this my hormonal assay result o..

If u have access to pathcare lab(bridge hospital) please go there.hormonal profile is a less than 22k. Very reliable

shithapuns:
dont know the product you intend to buy.

search around your neighborhood, u may see kedi distributors..then you compare prices with umia/konga.

Thanks.I searched jumia.men the price is high.I just felt like taking gynapharm to treat infection if there's any.I don't want to take anti biotic.

PLEASE SHARE WAYS I CAN TREAT INFECTION NATURALLY

Please I

Bekee222:
Tnx for this information. God bless. Is fertilaid good?

For review,type fertilaid hospital on nairaland search engine.
Then you can tell her to read fertile chick.com.their review is there. Someone got triplet from there

shithapuns:
i checked online, and jumia had the lowest prices, even within umia search very well..cos some sellers sell high, some sell low.
the prices i saw on kedi site made me consider jumia, cos jumia was lower.

Thanks. is it for 5 days maximum?it is costly

shithapuns:
i checked online, and jumia had the lowest prices, even within umia search very well..cos some sellers sell high, some sell low.
the prices i saw on kedi site made me consider jumia, cos jumia was lower.

Thanks.Please what is the price range?

Bekee222:
Thanks dear. She's looking at fertilaid. What do u think? She has a son who's 4years and she had two miscarriages about a year ago. She's so scared of hsg�

She should go for her investigation/pre art diagnosis at the hospital.HSG is part of the recommendations especially her history of miscarriages.
HSG is recommended to flush the tubes n prevent hostile liquid from affecting the foetus.

Please where can I buy gynapharm(kedi product) in phone.how much is it?

Please where can I buy gynapharm(product of kedi) in ph.How much is it?

ijeaify:
Hello ladies please I had a failed Ivf cycle this month and preparing for another ivf in 3 months please I want to do some things differently this time,any idea where I can do acupuncture in port Harcourt and also where I can buy intra lipid .

For intralipid, contact @ praisefulmum.type her moniker u will see some information if still available.check her message on Dec 12th, 2017.

Modified
Sorry about your failed cycle