₦airaland Forum

At a point in a man's life, he should be able to take action and decide on how to live his life without the validation of anyone. This is a time when he should be able to choose his life partner by his own discretion, move freely among friends, have his own personal apartment.

But even at that, some men have crossed the age of thirty yet they can't take decision themselves and stand on it, they always want to please their parents and are very indecisive in decision making which clearly shows he is still a mummy's boy.

More points will be discuss below to buttress these kind of guys.

1. His mother decides on whom he should marry/date

It's very disgraceful that we are in a country where some adult man can't decide whom he will marry nor stand on his decision with the validation of family members.The worst case of it is that, at that age, some of them will discard any lady their mothers don't like even if it's on the ground of tribalism or race. This is one of the clear signs that a man is still a mummy's boy


2. He calls his mother at any slight disagreement with his girlfriend or wife

The height of immaturity usually exhibited by some of these grey haired men is that some of them may be married but they still see a part of themselves in their parents house. When a little disagreement encrued in their matrimonial home, they start disturbing their mum on the phone to report their wives for any ridiculous thing that he can solve by himself.

3. He taxs his mum for money

Though, it is not bad to seek for financial assistance from one's mum, it's rather shameful to see an able bodied man in his 30's demanding money from his mum to play football bet, aja n sare, recharge card to impress side chics, etc. It's funny to note that these category of guys are usually promiscuous with sugar-coated tongues even though they are running on zero Naira account balance. In fact, some of them are ambassadors for deflowering and impregnating young girls.

4. He can't invite his girlfriend to his parents house

Out of his fear of how their mum will scold him for bringing a lady home, he would borrow his friend apartment to entertain his girlfriend and switch off his phone to avoid mum's call. Perhaps when sweet rendezvous, touching and bleeping is about to start, a call from his mum will make him discard the lady leaving her frustrated of konji.

5. They can't attend night events

Some mothers have strong hold on their sons that once it's 7pm, they are told to return home. Some of them will have to lie to their mumsy that are going for vigil just to chill out with friends or girl friends. This is one of the signs that a man is still a mummy's boy.

6. Their mothers still decide what they should wear

Imagine a guy who cannot buy shirts or shoes for himself in the absence of his mother is still mummy's puppet. It is hilarious especially for an old fashioned mother who chose over sized shirts and low quality traditional fabrics for his son.

7. They can't hang out with friends due to curfew placed by their mothers

For a guy who says his mother complains about the friends he keeps even when there is no derogatory attitude to fault them is still underage even if he is an adult. In the midst of his friends, he can't hold a meaningful conversation without refereeing his mum and after some time, he will start shaking/sweating due to frequent calls from his mother to know his whereabouts.

8. They have no liberty

It's very shocking that some guys above 30's under their parents roof cannot step their feet out of the house without their mums approval.

Lalasticlala

modik:
As if Ogun state with all presidential opportunities is a mini heaven!

Go there and see myriads of state abandoned projects, even the road that passes OBJ's house is a death trap!

Biafra is Igbo's resolve.

Enough of sympathy-cries from Non Biafrans!

Wow ignorance is a disease. Which OBJ's house are u referring to?

Between major roads in Ogun state currently are under serious rehabilitation

omofunaab:
Yes it's offensive but quit displaying the victim mentality. I have been long here on nairaland to know that the igbos started this hate speeches here, the book "there was a country" released by chinua achebe ignited most of these hate speeches.

The biafran children pictures you made mention of was in reaction to most of your hate speeches here. Especially whenever you guys insult awolowo.. Ordinarily, most of us have no business with whatever you guys are doing but just to let you know that nobody has monopoly over hate speeches. this is exactly the arewa youths has done.


Even at that we have people like MasterChen and many others yorubas who usually appeal to the odua soldiers to take the pictures of the biafran children down.. Sometimes the mods usually do the needful.

Now, have you ever rebuked any of your brothers for posting pictures of rat poison with awolowo unprovoked?

I have told wristbangl that you are an hypocrite, he probably thinks other wise

Bro, I have concluded on my the stance for the lady. she is indeed an hypocrite.

Paretomaster:
Bro u Make sense jare.. .....How in d world can u secede by creating more enemies for urself, I still can't find d reason why the North is a subject of insult here all the time.. .when the anger is to be directed to their elders, and politicians.. ..

Am telling you bro. Secession without issuing threats is a formidable thing to do not consitituting nuisance unnecessary

Angy55:
Yes

Were you being sarcastic about your comment earlier or you naturally have good sense of humour? . I will find out on my own. Nice meeting you here Angy.

Angy55:
I'm available, relationship without sex. You know we can do crazy stuffs together that will make us happy But I'm not a virgin ooooo. Hahaha.

Lol So u are a lady?

Ishilove:
How insensitive can some humans be?? Gbenga Adewusi in times past has been embroiled in various scandals of a similar nature.

Very shortly after the late ace comedian, actor and producer Gbenga Adeboye was buried, Adewusi allegedly started sleeping with Lara, Adeboye's beautiful wife.

Gbenga Adeboye's aged parents poured fuel into the raging controversy when they granted an interview alleging that Adewusi murdered Adeboye just to take total control of Lara.

Gbenga Adewusi had before then done his usual thing: eulogising Adeboye and massively marketing albums dedicated to 'keeping his memory fresh'

I really don't know much about this useless nonentity called Gbenga but making a living from people's pitiable predicament is an insult and he is inviting incurable curse to his life.

For such lady with her past record, it would be difficult to say No to her sexual advances because her ideology has been wired to sex-lust, vice versa situation which is completely different from yours.

It would also be difficult to mould her to your kind of girl OP as you have a lot of work to do. If at the end of the day, it doesn't work out according to your plan please opt out from the relationship fast because she looks like someone who will be aggressive, violent and extremely jealous to act stupidly.

But what if she is playing the victim card hence trying to put the pregnancy of her EX on you? Because it's strange for her to love up with you under 3days "pere"

stephleena:
daddy with no dick...what a drama Queen is she..

Lol

Amarabae:
JUST LOOK AT THEM.
Always mastubarting over Igbo issue.
So a cartoon of Nnamdi kanu with Buhari in wrestling is an offence BUT when some yorubas here show Dying Kwashiokor Children inorder to mock the Igbos.
It is not offensive?

It is equally offensive posting pictures of mal-nourished children.

However, you know how violent the core northerners can be atimes and for the interest of hardworking igbos whose investment are in the north, the IPOB wings need to thread carefully.

Afterall referendum is on the way and that should be a good consolation instead of inciting unnecessary violence.

To hasten the referendum process, what are the SE elites doing? Seems the struggle is for common street man so far and it's easy for him to be easily brainwashed due to frustration and abject poverty.

nkwuocha:
SMH. Look at how you foolish people are jubilating because of the ultimatum /marginalisation on Igbos. *taps him*Monkey,listen to me because I know you have a very shallow brain. You think to gulp down Yansh peppering tomato sauce with ewedu solves your problem. Now listen carefully you fools, even restructuring will NEVER come without bloodshed in this country. No tribe will escape what will happen in this country.Apart from biafra, the ND I know are ready to burn down the contraption. Do you know the difference between 1966 and likely 2017?This time around, EVERY BODY will count huge loses.At a point,thats if some of us are alive, we will realise that although the bloodshed was because biafra agitations, but go and Mark it somewhere, it will shift from biafra.Your churches all over the North will be bombed. Monkey, na only igbos dey go RCCG, WINNERS, CAC,ECWA,LORDS CHOOSEN, CATHOLIC? Some of you yorubas who are myopic don't understand anything. I may be a bigot, but I fear for everyone in this country. US and uk banned the sale of guns/ ammunitions to the Nigeria govt. AI just got them banned for Visa.What is brewing in this country, let's pray it doesn't. Muslims and Christians should pray. So many personal frustrations will fuel it the more. It will not be about Igbos alone, your yoruba churches will be affected.Brothers will kill in-laws because of ethnic and religious crisis. Anambra will kill kogi and kogi will kill anambra. At a point people will kill for what didn't start the problem in the first place. I say, families will arm their kids with gun to defend themselves. People will kill because they hungry angry for too long coupled with the biting hardship. The hate now in our country is like a mad man playing with a candle light close to a refilling station. Even Shiites and sunnis will be at eachother's throats. The other day a Yoruba man knocked down an Hausa bike man and he ran with speed as other bike men chased him, lucky enough, he drove straight to junction and ran to a police station. That man just escaped lynching. Them no born am well to stop, carry the victim go hospital. I say Hausa people for roast him and him car like chicken and NOTHING WILL HAPPEN! Case closed. Look at you, monkey, you think yorubas are enjoying non marginalization?some government establishments sends southerners to African countries for training while northerners gets better countries for same training. I repeat, your own Muslim yoruba brothers will give you up when those dreaded days comes . Even the Igbos will fight their brothers. Even the Ijaws will fight the itsekiris. The divide and rule of past government, the consequences will be so gruesome that people will kill for personal vendetta and injustice. Monkey, politicians of all tribes and their families will suffer losses. With the raging starvation, Hunger and frustration coupled with hate, religious and ethnic crisis, injustice in the judiciary, nepotism and marginalisation, Do you think Nigeria will survive it? Who are you going hold to preach peace to? Which section will be the first to drop their arms? I say human being go chop him fellow human being. Many groups will spring up to fight their different agitations. Even in our forces, people will kill on religious and ethnic lines. Monkey, you dey find work abi, *laughs *How long you want to work that work if you see am? I know you to be a writer of love stories. No wonder you are broke and jobless. I bet your parents are still fending for your upkeep. You know everything about women and yet you are not a author of any book. Shame no dey catch you? You have all this knowledge about women yet you're hopelessly jobless. It's only a fool that will see his "star" and still revert to chasing lose dreams. Since you've decided since the inception of nairaland to carry woman matter for head, if you don't use it to gather Money, then I'm sorry to say, na chewing gum them take pin ya head inside brain. Better grow up.

IPOBS are demented people frustrating the effort of great igbos. Had it being this notorious grp have not made provoking utterance, the chances of igbos to secure presidential seat would have been very high.

I don't pray history repeats itself as well meaning igbos and Nigerians are sounding note of warning to IPOB miscreants to desist from their barbaric act before it's too late.

Their issue is so complicated that we don't even know what they want again. They want referendum yet they are not seeking it legally, some are even proposing through ohaneze wing that an Igbo must be president in 2019 (shey no be through election abi na by force), okay they call the country zoo as if all tribes are not guilty of the corrupt system. Wetin IPOBS want gan gan?

If not because this man is old enough to be my great great Grandpa ( imagine this old man as Minister of youths/sport), I would have drop uncouth words on him but let me refrain from doing that. Still he is a useless man

sarrki:
I Don't understand?

Are we saying they are above the law ?

If the led Federal Government did not do anything they will should not dare arrest any group that made such in future

It seems the Fulani herdsmen that operates freely is same shenaghian

I begin to lose hope in Nigeria

I lose hope on greedy people who are @ the helms of power folding their arms as they wait till light situations escalate to nationwide threats before acting.

All politicians are liars and thieves so rhino omockery is not exempted just that liar mohammed has been heavily anointed to dish out series of comic lies

Ipob baboons have further reduced the chances of great igbos to front a presidential candidate due to their ugly character.

Convincing Nigerians to vote for a SE citizen at upcoming presidential elections will almost be an impossible mission especially now that they have named the country zoo and uttered other provoking statements.

barcaboi:
obi can never get there with the stunt pulled during his 2nd term campaign against ACN: tagging it Awos party and people shdnt vote Awos party.....big deal is 90% SW are awo faithfuls and I doubt SW forgets

You are right on the bolded boss

Is this one man of God? Is this the teaching of the bible

While saraki is not yet prosecuted. Okay oo! Though it's a good move from EFCC to have investigated the EX UBA manager

Hopeful20100:
Typical Afonja...even when he knows that Patience Jonathan speaks better English and has better accent than Buhari. Shame on you Afonjas!

Opari oo. Better English and Accent than PMB.

madridguy:
We the yoot of Ipork don't want anything from Nigeria. All we want is Biafra the sun must go inside.

Hopeful20100:
Even though I'm all for self determination, I'll support Patience Jonathan. As far as I'm concerned she is more Igbo than Ekweremadu and the rest. Whether it's her command of Igbo language or love for Igbos. And no idioot can intimidate her; she will follow through with disdmantling every element of marginalizations against the Igbos and SS; certainly her husband couldn't dare do it as they would have killed him. With her, she is fearless; a trait you find in Igbo women like her, late Dora, Iweala, Oduah, and the rest.

And how will she represent the country on international scene with her disgraceful grammar? Why una dey reason like this nau

I think only OBI rarely qualifies among the list. Okorocha would have been a formidable candidate but his abysmal performance will speak against him. As for Ekweremadu and Orji Kalu, I reserve my comment.. smh

What is PEJ doing on the list? Her grammar alone will ruin this country. Is this the best list these people can come up with? Bunch of jokers indeed.

All the best as they contest but IPOB should desist from corrosive languages been laid against other tribes most especially SW/North if they want to gain support and recognition

Ipobians always surprise us with something to laugh on everyday.

Now I understand why someone said they need immediate psychiatric evaluation so their condition won't degenerate to naked lunacy.

Criminals and thieves.

Smh. I have lost words to say

Themandator:
Both are owned by same person, Ernest Azudialu.

Okay but still these coys does not have the financial muscle to acquire etisalat due to its debt. Remove $1.2 billion from his net worth, how much will remain?

Nestoil is liquid but smile telecoms is not liquid enough

makydebbie:
LOL, you just mentioned three regions in Ghana. But you won't find me there. I'm in Nigeria.
Thanks for the wish.

Huh so u are in Nigeria? Jesu oo! I keep getting ur messages in blank? Why?

Themandator:
Smile network will soon acquire it ....NestOil

Lol @ smile network. A network that feeds on glo 1 fibre.

Nestoil as how? I don't understand.

Happy birthday Makydebbie.

Taking the next transit to ashanti, volta region and Accra to celebrate with you

I think Adenuga should buy Etisalat though the challenges will be massive considering the debt owed by etisalat, cost of operation which IHS handles their roll out operations and the way Glo handles their business.

To be honest, the economic situation has deterred so many investors to leave the country. To burn diesel everyday no easy, where is the electricity?

But still some organizations still break even

sarrki:
The day pmb allowed Mesu ( saraki ) to preside over the Senate

I know we are in for a long Ride

He's ready to ruin any meaningful achievement of this administration.

He's a serial traitor and betrayer.
He betrayed his father how much more any other pers

Saraki is the most corrupt, slander, wicked and useless senate president of all time in Nigeria.

How I wish the day Kwara people stoned him, it actually hit him and died.

He destroyed the legacy laid by his father and I know that one day remedy will catch up on him.