Romance › Re: An Interview With Ivvy, Lanicky And ChubbyT by wristbangle: 5:54pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Now that the host has kicked off with his questions, I will appreciate if our viewers can maintain decorum and avoid any form of distraction hereby viewing instead of dropping comments. Anybody caught will face several years imprisonment in dominique's fox river prison.  |
Business › Re: CBN Floats The Naira, The Implications For You And I by wristbangle: 4:50pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Temmytea70: Park well johr... .. Wey i don dey think say u wan break am down for me  |
Business › Re: CBN Floats The Naira, The Implications For You And I by wristbangle: 4:03pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
I really don't understand the complexity of the article but it seems they want to cut the enormous cluster of official foreign exchange pegging it at a fixed rate that will discourage 3rd parties hence pave way for forex traders to buy what they can afford just like the fuel subsidy case. Wetin I dey type sef  . Make Monday come, make we know the official rate |
Business › Re: CBN New Forex Rate Policy Announced by wristbangle: 3:13pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
So how much is the exchange rate now? |
Family › Re: Thin Line Between Love And Hate! by wristbangle: 3:01pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Adufetohposh: There was no saving grace for me. As I felt the life inside of me slowly give way, my only regret was the child inside of me who never got to experience life. His eyes held no emotions, just plain cold and deadly. I eventually closed my eyes and welcomed the darkness that welcomed me THE JOURNEY AFTER 7
I woke up with a start and the way my head ached with no remorse made me shut my eyes immediately. I gave myself a few minutes for my head to calm down before opening my eyes again. The hospital room was empty and that made me wonder how long I was out for. Then it all started coming back to me gradually, everything that happened to me before I must have gone unconscious. I remembered my baby and quickly lifted the sheets to check but my stomach had gone down. I saw the incision scar from when they must have brought my baby out and I immediately got up to go check my baby but the pain in my head and wave of dizziness made me lay back down. Is my baby alive? Or did Jaiye actually take it all from me? I saw the bedside bell and rang for the nurses.
Few Seconds later, two nurses came into my room quite happy to see me conscious.
''Madam, we thank God you are finally awake, the doctor is on his way to check on you'', the first nurse said quite kindheartedly.
'' Thanks nurse, please where is my baby and how long was I out for?''
Before she could answer, the door opened and the doctor came in, to my utmost shock it was Taiwo, my long time family friend. I could not even dwell on the shock of seeing him again after about 5 years, I just needed information about my baby.
''Taiwo? Please can somebody tell me how my baby is? I want to know what happened please?''
''Nimi, you need to calm down first, let me check you to make sure you are okay''.
As he continued with his check up, I was getting more nervous. I snapped at him when he asked how many fingers I was seeing and other stupid questions about my date of birth and my mother's name. I finally got upset.
''Where the hell is my child? I shouted, totally frustrated.
It was at moment that Chisom walked in and she was carrying my baby in her hands. The relief and joy I felt at that instant was beyond description. I ignored my pounding head and immediately sat up refusing to pay attention to the nurse's protests. Chisom did not waste a second and immediately placed him in my hands. He looked so perfect and I did not even notice the tears until the first one dropped on him. The joy that such perfection could come out of my marriage with Jaiye was overwhelming.
''Nimi, you were in coma for 2 weeks. I am so sorry I was not there to stop Jaiye, if I had known, I would have insisted you stayed with me'', Chisom said.
''You can't blame yourself for Jaiye's mistakes. I am just grateful my child came out alive''
''Nimi, we had to do an emergency caesarean section when you came in because your water had broke. Your baby was able to survive at 32 weeks without being put in an incubator because he was actually big. He was weighing 2.1kg. You also suffered some head trauma which is what led to the coma and you had some cuts and abrasions to your neck. We will keep you here for a few days more just to make sure you are okay before releasing you to go home with your baby''.
''Okay thanks Taiwo, I am really glad I had somebody familiar around to take care of me. See you going all serious on me now. The doctor'' I laughed as I made jest of him. Taiwo and I were quite close growing up and he got married about 3 years before me.''
As soon as Taiwo and the nurses left, Chisom sat down and gave me more information.
''Thank God I came in at the right time. Jaiye actually left you in the house there without calling for help. The police actually caught him the next day, he made no effort to run. It was like he had given up on life you know. He looked so resigned. He has being charged for attempted murder and the good news is that the Judge was informed of the new developments and situation and he formally dissolved the marriage. You my dear, are a divorced woman''.
I thought I was going to be happy but I just broke down crying. I did not feel any relief that Jaiye was going to court or that I am not divorced. I felt so sad at how things turned out. I never imagined that Jaiye and I would have this kind of ending. He was such a good guy and we were genuinely happy at some point.
''Chisom, do you think I did this to Jaiye? Did I actually destroy his life?''
''Nimi, you can't blame yourself for what is happening to Jaiye, he actually tried to kill you. He just had so much bitterness inside of him that he could not let go and you can't blame yourself for that''.
I just kept staring at my son as he slept and started bombarding Chisom on how he had been eating. He still did not feel like mine yet as I held him.
SIX MONTHS LATER
The only way I had gotten through the last six months was with the help of Taiwo and Chisom. I finally found out Taiwo lost his wife during child birth a year after their marriage so his experience with his daughter was really helpful. I never thought I would end up being a single mother. Jaiye's matter was still in court and I was due to go to court to give testimony at the next court date. As I sat across from Taiwo that Friday evening after just putting my son, Remi to bed, I already knew what was coming,
''Nimi, I know you have been through so much already, but I really want to be more than friends. I have been a widower for 5 years now and this is the first time I actually feel like I can move on. I know it's going to be hard for you to trust...''
I cut him short immediately deciding to put him out of his dilemma.
''Taiwo, I don't have trust issues. I know that not every man is like Jaiye and I will eventually open up but it has just been six months. You have had five years to deal with your pain, I have just had six months. It's too soon seriously.
''Okay Nimi, I will wait for you. Whenever you are ready.
''No Taiwo, I don't want you to wait for me. What if I am never ready? Remi is my priority right now, I am not sure''.
''Nimi, I will wait''
I did not bother arguing with Taiwo anymore. One thing was sure, I was not ready for another relationship at the moment. As I looked at Taiwo I just wondered what the future holds..This is actually a true life story happened in Nigeria, Nimi is yet to make any decision, she's contented with the way her life is at the moment...
I pray we'll never miss our way in life, and God will direct our steps in jesus name. Amen
Thanks 4 reading. Amen. What a story! |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016|Share Your Thoughts & Opinion On The Interview Session Here. by wristbangle: 12:21pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Ivyy, Lanicky and ChubbyT,
Your interview is schedule to hold today by 5pm prompt!
Regards! |
Politics › Re: Warning!!biafra Property In Yoruba Land by wristbangle: 9:39am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Yoruba are accommodating and peaceful people. So nothing will happen to biafra property if they choose to secede. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: About 2000 Syrians Converts To Christianity As 500 Received Holy Communion. by wristbangle: 9:37am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Jesus Christ is the only way, the truth and life. |
Agriculture › Re: Anambra Exports Vegetables To The US And Europe - Snapshot by wristbangle: 9:33am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Nice one Anambra, much respect to Obiano, the governor I respect most in SE.  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Portugal Vs Iceland : Euro 2016 (1 - 1) On 14th June 2016 by wristbangle: 8:44am On Jun 15, 2016 |
If Messi wins copa and Ronaldo did not win euro, Messi stand the chance to win his 6th balon d'or. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016|Share Your Thoughts & Opinion On The Interview Session Here. by wristbangle: 5:51am On Jun 15, 2016 |
MiMzYFiEd: Good morning . Kindly respond to my candidate's mail. Mimz.y. Ok |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016|Share Your Thoughts & Opinion On The Interview Session Here. by wristbangle: 10:30pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
MissGdope: Okay thanks  U are among those giving me sleepless night due to rescheduling your time for interview. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016|Share Your Thoughts & Opinion On The Interview Session Here. by wristbangle: 10:23pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
MissGdope: I won't be available tomorrow until 8pm. Is it possible to start at that time or could my interview be moved to Thursday/Friday? Thanks Okay Friday by 5pm |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016|Share Your Thoughts & Opinion On The Interview Session Here. by wristbangle: 9:50pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
MissGdope: I mentioned yesterday that I will not be available at that time tomorrow. I was told that I would be gotten back to and I even sent an email but I haven't received a reply I did not receive your mail dear What about 6pm tomorrow? |
Politics › Re: Aregbesola Threatens To Expel Students ‘wearing Choir Robes’ To Schools. by wristbangle: 9:29pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Mediapace: Egbon leave baba hafusa,he's a slowpoke .
He just wish to cause confusion btw christians&muslims,he isn't a muslim. TEBLIC MAN!
Craziest governor of the highest order Oh na Teblic  No wonder! Silly act from the he-goat. Shameless gov. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016|Share Your Thoughts & Opinion On The Interview Session Here. by wristbangle: 9:22pm On Jun 14, 2016*. Modified: 1:27pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Ivyy, Lanicky and ChubbyT, your interview is tomorrow by 5pm, regards  |
Career › Re: AIT Benin Shut Down, Sacks All Workers by wristbangle: 9:14pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
This is serious. Unemployment rate dancing high everyday |
Politics › Re: Aregbesola Threatens To Expel Students ‘wearing Choir Robes’ To Schools. by wristbangle: 9:11pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
On this, aregbesola is brainless. Foolish act and step from him. Mtcheeww! |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016|Share Your Thoughts & Opinion On The Interview Session Here. by wristbangle: 8:26pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
The interview has ended Optional1. Go and rest. All the best has the competition kick off in full gear next week. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 7:04pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
dominique: What if the contestants haven't answered the audience's questions by then? Lock it ma. I don't want this thread to get derailed. Thanks. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 7:02pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
EColeJnr:
Bros.. please,
I'd kindly implore you to shift the time for this interview .17:00 hrs GMT+1 is definitely not okay... that's the rush-hour
People are just finishing from work, Students are just concluding classes.Definitely not cool...
Why not move it to perhaps 20:00hrs GMT+1That'd be cool right? It's not possible bro. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 6:51pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
tens4real: are they going to ask thesame question to rest of the contestant? No sir. TamedWolf90: Wristbangle with all due respect Sir, 7 isn't enough for nairalanders to ask their questions.. At least add a little 30minutes more unless you actually don't want us to ask...this is the fun of it... 15mins added. EColeJnr: I asked you a question before .. but you ignored as usual ..
This is very unprofessional of you Mr Wristbangle Apologies sir but it's unprofessional to be asking me question when the rule says no comment during the main section of the interview. Kindly take your question again. Am all ears. tens4real: i thought as much.......so i guess we r done for today? Yes |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 6:36pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Lovely responses so far from Optional1 and Diasyluv. Thanks for gracing this interview. To our esteemed viewers in the house, I appreciate the fact that you showed up to make this venue lively, thank you. I hereby declare the floor open for our viewers to ask "Reasonable Questions", I repeat "Reasonable questions"! By 7:15pm prompt, miss dominique kindly lock this thread since it must have served it's purpose then. I remain your humble host, wristbangle  |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 6:25pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
We are waiting for your response to question 4; Diasyluv and Optional1  |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 6:10pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Question 4: Can you tell us your name, educational background and why you should emerge as winner of miss nairaland 2016 competition?
Cc: Diasyluv and Optional1 |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 6:01pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
We are expecting your response to question 3: Optional1 and diasyluv  |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 5:48pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
It's okay Optional1.
Question 3:. Nigerian ladies often say Nigerian Guys are not romantic. So in what way can you advise Nigerian men to be romantic and what things can they do to show they are romantic?
Cc: diasyluv, Optional1 and Eurydice |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 5:34pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Nice response Optional1. So let's proceed to question 2 because of our time
Question2 : Concerning ladies who specifically want to marry a wealthy man because they are scared of marrying broke guys who may not have the financial will to take care of himself let alone family, so do you actually believe your supposed husband must be wealthy (possession of car, furnished apartment, big salary earner, etc) before u can tie the knot?
Cc: Diasyluv, Optional1 and Eurydice |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 5:29pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Nice response from you diasyluv, we are still waiting for your response optional1 so we can proceed to the next question. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 5:24pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Expecting your answers diasyluv and optional1
Madam dominique thanks for showing up and please kindly hide all the unnecessary comment causing distraction. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 5:18pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Please the interview has commenced, no comments or any form of side gist/distraction. Our security agent is in building.
A stitch in time saves nine!, You are warned!!! |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland 2016 Day One Interview by wristbangle(op): 5:14pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Question 1: Gender equality has been a debate whether to be enact or not by the law system in Nigeria, So do you support this move? Also can you tell us the significances and demerits it will play in the society?
Cc Optional1, diasyluv and Eurydice |